QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: allah se tauba ka tariqa batayein jis se allah foran maaf kardein

Answer: Istighfaar(taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain:
Nidamat k saath sachcahay dil say 14 masoomo(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay.
1)maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi.
2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah.
3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna).
4)jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya that u os ki qaza bja laana).
5)jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho.
6) jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunagh say maza chakhaya tha.(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417)

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Question: MAY JAHAN REHA HOON WHAN PAR SHARAB AAM HAI OUR MAY 5 WAQT KA NAMAZI HON MAGAR MAY BEHAK GYA OUR MAY NAY BEER PI LI AB MERAY LIYE KAI HUKUM HAI KAY BEER PENAY KAY BAAD APNI NAMAZIN KESAY CONTINUE KAR SAKTA HON JITNA JALD HO SAKAY JAWAB DEJIYE TA KAY MAY APNI NAMAZIN SHROO KAR DON OUR ALLAH SWT SAY MAFI MANGO

Answer: Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e tehreem surah no 66 ki tilawat karay ga to Khuda osay toba tun nusooh ki tawfeeq ata farmaye ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)

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Question: salam . meri or mery bhai ke Shadi nahi ho pa rahi age ziyad hoti ja rahi hay mary leye koi dua batai k mari shadi jald ho jay

Answer: Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: tauba k bad hath ka zina karne ki mafi hai agar mafi hai to mughe plzzz iss ka tariqa bata dein

Answer: Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Qadir o Tawana ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: main ye pochna chahta ho kay main aik martaba sex kar chuka ho mairi age 21 sal hai mairi shadi nai huwi mainay aik call girl kay sath sex kia tha laikin mainay suna hai kay zani ko zani milay gi to kia aisa hi hoga ya tooba karnay say kuch badlay ga

Answer: Imaam Jafar o Sadiq (a.s) ne farmaaya, jis ka mafhoom ye hai ke ager banda apne gunah ka is terhan iqraar kar le ke is ne apne Khaliq Allah Taala ke diye gaae hokum ki nafarmaani ki hai, or is nafarmani ki waja se is ko esei pashemani ho jis ki waja se wo dubara gunah na kar sake to ALLAH TAALA bhi is ko muaaf kar ke is ki toba qabool kar leta hai. (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4).
Lehaza Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: maine Quran ki jhooti kasam kha li apne aap ko sacha sabit kerne k liye ghr walo k samne or me kerti bhi kya ...... mujhe bhut dr lg raha hai ab me kya kru btao me bhut sharminda hu!!! or to or mujhe Quran parna bhi nai aata ki mai par ker khuda se maffi mang lu ab aap btao me kya kru!! mujhe but dar bhi lg raha ahi

Answer: Imaam Jafar o Sadiq (a.s) ne farmaaya, jis ka mafhoom ye hai ke ager banda apne gunah ka is terhan iqraar kar le ke is ne apne Khaliq Allah Taala ke diye gaae hokum ki nafarmaani ki hai, or is nafarmani ki waja se is ko esei pashemani ho jis ki waja se wo dubara gunah na kar sake to ALLAH TAALA bhi is ko muaaf kar ke is ki toba qabool kar leta hai (lehaza is pashemani ko kabhi apne se door na hone dain). (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)

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Question: agra koi adult movie dekh li ho to nazar k zina ki saza kya hai

Answer: Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Toba karne ka sahi tarika kya hai

Answer: Imaam Jafar o Sadiq (a.s) ne farmaaya, jis ka mafhoom ye hai ke ager banda apne gunah ka is terhan iqraar kar le ke is ne apne Khaliq Allah Taala ke diye gaae hokum ki nafarmaani ki hai, or is nafarmani ki waja se is ko esei pashemani ho jis ki waja se wo dubara gunah na kar sake to ALLAH TAALA bhi is ko muaaf kar ke is ki toba qabool kar leta hai. (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Assalam u alaikum sir mara quetion ya ha k ma aik larki k0 bht like karta tha wo deobandi the aur ma shia syed mara ghr wala aur uska ghr walay nai mante the phr b ham contct ma rahey phr aik sal bad khud per kabo ni raha tu usk sath phone pe messages sex kia aur kai bar kisses aur had cross ki msgs pa magr sex aik bar kia mja lagta tha k ya real ma karna sa bht kam gunah ha aur desperation khtm hojati the tu real ma nai kia i have come to knw k ya real k barabr ha gunah ma AYATULLAH SISTANI ki aik refrnce btai the mara aik cxn na ab ma ya poochna chahta hn k ma na taubah karli ha us larki sa b kaha ha k mafi mangey aur admit kar len k ham aik nai ho saktey pashtawa bht ha islia ab us larki ko chorna para qk agr sath rahta tu yai sab chalta rahta tu ab ma us larki sa taubah karun aur khuda sa b mafi qabol hogi merii?

Answer: Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salam,bht sharamdigi se puch rahe hai hmra ek ladka frnd tha us se hmne chatpe sex kiya tha aur hm release bhi hogai the aur usi mei hmne ek naked pic bhi dedi pata nhi yeh sb kaise hogaiya hai ab hm bht pachtarahe hm har namaz ke bad tauba karte hai bht ashtagfar padhte hai bt hme sukun nhi arahai plz hmri madad kariye plz hme kuch dua btaiye jis se hme sukun mile

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey.(Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai gunah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mai ek larka se bht pyr krti hu aur hmara 1,2 saalo se afair hai aur ab rishta ho gya hai. hmne rishte se phle aur rishte ke bad bhi sex kiya hai lkn intercourse nhi kiya ab hm 2no ne wada kr liye hai sex shadi ke bad hi krege. ab jo gunha hua ye hmse iss ki mafi allah se kaise mange kya kre jo hmara gunga allah maff kr de.

Answer: Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. (Ref : website Ayatullah sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera question ye ha ke sharab haram ha lekin main ne ek bar sharab sirf taste ki thi to kia mujhe is ki tooba karne par maafi mile gi ya nahi? or plzz is ka reference bhi dena.

Answer: Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: mara sawal he ke me api choti bhan ke sath zana karta raha ho jab wo 8 sal ki tahi aur me 15 sal ka 3 sal tak ham ye kam karte rehe us ke bat hum ne he kam chor dieya lakn kabi kabi me us ke jim ko hat laga tata ..ap wo 17 sal ki ha .muje is fal ki wja se apni ap se nafrat ho gi ha keya mri toba kabol ho sakti ha

Answer: Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: salam. Allah k huzoor sachi tauba kaisay ki jaay.

Answer: Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mufti sahab assalm alikum please meri madad kijiye ...... mai bahot pareshan hun, kuch mahine pehle maine ek gunah kiya hai jis ki islam me gunjaish hi nai... us din k bad mai apne aap ko maaf hi nai kar paa raha hun... muje wo baat din raat pareshan karti hai... mai kaise khuda se maafi mangu kya allah muje maaf karega? maine har tariqke se koshish ki hai... mai itna pareshan hun ki mai apne aap ko mar dalna chahta hun kyunki maine aisa gunah kiya hai. kisi b tarah se mai allah ke maafi mang saku. maine sab namaz padi hai tahjud ki b. salate tauba ki b.. lekin mai apne aap ko maaf nai kar pa raha hun mai roj namaz padta hun roz mafi mangta hu.. mai kuch b karne k liye tyar hun bas allah ki mafi mil jaye muje mai apna sar kalam karne tyar hun.... lekin mai bahot lachar ho gaya hun.... har waqth mere jahan me yehi baat rehti hai ki maine ye kaise kiya....mai such keh raha hun mai bahot bahot pareshan hun. maine us din k bad Ghosht khana band kar diya hai kyun ki muje humesha wahi yaad aaata hai... kisa yeh hai/.... ek hotel me mai apne dosto ke sath khane k liye goa gaye the wahan ek hotel me hum jaa pahunche wahan mere dost ne ek Ham pizza mangaya jis ka matlab use b nai pata tha na hi muje, mai camera kharab hua tha tho use kasie chalu karu is firakh me tha lekin muje maloom tha ki usne Ham pizza mangwaya hai jis matlab muje nai pata tha mai camera ko lekar pareshan tha aur raat bhar so nai paya beach pe tho thoda thaka hua tha is wajah se b nai. maine galati ki aur sharam se b maine waiter se nai puch ki Ham mane Kya?..... muje laga mere dost ko pata hoga kyunki wo non muslim hai phir b wo b nai khate.... lekin wo jaan buch kar nai mangwate tho jaise hi order ayaa hum khane lage tho muje aisa kucch khayal nai aaya aur maine kha liya(laahol wala kuwat) allah muje maaf kare plz plz... dusre din humne net pe search kiya tho jana ki wo (Pig/Suvar) ka ghost tha allah maaf kare.. wo sunte hi mai tho khali ho gaya muje itna puchthava hua ki mai apne aap ko mar dene chahtha tha gala kat dena chatha tha.. maine tauba ki namaz ada ki.. allah se bahot gidgidakar maafi mangi.. main apne aap ko maaf hi nai kar pa raha tha such me mar jaon aise lag raha tha mai aap ko bata nai sakta mai kitna guilty sharminda ho raha tha allah muje maaf kare mai usi waqth ghar nikal aaya us k bad maine 2 din khaana nai khaya. ulti kar use nikal ne ki koshish ki par ho nai paya doctor ke pas gaya muje mere pet se sab bahr nikalna hai kaha lekin us b kuch asar nai hua.... mai kaise maffi mangu allah se samaj nai aaya maine namaz chalu ki roz namaz padta hun.. roz maffi ki darkhast karta hun lekin muje lagta hi muje maafi nai milegi mai pehele se non veg khata hun lekin us ke bat maine ghost band kar diya.... lekin mai ghar bhot din tak wajah nai bata sakta tho maine ghost ka salan yane greavy khani chalu ki... kyunki mai kisi aur shaher me rahata hun job k liye wahan merre rishtedar hai une nai bata sakta tho wahan b sirf grevy khata hun... kyunki mai une mere liye alagse khana banane nai keh sakta.... phir b kabi galati se muh me chala gaya tho muje bahot kharab lagta hai... muje wahi yaad aata hai. mai apne aap ko maaf hi nai kar paa raha hun alaah se har waqth maafi mangta hun.... maine dua me bi kaha mai kuch b karne ke liye tayar hun muje mar dalo lekin allah muje maaf karo... mufti sahab maaf karna kuch jyada waqth liya lekin muje sahi rasta bada dijiye... jahan tak muje lagta hai is ki maffi nai milegi. lekin maine internet pe pada hai ki agar jane anjane (galti se) kha liya ho aur jan ne k bad tauba kar diya ho tho gunaah nai hai... bus aap ka dil saf ho ki yeh jaan buch kar nai kiya hai.....lekin muje bahot bahot guilty lagta hai maine aisa kiya muje saja bata dejiye jo mai apne aap ko de du ya koi rasta bata de.. mai itna pareshan hun ki mai shaddi b nai karna chahta. kisi se dhoka hoga ye sab....allah muje maaf kare. please please mufti saab muje koi rasta bata do koi hawale se... mai kya karu..... aise mai jee b nai sakta

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37).
Or ap ko shadi kar lene chahiye kun ke Rasool Allah (s.a.w) ne farmaya ke jo shaks shadi karleta hai wo apna aadha deen bacha leta hai. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 550 , pg # 278 , eidition # 5 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Salaam... Allha k Paas konse gunha ki maafi nahi hai esa konsa gunha hai jiski maafi khuda nahi dega.............

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Allah Taala Quraan e Majeed main fermata hai ke Allah hargiz shirk ko muaaf nahi kare ga, or is ke ilawa jo gunaah chahe ga muaaf kar de ga.(Ref : Quraan e Majeed , sura # Al-Nisaa no 4 , ayat # 48 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: kon se dua parni chiyea jise ghunha maaf hoti hai.

Answer: Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghunah se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda s.a.w.w. irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mainy tauba ki aik gunah sy lekin vo gunah phr mjh sy ho gya ab ma is ka kafara ksy ada krun r dubra tauba ksy krun mtlb jaisy phly ki thi wsy hi tauba kr lon

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salam Sir! meri age 27 years hy, me ny apni life mein bht sary gunnah kiye hain, us waqat shyd me smjh nahe saki mgr ab mujhy ehsas ho gaya hy, me roz Allah sy maafi mangti hon aur sab galat kaam chor b diye hain mgr fir b mery dil ko sakon nahe mil raha , jaisy ab b kahin kuch galat hy....shariyat k aitbaar sy kya kerna chahea mujhy?

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam mualiakum sir, mai bahut paresaan hu kyun ki hamesha mere se gunah hoti hai aur mai taubaa bho karta hoo,namaz padh ta hu par phir se wo gunah ho jata is ka koi hal bata oo lz rply fast

Answer: Hazrat Ali a.s irshad farmatay hain k Jo shakhs namaz e subah k baad 11 martaba surah e tauheed ki tilawat karay to os din wo koi gunah na karay ga chahay shaitan kitni hi koshish karay. (Ref : Dunya o aakhirat ki 100 preshanio ka hal pg # 42 , Allah Taala tofiqaat mian izafa farmaae).

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Question: zina ka kaffara kya hai? jis se ye gunah hamare gunahon ki list se hamaisha k liye mit jaye.?

Answer: Imaam Jafar o Sadiq (a.s) ne farmaaya, jis ka mafhoom ye hai ke ager banda apne gunah ka is terhan iqraar kar le ke is ne apne Khaliq Allah Taala ke diye gaae hokum ki nafarmaani ki hai, or is nafarmani ki waja se is ko esei pashemani ho jis ki waja se wo dubara gunah na kar sake to ALLAH TAALA bhi is ko muaaf kar ke is ki toba qabool kar leta hai. (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: hum ek ladke se mohabbat krte hai aur humare bich sex ho chuka hai par main abi b virgin hu bt yeh galti wapas nai krna chahti isiliye is galti se tauba krne ki koi dua humein btaiye

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: 48096 yeh mera question id hai maine aap se ek sawal ka jawab pucha tha jis ka aap ne jawab v diya tha..mai us ladki se tauba krne k bad us se shadi kr sakta hu magar is tauba ka tarika kya hai mai tauba kaise karunga pls bataiye

Answer: Toba yani sharmindagi ka izhar karna k aainda ye gunah nahi karon ga. Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney waloon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalaamu alaikum sir mera sawaal bohat he kharab hai but janna zaruri hai q ki kisi ki zindagi kab sawaal hai agar ek ladki. Ke saat sex ho jai wo. Bhi kisi hindu se to us. Haalat mein kya karna chaiye zara easy language. Mein samjhai

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: mera ye sawal ha k , lrka lrki sextual contact k ilawa kuch krte ha mean jise romanc ka nam dia gaya ha or zinah ki sharam gaah k ilawa dosri jagaye show ki ho ya touch kia ho tou kia wo b zinnah kehlata ha ? dosra mera ye sawal k bar bar tuba k baaad b kia ho tou us surat ma kia kre?? ye kr k khushi mehsos nhi ho rahi , tuba k baad b ye kam kia ha , k ab nhi krege , ab guilt feel ho raha ha tuba kese mango ?

Answer: Zina nahi hai, mager haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai, or Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: assalamualaikum.mujhse ladke ne shadi ka wada kiya,aur fir zid krk kiss kiya.hmari galti jo hm man gaye unki bat qki unka khna tha hum hi to shauhar honge bs.aur 20yrs se tmhe chahte hain..sbse badhkar to wo namazi h 5 tym k aur tahajjud b padhte h.aur hum b..sly na chahte hue b unki bat mani..Qki hme yaqeen tha ki wahi honge shauhar.Phr hm dono ALLAH PAQ se apne gunaho ki mafi mangenge.par wo ekdum se badal gaye aur ab kuch dino me unki shadi hai.hmko ek pal b chain ni hai.Jo gunah hmse hua hai,uski wajh se bht tension rhti hme.neend b ni ati aur unko koi b fiqr nhi.jbki namazi hain wo.hm ALLAH se har tym tauba krte rhte hain.per jo sharmindgi zindgi bhar ki di hmen.wo bardasht nhi ho rhi.Hmne unki bat maan kr apni zindgi tabah kr li

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey.(Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai gunah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: May nay zana kiya mafi kaisay.mango

Answer: Toba kijye is terhan ke Hazrat Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (Sura no 66) ki tilawat kijye. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae

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Question: Main kayi saalon se masturbation (musht zani) may mubtala tha yahan tak ke mujhe addiction hogai thee is se... mujhe rozay ka bhi khayal ni rehta tha or main musht zani karta tha... mujhy ab sehat ke bohat se mesail dekhnay par rahy hain jesay pishaab may behad dard wagera... mainy bohat baar dil se tobah ki ha... kya sehat ko thek karny ke liye ko masnun tareeka btaya gya ha quran ya hadis may... mujhe pishab ka bohat masla ha kyunk shayad main bohat zada kamzor hochuka hun andruni tor pe...

Answer: Imam Ali Raza a.s. sai marwi riwayat k mutabiq zawal k waqt 150 martaba

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Question: aoa sir muj se muth marna control nhi hotey har roz 1 ya 3 din bad 1 plz es k koi haal batye

Answer: Ghunnah say hifazat aur nafs ki pakisgi aur bulandi k lye zikr e younusia jo surah e ambia ki ayat no 87 hay parhna chahaea, wo zikr ye hay

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Question: Sir Agr koi ramzan ky maheeny main bina rozy ki halat kay kisi larki say mubashrit kar bethy to us ky li kya hukam hai kya uski toba kabool ho sakti hai

Answer: Agre wo larki us ki bivi na ho to ye haraam o guhnaah e kabeera hai to lehaza toba kare is terhan ke Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main toba o istigfaar karain.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Agar Kisi se ek gunah bar bar ho or wo bar Allah se maafi mangy or phr Wo gunah dobara hojaye Tu kiya Wo insan phr maafi k like hy qk Wo hud Ko es k like nahe samajta Tu us kiya karnay chaye .....???

Answer: Zarori hai ke Allah Gafoor o Raheem se toba kare, or us amal ko dubara na karne ki koshish kare is terhan ke Namaaz e panjgana main se har namaaz ke baad ik (1) martaba Sura e Al-Aaraaf (Sura no 7) ki ayat no 23 ko pharain. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 53 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Aslam o Alikum. main 18 saal ka hon aur mastburing (hand practice) ki gandi adat pari hai .buhat koshish ki is say jaan churanay ki lakin nakam raha.bohat dafa toba bi ki lakin phir dobara kar liya kaam .so plz mujhe koi rasta batyen is say nikalnay ka.

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Rozana 1000 martaba ya allaho ka wird karain. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 283 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir mara ap sa ya sawal ha ka agar koi larka larky sa zina karta ha or ab sharminda ha apny is kam pa or is ka kafara ada karna chata ha to wo kia kary or ainda ya bura kam us sa na ho to wo kia kary plzzzz reply

Answer: Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hia).Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hia).

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Question: assalam-o-alaikom ma na aur mara hona wala husband na quran pak pa hath rakh k jhoty gawahi di ha izzat bachana k khatir ab hm bohat sharminda ha aur ALLAH TAALA sa bohat mafi mangi ha agar koi proper tareeqa ha is bat k mafi k to bta dain

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Assalam o Aliakum Mufti sahib. Sir mera sawal ye hai k agr ki hui Tobah na chahty huwy b toot jaye ( yani k kisi gunah ko na karny ki tobah) to kya is ka koi kuffara hai ? Aur agr at a time bina sochy samjhy wohi gunah sarzard ho jaye jis sy tobah ki ho aur bad mein bohat nadamat ho to kya ye kabeerah gunah hai ? Aur sir please koi aisa wazifa ya amal bata dein jis sy men apni ki gai tobah pr qaim reh sakon

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37).
Guhnaah-naan e kabera main se nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: asalaamualaykum sir may ne ap se pouchna tha meri gf ha may ne us ke sath humbastri b ki ha aur shadi abi nhe howi abi may uk ia giya hn aur wo pakistan may ha may ne apne gunnh ki maffi mangna chahta hn aur abi b hum phone py sex karte hn may in sub se tang hn aur Allah ke azab se darta hn plz plz plz mjy koi rista btaye jis se may inn se nejhat hasal kr sako aur Allah pak ka qurb hasal kr sako jazkallah

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Na-mehramoo se is qism k talluqaat rakhna haraam hai, lehaza Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) , (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: My ny apni zindagi bhot bary bary gunahh kiye hen... leken abb my unsy toubaa krna chata hun.... allah ki khusnudi hasil krna chata hunn... plz answer mee my kia krun... my ny joo kuch bhe kia us sy tooba krnaa chata hun....

Answer: Quraan e Majeed ko tarjume ke sath phara karain.(Ref : Sura e Al-Raad , ayat # 28) , (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # 2 , kitaab e fazilat e Quraan , baab # 281 , riwayat # 1 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Ma chahti hn k js NY MRI uni ma insult k vo bs mujy a k sory kh da mujy btaya k kia lrn

Answer: Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq, esi kohaish karna Islami talimaat ke mutabiq sahi nahi hai, lehaza ap us ko Allah Taala ke katir muaaf kar dain, or os larka se kisi qisam ka rabita bhi nahi rakhain, or apne ap ko ache se ache akhlaaq o kirdaar wala banaain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Aoa.meri engagmnt jan 2014 mai howi aur nov 2014 mai khatam kar d gai jan say ly kar nov tak 4 baar shadi roki gai unki taraf say q k un k kuch problems thay n hain bhi or ilzaam mujh par lagaya q k mai ny rishtay say pehlay such bta dia k mai past mai kisi ko pasand karti thi lakin unki shadi say pehlay he mai ny koi taluq nai rakha ye sb mainay engage say pehlay he clear bta dia tha then engagemt howi, meray fiancy ko har waqt shak tha jb k allah gawah hay mai nay is rishtay mai koi dhoka nai dia meray ghar walo ko kaha ye akar dekhati hay meri baat nai manti mai nay in ki ye shikayat dur ki unki zabardasti ki harqat par mean romance kar k wo bhi shadi sai 15 din pehlay then unho ny rishata khatm kar dia ab mai sharminda hun k ye bt q maani us din say kay kar aaj tak mai har namaz k bd apnay gunnah ki maafi mangti hun phr bhi sukoon nai or wo insaan mujhay bdnaam kar raha hay or khud khush reh raha hay

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: assalmualikum I did zina with a nonmuslim women and she is widow and I'm married I can't explain in words that how I'm felling guilty on my sin and I don't know dose Allah forgive me or not because in Quran Allah says a person men or women, even if married if they commitment zina then the punishment is till stone to deth sansar in duniya it's self then how I should find my touba will it be successfull or not because clearly mentioned no forgivness please tell me what to do, shall I go for the punishment sansaar and die in that punishment....................

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Allah Qadir o Tawana se toba karain is terhan ke ye pashemani ap ko Allah Taala ke ehkaam per amal karne main hamesha sabit rakhe. (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4).
Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, her raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tarjume ke sath tilawat karain. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04) , (Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e fazal e Quraan , baab # 281 , riwayat # 1 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Assalamwalekum...janab isake pehale bhi maine aapko kafi baar sawal puchha hai per abhi tak kabhi jawab nahi aaya mere masle ke uper maine pucha tha ki , main ek ladki se cha tkar raha tha uss chatting ke dauran uss ladki ne mujhe sex story bhejane ke liye kaha maine wo story net se copy karke bhej di magar usame kahi per kurane pak ka naam aaya tha wo story kisi gair muslim ne likhi thi to kya mere hatho se aapne mukaddas kurane pak ki beadabi huyi hai main ussi soch me rehta hu ki mere hatho se ye kaisa gunah ho gaya jo hargij nahi hona chahiye tha khuda ke liye mere madad kijiye maine masjid me pesh-e-imam ko kuran pak ki beadabi hone ka ijhar karte huye unake pass aalah ki rah me sadka aata kiya hai to aalah mujhe maaf karege iss gunah aur galti ke liye ya aur mujhe kaunsa ilm ya sadka karana chahiye jisase mujhe sukun mile aapse dil se gujarish karta hu ki khuda ke liye mujhe reply dekar mere msale ka hal aata kijiye ....Allah Hafiz .....Dua ki Darkhwast

Answer: sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Aoa mera swal ye ha ke mje se sache tooba nhe ke ja rae yani bhat bar khuda se mafi mang ke phr dubara whe haraam gunnah kar rae hun.asa 7 8 bar kar chuke hn. Mafi mang ke namaz ke pabandi be karte hun par dimag se shetani kheyalat nikalte nhe or mahene bad phr se whe gunnah kar bhat te hun plz mje btaen kya krn ke mere gunnah maaf hon or dubara mein gunnh na karon.

Answer: Istighfaar (taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain:(Nidamat k saath sachay dil say 14 masoomeen(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay)
1) Maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi.
2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah.
3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna).
4) Jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya tha tu os ki qaza bja laana).
5) Jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho.
6) Jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunah say maza chakhaya tha.
(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera yeh sawal hai k agar koi jazbaat may aa k Allah g ki qasam khaey aur phir Allah g say apnay gunnah ki maafi mangeyyyy toh Allah g usko maaf kr daitey hain kaya???

Answer: Jee haan Allah har waqt apne bande ko maaf kerne ko tayyaar hay agar banda schay dil se sharmindagi k sath maafi maangay. (Ref :Mafhoom e http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/) Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Mene pehli bar apne bf ko kiss ki jis din ki thi usi din se buhut pareeshan hun k mene 1 larke ko apne qareeb aane dia or usne mujhee chor Bhi dia or ab main aesa koi kaam nhi Karun gi plzz is ka kuffara btaen

Answer: Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 02-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: As Salam walekum , Sir m ne sab kuch Jan te huwe zina kiya h , lakin ab m sarminda hu or maffi cha ta hu

Answer: Istighfaar (taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain:(Nidamat k saath sachay dil say 14 masoomeen(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay)
1) Maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi.
2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah.
3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna).
4) Jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya tha tu os ki qaza bja laana).
5) Jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho.
6) Jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunah say maza chakhaya tha.
(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Aslam-o-alikum mai bohaut gunnah gaar hu mujy har waqat apni Akhrat ka khayal nh rehta mei logou sey akser befazool zabaan lagati hu aur bohaut gunnah gaar hu apni adatoon sey majboor mujy Allah sey maufi kesay mangani chaye Beshak ALLAH ka naam he DarGuzar kernay wala hain,

Answer: Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 28-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalomo alaikum... janaam meri umra 21 saal h.. meri prob. ye h ki me 4-5 br kisi orat se zina kiya... mujhe pata h zina gunah h'' pareshan hu allah se toba bhi kiya hu... kya koi or tarika.. mujhe is azab se bacha ja sake... mere walid saab ka abhi 5 month pehle hi intkal hua h. me shadi bhi ni ker sakta... aap janaab koi hul batao...u

Answer: Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 02-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mujhy pata k nafarmani gunnah e kabira hai but i did .

Answer: Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 02-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Agar koe banda shirk karay Kuch asa kahay kay ( tumay dekh kar itni kushi milti hai kay shahid Rub ** NauzbiLLAH ** AstafurALLAH** ko dekh kar bhi na milay or ye sirf ek he dafa bola ho Tou is gunnah ko door karnay ka kya kufara ya kya asa kiya jaye ke Allah maf kar

Answer: Gunah se tauba kerna ehem tareen wajibaat main se hay, or haqiqat e tauba gunah ki nidamat or pashaimani hay or ye dil k maamlaat main se hay or faqat astaghfirullah kehna kafi nahi balkeh paishaimani zarori hay or os k baad astaghfirullah bhi kaha jaey tu behter hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jame, Mafhoom e Maslah #2223). Update on dated 17-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: asalam o alikum please help me i am crying all the time guilt is killing me ....I want ALLAH to forgive me i was a perfect muslim women i am 22 years old i am married my father was killed i was suffering from alot of pain my husband left me those days i was so alone so i texted my family friend n he was so cleaver he told me to enjoy your life why are you praying all the time sitting in a room going no where come with me have a dinner he convinced me to go out with him i was crying inside that what i am doing is wrong well i went in a park n meet him there he made my video i did nothing jst talk it was winter sesson n the weather went so bad he came from another city n he had no where to go so he came to my house n he had sex zana with me i was crying when he was doing it i wanted him to stop but i couldnt my zamir was killing me he also made my video i didnt know about that video when he was gone i am crying since than n asking ALLAH to forgive me he showed my video to his all friends i got punished i suffered alot icried day n night i was admitted in the hospital i was near to die me and my mother went to his house i deleted that video i am crying every day n night asking ALLAH pak to forgive me now my husband is with me he love me so much but i havent told him the truth this guilt is killing me n i cant lose him so i kept it secret between me n ALLAH i was a religious women my life was perfect this mistake is killing me i can't pray i can't read Quran i am just crying n me kudh ko is qabil nae samjhty kay ALLAH k agay sajda karo is gunah kay baad please tell me me kia karon kay ALLAH mujhy maaf farma dain me n us din kay baad or os say phele kabe asa gunah nahe kiya me sharminda hoon please tell me how to solve my problem?

Answer: 1-Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
2- Aap namaz or quran ko perhain, Q k in ko chorhne ka ye khayaal bhi shaitan ka ho sakta hay.
Update on dated 09-09-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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