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Question: mera sawal ye he k mery husband mjh se door hen yani oit of country job k leye gye hen hmari shadi ko 4 month ho gye hen abi or wo 2 month baad hi chly gye thy.kindly bta den k jb hmara dill aik dosry ki qurbat ka kry(means sex) to kya kren?? kya is qisam ki baaten krna thek he?? mery husband khty hen k is trhan ki koi bhi baat jis se hum dono ka dill or zyada shiddat se kry wo krna thek nhii he ghlat he ye islam me.kindly mjhy daleel k sath wazaht kren

Answer: Waisay to wife or hasband har tarah say aik dosry say baat kar sakty hen lekin agar haram men prhny ka khouf ho to jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Minhajus saliheen, jild#3, maslah#29). Update on dated 08-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kia BV apne shohar ki ajazat baghair uske maal se jo wo use hifazat ke liye de, kharch kar sakti hai?

Answer: Shohar ki raqam ko shohar ki ijazat k baghair istemaal kerna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Minhajus saliheen jld#3, masla#327). Update on dated 16-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A.O.A mera Sawal yeh h k Larki k ass Hole m penis dalna wajib h kya wahan Sex karna jaiz h

Answer: makam men dukhul karnay k liay biwi ka ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par razi hona zarori hay lekin phir b shadeed makrooh hy or aghr biwi razi nah ho to ehtiyaat ki bina par jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: touzeeh ul masael masala no 448/2382 ) . Update on dated 09-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Nikah k waqt kitne gawahon ka hona zaruri he or kia un me se koi gawah aurat ho sakti he or agr aurat ki gawahi me nikah hua ho to kia wo nikah sahi he?

Answer: Nikah k waqt gawaho ka hona zarori nahi hay. (Ref: Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah #2335 ) Update on dated 12-11-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamo Alaikum sir, Kya mard apni BV ka doodh pee sakta hai k nai??

Answer: Shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur monh main doodh aa jaey, tu oska koe kaffarah nahi hay.laikin ehtiyaat e wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piya jaey.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). Update on dated 12-11-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aoa.... sir kia main apni bv k sath hum bistri kar skta hun muharram main... main ne suna hai ky agr is doran hamal theher jay to bacha shemale peda hota... kia yeh drust hay. kindly is bare main btay ga plzzz

Answer: Bivi say muharram men hambistari karna jaiz hay lekin is mahine main hambistari nah karna munasib hay. Ref:(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from https://www.sistani.org/arabic/qa/11651/ ). Update on dated 10-11-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: 0 Answers found for \"Agar shohar haq e zojiat ada na kr skta ho Likin shadi krte waqt Ilaj krwaya ho or 2bache ho gae hai Likin 13 saal shadi ko ho gae hai 8 saal se haq e zojiat ada nhi kr skte tu plzzz btaye kiya krna chahye Plzz rehnomaye farmaye

Answer: Aap raazi hain tu nikah baqi rakhain, or aap apne shauhar se hambistari k alawa digar lazzaat hasil ker sakti hain, maslan shauhar k zerye se baghair hambistari k discharge hona jaiz hay, yani aap ka shuhar apne hath ko aap ki sharamgaah per rigrhay ya ungli ko sharamgaah main dakhil kare, waghair, is tarah ki lazzaat hasil karna jaiz hogi. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012). Update on dated 27-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir.. job ki waja sy sal main 3 month bv k sath hota ho to baqi ayam agr kabi hot ho.. to kiya sexy picture dhek sakty hain?

Answer: Agar wo biwi ki hi tasveer ho or os ko daikh ker haram kaam main perhne ka khoof nah ho tu daikhna jaiz hai bivi ki tasweer k alawa ethiat e wajib ki bina per fahash filmoo aur tasweeron ka dekhna haram he, agar chahay shak aur lazzat k baghair dekha jaey. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254). Update on dated 25-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir.. job ki waja sy sal main 3 month bv k sath hota ho to baqi ayam agr kabi hot ho.. to kiya sexy picture dhek sakty hain?

Answer: Agar wo biwi ki hi tasveer ho or os ko daikh ker haram kaam main perhne ka khoof nah ho tu daikhna jaiz hai bivi ki tasweer k alawa ethiat e wajib ki bina per fahash filmoo aur tasweeron ka dekhna haram he, agar chahay shak aur lazzat k baghair dekha jaey. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254). Update on dated 25-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Asslam u alikum Mulana sahb meri shadi next month ha .me hambistri ke tariqy se bilkul nawakif ho. Meharbani farma kr tariqa bataey kis tarh himbistri ki jaey or kis jaga se ki jaey... tafseel se rariqa bataein

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgah ko dekhna makrooh hai. jima k waqt kamray main andhera hona lazmi nai (Ref: Minhaaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ).
[Updated on 25-Oct-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam o alaykum sir meri shadi hui shadi k bd 2 mahine to theek Tha lekin uske bad Mera susr meri biwi ko hr 2 se 3 din bd a kr le jata lekin me khush nai Tha mene apni biwi se kaha tum 15 din bd Jaya kro lekin usne meri bt nai mani me jb b apni biwi ko susral lene jata Mera susr meri biwi ko bejne se inkar kr deta mujhe gussa a jata 5 br aisa hi Hua me wife ko lene jata susr na bejta mere susr ne meri wife ko ruswa kr btha Liya 6 mahine ho Gaye ab Mera bcha b paida hone wala ha me apni biwi ko talaq nai Dena chahta me usko ghr wapis Lana chahta Hon mujhe kya krna Chahiye?

Answer: was-salam.aap apni zojaa ko samjhaye or sharai masael sai agaah karain k jis aurat ka daaimi nikah ho jaaye us k liye haraam hai k shohar ki ijaazat k baghair ghar sai bahar nikle chahay us ka nikalna shohar k haq k manaafi nah bhi ho.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2376).
[Updated on 27-Oct-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam o alaykum sir meri apne susr se is bt pr larai ho gai thi k me apni wife ko susral lene Jata lekin Mera susr bejne se inkar kr deta mujhe gussa a Jata Tha jiski waja se mere susr ne meri biwi ko ghr ruswa kr btha Liya ha meri wife ko naraz ho kr bethe 6 mahine ho Gaye meri wife apne Maa baap k kehne pr Chal rahi ha hamara bcha b 10 15 din tk paida hone wala ha me apni wife ko ghr Lana chahta Hon me agr apne susr se maafi maangne ka kehta Hon wo mujhe dhamki deta me Tumhien Mar Don ga me apni biwi se raabta tk nai kr skta Mera susr zalim aor jwari ha jua khelne k ilawa wo koi kam nai krta ab ap mujhe yeh btayein me wife ko ghr kaise laon mujhe darr ha kahin meri wife mere susr k kehne pr talaq na le le me apna ghr Abad krna chahta Hon kuch rehnamai kre thanks

Answer: Was Salam. Aap ko chahye k aap apni zoja ko maslay sai agaah karay k un k liye jaaiz nahi hai k shohar ki ijaazat k baghair ghar sai bahar nikle. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
[Updated on 29-Oct-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamu Alaikum... Agar Shohar apni biwi ko apny aik friend k sath sex ki ijazat dy,, jabki osky dost ko pata na ho... aor kuch years oski biwi shohar k ijazat se osky sath sex kr lain... pir baad may ye ghalat kam chor dy... tho esky bary may kiya hukam hy.. shohar aor biwi k rishty wagaira k bary may.. Shukriya.... may already ye post kr chuka hn.. 92176 ID per ... but koi answer nahi mila.....

Answer: Aghrchy yeh kam haram or ghunah e kabeera hay lekin un ka nikah baqi rahay ga or yeh aurat us dosry shakhs par ehtiyat e wajib ki par hamesha k liay haram ho jaey gi.(Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah #2327 ) (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
[Updated on 29-Oct-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Meri biwi kisi na maram ke sath chali gayi us ke kon sa azab hai

Answer: Aurat apne shohar ki ijaazat k baghair ghar sai nahi nikal sakti or aurat jub tak kisi ki zojiyat mai ho us sai shaadi nahi ki jaa sakti.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2366)
[Updated on 31-Oct-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: assalam-o-alaikum. Sir agar nikah ho chuka ho aur ek saal tak rukhsati na ho to is waja se koi gunah to ni hai shohar ya bv pe?

Answer: Agar haram kam nahi kar rahay to koe haraj nahi hay. (Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah #2382/2407 ) (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
[Updated on 01-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mera question ya hai k ager husband wife shadi k bad 2 saal tk humbisrti na krain apni mrzi sy to is k ley islam my kea hukm hai?

Answer: Agar dono razi hen to jaiz hay koi haraj nahi hay. Shauhar apni jawaan biwi se chaar mahine se ziyadah ba’is k liay hambistari tark nahin kar sakta magar yeh keh hambistari os ke liay nuqsaandeh ya bohut ziyadah takleef ka ba’is ho ya os ki biwi khud chaar amhine se ziyadah I’ddat ke liay hambistari tark karne par raazi ho ya shaadi karte waqt nikaah ke zaman mein chaar mahine se ziyadah muddat ke liay hambistari tark karne ki shart rakhi gaee ho. Aur iis hukum mein ehtayaat- e-waajib ki bina par shauhar ke maujood hone ya musaafir hone mein koe farq nahin hai iis liay ehtayaat-e-waajib ki bina par yeh jayez nahin keh ghair zaruri safar ko baghair kisi azr ya aurat ki razamandi ke baghair chaar maah se ziyadah tuul diya jaay.Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah # )
[Updated on 01-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Ager shadi k bad 2 saal husband humbistre na krain to kea is sy wo kisi ghunah ky murtkbik hoty hain

Answer: Jee haan Shauhar apni jawaan biwi se chaar mahine se ziyadah mudat k liay hambistari tark nahi kar sakta magar yeh keh hambistari os k liay nuqsaandeh ya bohut ziyadah takleef ka ba’is ho ya os ki biwi khud chaar mahine se ziyadah muddat k liay hambistari tark karne par raazi ho ya shadi karte waqt nikah k zimn mein chaar mahine se ziyadah muddat k liay hambistari tark karne ki shart rakhi gaee ho. Aur is hukum mein ehtiyaat- e-wajib ki bina par shauhar k maujood hone ya musafir hone mein koe farq nahi hai is liay ehtayaat-e-waajib ki bina par yeh jaiz nahi keh ghair zaruri safar ko baghair kisi uzr ya aurat ki rizamandi k baghair chaar maah se ziyadah tool diya jaey. (Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah #2382 )
[Updated on 02-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: as salam o alikum molvi sahab mera sawal y hai k kia bv ko pehli raat hmbstri krna zarori hai?kehte hain k valima k khane s pehle hmbstri lazmi hai pls isme rehnumai krn

Answer: Was Salam. Pehli raat hambistari kerna zaroori nahi hay. (Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2382)
[Updated on 06-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir i use condom for not to be pregnant. Bcoz i have two baby boys n quit tough job to take care of them. Is it jaiz or permissible in islam or not? N plz tell me anal sex is jaiz after marriage or not?

Answer: 1-Merd k liay jaiz hay k wo condam istemaal karay laikin ehtiyaat e wajib ye hay k is k istemaal kernay say pehlay apni biwi say ijazat lay lay. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 465 pg # 254)
2-Biwi k peechay(back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) karna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai, agr biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay). (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67)
[Updated on 10-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam O alikum Sir mera question hai k shadi k bad ek dafa intercourse ho jay tu kia again and again krne se koi problem tu ni hoti. kia bar bar intercourse krne se problem tu ni hoti.

Answer: Jaiz hay. (Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, Edition# 1439, part#03,Mafhoom e Maslah #05 ).
[Updated on 09-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir mai apni Biwi ka doodh boht ziyada pee chuka hun.. Sex k time pe khayal nhi ata tha or mai kafi quantity mai daily peeta tha.. Roz mai ye amal krta tha.. Kiya ye jaiz hai?

Answer: Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org).
Advice: Aap is ehtiyaat e wajib main ayatullah ishaq fayyaz ki janib ruju ker sakte hain.
[Updated on 10-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr koi shaadi shuda aurat apne shohar se khush na ho qki wo uska logo ke beech mazak banata hai or wo aurat kisi or ladke se apna dard batti hai or wo ladka use tasalli de or dheere dheere wo dono ek dusre se mohabbat Karne lage mgr aurat majboori se kisi se kuch keh na paye to wo kya kare or ladke ko kya aisi aurat se humdardi or mohabbat bnaye rakhna chahiye

Answer: Na-mehram say doosti ka is had tak izhaar kerna k us say kehna k mujhay tum say muhabbat hai,jaiz nahi hai aur gunnah hai. Lekin us shaks sai us wakt tak shaadi nahi ki jaa sakti jub tak shohar talaaq nah mil jaey. (Ref:book nigah aur libaas masla#106,pg#69).
[Updated on 12-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kya biwi apne shohar ke sharmgah se mani ( sperm ) nikal skti h mooth markar nikal skti hai..?

Answer: JAIZ hay.(Ref:www.sistani.org/html/ara (Istimna) Q.No.7)
[Updated on 27-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kiya biwi ko maa ki gali yahi tumharai maa ko lun khanay saay nikah toot jata hay

Answer: Aghrcha gali dena haram hai lekin is say nikah nahi tootay ga.(Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, Edition# 1439, part#03,Mafhoom e Maslah #498 ).
[Updated on 23-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kya biwi ki sharamga ko ungli Karna halal hai?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein. laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay.or shohar ka bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal ker mani nikaalna jaiz hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012)

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Question: Kya Hamal ke dauran aurat Ghar se ya shadi wagairah me Nahi ja Sakti

Answer: Jis aurat ka daaemee nikah ho jaey os k liay haram hay keh shuhar ki ijazat ke baghair ghar se bahar nikla chahay os ka nikalna shuhar k haq k manafi nah hi ho. Magar yeh keh koe aham zarurat pesh aay ya ghar mein rehna os k liay nuqsaan ka bais bane ya ghar os k monahsib nah ho. (Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2376 )
[Updated on 08-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Wife ki ass ko lick kerna aur wife ka penis ko suck kerna jaiz hai, ager dono razamand hoon aur kia ye amal gunah wala hai ya sahi hai. Agar ye licking deep hou aur koi cheez mouth mey na jaye tu theikh hai??

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaey. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf.org).
[Updated on 07-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sex agr kpray utary bina kiya jay ar sex par manni na lagy tou kpray pak huwy ya na pak..kia un kpro ko dhona lazam?

Answer: Kaprhay paak hain or unka dhona zarori nahi hay. (Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 41,Mafhoom e Maslah # 119).
[Updated on 07-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kia meri bv transfer karwa k mairay pass rehnay a jayay gi ya main akaila hi rahoon ga.

Answer: Biwi k liay shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar say bahar jana jaiz nahi.(Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2376)
[Updated on 06-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam o alikum ! Mera sawal ye hai k mera nikkah November 2016 mai huwa tha nikkah k kuch months hamara rishta acha chalta raha Rukhsati ki date rakhi gai tou mere shohar ny aney sy inkaar shoru kar dia unhony mujhy aur mere ghar walo ko btaya k wo financial problem mai hain mainy un ki madad ki biwi hony ki hesiyat sy aur phir wo rukhsati k liye apny ghar walo k sath agae mere shohar rukhsati k bad kuch din mere sath rahy aur meri susral waley aur shohar mere ghar walo sy aur mujh sy ye bol k gae k wo mujhy foran visa py bulwa lein gy aur wapis chaley gae lekin ab mujhy pata chala k wo waha kisi aur larki k sath taluqat rakhy hoe hain mujhy dhoka dety rahy aur jab mainy narazgi zahir ki tou wo mujh py gussa ho gae mainy apni saas ko ye bat btai tou wo b mere shohar ko support karny lagi na wo mera koi kharacha utha rahy hain 4 months sy na mujh sy hans k bat karty hain... aur kabi bolty hain chor do ga tmhy aur kabi bolty hain nahi aisa naam py rakho ga ... mujhy kia karna chahiye mai buht pareshan ho is bat sy?

Answer: Biwi ki ghiza, libaas, rihayish aur zindagi ki baaqi zaruriyaat ka intezaam shauhar par waajib hai. Agar wo yeh cheezein muhayya na kare to khahh on ke muhayya karne par qudrat rakhta ho ya na rakhta ho wo biwi ka maqrooz hay. Isi tarah aurat k huqooq mein se ek yeh hai keh mard ose aziyat wa aazaar na pohanchaye aur kisi sharee wajah k baghair os k sathh sakhti aur tursh ruyee se paesh na aay.or Shauhar apni jawaan biwi se chaar mahine se ziyadah baar is ke liay hambistari tark nahin kar sakta magar yeh keh hambistari os ke liay nuqsaandeh ya bohut ziyadah takleef ka baar is ho ya os ki biwi khud chaar amhine se ziyadah Iddat ke liay hambistari tark karne par raazi ho ya shaadi karte waqt nikaah ke zaman mein chaar mahine se ziyadah muddat ke liay hambistari tark karne ki shart rakhi gaee ho. Aur iis hukum mein ehtayaat- e-waajib ki bina par shauhar ke maujood hone ya musaafir hone mein koe farq nahin hai iis liay ehtayaat-e-waajib ki bina par yeh jayez nahin keh ghair zaruri safar ko baghair kisi azr ya aurat ki razamandi ke baghair chaar maah se ziyadah tuul diya jaay.(Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2376/82)
[Updated on 06-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: MRI biwi mjhsy baz okat theek bat bhi krtay howay bhott bad zabni krjati hah or phir us par kaime rahti hah olta mjhsy naraz. Hojti hay ma ager usy ghlat bat par jahrak do to is I BT ko pakr leti hy ormray jawab nadny par olta seedha likhti hy is m hamray piyary nabi me kiya hukm diya tky m uski islah krdon?

Answer: Aurat ke huquq mein se ek yeh hai keh mard ose aziyat o aazaar nah pohanchaey aur kisi sharee wajah k baghair os k sath sakhti aur tarsh royee se paish nah aay.(Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Tauzeehul masael,Edition# 39,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2376)
[Updated on 22-Jan-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: As salam alykym!! Mera sawal ye hai mery walid mera kharcha nahi uthaty bulky bolty hain k khud kama ker pora kero, meri age 35 ho choki hai but un ko meri zara perwa nahi hai na meri shaadi kerny mein koi interest hai,hath bhi uthaty hain , aisy walidain ky liye kya saza hai? Islam kya kehta hai jo apni hi beti ky huqoq ada na kery, or achy kaam kerny se rokhy, Main bohat perishan hun, please help

Answer: Baap par apni ghareeb anulaad ka kharcha uthana wajib hay.(Ref:Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani (d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, Edition# 1439, part#03,Mafhoom e Maslah # 446).
[Updated on 17-Jan-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kya islam mein shuhar aur bivi ke huqooq barabar hai ya nahi kya aurat ki jagh mard ke pairon me niche hai please tafser se batay

Answer: Nahi, Aisa nahi hai islam ne jahan shohar k huqooq (biwi k faraiz) bataye hai wahin biwi k huqooq (shohar k faraiz) taleem kiye hai.biwi ko shohar ki khidmat karni hai lekin is sai muraad ye nahi hai k biwi ki koi ehmiyat nahi hai.(Ref: tauzihul masael, edition#35, maslah#2376).
[Updated on 12-Jan-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Shohar biwi ko patla honae ka kha sakta hay

Answer: Patla hone ka keh sakta hai lekin biwi par os ka ye hukum maanna wajib nahi hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah#2376,2378).
[Updated on 15-Jan-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir mera sawal yeah hai kk agar husband aik year sy abroad hoo too kaya biwii apny sath sex kar saktii hai khud sukoon hasil kar sakti hai?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi ka apas men jinsi lazzat hasil karne k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430).
[Updated on 02-Jan-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamualaikum main apni biwi se bhut pyar karta hun aur wo bhi mera bhut khayal rakhti hai lekin kuch aise kaam hain jinko mana karne ke bawjood karti hai jo mere gusse ka sabab bante hain jaise ki main usse apne sar ko dhak kar rakhne ke liye kahta hun pardagi ke liye kahta hu lekin wo us par amal nhi karti aur main roz kai kai baar usko tokta rakta hun aur apni biwi ki bepardagi se mujhe chidh hoti hai dusri pareshani ye hai ki jab bhi main usse sohbat karne ki baat karta hun to mana karti hai aur mood kharab karne wali baat karne lagti hai aksar hamara jhhagda ho jata hai main in sab baato ko lekar bhut upset rahta hun isliye kabhi kabhi main dusri shaadi karne ke baare me sochne lagta hun

Answer: Was Salam. Aurat ko na-mehram sai parda karna wajib hai lekin mehram afrad k samne be hijab jaa sakti hai. Agar biwi humbistari or jinsi lazzaton k silsile mai shohar ka saath na dai kar us ki khahish poori nah karay tu us k root,i kaprhay or makan ka shohar zimedaar nahi hai or agar kabhi kabhaar apni in zimedario ko poora nah karay tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par shohar sai rooti kaprhay or makan ka shohar par haq saqit nahi hota.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2377).
[Updated on 24-Dec-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kya main meri biwi ka sharamga ko ungli Karsakta hu?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein. laikin jism k hissay k alawa koi aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi kr saktay.or shohar ka bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal sakta hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236).
[Updated on 12-Dec-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kya biwi se pehli raat hi jima Karna zaroori hai? Kya jima ya ham bistari ke bagr walima haram hai?

Answer: Jee nahi biwi sai pehli raat humbistari karna zaroori nahi hai or is k baghair walima haraam nahi hai albatta shohar k liye jawan biwi sai 4 mahine tak humbistri na karna haraam hai siwaey is k keh biwi is baat sai raazi ho.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 2382).
[Updated on 04-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: mara sawal hai k agr bv ho hamal k 6 month mai orat usy front side pr na krny dy to kia back side pr kr akty hai ya ni

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). [Updated on 04-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aoa ager . bevi raazi ho to peeche se kar sakty hen gunah to nhi ? Ager bivi ki tbiyat khraab ho to wo apne shohar ko jama se rok sakti hai ? Ager bivi na chti ho to hsband zabardasti kar sakta hai ? Plz ans me

Answer: 1) Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.
2-Agar bivi ki tabiyat kharab ho tu os k liay jima naqabil bardasht ho tu phir wo mana kar sakti hay.
3-Agar bivi baghair kisi uzr e sharee k mama kare tu phir wo gunah gaar hay or shohar hambistari kar sakta hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2382).
[Updated on 02-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aoa Kiya Haiz ki halat me mard apni bv k sath jama kiye begair kisi or tareeqe k sath discharge ho sakta hai shermgha ka milaab k ealwa kisi or jagh ?

Answer: wsalam.jee doosri lazzaat haasil ki jaa sakti hai kyun k haiz ki haalat mai biwi sai faqat farj mai jima karna haraam hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 448).Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay lekin nikah pr koi asr nhi pary ga). (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).
[Updated on 19-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: A/W Agar sadi Suda biwi Apne Sahar ke absent me wo ek gair com means Hindu ladkese physical rehabilitation rakhe to kya Karna chaiye..? Kya nikha tutjata hai ya Nahi ?? Pls bataiye

Answer: Kisi bhi larki ka apne shohar k alawa kisi se jismani talluq rakhna gunah e kabira hay. Bivi k zina karne se wo apne shohar per haram nahi ho jati or agar tauba o istighfar nah kare or apnea mal per baqi rahe(yani zinakaari tark nah kare) tu behtar ye hay k shohar osay talaq day day laikin shohar ko chahiay keh os ka meher day day.(Ref: Ayatullah sistani d.b, Minhajus saliheen part#1, edition#1439, maslah#30+ Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail edition #41, maslah #2367) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #1433). Update on dated 22-02-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
[Updated on 05-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Salam Kiya apni bivi se sex karne k liye condoms wagira ka estemal kar sakte hai ya nahi

Answer: Mard k liay jaiz hay k wo family planning k liay sathi or is qisim k dooray cover istemal kare or ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k istemal se pehlay apni bivi se ijazat lay lay.(Ref: Ayatullah sistani d.b, Jadeed fiqhi masael, Maslah#465).

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Question: Kia bewi ko anal sex Kar Sakta he

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(anus) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).
[Updated on 01-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: کیا رخصتی کے بغیر نکاح کرنا غلط ہے؟

Answer: agar rukhsati na bhi ho or nikah ki baaqi sharaet moujood ho tu nikah durust hai. (Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani, editon#41, maslah#2335).
[Updated on 12-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr aolad na chiye ho shadi k pehly 2 3 saal to kia ye jaiz hy , aor hamal zaya krna jaiz hy kia

Answer: iÙ°btida mai aulaad na honay ki khuwaish sahi hai lekin hamal ko girana jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #72 jadeed masael).
[Updated on 12-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Biwi Ke Pichlay Hissay Mein galti say chala jay to kaya hota

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(anal sex) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).
[Updated on 15-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Biwi Ke Pichlay Hissay Mein galti say chala jay to kaya hota

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(anal sex) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).
[Updated on 15-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr biwi humbistri na kry or br br larai Hony k bawajood wo ye Nahi krna chah Rahi... Kya krna chaiye.. Smjhaya b hy boht pyar sy or daant kr b... Lekin wo Nahi chahti .. Mujhy kya krna chaiye

Answer: agar koi aurat humbistri aur jinsi lazzaton k silsile mai shohar ka saath na day kar us ki khuwaish poori na karay tou us aurat k roti kapray makaan ka shohar zimedaar nahi hai.is k ilawa shohar us ko talaq daine ka haq bhi rakhta hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 2377)
[Updated on 23-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: کیا بیوی کو اپنے ساتھ سلانے کے لیے جگا سکتے ہیں جبکہ وہ بچوں کے ساتھ سو رہی ہو اور شوہر کو اس کے بنا نیند نہ آئے

Answer: Biwi k liay zaroori hai k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or share uzr(any Islamic reason,i.e : in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. Aur auratoo k hoqooq mai sai hai k mard isay aziat aur takleef nah pounchay aur kisi share wajah k baghair is k sath sakhti aur tarsh rawi sai pesh nah aay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2376).
[Updated on 29-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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