QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: meri umer 24 saal hy 2 din pehly meri shadi hue shadi ki first night meri wife ko bleeeding nhn hue meri wife ki umer 23 saal hy us ko bleeding nhn hue mgr dard bhohat hua kindly bleeding na huny ki waja bta dain or aik sawal or k mera azu -tanasul sakht halat main andar nhn ja pata agr main koshish kru tw us ko zeada tkleef hoti hy is lye main ny neem sakht halat main kia lekin andar jany k baad wo dubara sakht ho gya lekin phr b bleeding nhn hue meri height 5.4ft hy or azu-tanasul 5" hy jb k meri wife ki height 5.3ft hy kindly jaldi jawab dain

Answer: Shadi ki pehli rat aurat ko khoon ana zaroori nahi hai q k ho sakta hai k wo aurat kisi accident ki wajah sai apna kunwara pan khatm kar chuki ho. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : April 21, 2011). Update on dated 27-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Muhtaram Mulana Sahib, Mera app sey sawal yeh hai kh, merey shohar naheen chahtey kh aulad ho, kyon kh un ki pehley wife sey 3 buchey hain, magar main chahati hoon mujh ko Allah aulad ki naimat atta karey. aur jab bhi hamarey dermiyan humbistari hti hai us key bad woh yeh kehtey hain kh jaldi sey jaker bath main sab saaf ker lo, bucha naheen hona chahiye. Please mujh ko app quran-u-Sunnat ki roshni main batain kh main kya karoon. Meri umar 40 saal hai aur meri shaadi ko abhi 2 mah howey hain. I am waiting your fast reply on on my this e-mail address. Best regards

Answer: Shohar k liay jaiz hay k wo jima k doraan apni mani ko sharam gaah se bahar kharij karay laikin agar bivi razi nah ho tu aisa kerna makhrooh hay. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#3, maslah #10). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam o alaikum, ma ek shadi shuda aurat hu meray shohar ma aur muj ma abh sex hambistari wali koi bat nahi ha jab wo yahan bhi thay tu,abh wo bahir k mulk hutay hain, mujy yahan ek lerkay say pyar hu gaya ha hum miltay ha, hum dono ek dosray ki jinsi khawahish poori kertay hain...lakin aj tak kabhi intercourse nahi kiya... kia yah zina k zamray ma aata ha? aur agar kabhi mera shohar mujay chor day tu kia iddat k baad ma uss lerkay say shaadi ker sakti hu...(Allah maaf keray hamain...aameen) plz jawab zaroor dijiyay ga

Answer: (Aap k liye aysa krna kisi bhi surat men jaiz nahi hai q k aysa krna shohar ki khayanat or haq_talfi shumar hoti hai or agr intercourse nahi hua ho to ye zina nahi hai) Albatta shohar or biwi ka ek duasre k ilawa kisi or tariqe se jinsio lazzat hasil karna gunah_e_kabira hai. (Ref : Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) Isi tarh agr ek shadi shuda orat zina kre to Ehtiyate wajib ki bina pr wo us zina krne wale mard pr hmesha k liye Hram hojati hai, lekin shohar pr Hram nahi hoti). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2367). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: agar mard ka aza e tnasal aurt k fsrj me ba halat mjbori dakhil hoy bina e frj k bahir e farigh ho jai to kya aurat tb b ghusal e janabat kraygi k nhi.

Answer: Agr koi shakhs aurat se jimma (intercourse) kare or uzw e tanasul supari ki miqdar tak ya is se ziyada dhakil ho jay to chahae ye dkhool fraj (ugli sharam gah) me ho ya pichlay maqam me aur chahe wo balig ho ya na balig aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho dono junub ho jatay hein. (aur dono per ghusl e janabat wajib ho hata he). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (lekin agr bahir hi mard discharge horaha(or dakhil na ho) to faqt mard pr ghusl wajib hoga). (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 348). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya shoher apni biwi ki back ko choos sakta hai surah ko nahi sirf uske back ko answer me.

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mera sawal ya ha k may jab chota tha 10 saal ka tha tab 1 larke meray sath ghalat harkat krte the wo mera Lun muh may lete the may aus ko mana krta tha pr pher jab mujhay maza anay laga to may bhi adee ho gaya or aus waqat bhi kuch pani jesa nekalta tha jis say may releax ho jata tha pher maynay tobha ke or door hogaya in kamoo say..... kya is ka gunah ha kya?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430), Sache dil se toba karen. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=864 ) mani kharij honay say namaaz perhne k lie insaan per ghusal janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 356). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: 1.islam me sachha aur sahi sohbat ka sahi tarika kya hai?? 2.kya bivi penis ko chus sakti hai aur mard apni bivi ko pesab vali jagah ko chus sakta hai aur..kya bivi ke piche(gan) sohbat kar sakte hai aur..pak hone sahi taika kya hai.. 3.aur pregnancy me sohbat kar sakte hai.. 4.halal tarike aur haram kya hai

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ), Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15)
Biwi k peechay (back )k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay .Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera 3 saal say larki k sath affair chl rha ha or mainay usay wada bhe kya tha k main usay shadi kronga.hum dono k darmyan almost sab kuch ho chuka ha.ab problem ye ha k hum dono k ghr bhe sabko hum dono ka pta ha lakin meri family mjhy usay shadi krny ke ijazat nhi deti kuen k family difference bohat zyada ha uska family background financially weak ha or background village ka ha.is situation main mjhy kya krna chahye main ab bhe usay shadi krna chahta hon lakin ghar valon k against bhe nhi ja sakta kuen k main apnay maa baap ko naraz nhi krna chahta mjhy kya krna chahye?

Answer: Baap ya dada ki ijazat k baghair kunwari lerki nikah nahi ker sakti laikin baap ya dada us mard k sath usay shadi ki ijazat nah daitay hon jo mashray k lihaaz say aur shariat k lihaaz say us ki matching ka ho tu phir ijazat lena zarori nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2341). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). . Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: asalam u alykum bhai jan valima kab tak kiya ja sakta hy suhag raat k baad?

Answer: Nikah k baad kbi bhi valima keya jaskta hai. (ref:minhaj-us-saleheen,ayatollah Sistani d.b.,part#3,maslah#4). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kya behan k sath sex karna jaiz hai?wo toh mehrum hai....

Answer: Behen mehram hai aur us k sath sex kerna haram hai. (Tauzeh-ul-masail,ayatullah Sistan d.b.,33th edition,mslah#2349). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mein syed family se belong karti hun or shaia hun mein eak suni larkay se shadi karna chati hun par masala yaa hay kay wo khata hy apna firka change karo jo mein kisi surat nahi kar sakti mujhe guide line dy plzz wo koi fatfa lay aaya hy kay dona ko kisi eak firkay mein hona zaruri hy . main bat hy hum dono humbitsri kar chukay hy mein un ko dil se apna husband maan chuki hun or wo bhi ab iss masalay ka kiya hal hy

Answer: Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364)
Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahe hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: khalti sy may ny apni MRS ka milk pi liya ha 4 ~ 5 martba as sorht may mara nikha baqi ha ar us ka kufara kya ho ga

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) sakta hai, lekin agr shohar biwi ke breast ko suck kare aur moo men doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh na piya jaye (laikin nikah nahe toota ). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b)-E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir muje penis ki growth k liye koi wazifa btain jo main chalte phirte b parh sakoon mai bohat pershan hoon main poor hoon treatment nhi kerwa sakta

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k teerha (crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111). Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. Mushtzani (Handprctice) se bachen Q k ye haram hai or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat men jaiz nahi hai. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mara sawal ya hy k jab larki ko hamal hoo jaya to kya shor or biwi ko humbastri karni chaya agar karni chaya to kitna mahna tak karni chaya

Answer: Mustahab hai k jab biwi hamila ho to jimma karnay sai pehlay wazoo kia jay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5) Note : Is ki aur maloomaat k lie aap doctor ki taraf rajoo karain k bachay k lie nuqsan day to nahi hai(Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam main aik larki ko pasand karta hun aur main us k sath kissing wagaira kar chuka hun magar pura sex nhn kia ... to main us say shadi kar sakta hun kia...

Answer: Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta. ). (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30) ,(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir penis size kitna huna chayiea? ya kitna bv k andr daalna chyiea?

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k teerha (crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}). (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111). Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. Mushtzani (Handprctice) se bachen Q k ye haram hai or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat men jaiz nahi hai. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: my question is that Can an unmarried women do mutha nad if so then what are the requirements for it what she has to do than.

Answer: Jo larki baligh hochuki ho or apna bhala samjhti ho agr wo shadi(yani nikah daaimi ya nikahe Mutta) krna chahe or kunwari ho or apni zindagi k kam-kaj khud-mukhtari se anjam na deti ho to use chahiye k aone bap ya dada se ijazat le, balke ehtiyate wajib ki bina pr yehi hukm us laki k liye bhi jo apne kamkaj khud-mukhtari se anjam deti ho, albatta maa or bhai se ijazat lena lazim nahi hai). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, 31th Eddition, maslah #2341). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)

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Question: Mera sawal ye hai kay hamal tahranay kay liyee kin dino main biwi say sex karna zayada behtar hai.

Answer: Biwi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)

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Question: Bibi ke Sohar par kya kya hukuk hai sare hukuk bata dijiye Bibi ke Sohar ke kya kya kahna manna chahiye

Answer: Jis orat ki shadi hojaye us k liye shohar ki ijazat k bger ghr se bahir nikalna haram hai, mgr koi aham zarurat pesh ajaye ya ghar men rahna us k liye nuqsan ka bais ho ya ghar us k munasib na ho, or orat k liye ye bhi zaruri hai k jab shohar jinsi lazaten hasil krna chahe to uski khwahish puri kre or share waja k bger shohr ko hm-bisti se na roke. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, 31th Edition maslah # 2376). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). .

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Question: AGAR SIX MONTH TK HUSBAND APNI WIFE KI TARF RUJO NA KARE TO DEEN E ISLAM KIA KEHTA HAI

Answer: Shohar apni jawan biwi se 4 mahine se ziyada muddat k liye ham bistri tark (chhore) nahi kr sakta, Mgr ye k hmbistri krna us k liye nuqsandah ya both ziyada takleef ka baais ho ya uski biwi khud 4 mahine se ziyada muddat k liye hm bistri chhorne pr razi ho to phir harj nahi. Lekin agr ye sari baten shamil na hon to phir shohar k liye ye jaiz nahi hai). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, 31th Eddition, maslah #2382)Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye).

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Question: Salam alaikum : janab mere pahle bhi bohot se sawalat hai lekin abhi tak kisi ka koi jawab nahu mila please aap mujhe jald se jald mail se jawab de ( sawal ) agar orat halate haiz me hai or 3 , 4 , ya 5 din me khoon aana band hojaye magar usne ghusl na liya ho ya waqt poora hone ke baad bhi ghusl na liya ho to kya uske sath jima kar sakte hai ya uske ghusl karne ka intezar karna hoga please jald jawab de aapki bohot meharbani hogi

Answer: Orat k haiz se pak hojane k bad agrchhe usne ghusl na kiya ho uska shohar us se jima kr sakta hai lekin Ehtiyat_e_lazim ye hai sharmgah dhone k bad jima kiya jaye, or Ehtiyat_e_mutahab ye hai us orat k ghusl krne se pehle uska shohar se jima na kre). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, 31th Edition maslah # 457).Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye).

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Question: Agar koi aurat nikah m hote hue dusre admi se nikah karleti h to kya wo jayaz hai shariyat m is waqt k liye kya kaha gaya hai us aurat ko kya karna chahiye.....

Answer: Jee nahi ye jaiz nahi hai balke agar ek shakhs ye jante hue k orat shadi shuda hai or(us se shadi krna haram hai) us orat se shadi kre to zaruri hai k us orat se juda hojaye or bad men bhi us orat se nikah nahi krna chahiye. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448-451 eidition31). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: shadi wale din boolding aana zarori he ya nhi

Answer: Jee nahi ye zaruri nahi hai, q k baaz oraton ka parda-e-bakarat sakht hota hai or baaz ka naram hota hai, is liye ye zaruri nahi hai k hambistari se hi parda-e-bakarat phate balke ye mumkin hai k hambistari se pehle hi orat k kisi amal misal kahain se jump marne ya kisi or ayse amal ki waja se parda phat jaye, lehaza ye zaruri nahi hai k yehi nateeja nikala jaye k is oarat se pehle yehi kam sarzad hua hai jis ki waja se blood nahi nikal raha). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Ref:Email Recive From www.sistani.org site of Aqai Ssitani d.b) (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kia aik bivi k samny dousri sy humbistari kr sakty hain? Aur aik rt main 2 bivian aik kmry main rkh kr bari bari mubashrt kr sakty hain ?

Answer: Ager koi or haraam na ho raha ho raha ho kar sakte hai maslan aik biwi dosere biwi ki sharamgha na dhekhe kyu k aisa karna haraam hai albatta mian ,biwi aik dosere ka pura badan daikh sakte hain . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2400). Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: asslam alekum kya koi mard apni biwi sharmgah munh (mouth ) se suck kr sakta hai. kya aisa krna gunah hai..

Answer: Shohar or biwi ek dosray ki sharamgaah ko moo (mouth) laga saktay hain, mgr ye k sharamgah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaye). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya mard apni biwi ke sharmgah ko munh (mouth) se suck kr sakta hai. kya aisa krna kunah hai.

Answer: Ji han husband wife aik dusray ka pura jism daikh saktay hain,isi trha donu apnay jism k kisi bhi hissay sy dusray k badan k kisi bhi hissay ko touch kr saktay hain,lihaza kiss krna,penis aur breast suck krna jaiz hai.albatta zarori hai k liquid halaq sy nechay na utray). (Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1 , masla#11 and email received frm sistani.org). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A.o.a:San se pehle ap intazmia ka shukr gzar air DOA go hun.Allah apko jazaye khair due Sir muje 2 problim chain No,1 k mera a aye khas Adam halat me both chhota hot a by jese kisi bache ka 2inch take lanba hot a by shehwat ki surat me 5inch take.ye koi Marz kia please is ka half btayen Shu RYA 2usra;hambistri krte huwe sirf aada ya is she b kam waqt lagta by is a b koi ilaj btaen shukrya

Answer: 1) Jahan tk uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal hai, tu osay bs is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani aurat ki sharam gah) ko mutaharrik kar sakay or sub se ziyada hasaas(sensitive) sharam gah ka bahir ka hissa hota hai. Khaas tour per bazr(Clitoris) or os tk phochne k liay chota uzo(penis) bhi kafi hota hai. Laihaza penis ka chote bara(large) hone sai koi faraq nahi parta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bara(large) hona takleef ka sabab hota hai. (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,vakil e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ) 2) jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 3)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir me ne suhag rat k din apni bivi se meher dene ya maaf karane ki baat hi nai ki per wo jimma karne per razi ho gai thi ab us se poochte huwe sharm aati hy kia dil me niyat ker ke use meher de doon use batay bagher ke ye meher hy tumara

Answer: Bivi ko bataae baghair mehar dene se shohar ke uper se mehar dene ki zimmedaari katam ho jaati hai. (Ref: sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2383 Update on dated 24-11-2015). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Me aik larki se us ki maa ki ijazt se mohabat kar li. Us k bad me us ko namaz or nak kaam ki traf shadi ki nayeet se us ko banane laga.magir muje us ki batoo se laga k WO sex chati hai.or mare poochne par mare saat already koi insaan sex kar China hai. Me ne USSR Quran se strict promise liya Jo USne tor daya. Pher me ne dobarA wada liya usne phar toor diya.ab me doonu haat nor kar sawal karta ho k muje asi larki ko badwa dani chaye jab k 4 saal k ase relation k bad pher ysne kay deya me app se koi relation nahi rakna chati. Muje kya karna chaye jab k me usse choir bi nahi Pa raha or doosri larkian be nak koi nazar aati.please

Answer: Zina mai mashoor aurat k sath ehtiyate wajib ki bina par uskay toba krnay sy pehle shadi(mutah) krna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aslm o alikum.me ak larke ko psnd krti hun us ka name shoaib hy mere ghr waly mera rishta us k sath nahi kr rhe q k hm jutt hen or wo khokhar hen. plz meri madad kren mere abu razi ho jaen. koi solution bta dain jis se 100% kaam ho ja apka bht shukriya

Answer: Baap ya dada ki ijazat k baghair kunwari lerki nikah nahi ker sakti . (Ref:Ayatullah sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2341) , surah yaaseen ki tilawat kiya kare is me 10 barkate hai (us me se aik ye hai k ) jin ki shadi nahe hoi hai wo shadi shuda ho jaay ghe. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kya husband penis nikaly beghair 2,3 mertba farig ho skta ha ya her daffa manni saf keor k krskta ha plz guide me aur napaki ki halt ma khana peena haram hai plz answer as soon as possible

Answer: Aik jima k baad doosra jima baghair ghusl k kerna jaiz hay or makrooh nahi hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5). Mujnib shaks per khana pena haraam nahi balke makrooh hai, balke ager haath o moonh dhooh le or kulli karle to makrooh bhi nahi hai, or ager sirf haath dhoo le to karahiyat kam ho jay gi). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 355 , (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya msg pe talaq hojati hy?

Answer: Talaaq nahe hoghe . (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah# 2462 to 2464 & pg#460). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: swal,plz plz urgent reply 1 kea husbnd 4 mah tak hambisstri na kry to tlaq hti ha ya ne? 2 kea ase larki sa muta kea ja skta ho 2 sal sa husbnd sa nraz ho,or bap k gher ho?

Answer: Talaaq nahi ho gi . aurat shadi shuda hai aur shadi shuda aurat se nikah karna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2464 ,2366,2486). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Bhai saab mera taluq ek muhazab gharane se hai, meri biwi bohut modern hai kya main apni biwi ke sharam gah choom sakta hun.

Answer: jaiz hai (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: apni biwi ki saramgah ko chumna haram hai magar apne aapko rok nahi pata hu kiya karu

Answer: Miyan biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. ). (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Love karne ka kya hukm hai

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se love karna jaiz nahi hai). (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir mera sawal ye hai k ek mard apni bv ka dood kai bar pi chuka hai kya us pe uski bv haram ho gai hai ya nai or kya dood pina jaiz hai ya nai.?

Answer: Ye bivi apne shohar per haraam nahi hai or ye dono ik dosre ke nikha main baqi hai garche ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per bivi ka dood pena jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2438 , 2349 to 2375 ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Janab mera sawal hi ki kiya ek ladka apne bhai ki biwi s nikah kar skta hai talaq k baad.jab k uski khud ki bhi shadi ho gai ho.masla bas itna sa hai ki jo ladki hi uski usse banti nhi hai or jo ladka hai uski uski biwi s banti nhi hi to kiYa dono ek dosre ko talaq de kar shadi kar skte hain. Mujhe is masle ka jawab nhi mil raha hai.. Or mujhe usko jawab dena zarori hai

Answer: Jee haan ker sakte hen). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2349 , (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalamualaikum. mera masla ye hai k mere shoher jinsi taur per kamzor hai aur mai khula lena chahti hu q ki ab humare darmiyan ek khamoshi ke siwa kuch nahi raha wo meri traf dhyaan bhi nahi deta mai bas uske gher ki naukrani jaisi hu ab mujhe uske saath nhi rehna mgr sab gher wale majboor kr rhe hain mai kya kru uska rawaiyya bhi laperwahi wala hai mai khush nhi hu kya krun?

Answer: Rasool khuda (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Ager ap un ke sath apne rawaiye o aklaak (jese bolne ka andaaz, un ki zaroriyaat ki chezoon ka kayaal wageera) acha bana lain to wo ap se mohabbat karne lagain gi. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kia agar sirf nikah howa ho or ruksati na hoi ho..or haq mehar b ada na kia gea ho aisy soorat mien talaq jaiz hai...

Answer: Jee han jaiz hai, or ager jima (hambistari) na kiya ho to aadha mehar dena hoga pura mehr dena wajib nahi hai). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Ref : minhaaj ul saleheen , part # 3 , masala # 313 ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aslam wlikum sir mujh muth {hand jop} zyda marta hn hafte ma 3 ya 4 bar plz plz mujh wazifa bataen take meri ye adat door ho jae...????????

Answer: Istimna (hand job) karna haram Aur ghuna kabeera hai. (ref:minhajus sualeheen , aqa sistani, part no 1 , masla no:30,eidition 2009) , jo shakhs shadi na krne ki waja se haram kamon men mubtala hojaye us pr wajib hai shadi krle. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2407), Suche dil se tuba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 371). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Aslam.0.alaikum...sir mara swal ye hai ki maa ek namazi bnda h0n..laken mujh sa din ma 2 ya 3 br jb tak maray khawshat d0r nai krta mujha skun ni milta...or jab ma rat ko sota hon tou mari mangtar sa bt hoti ha text pa...ham donun ek dosary ko bhot ziada chahty han jb wo mujha khti han ke pyar krun tou mara khwashat phr sa ubrny lgty han..sir plz tel me ma kia kron ??

Answer: jo shakhs shadi na krne ki waja se haram fel men mubtala ho to us pr wajib ho k shadi krle). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2407). Mangeter se kisi bhi terhan jinsi lazzat hasil (chahe bato ke zarye ya dekhne ke zarye) karna jaiz nahi hai.q k jab tak apka nikah nahi hota tab tk wo ap k liye na mehram hai). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (). Update on dated 24-11-2015. ). Update on dated 24-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: SALAM : shadi ke baad aurto ke kia haquq hai sub ko ilm hai magar mard ke kia haquq hai aurat ke lye mard aurto ke is haquq ko ada kare... agha shab aaj kaal mard bhout ziada apne haquq ko galat use kar rahe hai aur humare yah itna ilm nahi aurto ke pass ap mujhe jald jald se reply kar ke bata deh haquq mard ke apni wife lye

Answer: Bivi ki ghiza, libaas, rihaaish or zindagi ki baqi tamaam zaroriyaat shohar per wajib hai, or is hi terah shohar per wajib hai k bagair kisi sharee uzr k bivi se sakht kalami or us ko aziyat na pohchaein. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2376) Update on dated 28-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salamz mera sawal ye hai k agar biwi ka shadi se pehle koi affair raha ho lekin zina na kia ho matlab sirf hath pakra ho ya gale lagaya ho lekin shadi se pehle biwi ne shohor ko nae bataya ab shohor biwi se alam e abbas pe le jakar kasam uthwae to kia biwi jhooti kasam kha sakti hai?

Answer: 1)Doosro k saamne apne gunah ka iqraar kerna jaiz nahi hay). Update on dated 28-11-2015. (Ref:Mujtahid se poche gay sawalaat, part#2, pg#88). 2)Jhoti qasam khana jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2638). Jins e mukhalif sai dosti karna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Is bina per ap ko apne shohar ke sath dil se rehna chahiye or koi esa kaam nahi karna chahiye jo un ko ap per shak ki muhlat de. 4) Aap ko chahiay k aap tauriyah karain, yani aise alhaaz istemaal karain k jis se wo khuch samjhain aap ki muraad khuch or ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2638) Update on dated 28-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Dear Sir, Iam doing my job in Kish Island Here work rotation is like three months work and one month is rest. Due to my job there are many issue in my faimly life. My wife which is also Government Teacher she demanded from me, 1- Resign from your job and stay with children three years which are aged three year and four year. 2- Or you dont return to Pakistan for three years and keep away from faimly as the my children are suffering. 4- I built the house for my faimly and they are not agreed to live there where the neighbours are also here relative. She demanded from me If you wil stay there I wil stay with you otherwise I wil stay in my Mother's house. 5- My life is badly damaged due to contradictions andf dispute. Please answe me.

Answer: The husband can not leave jima to her wife above 4 months. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2382). You should live with your family. And about the job so find out the next job, and for it act on this wazifa that perform namaz two rakat like namaz of fajar, in first rakat recite aayat no 59 of sura e maaedah after receiting sura e al hamd, and in second rakat after sura e al-hamd recite aayat no 60 of sura e al maaedah, and after performing the two rakat of namaaz, read 1 tasbeeh of astaghfirul laaha alghafoorar raheem, then tell the ALLAH to your requirements, INSHALLAH ALLAH give you the best job). Update on dated 28-11-2015. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 46 , (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir; hmara nikah hogaya hai or hm ek dosre se jima bhi karte hain jab k hamari rukhsati abhi nahi hoi hai to kia asa karna halal hai ya nahi plz mijhe bateen

Answer: ye dono nikha k baad hasband o wife hain, lekin ager riwaaj ye ho ke jab tak ruksati nahi hoti us waqt tak larki apnea p ko apne shohar ke liye pesh nahi karti, is terhan ke is ko goya ik zimni shart samjha jata ho to phir orat per apne is shohar ki is muaamle main itaat wajib nahi hai. (Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , part # 4 , masala # 150) Update on dated 28-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Agar shohar Bv ko ignore kray aur Bv k baar bar bulanayat per b usk qareeb na aye,even mahinay say zada sex k liye b na aye tou Bv ko kya krna chahiye aur shohar ko gunnah hay ya nai

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark nahi karsakta magar ye k hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2382), Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404) ) Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kya hum apni biwi ke sharamgaah ko kiss karsakte hai, or kya vo hamare sharamgaah kiss karsakti hai,

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya husbend wife janabat k bad ikthay(dono aik sath) ghusal kr sktay hain?? hadith ki roshni ma jwab dain...

Answer: Shohar aur biwi aik dosere k sath ghusl karsakte hain. Shohar aur biwi aik doosray ka pura badan dekh saktay hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 379, 2400). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamualaikum.....ji Mera sawal yeh hai ke biwi ke sath makam e dubur (anal sex) Islam Mai jaiz hai ya nahi isky karny se nikah tut jata hai kya.....kai ulema kahty h ke yeh sakht mana ha haram hai isey krny se Allah ki lanatey barasti hai or esy logo pe Allah apna karam nahi farmata Kai ulema is baat ki bhi talqeed krty hai ke isy krny se nikah tut jata hai...mai bhot preshan hun kis baat ko mana jaye sabsey sahi kya hai plzz AP mjhy jld se jald bataye....sukriya

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 21-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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