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Topic: Nigah Daalne Ke Ahkam (53 Questions)

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78614
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam agr koi larka kisi larki ky sth drma kr rha h pyar ka or wo usko use karta rhy phr wo shadi ky sary waday tor kar apni family ki marzi sy shadi kr ly to kia is my gunnah or saza dono ko mily ge

Answer: Na-mehram say izhar-e-muhabbat kerna haram hai or is k muqadimaat(starting step) haram hain. (Ref: book nigah aur libaas,pg#69,mafhoom e maslah#106). Update on dated 27-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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78288
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: agr ik esa insan jis sy maa bapp ny mangni ki ho or larki larka apny ap ko dil sy ik dosry sy suchy ho or ik dosry sy mill ly uska kitna guna ha or us guna sy kesa bacha ja skta h

Answer: Mangeter mard k liay namehram hoti hai aur mard apni mageter se jinsi lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone k khouf k baghair saaf sutri phone per ya aam halat me baat cheet kar sakta hai or aap ka os se hath milana ya os ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah khumeni(r.a), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #2429). Update on dated 17-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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77958
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar koi mard mar gaya ho gusl ke baad deedar karwate h toh us waqt jo aurte rishtedaar nahi hai kiya woh aurto ko deedar karna jayaz h yaa nahi

Answer: Namehram aurat merd k jism k on hisso maslan sar, dono hatho or dono pindliyo per jinhain umoman merd nahi chupatay, lazzat k irade k baghair daikh sakti hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2397). Update on dated 08-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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77412
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia Kesi larke say sachi mohabbat krna Islam mai jaiz nai ?? Or agr aurat mard se beintaha mohabbat krti ho uske leye khud Ko badal dai jaiz nai ?or agr wo aurat mard k sath lagti hai usse chumti hai wo bhi pyar krta phir usse chordeta hai toh wo kia karay?

Answer: Na-mehram say izhar-e-muhabbat kerna haram hai or is k muqadimaat(starting step) haram hain. Update on dated 11-11-16. (Ref: book nigah aur libaas,pg#69,mafhoom e maslah#106). Update on dated 23-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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77359
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mujhe ek larki pasand ai hai main us se kese kahon k main us se mohobbat KARTA hn

Answer: Jins e mukhaalif(opposite sex) sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pohanch jaey, ye jaiz nahi hai Q k ghunah mai mubtila honay ka khoof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106, Mafhoom e pg # 69). Update on dated 21-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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76323
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Question: Mny apny friend sy jhoot bol k khuda ki kasam uhta di keo k bd m bht fassad bn jata is ly jhooti kasam uhta li kya ye gunnah ha

Answer: Agar koi shakhs qasam khaye aur agar jooth bool raha ho to haram he, laikin is k koe kaffara nahi hota hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2634, 2638) . Update on dated 04-28-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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74603
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Question: assalam o alaikum sir mera swal ye hai k kiya orat dosri orat ka jism dekh skti hai jesy cheast sometime bhny ek dosry k samny kapry chnge kr lti hai etc

Answer: Lazzat k baghair aik aurat doosri aurat ka poora badan daikh sakti hay siwaey sharam gaah (i.e vagina & anus)k. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, part#3,Mafhoom e Maslah #12). Update on dated 17-12-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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74555
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Question: kya ghair mehram larki say kiss karnay k baad gusal wajib ho jata hai. aur agar is doran koi qatray a jain to Gusal wajib hai ya nahe?

Answer: 1)Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona ya kiss kena haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair aur chahay baad mai shadi hi Q nah karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397). 2) Mazi k qatre paak hote hain, or in k nikalne se wuzu bhi nahi tootta. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #70). Update on dated 16-12-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
72674
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: ager larka larki aik dosre se nikah ka irada rakhte hon to nikah se pehly kis had tak wo batain kar sakte hen ?kiya unka messages ke zariye kiss karna jaiz he kiya Wo aik dosre se mohabbat Qaim rakhne k liye (i love you )leh sakte hen ?

Answer: Agar darmeyaan me esi baten na ki jaen jo aik musalman ke shayan e shan nhy hen to koi haraj nahi hay.(Ref: Mujtahid se poshy gae sawalat , part# 4 , sawal#124). Update on dated 17-09-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
72683
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia na mahram larki ki tasveer ko dekhna(jab k lazt ka irada na ho) jaiz hai jb ko shrae tor pr mukamil hijab mn ho

Answer: Agar tasweer men khatoon hijab k sath ho our lazat ka irada na ho,or haram me perhny ka khoof nah ho,fitna peda hony ka andisha bhi nah ho to jaiz hay.(Ref: Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawallat Part#4 pg#66, sawal #129 ). Update on dated 17-09-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
70295
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: jnb Adb mujhy ik ladki s pyar ho gya mgr vo mujsy km pyar krti koi dua btao jo usk dil m sirf pyar paida ho jy

Answer: • Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas aqa sistani ,sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Rasool allah ne farmaya: surah yaaseen ki tilawat kiya kare is me 10 barkate hai (us me se aik ye hai k ) jin ki shadi nahe hoi hai wo shadi shuda ho jaay ghe. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18). Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
70296
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamalaikum Mera question yeh k my ek ladke se bahut zyada pyar krti hoon aur o bahut acha ladka hai aur hum alehda alehda state me rehte hain aur hum fb pr mile teh aur hum ek dusre k baghair reh nhi sakte humare bich her roz batein hote hain lekin koi shaoq k nhi sirf islamic discussion chalti hai aur bus haal chal aur hum ek dusre se bahut pyar krte hain lekin aaj tak koi b haram kaam me mubtela nhi howe...... Humare ghar wale hume kabhi b shadi krne nhi denge kyun k onhe hum dono ka rishta pasand nhi hai Plz aap kch aesa wazifa bataiye jisse hum bina koi tension k ek hojaein Plz ans jaldi dijiye koi wazifa bata dijiye... Jazakallah

Answer: • Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas aqa sistani ,sawal # 106 pg # 69) • rasool allah ne farmaya: surah yaaseen ki tilawat kiya kare is me 10 barkate hai (us me se aik ye hai k ) jin ki shadi nahe hoi hai wo shadi shuda ho jaay ghe. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18) . Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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72257
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Question: Larki sy bat karnay kay dorana light pani ky 1 2 qatray nikalny sy ghusal wajib hojata hy kia ?

Answer: Nahmehram se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho koi haraj nahi hai lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haraam me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram hai. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) Wo ratubat jo khabi khabi shehwat ubhrnay par mard ki penis sai kharij hoti hai osay mazi kehtay hain, wo pak hai. Agar kise shaks k badan se kohe ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho k mani hai ya phishab ya kohe aur chease ,agar wo ratubat shewat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan soos ho ghaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai aur namaaz k lie ghusal karna zarori hai.laikin agar in 3 ealamaat me se sari ki sari ya khuch moujood na ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahe aai ghe.aur ghusal wajib nahe hoga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #,,70,1553,344,345 ). Update on dated 22-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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71806
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mai ek ladke se be imteha mohobat karta hu uske dil me mere leye kya hai pata nahi lekin mai jab use dekhta hu to wah be mughe dekhate hai aaisa karib 6 saal se chal raha hai mera dil uske liye seese ke trah saaf hai kya ayesa karna gunah hai

Answer: Jo shakhs shadi nah kernay ki wajah sai feil e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi kerna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407) . Update on dated 26-06-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70562
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Question: Mara sawal ya hai k ma apni Bhabi ko pyare sa haat (hand) ma ya face (cheeks) ma kiss kr sahkta ho ya nai? Magar ma unhe maa k barabar samjta ho. Ma unhe apni maa ki nazar sa dakhta ho. Kia un ko bhosa Dana sahi hai ya nai?

Answer: Bhabhi na-mehram hain or on ko choona ya onka boosa laina haram hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #). Update on dated 30-03-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70564
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamo -alaikum , sir i am a nuse in burn ward where patients are in critical condition, means semi conscious, unconscious and in painful condition . can i touch male patients arms, lower legs ,hands or feet without wearing gloves?

Answer: It is unlawful. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Jadeed Fiqhi masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #529). Update on dated 30-03-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70608
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Question: Ek ladka aur ladki ek dusre se pyaar karte hai aur unki shaadi bhi hone wali ho tho wo dono bat kar sakte hai kya

Answer: Is terah sai bhai bananay sai wo larka mehram nahi banay ga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-2406). Update on dated 26-03-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
70233
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamu Alekum...pehla sawal a hai ke meri ek girl friend hai aur mai usse physical relation banachuka hoon. lekin zina nahi kiya hai. kiss karna sharmgah ko chuna zina hai? aur dusri baat a hai ke mai jabbi apne nafs ko kaabu nahi kar paata to usse sex ke baate karleta hoon aur sex videos dekleta hoon....mai apne aap par kaabu nahi kar paata. mai karun aur kaise apne gunahon ki maafi maangun aap please batayiye mujhe.

Answer: 1)Mard k liay na-mehram aurat k tamaam badan or baal ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #12,16) , Eidition 1427 hij). 2)Ehtiyat e wajib ki bina per fehash filmo aur tasweero ka dekhna haram he, agarchah shak aur lazzat k baghair dekha jaey. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani, Jadeed faqhi masael , Mafhoom e maslah # 463 , Pg # 254 , Eidition# 5). Update on dated 05-03-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
69545
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Na meharam ka ek dosray ko hath lagana ya bosa dena is ka kafara kya hai astagfaar k sath?

Answer: Na-mehram ko hath lagana ya os ka boosa laina haram hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), nigah or libas,Mafhoom e Maslah #109). Update on dated 27-01-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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69179
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Question: QIBLA ORAT KA PARDA KESA HONA CHAHYE? KIYA ISLAM MN MON(FACE)KO KHOLNE KA HUKM HE?MTLAB SARE JISM KO DHAMPNA HE CHEHRE KO KHULA CHORNA HE?

Answer: Aurat ko chahye k sar k baal aur apna badan na-mehram mard se chupay lekin na-mehram mard k samnay chahra aur kalaiyon tk hath khulay rakh sakti hai leikin is surat mai haram mai mubtila honay ka khoaf ho ya kisi mard ko hath or chehra dekhana haram mai mubtila krnay k iraday sai ho to in donoo suratoo mai in ko chupana wajib hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 22-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
161
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Can i show top and bottom parts of my feet to non family members? Is it permissable or is it better not to do?

Answer: If the non family members are your "Mehrams" then it is allowed. But if they are "Na-Mehrams" then it is not permissable.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
948
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salaam,mera sawal yeh hai key main balig hoon aur mera cousin na balig hai to kya mera os key samney parda karna wajib hai ya nahi

Answer: Aihtiyaat e lazim ki bina par apna badan aur aar k Baal us larkay say bhi chupaey jain jo abhi baligh to na hoa ho laikin achay aur buray ko samajhta ho aur aihtimaal ho k aurat kay badan par us ki nazar parhnay say us ki jinsi khwaahish baidaar ho jaey ge,Is k alawa main na-baligh say badan chupana wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
1109
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni

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Question: in hijab kiya yeh zaroori hai kay apna munh poora chupaya jaye

Answer: Aurat kay liye zaroori hay kay apna badan aur baal Na Mehram say chupaey Laihaza iskay alawa main chehra aur kalaiyoo tak haath chupana zaroori nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399) Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)..

Id:
1414
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: agar paishani par baal ziada hoon to kiya usay chupana zaroori hay?

Answer: Sar k baal chupana wajib hain. Laikin agar paishani per zaa,ed baal ugay hoon tu onko chupana wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2538
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Is it permisible to wear Hijab with long coat till knee and lover jeans(not skin tite) with scarf? and how is it to cover chin with scarf?

Answer: It is permisible to wear Hijab with long coat till knee and lover jeans (although skin tight) with scarf,if her sensitive parts of body(like bottom and breast) is not seen convexly.it is permissible for women to open faces and some part of chin which is seen when a woman wear scarf normaly.(Ref: jaded fiqhi masail Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) maslah # 508,530) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2537
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah Behjat

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Question: Kya girls jeans(skin tite nahi) pahansakti hai?

Answer: Ehtiyaat e wajib hay k aurt, merd ka makhsoos libaas nah pehnay os isi terah merd ,aurt ka makhsoos libaas nah pehnay.(Ayat ullah Behjat, Nigah or libaas,sawal#178). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2569
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamo-Alaikum, Khawateen Ka Apney Chehrey ke Bal(Face) Jo Nikaltee Hain Ya Saf Kertee Hain, Ye Jayez Hey? Iltemas-e-Dua

Answer: Khawateen Ka Apney Chehrey (face) k baal saaf Kerna or abroo (eye-brow) ko sidah kerna jaiz hay. (ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani (d.b), Jadeed fiqhi masail, Maslah #513) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2462
Mujtahid:
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Question: salam islam main orat ko balo ke sath chehre ko bhi chopana chahiye

Answer: Khawateen kay liye na mehramoo say chehray aur hatho ki alahiyon (palms) kay alawa baqi tamam badan aur baloo ka chupana zaroori hay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Mujtahid say pochay gay sawalaat, Book-1 Q.No.140) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2579
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah Behjat

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Question: ladki kab jawan hoti hai?

Answer: Qamari saal (Islamic calendar) k 9 saal pooray ho janey pr larki baligh ho jati he. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #8). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2748
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: 64 years khatoon ko parda karna wajib hoga

Answer: Wo khwateen jin per perdah wajib nahi is ka miyaar umar nahi hay.is silsilay main khuch umar raseedah kawateen khuch kawateen say mukhtalif hoti hain.balkeh is baat ka miyaar wohi hay jo quraan main biyaan howa k ‘umar raseedah honay ki wajah say on main nikah ki khaahish or rujhaan nah rahay to is surat main parda saqit hojata he.( Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #509). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
5120
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mera sawaal ye hai k larki pe parda kab wajib hota hai?aur agar koi 5saal ki bachi ki sharamgha ko dekhay koi namehraam to os bachi ko gunaah milayga?ya osko chuaye?

Answer: 1)Jab qamari saal (Islamic calendar) k mutabiq 9 saal mukammal hojain tu larki per perdah or is ki ilawah digar tamaam wajibaat bhi lazim hojatay hain. (http://www.sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=68 ) 2)Ghair mumaiyaz per perday k ehkam nahi hain. Or baghair lazzat k in ki sharam gaah per nazar kerna or onko chuna jaiz hay. (Ref :Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #23). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
2965
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: kya thori k neechay ka hisah jo maqna phentey waqat mamoolan khula reh jata hai us ka chupana zaroori hai.

Answer: Wajib nahi. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 519 pg # 269). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
3035
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam.mera sawal ye he k agar kici ka face naturally attractive ho tu kia usko cover krna wajib he jab k cover karne se usko yaqeen ho k isko bura samjha jata he aur loog deen se door horahe hn aur usko pata ho k face cover karne se wo logo ki nazron me ziada ayegi yani shurat ka sabab he tu kia kare,ya bhi bata dije k seestani sahab k yaha face cover krna ahtiat wajib he agar han tu phir me sistani sahab k baad kis marje ki taraf rujo kar sakti hn means yani kece pata chale ga k sistani sahab k baad kon aalum he jis ki taraf hum ruju karen?plz mujhe is sawal ka jawab zaror chahye

Answer: Aurat namehram merd k saamne chehra or kalaeyo tak hath khule rakh sakti hay,laikin agar aap ko haram main mubtila hone ka khoof ho ya kisi merd ko (hath ya chehra) dikhana haram main mubtila kerne k irade se ho tu in dono soorto main inko chupana wajib hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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3160
Mujtahid:
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Question: If a ten years old boy is not mumayyaz, is it neccessary for a women to do hijab from him?

Answer: As an obligatory precaution, women should conceal herself even from a Na-baligh boy who is able to discern between good and evil, and could probably be sexually excited. But If he is not mumayyaz then its not necessary to conceal. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2399) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
3158
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: How much make up is allaowed for ladies?

Answer: It is lawful for ladies to do makeup.But it is obligatory (wajib) for them to conceal their face from Na-mehram men. (Ref : A.Sistani(d.b),Sawalaat or jawabaat 10 maraja e karam k fatwoo k mutabiq, pg#96, sawaal#161). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
3157
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam! Is light make up which is Invisible and just brings freshness on the face, No lipstick, no eye make up, just light face powder and cream) allowed for ladies in a public gathering?

Answer: If makeup and powder so light that which are not consider as a cosmetic(i.e zeenat) then it is permissible for women to open their face in front of Na-mehmam men.but if you do this work(using light makeup and powder) with intention of cosmetic perpose(i.e zeenat) then it is obligatory to conceal their faces from na-mehram men. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 136, pg # 68). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
16311
Mujtahid:
Aayattula shishtani

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Question: Kisi b ladki ko hijab kis had tak wajib hai.jaise wo apne sister ke husband k samne bina parde ke ja sakti hai ke nahi.

Answer: Sister ka shohar na-mehram hai aur aurat ko chahiay k sar k baal aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chupaey laikin na-mehram mard k samnay chehra aur kalaiyoo tak hath khulay rakh saklti hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
19257
Mujtahid:
Quran and Sunnah

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Question: Kia meri biwi ko maray bayo aur bahno kay baito say parda karna zaroori ha?

Answer: Sohar k bhetijay aur bhanjay os ki biwi k lie na mehram hain. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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15559
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Question: Khawateen k lie parday ka hukam Quran Pak ki kis surat mai nazil howa...?

Answer: Aurtoon k liay perday ka hokum quran main Sorah e noor(sorah #24) ki ayat# 31 main hay. (Ref: quran: Sorah e Noor ayat#31). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)

Id:
62419
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Question: Aslam o alikum sir mera sawal hai k orat ko kin kin say naqab krna caheya kea usy apny husband k bhai mamu chahu wagera say niqab krna frz hai or orat ko kesy niqab krna caheya or agar wo join family main rahti ho to kea apny husband k bhaio say niqab krna frz hai please sir mujhe answer dyn quran o sunnat ki roshni main

Answer: Aurat k lie us k shohar ka bhae ,shohar ka mamoo, shohar ka chacha namehram hain aur namehram se aurat ko perda karna wajib hai . Albatta aurat k shohar ka baab,dada, baita, aurat k lie mehram hain aur aurat k lie in mardo se perda karna waajib nahe hai aurat ko chahiay k sar k baal aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chupaay laikin na-mehram mard k samnay chehra aur kalaiyoon tak hath khule rakh saklti hai leikin is surat mai haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya kise mard ko hath aur chehra dekhana haram mai mubtila krnay k iraday sai ho to in dono suratoo mai in ko chupana wajib hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2354, 2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
60325
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Asalam o alaikum.kia koi larki hijab mai bahir ja sakte hai jis k baal nai sirf chehra nazar aye?kia female baghair chat k nimaz ada kr sakti hai?aur kia ek baligh larki na mehram se hath mila sakte hai baghair kise najaiz khwahish k? Mola e kainat a.s aap ko khush raky.

Answer: 1)Aurat ko chahye k sar k baal aur apna badan na-mehram mard se chupay lekin na-mehram mard k samnay chahra aur kalaiyon tk hath khulay rakh sakti hai leikin is surat mai haram mai mubtila honay ka khoaf ho ya kisi mard ko hath or chehra dekhana haram mai mubtila krnay k iraday sai ho to in donoo suratoo mai in ko chupana wajib hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). 2)Aurat khulay asman k nichay namaz parh sakti he. Albatta aurat k lye behter ye he k esi jagha namaz parhe jo na mehram se mehfooz hone k etebar se zyada mehfooz ho. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #777, 881). 3)Aurat k liay na mehram se hath milana jaiz nahi siwaay ye k dermiyaan main kaprha ya koe rukawat ho. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani, Jadeed faqhi masael , Mafhoom e maslah # , Pg #271 , Eidition# 5). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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61320
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Question: QUESTION. ISLAM MEIN AURAT KA BAYAN YA NAMAZ KE LIYE ANA JAYEZ HAI YA NAHI TAFSIL SE BATAYEYE?

Answer: 1)Behter hai k aurat esi jagah namaz pharay jahan na-mehram nah hoon. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #881). 2)Ager Sharai (Islamic) parda mukammal ho or is ki awaaz lazzat ko ubhaarne wali nah ho or guhnah main mubtila hone ka koof bhi na ho to taqreer o bayaan jaiz hai. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 3 , Question # 89 , pg # 61). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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57949
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Question: assalam o alaikum....me ne 3 sawal puchne hai k 1. ager hum bahir jate hue niqab kren lekin acdamey me naqab utar den to kia ye sehi hai q k chand din hi hue hai niqab krna shuru hue? 2. kia eye liner lgana sehi hai jb k hum apne lie lga rhe hon..? 3. kia assalam 0 alaikum ki jga salam khna sehi hai..?

Answer: Na-mehram merd k samne chehra or hathaili khoolna jaiz hay. Baqi tamaam badan or baal chupana waib hain. Or khawateen k saamne bay perda hona jazi hay. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 5 , sawaal no # 131 , pg # 84). 2 – Sahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3 , sawaal # 132). 3 – Sahi hai (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 1 , Maslah # 677 , eidition # 1st). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
5624
Mujtahid:
Ayatollah Nasir Makarim Sheerazi

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Question: Is it allowed to wear tight burqas or hijab ?

Answer: Agar is se badan k hassas hisse mujassam(embossed) ho ker zahir hote hoon ya naazreen k jinsi ehsasaat baraanghikhatah hote (ubharte) hoon tu jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Nigah o libaas,aqa makarim sherazi, pg,82,87 ). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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51675
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Question: assalam o aalikum sir g agr insan k c sy bepana pyar kary bat kary pyar ka kahy k ma tum sy bht lobe karti ho to kya larka yaqen na kary wo kahay k agr tm muj sy love karti ho to apny kapry uatar do to kya pyar ma ya sb khuc jaize hai pyar ma insan ko qurbaniya day dani chyea?

Answer: Ye jaiz nahi hai kisi bhi surat men q k orat ko chahiye k wo sar k baal or apna badan na-mehram mard se chupaye. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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10586
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Question: kay outart ko qabar par lany ki ijazat ha?

Answer: Gee haan, orato ka qabrstan jana jaiz hai, peer k din, jumeraat k din khususan sham k waqt or hafte ko subah k waqt qabrustan jane ki takeed warid hui hai. (Ref: Mujtahid se Puche gaye sawalat, Ayatul_Allah Sistani(d.b) Part#3,Pg#85,Ques#202). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)

Id:
46477
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Question: kia ek larki dosri larki k sath lip kissing ker sakti haiaur os k opar lait sakti hai? muj sai ye galti ho gae hai aur mai bht sharminda ho ab kia karoo

Answer: Shehwat(Lazzat) ki niyat se aurat ka aurat ko galay lagana, oska bosa lina or os se cherh charh kerna haram hay agarchah in k darajaat mukhtalif hain.(Ref:Jadid fiqhi masail,maslah#515, edition#2003). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
46480
Mujtahid:
ayatullah seestani

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Question: aurat k zahiri parday ka kia hukam hay?? hijab kafi hay ya niqaab karna zaruri hay?

Answer: Zarori hai k aurat apnay sir k baal aur apna badan na-mehram merd say chupaey laikin chehra aur hathon ko kalaiyo tak khula rakha jasakta hai. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
47097
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Question: Kya BURKHA pahanna Compulsary hai According to ISLAM ???

Answer: Burqa pehanna wajib nahi hai faqat aurat ko caheay k sar k baal aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chupay laikin na-mehram mard k samnay chahra aur kalaion tk hath khulay rakh saklti hai leikin is surat mai haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya is mard ko hath aur chehra dekhana haram mai mubtila krnay k iraday sai ho to in donoo suratoo mai in ko chupana wajib hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
43456
Mujtahid:
Gunah

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Question: Salaam. Kya zasa he jab girl apni body kisi ladke ko dihaje (no sex only body)? Kesi muaafi mangni chahye ?

Answer: 1)Kisi mard k samnay aurat apnay body parts zahir nahi kar sakti hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 501, pg # 265) 2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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40463
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Question: Kya me net pe ladkiyo ke tasweer deksakta hun

Answer: Agar mard be-hijab na-waqif aurat ki tasweer lazzat k iraday aur gunah aur kisi bhi fasad mai mubtila honay k khof k baghair dekhay to koi haraj nahi.warna haram he. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 41). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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32535
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Question: Asslam o alikum Mufti sahab ... mera apse ye sawal hai k kya behnoi Se b Parda lazim hain? tafseel Se Bata dijiye.. Please

Answer: Behnoi na mehram hai aur aurat ko chaheay k chehray aur hatho ki kalahiyo k alawa sar k baal aur apna badan na mehram mard sai chupay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
31062
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: mje ye question puchna hy k islam me naqab must hy ya hijab? agar koi larhki sirf hijab kare or naqab na kare to is bare me islam kya kehta hy? humein kya karna chahye? sirf hijab ya naqab? q k ek taraf islam me ye b hy k sir se pair tak female k liye parda must hy...

Answer: Aurat k lie zaroori hai k chehray aur hathoo ki kalahiyon (palms) k alawa sar k baal aur badan na-mehram mard sai chupay. Laikin aurat na-mehram mard k samne chehra aur kalaiyo(wrist) tak hath khulay rakh sakte hai. Laikin is surat me k haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya kisi mard ko dekhana haram me mubtila karne k irade sai ho to phir hath aur chehray ko chupana wajib hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
61933
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: as salam o alaikum wa rahma tul lahe wabarakatuh, aaj kal ALI SHANAWAR jesi shakhsiyat bohat maqbool ho rahi hai shia girl's main hum chund larkiun ka group hai jo iss bath par muttafiq hain k ALI SHANAWAR larkoun ko dykhna jaez nahi hai , agar hum kisi larki ko samjhany ki koshish karty hain to wo nahi manti humyn koi aesa mazboot link chahiye k hum iss kaam say un ko rokyn, aap ayetullah seestani ka chund futwy deegiye k hum inn say un ko rokyn , ba'azz oqa'at hum nay suna k uss ki{ALI SHANAWAR} judai main larkiyan khudkushi karna chahti hain, KIUN k wo austrailia , victoria , main rehta hai, larkiyan uss ko I LOVE YOU , kehti hain orr kafi had tak by huda bathyn karti hain kuch aesa bataen k inn larkiun ko hosh dia jaye ziyaada tar ye larkiyn 14,15,16,17,etc. till 30 years tak hoti hain, main khud itni bari houn 14th ki magar main apna dill in bathon say door bhi karchuki hou,magar kabhi kabhi rujhan hota hai , to main iss ka toor duann , say nikal lyti houn.

Answer: 1-Aurat k liay na-mehram mard k jism per nazar daalna lazzat k irade se aur haram me mubtela hone k sath haram hai balke ehteyat wajib ki bina per lazzat ka irada aur haram me mumbtela hone ka khof nah bhi ho tab bhi mard k badan per nigha nahe dalne chaiay laikin agar aurat mard k jisam k in hisso maslan sar, dono hath aur dono pinliyo per jine omoman mard nahe chupate ,lazzat k irade k beghair nazar dale aur haram me mubtela hone ka khof na ho to kohe haraj nahe hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2397). 2-Jins e mukhaalif(opposite sex) sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pohanch jaey, ye jaiz nahi hai Q k ghunah mai mubtila honay ka khoof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106, Mafhoom e pg # 69) . 3-Agar kisi k naik baat qabool karne ka ehtemaal ho to amar bil maroof karna wajib hai aur gunah se rokna wajib hai. Aur agar baat qobool karne ka ehtemaal nah ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ye hai k gunahgaar k is ghlat kaam per naraazgi ka izhaar kare chahay jaanta ho k wo is ka asar nahi le ga. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2009). Update on dated 07-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66318
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Question: mai ik lrki se school wqt se muhbat krta hn but wo lrki ko mnaty us ka tnz suntay suntay 8 month ho gaye hain wo zra b respect nhi krti doubl minded hai kahti hai mai sochn gi fir kahti tmhy jaldi ku kbi kahti mai nhi kbi b nhi mai us se nikah krna chahta hn please muje btaya jaye hazoor paak s.w.a k pass koi shakhs aisa msla lle kr gya howa hai kya muje wazeefa b btayen or kya behtr hai mai us ko khona b nhi chahta

Answer: Kisi merd k liay na-mehram aurat se doosti ya muhabbat kerna jaiz nahi hay. Haan aap faqat os k ghar nikah ka paighaam behjh sakte hain or dua ker sakte hain. (Ref : Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69). Update on dated 12-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66331
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Question: assalam waleikum .. mera swal ye hai ke kya nikaah se pehle boy friend aur girlfriend phone par sexy batei kar sakte hai kya jabki dono sadi karne wale hai isme dono ke gharwale taiyar hai.. plz mere is sawal ka jwaab mere id me send kar dijiye.. inamulhaq78611@outlook.com

Answer: Agar baat cheet aam mamool ke mutabiq ho or is main koi shehwat anggeez guftugoo bhi na ho or na hi is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka der ho to in ke baat karne main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , hissa # 3 ,Mafhoom e masala # 115). Update on dated 08-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66137
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Question: sir i am a girl and i am a just 14 years old.... in this age every girl is fly in a sky....sir main facebook bhi buhat use kartti thi larkon or larkiyun buhat sy main baat bhi kartti thi ik din ik larky nain mujhy kaha k main ap ko like karta hun...to main na kaha k main hi ap ko like kartti hun ...phir hum donoun batain karny lagy ...marry ghar walon ko is bary main kuch bhi ni pata ....lakin ab main buhat gilt feel kar rahi hun aisa lagta hai k main buhat galt kar rahi hun khud k sath bhi aapny parents k sath bhi main ab yeh sub nhi karna cahatti ab ap hi batain main kiya karun main buhat giltty feel kar rahi hun...plz ask me what i am now doing?

Answer: 1)Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai Q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas, Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 02-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66078
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Question: salam ik sawal ha hum orat ko khan khan sy tuch kr sakty hen ...cho sakty hen khan khan sy

Answer: Mard k liay na-mehram aurat k tamaam badan or baal ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. mehram kawateen k baal o badan ko baghair lazzat k chuna jaiz hay or shohar or bivi ka apas main aik doosre k tamaam badan or baal ko lazzat or baghair lazzat k sath chuna jaiz hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #12,16) , Eidition 1427 hij). Update on dated 30-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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65839
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Question: Kia Kasi ko apni shram gaha(kipro k begar) pic bana k Dana ya movie dana or 2ra ke dakhna zinna h Kia agar ya gunah ho jia to khuda sa mafi kasa manga

Answer: Ye amal gunah hay. sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated Sep 27, 2010+ (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 24-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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65853
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Question: I am a Sunni...but not here to discuss it....kindly guide me and tell me if someone (na mehram) compelled a (na mehram) girl to be un dressed for him and he looks her body...than whats the order about a girl? Is she also as same sinner as a boy?? I know Allah SWT is the most magnificent the most merciful.... How to ask for His forgiveness? How to attain the comfort of heart??? Whats the punishment for that guy who compelled a girl for this?? Kindly guide

Answer: The Girl and the boy both are sinner. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 24-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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65818
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Question: Meri umer 20 saal hai mjse 3 saal pehle shadi ka wada kiya larke ne mujse bohat pyar krta lekin choty si baat ho to aise chala jata Jese janta nahi or is sal ramazan Mei b yehe kiya usne muje madad kijiye k Mei apna pyar izzat k sath Pasku .. Wo bat krta to kehta hai k Mei tumse abi shadi nah kr skta or Mei tumhare lye possessive hojauga Islye dur rho lekin mohabbat krta hai mere sath ni deta Mei chahty hu k wo meri izzat kre pyar kre or sath de apna mehram bnaley madad kijiye .....

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen, Mafhoom e pg # 352) Update on dated 23-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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65629
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Question: Aorat ko apny bhaio r walid k samny sir dhapna zroori he

Answer: Wajib nahi. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #13 , Eidition 1427 hij). Update on dated 17-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
65638
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni

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Question: Aslam Alaikum Ya Ali Madad hamd o sana Khudae La Shareek ki k jis k kbzae udrat men kainat ka hr nizam he durood o salam Aaqa o Maula Janabe Muhamad Mustafa aur uki All p Basad Izat o Ehtram Janabe Mujtahid mera sawal he ap se k meri mangni ho chuki he ab kiya men apne mangetar se phone p baat kr skta hun ya unse mil skta hun bger ksi bure biyat misal k jese men unke ghr jata hun to jese aam log hath wgera milate hen ese mila skta hun Muntazire jawabe Mujtahid W Salam

Answer: Mangeter mard k liay namehram hoti hai aur mard apni mageter se jinsi lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone k khouf k baghair saaf sutri phone per ya aam halat me baat cheet kar sakta hai or aap ka os se hath milana ya os ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah khumeni(r.a), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #2429). Update on dated 17-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63726
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: meri ammi ki death ho gayi hai kiya esaal sawab book per un ki tasveer print ki jasakti hai

Answer: Ager tasweer pore hijaab k sath ho to print kar sakte hain. (Ref : Nigaah o lebaas , baab # 2 , sawaal # 44 , 45 , Mafhoom e pg # 42). Update on dated 02-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63745
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: aslam o alikum sir main eak larke se bht pyar kerti ho lkn woh mujh se ni kerta infact bt bhi ni kerta or usk dost use drink wagera k chakro p lgate haI mujh plzz sir koi esa wazifa bataein k woh mujh se pyar bhi kere or sare galt kaam bhi choor de plzzz sir

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, is terah ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai, lehaza. (Ref : Nigaah o lebaas , baab # 4 , sawaal # 106 , Mafhoom e pg # 69). Rasool Allah (s.a.w.w) se marvi riwayaat k mutabiq, rozana raat ko sone se pehle Sura e Yaseen ki tilawat kar k Allah Taala se dua karain. (Ref: Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal , pareshani # 18 , Mafhoom e pg # 18). Update on dated 02-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63818
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Question: Asalamoalaikum me jisko pyar karti hun WO kise se karta tha WO use chor gai koi ase dua btayn WO mujhay junooni pyaar kare mere tarah plz.. Plzzzzzzzzzzkoi dua btayn..

Answer: Wssalam o alykum,merd o aurat ka is terah mohabbat kerna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Nigah o libaas, Mafhoom e sawal#106). Update on dated 01-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63545
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Question: engagement ke baad or jis ladki se shadi honi hai uske sath dono ki razamandi se Shadi se pahle ladki ki sharmgah dekhna or Sex karna kya ye Zina hai ( ladki ne ladke ke upar bharosa karke uske kareeb aayi ye uski mohabbat hai ya phir kuch or ladka ladki ki sharmagh touch hui lkin jism me dakhil nahi hua ladkey ka jo sperm tha wo ladki ki sharmgah pe nikla na ki andar ) plz jaldi jawab de

Answer: Mangeter namehram he aur nikah k baghair aurat k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna baghair hambistari (intercourse) k zina nahi hai magar haram hai aur gunah e kabira hay. (Ref: Mujtahid se pouchey gaey sawalaat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57+ Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127, pg # 66+Nigah aur libas pg#31+109+ (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 30-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63803
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: assalamoalaikom kuch arsa pehlay meri university me ak larki thi ,,, mene ose behan banaya .. phir kuch arsa bad ose beti kehna shoro ker dia ,, wo muje apni betiyon jesi lagti thi .. me hamesha ose beti keh k bulata tha or mere dil me b yehi tha k wo meri beti he .. or mene ALLAH TAALA se b yehi bat kahi thi k AY ALLAH mera os k sath taluk bilkul saaf he wo meri beti he ,, lakin kuch arsa se muje lag raha he k wo larki muje pasand krne lag geyi he or shadi ki khawahishmand he mere sath .. me ne os se khul k bat ni ki is topic pe .. me ye pochna chahta hon k mom boli beti kon hoti he .. or kis terha se banti he .. kya kafalat lazmi he mon boli beti bananay k liye ..? or kya me os larki se shadi ker sakta hon .. ? or mon boli beti k baray me kya aehkamaat hain ?

Answer: Moo boli beti haqiqi beti ki tarah nahi hoti .wo larki namehram hai aur larki k lie namehram mard se perda karna wajib hai . moo boli beti k akhrajaat namehram mard per wajib nahi hai aur moo boli beti se shadi ho sakti hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2349,2399, 2014). Update on dated –2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63901
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Question: Assalmualaikum mera sawal ye hai k islam me kisi dusri ladki ya ladke ko apna bhem ya bhai manna kaisa hai

Answer: kisi larke ya kisi larki ko behen banaya to jasakta hai laikin kisi ko bhai ya behen banana se sage behen ya bhai wala rishta paida nahi ho jata lehaza ye aik dosero se meraas nahi paate aur agar koi aurat hai to us ko namehram mard se perda karna zarori hai. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/persian/qa/0816/ ). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63220
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Asslam o Alikum mera ek dost ka main oss se boht pyar kerta hon main ny oss k sath french kiss ki ha.. kia ye theek ha ya nahi.. kindly guide me..

Answer: Agar koe mard kise larkay ka shehwat o laazt k sath bosa le to ye gunah hai aur haram hay. (Ref: Ayatullah khoe(r.h) ,Tauzihul masael,jadeed masail , Mafhoom e maslah #2800, Pg# 416 ). Update on dated 21-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63225
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Question: AOA,mera masla ye hai k mere behnoyi ne muje rukhsar par bosa diya jis mein meri merzi shamil nhi thi ...is waja se mein bht preshan hn mehrbni kr k btain k kOi darne ki BT to nhi?..or muje wazeefa b bta dein k WO mujh se or mn un se door rahon or WO muje behno ki tarhan smjhain.shukriya

Answer: Larki k lie us k behnoyi na-mehram hote hain. Na-mehram mard k lie k ne-mehram aurat k badan ya baal ko mass (touch ) karna jaiz nahi. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #16 , Eidition 1417 hij). Update on dated 21-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
61917
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: asSalam wa alikum, i love my cousin but i did not tell her yet, can i talk to her and make intraction so that she may know that i love her. also y uncle is dead and i dont want her mother to know that i love her. she might fight with my parents...

Answer: Kisi merd k liay na-mehram aurat se doosti ya muhabbat kerna jaiz nahi hay. Haan aap faqat os k ghar nikah ka paighaam behjh sakte hain or dua ker sakte hain. (Ref : Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69). Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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61945
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Question: Meri paros me ak anti rehti hy mne unk dewar se bat ki hy or me unko bhai bh bolti ho or hum ak dost ki trha bat krty thy koi ghlt bat nhe ki dil me na aesa kuch mehsos kya or wo mjse umer (age) me bare bhe hy or ab unjo ne jae bat krna yani meri nzar me dosti khtam krdi plz batea kuch.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif say batain kerne se fasaad, burae, or gunah main mubtila hone ka khoof ho tu jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawaal # 79 pg #58). Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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62927
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Question: A.o.a mjhe ye poochna ha k ma kisi se bhot pyar krta hu dil se nikah krna chahta hu mjhe kisi cheez ka garoor ni na e lalach to kia mera wahan nikah ho skta ha plx tel me now also tell me wazifa

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
62932
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Engagament ke baad hone wali biwi ke saat phone me baat kar sakte hai Aur bahar leke ghum sakte hai please bataiye

Answer: Mangeter mard k liay namehram hoti hai aur mard apni mageter se jinsi lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone k khouf k beghair saaf sutri phone per ya aam halat me baat cheet kar sakta hai . (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #4243,898) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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62949
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Question: Sir meri age 27 hy. 2014 may me meri mangni hui aik lardky sy. Usny mje khud psand Kia maa baap k sath 2 bar ghar mje dekhny aya. Pir 1 bar mangni Waly din b aya. Bad me November me jaa k usny mangni tord di waja b nhi btai Mery maa baap shareef hn bht kuch nhi kaha unho ny. Meny b Allah ki raza ki khatir us bandy ko maaf kr dia. Masla ab yeh hy k wo mjsy daily baat Kia karta tha Mery parents ki ijazat sy. Me usky sath bht bht Ziada attached ho gai hu. 2 maah ho gae hn me bht bht bht ro ro k Allah sy usko wapis mangti hu. Kia ap mje koi esa wazifa btaengy jis sy hm pir sy mil saken or bina Kia rukawat k shadi ho saky. Wo aj kal Saudi Arabia me electrical engineering ki job kr raha hy. Usny mje bht sy khaab dikhae thy k tume b sath ly k jaonga. Jaha gya sath rakhun ga. Ab ye jo dhoka usny dia mje chordny wala mjsy wohi bardasht nhi hota. Ab plz Allah ka naam ly k meri madad Karen. Meny pehly b 1 do waziaf unki wapsi k kiye hn mgr abi koi asar nhi hua. Sir me naik niyati sy unki mail bivi ban k achi or Islamic life ghuzarna chahti hu. Wo khud b bht acha insan hy hmesha Namaz rozy ki talkeen karta tha naik Banda hy wo. Bas ap meri madad kar den. Allah apko iska jaza-e-khair ataa Karen ameen summa ameen

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
62957
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Assalam alaykum, mai jab apne mangetar se phone pe baat karti hu ya koi khayal ata hai to mujhe sperm ate hai mujhe pata nhi tha k is haal me mai paak hu k napak ....plz help me to answer this question.is haal me kya mai namaz nhi par sakti hu?

Answer: Mangeter aurat k li namehram hota hai aur aurat apne mageter se jinse lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtela hone k khouf k beghair saaf sutri baat cheet kar sakti hai . Agar kise shaks k badan se koe ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho k mani hai ya phishab ya koe aur cheez ,agar wo ratubat shehwat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan sust ho gaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai.Laikin agar in 3 alamaat me se saari ki saari ya khuch moujood na hoon to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahi aai ghe. Aur ghusal bhi wajib nahi hoga aur wuzu bhi batil nahi hoga (Ref: Ayatullah khoe(r.a) Tauzeehul masail, maslah #4243,352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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62472
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Question: Salamz..sir aik lrki jo k meri class fellow rhi h 10th class tak meri vo mujy achi lgti hai lekin mera us sy koi rabta nhi rha kbi lkn meri ab vo facebook account p friend h m chahti houn k vo muj sy khud dosti kray aur us k dil m pyar peda ho mery lye qk vo khud ksi sy bat nhi krti...

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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62490
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Question: as salam o alikum, mujhay ek larki se bohat pyar hai woh b mujhsay pyar karti thi par kisi bat pe sakht naraz.hogaye, me ya wadodo ka amal 3 months se kar raha hun ijazat lekar, lekin ab tak koi itna khas farak nahi aya. me chahta hun woh pehlay jaise hojaey aur shadi b sirf.mujhsay hi karey... plz madad karen

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) Suraurh e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) ya Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
60445
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mjh s na chaty hoy zina hoa,jis p m buhat sharminda ho m n apny shohar ko b bataya,m allah s mafi b mang ri ho,keya m us larky s phr mil sakti ho ya cll p bat kar sakti ho?zina k irady s ni sirf 1 2sry ki help k irady s,q k hm 2no buhat izat dar gher s taluq rakhty h,plz baty

Answer: zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).Agar shohar dar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani (zina krne wale mard) par hamesha k liye haram ho jati hai laikin sohar par haram nhi hoti hai aur agar toba aur istegfar na karay aur apnay amal par baqi rahay (yani zina karti rahe) to behtr ye hai is ka shohar isay talaq day den.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2367) Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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55858
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Question: Sir mera ye bore adat hai ke me har kese larke ko ghalat nazar se dekta o muje is ghalat nazar se kese chutkara asel karo

Answer: Mard k lie lazzat k iraadat se na-mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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55848
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Question: asalamoalekum mere sawal ye hay k may jb b apne mangetar se bat karti hon to mamoli si bat par geli ho jati hon kia es k lia ghusul wajib hay

Answer: Mangeter na-mehram he aur Aik (na-mehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki ja sakti hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aise baat bhi na ki jarahi ho jis ka kisi ajnabi khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota. Ise tarah baghair lazzat k irade k is ki batain bhi soni jasakti hai jab k haram me bhi na perhne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne waali ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57). (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) Wo ratubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Khaarij hoti hay agar is Hadd tak ho k usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day , jo aam tor par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga.ise tara ehteyaat waajib ki bina agar hizaan shewat ki inteha tak nab hi pouche maqar paani itna ziyaada ho jitna pure razamandi k mouqe per kharij hota hai to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345) Note: Likoria (safeed yellow color ki ratubat) mani nahi hay. Ye paak hay or is k aanay se ghusl bhi wajib nahi hota. Aur namaz aur doosri ibadaat bhi kar saktay hain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA mein aur mera cousin apas mein muhabbat krty hain hum ny kbhi bhi direct bt nai ki lekin kbhi kbhi messaging ho jati hai lekin. Kbhi bhi koi ghalt bt nai hoi sirf haal waghaira pooch lety hain kia is trah sirf haal waghaira poochna ya sarsri si bt karna bhi gunah tu nai

Answer: Ak (namehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki jasakte hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aise baat bhi na ki jarahe ho jis ka kise ajnabi khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota, ise tarah beghair lazzat k irade k is ki batain bhi suni jasakte hai jab k haram me bhi na perne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne wali ho. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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62536
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: A.s main ek apny best friend koo buhht pasand krtaaa hn so kyaaa hum kissing and penis sucking kr skty ha hum kabhi b penis ek dosry k ander nii daly gay bus kissing and penis suck kary to kyaaa gunah ha? please please answer fast

Answer: Na mehram ke sath lams(touch) haram hay.( Kitab-e-nigah aur libas ques # 116 , pg # 72) Is tarha ki dosti bhi haram ha jis se haram me mubtala honay ka khoof ho. ( Kitab-e-nigah aur libas ques # 98 , pg # 65). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Meri engagement ho chuki hai pr mere hone wale shohar ko sex krne ka bahot dill hota hai..or wo mujhe bahot bar kehte hai k hum kar lete hai or 1-2 bar kr bhi liya hai masla aise hai k hum shadi nhi kr pa rhe hai kyuki unhe khud ka ghar Lena hai or wo jb tk nhi hota shadi nhi kr sakte or wo sex k liye bhi sabar nhi kr pa rhe hai or mai mana krti hu to mujhe dar hai k kahi unka pyar khatam na hojaye meri ek sister ka aisa hi hua hai isliye....ab mujhe samjh nhi aata kya karu or mere shohar ka abba bhi ghar jaldi nhi le rhe hai kyunki thoda paiso ka masla hai..mai mushkil me padh gyi hu kru to kya..

Answer: Mangiter namehram he(q k mangni ki share`at men koi hesiat nahi hai lehaza wo abhi ap k shohar nahi hen to un se is qism k rawabit rakhna haram or gunahe kabeera hai)(ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se haraam kamon me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)

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Question: A.O.A sir g kisi larki k sath dosti k lia sorat namal ki ayat nomber 31 or sorat qasas ki ayat no 10 parh skty hain mera mtlb ha mera mqsad sex krna ni ha bs freindship ki gharz sy krna chata houn

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: bataiye yai jaiz h main ek larke se buht piyaar karti hun uske bina jee nahi sakti pehle wo b mujhse baat karta tha ab nahi karta bataiye kia karun main asa js'se wo mere paas loat aaye vapas

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) AND 2) One who recite 686 times bismillah “بسم الله الرحمن الرحیم” and recite 676 times durood “اللہم صلی علی محمد و آلمحمد” (ALLAH HUMMA SOALLI ALA MUHHAMMAD DIN WA AALE MUHHAMAD) then pray, your duas/wishes will be answered. (Ref : Naemul aamaal pg # 317) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: meian ak ladki sy pyar krta hun lakn izhar say darta hn or pata ni wo b muj sy payar krte ha ya ni plz mujy koi wazifa bta den jo k mein parhon to wo mj sy payar b krny lagy or izharr b kr day.

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) AND 2) One who recite 686 times bismillah “بسم الله الرحمن الرحیم” and recite 676 times durood “اللہم صلی علی محمد و آلمحمد” (ALLAH HUMMA SOALLI ALA MUHHAMMAD DIN WA AALE MUHHAMAD) then pray, your duas/wishes will be answered. (Ref : Naemul aamaal pg # 317) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kia behn , khala , ya cousin k sath sex krna jayeiz hai

Answer: behn or khala se to kisi bhi surat men jaiz nahi hai q k wo mehram rishtedar hote hen, albatta cousin q k na-mehram hoti hai lehaza usk sath shadi krna jaiz to sex bhi jaiz hoga mgr nikah k bad.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir mein 2nd mein prhta hu aur mein hostel mein rihta hu,jb mein clg jata hu to ik larki bhe usi rasty sy he clg jati hy mein us ko ni janta kon hy kaha rihti hy mujhe us sy muhabt hy mein izhar krny sy drta hu plz muje koi wazefa bataen ta k wo khud muj sy izhar kr dy us k dil mein mery ly muhabt a jay.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) .

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Question: ASSALAM ALAIKUM kia aik larki na mehram se bat kar sakti hai bina usko dakhy, jese facebook pe?

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, ager is baat cheet ka natija buraai o fasaad o guhnaah main nikle to jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 7 , sawaal no # 79 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Assalamo Aalaikum Mai ek larki se 10 saal se bepanah mohabbat karta hoon or us shadi bhi karna chata hoon. Mai apni girlfeiend se phone pe baat karta hoon or baat karte karte sexy bateen karne lagta hoon. Mai ye janna chata hoon ki kiya mai us se is tarah ki baat kar sakta hoon ya nahi. Kiu ki meri niyat ye hai ki mai sief usi se nikah karoonga. Agar mere liye ye jaij nahi to mujhe kaffare k liye kiya karna parega. Aap se motowana gujarish hai k aap mere is sawal ka jawab de mai aap ka shukre gujaar rahoonga. Dua ki gujarish Khuda Hafiz

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, nikah se pehle is qism k taluqat jaiz nahi hai, lehaza toba karain.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Assalam o alaikum...mera sawal ye ha k ager koi larka larki se mobile pe baat karen aur us doran larky se white sticky pani niklay jo k mani nahe ho tou kia ghusal wajib hota ha?matlab soch us waqt larky ke gandi ho..

Answer: Jo shaks shadi nah hone ki waja se faile haram me mubtila hota ho is per wajib hay k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Wo ratoobat jo khabi kabar shewat ubhrnay par mard ki sharamgah sai kharij hoti hai osi mazi kehtay hain aur wo paak hai. Aur wazoo ko bhi batil nahi karti (namaz parh saktay hain.)aur wo ratubat jo kabhi kabhi mani k baad kharij hote hai jise wazi kaha jaata hai.ya Wo ratoobat jo baz awqat peshab k bad niklti hai osay wida kehtay hain agar is sai peshab mila hua na ho to pak hai is k alawa is sai ghusl wajib nahi hota hai mazeed ye k jab kise shaks ne pheshaab k baad astabra kiya ho aur is k baad istabra kiya ho aur is k baad ratubat kharij ho jis k bare me shak ho k wo peshaab hai ya maskora baala 3 ratoobato me se kohe aik to wo paak hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 70) Agar kise shaks k badan se koe ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho k mani hai ya phishab ya kohe aur cheez agar wo ratubat shewat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan soos ho ghaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai.laikin agar in 3 ealamaat me se sari ki sari ya khuch moujood na ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahe aai ghe. Aur ghusal bhi wajib nahe hogha aur wazu bhi batil nahe hogha (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #,344,345 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sir mujhe koi hal btaye meri ek dost hai jisse meri 1 saal se baat horahi thi 2 mahine pehle wo achanak mere se naraz hogyi jab ke hmari koi fight bhi nai hui thi 2 month se mai uske tarle maar raha hu k kya baat hai wjah btao laikin wo kuch bhi nahi bta rahi aap hi kuch aisa btaye jisse hmari doati phir se shuru hojaye

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kiya kisi na-mehrum k liye dua maangi jaa sakti hai? Usk liye sadka diya ja sakta hai?

Answer: G han insaniyat k nate jaiz hai, mager ager ye dua o sadqa us se mohabbat o dosti ka sabab bane to jaiz nahi hai is liye k na-mehram se dosti mohabbad jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir me ek ladka ko bhut pyar karti wi bhi muja karta app muja asi dua bateya ki woo mere bina ek pal bhi narah paye bat kiya bina ya mila bina uska dil me mere liya bhut pyar our ho jaye koi dua bateya meri id sparveen508@gmail.com me hundu sa muslin hue hu dua muja hindi me acha sa bateyaga samjh me ajaye urdu ni ati muja

Answer: Islami lehaaz se us ke sath nikah kar lain, Q k shadi se pehle Islam main is terah ki dosti or mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69). Quraan e Majeed ki Sura e Ahzaab (sura no # 33) ko hath say likh kar ik dabbay(box) mai band kar ke apne ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz ik bar parh (ager Arabi pharna mushkil ho to hindi tarjuma pharain) kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Kya Islam me kisi ghair mehrem ko munh bola bhai aur bahen banana jayez hair?plz answer me.its urgent plz

Answer: Jaiz hai kehne men koi harj nahi lekin bolne ke bawajood wo na-mehram rehain ge.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 90 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: kya khuda k ilawa ksi or sy ishaq jaiz hy

Answer: Khuda ke ilawa un logo se mohabbat(ishq) jaiz ha jin se muhabbat kerne ka hukum khud khuda ne diya ha jaise Aoliya-e-Khuda, waldain wagera. Jins-e-mukhalif (na-mehram) se dosti ka is had tak izhaar kerna ke is se kahe ke muje tum se muhabbat ha, jaiz nahi ha koun ke gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( Kitab-e-nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae)

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Question: sir assalam o alekm meri pareshani ye h k meri love marrige h ..abhi meri srf engejment hui h..pahle wo mjhe bht zyada chahte the bt ab idhar kuch dino se wo mjhse zyada bat nhi krte..mere zyda puchne pr unhone ye btaya k wo kisi dusri ladki me intrested h mujhe btaye k mai aisi koun si dua padhu jisse wo us ladki ko b bhul jaye or kisi or ldki se b kbhi ateched na siwaye mere ......

Answer: 1)jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2 Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Note dono bato per Allah Taala ke liye amal karain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Asslam o Alikum Mera ek buht simple sa question hai jisy mai nay soch soch ker buht complicated bna liya hai... Meri ami nay mery liyay meri cuzn ko pasand kiya hai... or mjhy woh pasand bhi hai... jis din say mjhy es baat ka pata chula hai k meri shadi us say ho ge mai nay us din say kafi bury kaam choor diyay hain but ek new problem create ho gai hai mery pass us ki pic the ...pehly mai un ko daikh laita tha mger ub mjhy lugta hai k woh abhi tuk mery liyay gair mehrum he hai...us din say mai nay us ki tasweer bhi nahi daikhi likun kbhi kbhar us k baray mai soch leta hoon...but kbhi koi bura khyal nahi aya.. ub kaya mery sochnay say bhi mjhy gunah ho ga mjhy? kbhi kbhar eid wagera per baat ho jati hai us say...ya kbhi study say related .....es k ilawa kbhi koi baat nahi ki... kaya baat krna munasib hai...kiyon k pehly jub kbhi baat hoti thi tu woh felling nahi hoti thi jo ub hoti hai...

Answer: Na-mehram se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat nah ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil nah ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya shaadi se pahlay boy n girl romatic talk kar sakat hain n mein yeh poochna chati hoon ke mera mangater every weekend raat ko phone pe meray sath sex talk karta hai n during talk woh apnay penis ko massag karta hai n mujeh kehta hai ke meray se dirty talk karo mein aur woh dirty talk kartay hain n woh apnay penis ko massage kar ke orgasm get kar leta hai kya aisa karna allowed hai cus woh kehta hai ke pehlay woh akaley mein kar leta tha bt ab woh meray saath during talk kar ke haapy hota hai . i know ke humein shaadi kar laini chaiya bt problem yeh hai ke meray parents abhi meri shaadi nahi karna chatay jab ke mein bhi shaadi karna chati hoon jo ke mein apnay parents se nahi bool sakti. thnx

Answer: Mangeter namehram hai aur nemehram aurat k jism ko dhekna aur use touch karna haram hai.( Laikin us se nikah ho skta hai). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, ) Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Nikah sahi nahi hoga kunke nikah mai shrt ye hai k kawari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) larki ko nikah ki ijazat nahi deden.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bin (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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11522
Mujtahid:
sestani sahab

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Question: iam engaged, kia mein appni mangetar ki body ko touch karsakta hun sexually and i do finger her.. is it ok?

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, ) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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60870
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: kya loud speaker lagana jayaz hai khhwateen ki majlis mai

Answer: koi harj nahi, siwaae is sorat main ke majlis pharne wali ki awaaz shehwat ko ubharne wali hai, or ager loud speaker lagaya jaae to mard is ki awaaz sune ge. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 7 , sawaal no # 84 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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10859
Mujtahid:
Duwa/Wazaif

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Question: Mera Aap se question Hai k mere kuch lakkiyo k sath sambandh the or ab mai kuch wajuhat se alag ho gaya hu,,lekin meri niyat itni kharab ho gayi hai k ghar walo par bhi galat nigah jati hai,,bahar k ladkiyo par bhi galat nigah jati hai,,agar Allah se mohabbat Dil me Rakhne k liye in galat nigah ka nikalna bahut zaruri hai,,kuch wazaif batai ke Dil Pak Ho Jaye.

Answer: Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki waja se haram kamon men mubtala hojaye to us per wajib hai k shadi krle.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2407). Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, her raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat karain. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Mujtahid:
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Question: kya aurat apni sharmga apne shohar ki maujudgi mein kisi mard doctor ko ilaj k liye dika sakti hai jb k city mein lady doctor na ho aur agar aurat ka khatna karna wajib hai to us ki kaunsi khaal katti jaye

Answer: Ager ilaj dikhne ke bageer momkin na ho or ilaj na-hone ki sorat main na-qabil-bardaasht takleef hoti ho to jaiz hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 361 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Mein ik larki ko pasand karta hn r us sy shadi karna chahta hn kia us sy mesg pe baat karna jaiz hai..???

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalmu Ali kum meri mangni ho gai hai kya me apni hone wali biwi se kisi bhi tarha ki ( humbustri) kibaat kar sakte hai ? Aur he hath se apni sharmgah ko hilata hu iska Islam me kya gunah hai ? Plz sir reply

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, dono chezain haraam hain, is liye k wo abhi apki faqt mangetar hai jab tak nikah nahi hojata tb tk won a-mehram hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: kya shadi se pehle ladki or ladka mil skte hai?

Answer: Agar lazzat k iraade aur haram me mubtela hone k khouf k beghair aur kise buraae ka baais nah bane to shadi ki gharz se mard k namehram aurat se ghuftaghu karna jaiz hai. ( ref: nigha o libaas, jild:1, pg:57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salm mera sawal hai k maie apny dost sy pyr krti ho woh mery techr b hai woh 3 sal bry hai mjh sy pr woh mjh sy oyr ni krty zada bt b ni krty koe asa wazifa batyn k woh mjh sy pyr krny lgy bt krny lgy or shadi k lia kud kahyn mjhy plzzz maie unko buht pasand krti hun

Answer: Jins-e-Mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k muhabbat ki had tak pounch jaye, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunaah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojood hai. Surah-e-Ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar me hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb-e-manshah rishta dastiab hoga. (Ref: Nigaah aur libaas, ques #106,pg #69)(Ref: Naway-e-Saaleheen, pg #352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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56585
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: main ek larki se piyar karta hon or wo bhi mujh se piyar karti hai par uski bhen ko pata chal gaya haii or usne uske bare bhai ko bata diya hai or uske bare bhai ne uska cell wagira sab leliya hai mere se cantct na rakhe issliye ap bataien main kiya karonn k uski faimly maan jaye or hummre beach main ye fasle na rakhein plz tell me i,am waiting

Answer: Jins-e-Mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k Muhabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunnah mai mubtila honay ka khauf mojood hai. Surah-e-Ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to Hisb-e-Manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref: Nigaah aur libaas, ques#106) (Ref: Naway-e-Saaleheen, pg #352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mein ek larkey se bht pyar karti hn and vo bhi and hum paas bhi ae hein par haraam wala paas ni ae or hum chuhp kar nikkah karna chahtey hein to kesey hoga ye sub . . And hum itna paas ni ae to Ye zina to ni hua na?

Answer: Jins-e-Mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khauf mojood hay. kunwari(virgin) larki us waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah de day. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzeehul Masail, Maslah #2341)(Ref: Nigaah aur libaas, ques #106)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera sawal ye hei k m aik lerki ko pasand kerta jo muj se bhari hei r wo b mujey pasand kerti r ham dno aik doswre se shadi kerna chate hei......ham dno k dermian 5 6 sal ka fark hei tou kia ham dno shadi kersakte r ye sai hei ya ghalat r ye b btaen k ger walon ko mananein k liye koi wazifa......

Answer: Jins-e-mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi kui k gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khauf mojood hai. (Ref: Nigaah aur libaas ques #106 ,pg #69) Surah-e-ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref: Naway-e-Saaleheen, pg #352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalam-o-alaikum mera sawal hai k meri aik lover hai jis se mai bohat pyar karta hoon or wo b karti hai wo khud kehti hai meri kisses karo romance karo kya kar sakte hain ya nahi???or aik sawal k aksar hum sexualy batain kar lete hain phone par ye jaiz hai ya nahi???

Answer: 1) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 2) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 3)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 4)Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA..mera sawal app se yeh hai k kuch dino phale main apne ghar k baher college se ati hoi kuch larkiya dekhi un main se muge ek larki bohat goor goor se dekha rahi thi lakin wo thi naqab main,es tarah main rozana usi time us ka wait karne laga aur wo rozana muge dekha kar guzar jati thi .maine ose apna number dyna chaha tu us ne lene se inkar kar diya phair ek din mug se face book id pochi wo maine de di aur us par maine apni web site b lekha di lakin us k bad us ne mari gali main se guzarna b chora diya aur muge koi mail b nai ki ...mug se ab raha nai jata bohat rota ho sakoon nahi hai dil ko ..muge kuch asa bataye k us k dil ko b asi lagan lag jaye main us k satha shaadi karna chahata ho ..thank

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) .

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Question: kya mangeter se bat kerna jiaz he

Answer: Ager esi aam mamool ki baat cheet ho jis main koi shehwat ubhaarne wali guftago na ho or is aam mamool guftago se khud ba kud jinsi lazzat bhi hasil na ho to jaiz hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3 , sawaal # 115 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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57612
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam alaikum....kya wife apne chachere bhai se baad karsakti hai..kya wo na mehram hai...kya usse koi kawaesh kasrsakti hai.

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, jee, na-mehram hai, or tamaam na-mehram ke ehkaam us ke or ap ke dermiyaan bhi aaege. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah #2349 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hia).

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Question: Mera sawal ye hy k mari cazan hy jis mara rishta paka kia h0wa hy bachpan s . Hum l0g baten kerty hen ur 0ral sex bhe r0mantic baten bhe ye jaiz hy . Ur hum d0n0 ek d0sry k0 husband wife manty hen plez ans me

Answer: Baat pakki/Rishta pakka hona Nikah nahi hota hai is liye aap dono aik dusray ke liye na mehram hain aur aap k liye jaiz nahi hai k aap usay mehramana nazar say dekhay jab tak nikah na hojaye. Na mehram k sath koi aisi baat na ki ja rahi ho jis ka Na Mehram k sath kiya jana munasib na ho aur isi tarah beghair lazzat k Iraday say Na Mehram ki baatain bhi suni ja sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul Masail, Maslah# 2328)(Ref: Mujtahid say puchay gaye Sawalaat part #04, pg#66)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalam alikum. mera sawal. me 1 larki se sch me bht pyar krta hn or wo b krti ha or hamare parents ko ni pta or hmm shadi b krna chahtey hen to kya hm 1 2sre se bt ke skte hen kya jaiz ha? or kya ksi gair larki se pyar krna jaiz ha?

Answer: Jins-e-mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jaye, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khauf moujood hai (Ref: Nigaah aur libaas,ques# 106,pg# 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein Izafa farmaye)

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Question: AA sir.sir apne muhabbt k liye question id 9472 ko ye answer dia k 40 din tk wazifa karen bt sir grls exact complete 40 days wazifa jari ni rakh sakti so us surat me girls ko kia karna chahye k muhabbt ka mqsad b hasil ho jae or wazifa b mukaml kis tra kia jae..... mera sawal b same he hai k me kisi larke se bht he zyda muhbat krti hu wo b 3 mahine tk karta tha bt phr us ne bat krna chor di meri mngni us ki waja se toot gai.lakin wo b muje chor k side pe ho gea me reh to leti us k bina bt wo her tym meri imaginition me rehta hai me tang aa k rone lag jati hu k kbi to wo muje yad na aye me darood pak pr k duwa karti hu k usko b muj se usi tarp k sath muhbt ho bt usko jub b kuch khti hu usko btati hu k me tumn bhool ni pa rai wo bs muj se apni nafrat ka izhar karta hai jub k mne us k sath kbi koi b jht ni bola.... plzzzzz sir koi wazifa bta den jo me karu or usko b muj se us trp se muhbat ho wo b muje imagin kare usko b me yad aaun usko mere dil ki muhbat pe reham aa jae.......sir or koi aisa wazifa jo k just ik maa me he pura ho jae jesa k me bta chuki hu 40 days girls k posiibl ni k wo wazifa complete kar paen........... mene bht umeed se apko ye msg kia hai plzzzz help me sir..ALLAH PAK will give u reward.......

Answer: Jins-e-mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pohonch jaye, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khauf moujood hai (Ref: Nigaah aur libaas,ques# 106,pg# 69) Surah-e-ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb-e-manshah rishta dastiab ho ga. (Ref: Naway-e-saaleheen,pg# 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Note: periods main ye sorah perha jasakta hay. Faqat quran k horoof ho nah choa jay.

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Question: Salaam main ek larky se shadj krna chahti hun woh b chahta h lyk us k khandan main kasi ny out of family shadi nhi ki us k ghr waly nhi maan rahy plz kuch btaen sab khushi khushi raazi hojyen...Jazak Allah

Answer: Jins-e-Mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jaye, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigaah aur libaas,ques# 106,pg# 69) Surah-e-ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb-e-manshah rishta distiab ho ga (Ref: Naway-e-saaleheen, pg# 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mujhe mera pyar wapas dila do main uske bina ji nhi sakti wo kisi or se shadi karne ja rahe h 1 nov. Ko main unke liye musalman b ban gayi par fir b wo mujhse shadi nhi kar rahe h plz mujhe mera pyar wapas dila do

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Engagement k baad mangetar ko bv kehna jaiz hai?

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter sharhe biwi nahe hote aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mujhy kisi sy bht muhabbat hai.Lekin uski ab shadi honay wali hai.Main bht preshan hu, dil karta hai k mar jaon.Koe aisa amal btaen jis sy meri tension door ho jaye.Main apki bht Mashkoor rahu gi.Shukriya

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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57301
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam, kia magni ke baad apne manghter se phone pe baad karna or milne ke lia jana sai hai? kia ye kaam haraam me ae ga? plz jaldi jawab den.

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397 ) Mangetar namehram hai.aur Aik (namehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki jasakte hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k kohe aise baat bhi na ki jarahe ho jis ka kise ajnaben khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahe hota . ise tarah beghair laszat k irade k is ki batain bhi sone jasakte hai jab k haram me bhi na perne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne wali ho. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Mujtahid:
aga

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Question: Asalamoalikum ....mera naam sabika abdul khaliq hai ...mera taluk Karachi, pakistan se hai ...mein ek ladke ko pasand kerti hun...woh bhi mujhe pasand kerta tha aur hum apni graduation puri honey k baad shaadi kerne waley the lekin laraiyan honey ki waja se ab woh mujhse piyar nhi kerta aur woh mujhe chor ker chala gaya hai.. hum ne apna rishta jaiz rekha hua hai....mein us ladkey se bohat piyar kerti hun aur har namaz ke baad bas Allah se yehi duaa kerti hun k woh us ladkey ko meri taqdeer mein likh dey aur mujhe usk liye behter banaye...mujhe koi wazifa batadein takeh woh meri taraf dubara raghib hojaye

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti o muhabbat Haram hai.(ref:book nigah aur libaas,masla#106,pg#69)

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Question: TALAQ KE BAAD CHILDRENS KE LIYE WIFE AND HUSBAND DONO EK SATH RAH SAKTHE HAI

Answer: Ager buraae ka zara bhi imkaan ho to in ka ik chath ke neche rehna jaiz nahi hai is liye k talaq k bad ab wo ek dusre k liye miyan biwi nahi rahe or dono ek dusre k liye na-mehram hen. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 7 , pg # 103 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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52010
Mujtahid:
shadi

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Question: Asalam-o-Alaikum .mera nam Waqas Rasheed ha ma ak larki sa beintaha mohabat karta hn .magr us ki shadi ho gai ha.or us ki shadi us par kala jadu kr k je gai ha .is ka koi hal ha kya.wo ab b mujh sa pyar karti ha

Answer: Wssalam o alykum,Ab ap ke liye jaiz nahi hai haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2366 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: AOA mara sawal ya hai ky 1year phly mere or bari bhabi ky sath bohat free tha or phir hum dono ky lip kiss huge krna main un ki breast press krna back pr hath phrna start krdiya lakin kabi b campilet sex nhi kiya or ab hum na 1saal sy ya nhi kiya lakin ab mujh sy contronal nhi ho rha ab main un sy phir kissing or huge wagara krna chahta ho plz batay main kya kro or han main bas kissing or huge hi krna chahta ho kyun ky hum dono ghr main pora din akalay hota hai or mere shadi me 3 saal hai.

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, ye jaiz nahi hai Gunah e kabeera hai, or ap per shadi karna wajib hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah #2407 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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53810
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: A.O.A Mara sawaal ye hay kah kuch arsa phelay mara aik aurat sy relation tha mn nay usay sex bhi kia. Ab mary family nay meri magni uski beti daughter sy karwa the hay or mn ye baat kasi ko nhn bata sakta or na he magni tor sakta hn. Mujhy ap koe tareeka bataen kah maafi ho jay or nikkah bhi.

Answer: jis aurat say zina keya ho agar wo zani ki phophi ya khala nah tu uski beti say nikah ker saktay hain. (Tauzeh-ul-masail,ayatullah Sistani d.b.,33th edition,mslah#2361). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya ladiki ko dekhna islam mey jayed hi

Answer: Na-mehram larki ko shehwat ki nigah say daikhna haram hai.(ref:book nigah aur libaas,ayatollah Sistani d.b.,masla#5,pg#26). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salm main jis sy pyar krti hn wo muj sy baht door ho gea hai muj say baat tk nhe krta plz ap kuch parhny ko bata dyn ky usky dil mare muhbat payda ho jy ar mjy shadi ky ky lay be wazif a bata dyn ky mare es sy ho jy plz

Answer: Na-mehram sy dosti\izhare muhabbat Haram hai.(ref:book nigah aur libaas,masla#106,pg#69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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53791
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Q.1 Agar 1 larka or larki engage ho chuky Hoon to un ka apas men bolna jazz hy k nahii Q.2 Or kia wo dono nikah sy pehly apas men mulaqat bhi kar sakty hen ya nehii

Answer: 1-Baghair lazzat k iraday aur haram mai mubtila honay k khof k baghair na-mehram say baat cheet krna jaiz hai. 2-Nikah say pehle mangetar apas main na mehram hain donu.lihaza mulaqat k waqat parda zarori hai. (Ref:book nigah aur libaas,masla#76,pg#57). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: Plz plz plz reply 1)agr koe na mehrum ksi ke maa,behn ko chery uske sza? 2)agr na mehrum mard or orut na jaiz taluq rakhein zna k ilawa,unke sza? 3)dushman Ali ke madad ya whabi ke madad krna jaiz ha? 4)ksi asy muslman ke madad jaiz ha jis k bary ma yaqeen ho ye iska ghalt istmal kry ga?

Answer: 1,2) saza ka talluq Islami hokomat main Hakim e Shara ke hokum se hai.(Ref ; Sistani.org , topic # qisaas). 3)Kisi bhi surat men jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed masail , part # 3 , pg # 64 , eidition # 5). 4) Ager yaqeen ho ke ye is ka haraam istamaal kare ga to is musalmaan ki madad karna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2 , sawaal # 158 , pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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41544
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Question: AS SALAM ALIKUM. Mera suwaal yeh hai keh aaj kal loog REIKI HEALING sekhte hain kia REIKI HEALING islam mein jaiz hai? Is main koi shirk tu shamil nahi hay? juwab juld dejiye ga Allah Hafiz.

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, ager is main Shariat e Muqaddasa ki hudood ki pabandi ki jaae to koi harj nahi hai masalan ham-jins kar rahe hon or dono ik dosre ki na sharam gaah ko deekh rahe hon or na hi chhoo rahe hon or na hi lazzat ki niyat ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka koof ho to harj nhi hai albatta jinse mukhalif se jaaiz hi nahi hai, isi tarah masalan ik shakhs apni mehram ke sath reiki healing kar raha ho lekin dono ki niyat sahi ho or haraam main pharne ka imkaan bhi na ho to koi harj nahi hai. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , {baab # 1 , sawaal #25 , pg # 33} , {baab # 04 , sawaal no # 114 , pg # 71} , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa karne wala hai).

Id:
41650
Mujtahid:
Agha Sistani

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Question: Salam Qibla main bachon ko Quran ki taleem deta hon mere age 27 years hain to bachon main Boys Girls donon hain to agar boys k sath 13 14 years ki girls bhi mujh se hath milateen hain kya un se hath mila sakta hon...........

Answer: Salam Qibla main bachon ko Quran ki taleem deta hon mere age 27 years hain to bachon main Boys Girls donon hain to agar boys k sath 13 14 years ki girls bhi mujh se hath milateen hain kya un se hath mila sakta hon........... Answer G nahi . (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 4 , question no # 110 , pg # 70). Note Quraan e Majeed ki taleem ke sath ese moqoo per bachoo ko Allah Taala ke Ehkaamo se agaah karna ap ka farz hai.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)

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53973
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Question: meri koi behan nahi hy... aik muh boli behan hai bs... kia us sy baat karna jaiz hy? please btaiye mjhy....

Answer: Mou boli bahan namehram hoti hai. lehaza aurat k lye namehram mard se perda karna zaro hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349,2397 ) Agar lazat aur haram me mubtela hone ka khoof na ho to mard k lye namehram se (sahriyat me rah kar )ghoftagho karna jaiz hai. (ref:nigha o libas pg:59). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
54030
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Is it allow for a girl to show her pic thats without maqna to one whom she is going to marry with in few days

Answer: Mard aik aise aurat ki photo ya films jis se shadi ka irada ho is waja se k is k jisam ki khad o khal aur khubsurati se aagha ho sake , agar lazat k irade k beghair ho to dhakh sakta hai. (ref: nigha o libaas ,pg:41,1st eidition) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
50680
Mujtahid:
muslim

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Question: kya photography ka busines theek hai?

Answer: G han jaiz hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2016 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
52513
Mujtahid:
job

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Question: Assalamo alekum, sir meri age 23 sal he or mene nursing ki he,agr me job karti hu to kya mujhe gunah lgega. Kya Islaam ladkiyo ko job karne ki izazat deta he..mera swal dekhne k liye aapka bhut bhut shukriya.ALLAH hafiz

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, ager is main koi haraam kaam karna phare (masalan mardo ke sar o garden ke ilawa badan per nazar karni phare , namehram dost banane phare jin se dosti buraae ka bais bane or Sharai Ehkaam ka khayal na rakha jaye) to jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : nigaah o lebaas , [baab # 1 , pg # 28] , [baab # 4 , pg # 100] , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
52496
Mujtahid:
Only islam

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Question: Kiy adult ladki begair parde k school jana jayez hai

Answer: Gee nahi, parda kerna wajib hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2399 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
52487
Mujtahid:
Hazrat Muhammad (SAW)

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Question: ASSLAM O ALAIKUM ... m aik lrky sy pyar krti hn usk ghar waly to maan gay hn lakin mery parents ni manen gay m janti hn meri shadi us sy ni kren gay bht mushkil h.To plzzz ap aisa oi wzifa bta den jin sy un k dill m narmi paida ho ya aisa khyal paida ho jis sy wo maan jaen.Plzzz help me i m so worried about this. zrur jaldi btaye ga....bht preshan hn...abi kuch months mai meri study comelete ho jaye ge jis k baad wo sochen gay to plzz mjy iska hul bta den... Thank you..

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Hazrat Imam jafar e Sadiq a.s.se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq larke se kehain ke Sura e Taha ko kisi sabz reshmi libaas main likhe phir isko lapeet kar apne paas rakhe, or apne waladain ke sath ap ke ghar ap ka rishta lene ke liye aae. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18)]. Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
52364
Mujtahid:
aayatullah Qui and Sistani sahab

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Question: Salam, Sawal..., 1 - god liya huwa ladka ya ladki mahram hai ya na mahram hai baligh hone pe ? please tafseel me samjhane ki zahmat karen, Jazakallah Fiamanillah Zeeshan

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Na-mehram hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
52430
Mujtahid:
Maqqah masjid

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Question: Kya parai ladki se taluqat rakhana thik hai?

Answer: Gee nahi ye jaiz nahi. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 4 , pg # 100 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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51674
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Question: Ladkiyon se mohabbat karn gunah hai ya jayaz hai plz aap bataen.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jo shaks shadi nah krne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31). Hazrat Imam jafar e Sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi libas may lepat kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pass jay to osay na kaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rahay gi. inshAllah (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
51726
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Question: can we touch our cousin sister body ,if we commited sin by touching her private parts is that zina aur ..iska bina par meri biwi be kisi aur ka sath zina kari hue hogai plz answer

Answer: It is haram for man to look or touch the body of the Non-Mahram women, but it is not Zina.(Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 70, masla # 109)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32585
Mujtahid:
Quran-o-Itrat Academy

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Question: Sir mera naam pahle Prem Singh tha or mai ek Hindu parivar se tha. meri mulakat ek muslim ldki se ho gyi or hum dono ek dusre ko bahut pyaar krne lge. us ldki ne mujhse kaha ki aap mere ghar par aakar hum dono ki shdi ki bat kr ke dokho . mai uske ghar par gya or shadi ke liye kaha par unhone mna kr diya mai kae bar gya unke pas par unhone mna kr diya. fir us ldki ne bola ki agar tum Islam kabool kar lete ho to hmara nikha ho skta h. to maine Islam kabool kr liya. mai fir unke ghar par gya magar unhone fir mna kr diya. kuch time pahle us ldki ko uske ghar walo ke kis trah kya kiya ab wo mujhse bat nahi krti h. magar mai aaj bhi usko bhul nahi paya hu. or har time ye hi sochta rhta hu ki mere sath etna bda dhokha kyu kiya un logo ne. ab mai islam se pyaar krta hu par mujhko n hi nbaz padhni aati h or n kuch par mai islam ko chhodna nahi chahta hu. or n hi us ldki ko bhulna chahta hu. mai aapse or es smaz se ye puchna chahta hu ki meri galti kya thi jo mujhko apnaya kyu nahi gya. kyu meri puri jindgi barbad kr di gyi . eska jimmedar kon h or unki kya saza honi chahiye. ye bareilly uttar pradesh ki ldki h. mai bahut dukhi hu or mai chahta hu ki mera nikha usi ldki ke sath ho or wo hi mujhko islam ke bare me btaye. koe meri madad kr skta h to meri madad kro. mera Email Address h- mohdahmad1020@gmail.com and premssboo7@yahoo.in . agar koe meri madad kr skta h or mujhko marne ke bacha skta h to pls help me.

Answer: Aapne islam qabool kiya chahe larki ki waja se hi sahi mgr qabool kiya kiya yaqeenan koi maslihat hogi islam apko apprrciate krta hai, ap Allah se dau mange or kisi ache moulana k pas jakr rozana kch din islam ki kch usool seekhen or kisi masjid men jakr musalmano k sath namaz ada kren, agr us Allah ne chaha to yaqeenana apki usi larki se shadi hogi. Is k liye ham apko ek wazeefa dedeten hen. Agrchhe islam pasand ki shadi kiijazat deta hai lekin wo larki islami aytbarb se ap ki nehmehram hai or na mehram Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32718
Mujtahid:

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Question: a.a main ik larki say dosti karna chahta hon . Aur wo larki bi razi hai to kaya quran aur sunaat is ki ijazt data hai ?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)Albatta islam pasand ki shadi ijazat deta hai ap khuda se dua kren k ap ki us se shadi hojaye, or is k liye ham apko ke wazeefa dete hen. Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32700
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Question: Ya Ali As Madad Mera sawal ye hai k ak larky or larki ny agr rishta shadi ki buniyad pay suro kia ho to larky ny larki ko ghr pardy main betha dia ho us ko bgair waja k kahi b na jany data ho larki b larki ko hmesha seedhy rasty ko apnany ka kahti ho or ak mard tak hi khud ko mahdod kar lia ho us larky ki waja sy or tamam na mahrum mardo cousins sy us ny parada suro kar dia ho or pahly sy ziada imaam py qayam ho gai ho k ALLAH b us sy khush rahy or ALLAH us k risthy ko pasand kary wo larka larki na apas main milty houn na akathy bethety houn na un main tuch kiss ki hawas ho to kia unka pa py pak saf guftugo karna jaiz hai asi guftugo js sy wo dond hadayt py hi rahain ya mustaqbil k bary main jaldi bataye ga

Answer: Gee han bilkul guftagu kr sakte hen, Ak (namehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki jasakte hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k kohe aise baat bhi na ki jarahe ho jis ka kise ajnaben khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahe hota. ise tarah beghair lazzat k irade k is ki batain bhi sone jasakte hai jab k haram me bhi na perne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne wali ho.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
50763
Mujtahid:
agha sistani

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Question: Aoa mera sawal yeh hey k may ak larkey sey boht pyar karti hun wo b karta hey hmain 11 saal ho gaey hain ham shadi nai kar sktey q k mey syed hun or wo raja us ki shadi ho gai hey us k bawjood wo mujh sey baat karta hey kuch arsa qabal merey or us k beech ak larai hui jis k bais main us sey naraz ho gai may ney apni taraf sey taalluq khatam kr diya hey bt wo ab bi cal karta hey or rota hey to kya main us sey razi ho jaoun q k mujhey dar lagta hey k aj wo merey liey ro raha hey or mujhey us ki qadar nahi yeh na ho kal main rooun or usey meri qadar na ho may boht gunahgaar hun may ney bohat gunah kiey hain zindagi main pehli baar main shariyat k mutabiq faisla karna chahti hun esa nahi hey k may us sey baat nai karna chahti lakin sirf apney parents or ana ki khatir khamoush hun agha ji ap plz koi sharai rah nikal k bata dainmain khuda or apney imamoun ko b razi rakhna chahti hun or usey b plz ap mujhey jaldi btaiey ga.

Answer: ap ko use chor dena chahiye kun ke Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
50922
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Question: Sallam g mara masla ya hia ke muj sa koie girls dosti nahee karni chahta hia mia kia karoo.

Answer: Ap is pr Allah ka shukr ada kren q jins e mukhalif (girls) se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q ke gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he.(Or Imam ALI as frmate hen gunah ka moqa na milna bhi Allah ki trf se nemat hai) (kitab nigah or libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Id:
57792
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: isalm may shadi ken ristay dar say jayiz hai

Answer: On aurto k sath jo insan ki mehram hoon nikah kerna haram hay. Maslan maan, behen, baiti, phophi, khala, bhatiji, bhanji, saas. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2349) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
57797
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Question: assalmu ali kum meri mangni ho gai hai kya me apni hone wali biwi se humbistri ki bat kar sakta hu aur sharmgah ko hilane par kya gunah hai plzz replay

Answer: 1-ager baat cheet aam mamool ke mutabiq ho or is main koi shehwat anggeez guftugoo bhi na ho or na hi is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka der ho to in ke baat karne main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , hissa # 3 , masala # 115) 2-Istemna kerna (hand practice) haram hai chahay kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
57845
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Salaam, me ek larki hun......Or me ek larky se boht muhabbat karti hun...hum dOno ne ek sat bht waqt guzara hy....ek do din hum ne akele b guzary hain jis me hum ne sirf batain ki hain....or sOye b sath me hain lekin hum ne kuch kiya nahi hy,,,,,,ab us larky ne mujhe chOr diya hy,,,jab se us ne mujhe chora hy tab se meri zehni halat thek nahi hy,,,,mujhe us ki yaad bht ati hy....dusri taraf mujhe esa lagta hy k mera Allah mujh se bht naraz hy isi liye meri us gunah ki wajah se meri zindagi mai khushi nahi hy.....me puchna chahti hun k mujhe is gunah ki maafi k liye kya karna chahiye????? me tOba k liye nawafil b ada karti hun astaghfaar bhi kasrat se parhti hun...... Or dusra ye k kya hum dOno par nikah wajib hO gaya hy????agar han tO mujhe kya karna chahiye???? please meri madad karain....

Answer: 1)Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se haraam kaamon men mubtila hota ho is per wajib hay k shadi kar le.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,33rd Edition,maslah # 2407) 2) 2)Istighfaar(taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain: Nidamat k saath sachcahay dil say 14 masoomo(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay. 1)maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi. 2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah. 3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna). 4)jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya that u os ki qaza bja laana). 5)jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho. 6) jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunagh say maza chakhaya tha.(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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52536
Mujtahid:

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Question: Kya mangter se bt krna jazz ha

Answer: ager baat cheet aam mamool ke mutabiq ho or is main koi shehwat anggeez guftugoo bhi na ho or na hi is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka der ho to in ke baat karne main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , hissa # 3 , masala # 115)

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54603
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Question: Kya rishty sy pehly larka larki ek dusry ko dekh kr faisla kr sakty hain ? Kya ye jyez hai ?

Answer: je ye jaiz hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 , 387 pg # 390 )

Id:
52722
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: mere uncle ki beti kisi ladke ko pasand krti hai or ladka v par ghar wale raazi nhi hai , pta nhi isse kya ho gya hai jaise usne jaado kr dya ho , maa baap bhai bahan kisi ki baat nhi manti, namazz padhti hai per jhoot bolti hai.. Or mana krne pr hamesha mrne ki dhamki deti hai , zaldi se koi uppaye btaye ghar wale bahut padeshan hai...

Answer: Ager sura e al qariaa ko 7 martaba kisi mithi cheez per phar kar us ko khila dain to INSHALLAH wo ap ki batoo ko maanne lage gi.(Ref : nawaa e s saleheen , pg # 36). Note us larki ki walida ko us larki ko samjhana chahi mager sakti ke sath nahi balke ache tari se.

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52357
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalam o alikum....Meri bhabi aur bhai ne nikah kia he 2 sal pehle dubai men ami abu k baghair . Court men 4 gawahon k sath .... Ami abu abhy nikah krana chahte hen wapas. Tau kia ho sakta he waapas nikah ??

Answer: Agr pehle nikah walden ki ijazat k bger kiya tha to wo sahi nahi tha matlb nikah hi galt hogaya hai, lehaza ab jo nikha walden ki ijazat se yahan Pakistan men horaha hai wohi sahi nikah shumar hoga, lekin agr pehla nikha walden ki ijazat se kiya tha to phir wohi sahi shumar hoga dusra zaruri nahi agr dusra kren bhi koi harj nahi hia lekin us ki koi khas value nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
52351
Mujtahid:
love

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Question: sachcha pyar muhabbat kisi gair mehram ladki se,,,, nikah ka bhi irada.... ke bare me Allah ne or Allah ke rasool Muhammad (s.a.w) ne kya farmaya or isse relatid sari baat batao.... plz plz plz....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Larki ka apne wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikha sahi nahi hai. Albatta larke k liye apne walden se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341) Jab tak nikah nahi hojata tab tak namehram hi hen or us se pehle chahe use pasand krte hon ya na krte hon touch kran haram hai. (Ref: Ayat_ul_Allah Sistani)-( http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01883/#18773) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
52350
Mujtahid:
about love

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Question: assalamu alaikum... me ek ladki se nikah karna chahta hu or vo bhi chahti h hum dono ek dusre ko bahot muhabbat krte h me uske liye dua bi krta hu uski magfirat ke liye dua karta hu Allah se mene khud se vada kiya h ke me nikah se pehle us ke sath sex ni karunga bs problm yh h k hume apne Ghar walo se chip kr nikah krna padh skta h agar vo ni maane to mene suna h k ek kuwari ladki jab tak nikah ni kr skti jab tak uska baap ya dada ijazat na de de... kya esi koi condition ni h ke hum uske baap ya dada Ki ijazat ke bina nikah karley.... or ha yh bAhot jaruri h mere liye bi or uske liye bi ab hum log ek dusre ke bina ni reh pa rahe magar abhi tak ruke hue h.... aap plz is par theek se soche or phir javab de me chahta hu k aap aapki jaati raye bhi de aapki jaati raye positive honi chahiyye.....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Larki ka apne wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikha sahi nahi hai. Albatta larke k liye apne walden se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341) Jab tak nikah nahi hojata tab tak namehram hi hen or us se pehle chahe use pasand krte hon ya na krte hon touch kran haram hai. (Ref: Ayat_ul_Allah Sistani)-( http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01883/#18773) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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52345
Mujtahid:
I dont know what u asking

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Question: kya kisi ladki se Muhabbat krna galat h.... me kisi ladki se bina uske or apne Ghar walo Ki rajamndi ke nikah kese kr skta hu jabki me bhi raji hu or vo ladki bhi..... kya Muhabbat me bhi nikah se pehle tuch krna galat h.....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Larki ka apne wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikha sahi nahi hai. Albatta larke k liye apne walden se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341) Jab tak nikah nahi hojata tab tak namehram hi hen or us se pehle chahe use pasand krte hon ya na krte hon touch kran haram hai. (Ref: Ayat_ul_Allah Sistani)-( http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01883/#18773) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) S/no:21

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Question: mera masla ye hai key mai kisi ko bht pasand krti hu wo b krte hain per hmare ami abu bhtt skht hain to aisa kya prha jay k wo log man jayn aur hm dono unko pasand ajayn ...

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) NOTE : Albatta islam pasand ki shadi se mana nahi krta. Imam Jafre Sadiq a.s farmaty hain:jo shaks surae Taha(surah#20) likh kr subz(green) reshmi kapray mai lipate kr apnay [as rakhay aur shadi k iraday sy kisi k pas jaey tou usay na kaam nahi lotna parega aur wo shadi ho kr rahegi.(ref:book dunya o akhirat ki 100 pareshanio ka hal)

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36558
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Question: aoa.. kiya mai apne mangeter se baat kr sakti hn agr han to kis had tak....?

Answer: Mangetar bhi na mehram he aur mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shahwat angaiz baat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho warna haram he. (Ref: Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: A.O.A mera nam Sehrish hy mm jis larke se pyaar krti hn os ka nam Usman Aslam hy msla yeh hy k usman ka rishta os ki behan ki nend se ho gaiya hy lekin wo os se shadi nhe krna chahte wo chahte haien k hm dono ki shadi ho jaiye lekin hmare ghr wale nhe mante plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz koi wazifa bta dein jis se hmari jald shadi ho jaiye

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) NOTE : Albatta islam pasand ki shadi se mana nahi krta. Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salaam ..mujhe apse ye puchna hai ki main jis ladke ko chahti hu usse meri shadi mumkin hai ya nhi istikhara krke bataye maine kayi baar istikhara kiya aur jawab achha aya pr humare ghar wale shadi k liye razi nhi ho rhe hum dono ek dusre ko bahot chahte hai plz aap masle ka hal bataye kaise sabko razi kare mera naam sheeba ammi razia aur uska naam kavi ammi arman bano hai

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: i love someone .he goes in my bus but he doesnot know me .plz koe aisa wazifa btae k wo mujh se muhabbat karne lage aur hmara jald nikah ho jae jald az jald

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khof maujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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54133
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Darkhwas hai muje jawab dijiyega jaldi hum ap ke jawab ke muntazir hai, or ye b btaiega ki kya hme inhe kuch kehna chahiye ki ni

Answer: Jins e mukhaalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Aurat or us k wali(baap/dada) ke liay behter hai k on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka shohor main hona zarori hay aurat ko chahiay kay wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo deendaar,paak daman,or baa akhlaaq ho.sharabi nah ho or buraeyoo or muhliq gunaho ka irtekaab nah kerta ho (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi Masayl Ayatullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 387 pg # 232) Agar kunwari larki in sifaat ko ehmiyat deta hai to pasand ki shadi me koi harj nahi albatta apkay baap/dada ka razi hona zaroori hai jub tak ap nikah nahi kar sakti (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,33rd Edition,maslah # 2341)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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53901
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: If the person commits Phone sex.. 1. is Phone Sex (Sms / Call) comes under the list of zina ?? 2. What are the remedies / Kuffara ?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.Ot toba or istighfaar is ka kaffara hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) S/no:69

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Question: Assalamu Aalaikum main ek ledke se mohabbat karti hu aur woh bhi mujhse beinteha mohabbat krta hai hamara reletion ship 7 sal se hai, par uske ghar walo ne uski mangni karwadiye hai lekin woh mujhse shadi karna cahta hai, aap meri madad karo kuch aisi dua batao ya amal jis se uski mangni tutjae jald se jald. plzzzzzz aap meri madad kero

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam! mein ek larki sey beintaha muhabbat karta hun 3 saal ho gaye hain aur ham kabhi nae miley na esa koe erada rakhtey aen ! mein us sey shadi karna chahta hun aur wo bhi esa e chahti hai! kia hamara baat karna sahi ae ? nd wo apney parents ko btaney sey bhi darti ae us k bhi koe hal btaye! plzz give detailed answer with quran o hadees reference !

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga.(Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mai ek ladki se bahot pyaar krta hu pr abhi meri usse bat nahi ho parhi hai koi tareeka bataye jisse wo mujhe phone kare

Answer: Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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Question: sir , main kisi ko pasand karti hun.. per mujy nai pata k wo karta hy k nai , wo family main hain . main kya karon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ASSALAM-ALIKUM mere magni ho chuki he aur me ek dosre larke se muhabbat karte hu wo b mjh se bht muhabbat karta he aur kehta he k wo mjhe Allah se duaon me mang le ga lekin mera magetar mjhe us se bat karne ki ijazat nahi deta lekin me us larke ko nahi chor kyo k usko ek bemari b he aur wo mere bager nahi reh pata ab me apne magetar se jhot bolte hu me kisi ka b dil nahi torna chahte mjhe koi hal bataen?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Jesa k apne btaya k ap us larke se mohabbat krti hen to is qism k taluqat rakhna ya isi ghrz se bat chit krna haram hatta k apk mangetr se bat krna) agr lazzat k irade or gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf ho to jaiz nahi hai ( q k wo dono ap k liye na_mehram hen or na_mehram se is qism k taluqat rakhna jaiz nahi hen phir chahe dil dukhe) Q k sb se bari bat insan k liye ye hai k Allah kis bat pr Naraz hota hai, Hmen Allah Ta`la ko khush rakhna hai chahe koi dukhi ho ya na ho).(Ref : Aqai Sistani(d.db), Nigah or Libaas 10 Marajaye k Fatawa k Mutabiq, 1st Edition, Page#57-58, Ques# 76-77-78)

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Question: AOA, mujay ek larki pasand hai koi tarika btaen jis se wo mujhay pasand kr lay or un kay ghar walay shadi krwa dain us ki mujh se, larki ko bhe ni pata may us ko pasand krta hn

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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Question: Asalamualikum mera rasam hogaya aur mai mere hone wale shohar se bat kartiu aur hamare beech kabi kabi bhout behaz hojati char din achae rehte hum khushi khushi se but phr kuch aisi bat hoti k behaz hojati unku bhout gussa aata vo bhout gusse vale hai aur kuch aise bata boldete ki merku b bhout bura lagta aur gussa aajata to mai jawab dedetiu unku isme hamari ladayi aur badjati phr uno do teen din tak bat nai karte phn nai karte aur mai unku bhout chahtiu mai khona na chahriu unku uno gusse aake hamesha chordene ki bat karte har bar aisi karte mai kaisa bardash karna bhout jnsulting feel hota plz merku kuch rah batayiye plz

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Jesa k apne btaya k ap us larke se mohabbat krti hen to is qism k taluqat rakhna ya isi ghrz se bat chit krna haram hai hatta k apk mangetr se bat krna bhi) agr lazzat k irade or gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf ho to jaiz nahi hai ( q k wo (shadi se pehle) ap k liye na_mehram hen or na_mehram se is qism k taluqat rakhna jaiz nahi hen.(Ref : Aqai Sistani(d.db), Nigah or Libaas 10 Marajaye k Fatawa k Mutabiq, 1st Edition, Page#57-58, Ques# 76-77-78)

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53478
Mujtahid:
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Question: ma ek ahlesunat larky sy mohabbat krti hn aur wo b krta ha.hm shadi krna chahty haen.lakin hmari zindagi mei kuch aesy halat aye k ma ny kesi aur larky sy baaat ki.meray lover ka trust toota aur ab wo bhot takleef mei ha..na chor skta ha aur na pass reh skta ha..plz meri madad kren..ma apny past k gunahoun ko delete krna chahti.tobah krna chahti houn aur apny lover ka sakoon chahti houn k os k dil mei phr trust paeda ho jae.aur shadi k lye ghar walo ko kesay mnaoun?.plz en sb k lye wzaif b btaen..

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera sawal h k shadi se pahele apni girl friend k kiss ya touch kar skte hain ( Maine allah se kasam khayi h k jab meri bivi hogi yahi hogi mera irada sirf osiko apni sharik e hayat banana h) sawal thik se samjhe

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)Shadi se phelay girl friend ko kiss ya touch karna haraam hai.(Ref: nigah o libaas, pg # 70, masala # 109) (Khuda tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asslam o alaikum. Main kisi ladki se bahoot bahoot bahoot jaida peyaar karta hoon aur ham dono ki rista 5 se 6 sal se hai.... aur hamare ghar waLe aur us ladki ke ghar wale sab kuch jante hai ham dono ke bare main..... Yaha tak ke main unke pure family se bhi baat kar chuka hoon.... aur wo bhi mere family se bhi baat kar chuki hai... Achanak main use mobile pe gussha se bahoot bahoot jor se dat diya tha aur gussha main us ke school main bhi call kar diya tha aur usi ke wajah se wo mujhse baat tak nahi kar rahi hai........ Main chata hoon wo maan jaye aur wo hamse baat kar le is ke liye main kon si duwa phadu jo phele se bhi bahoot bahoot accha ho jaye ham dono ke bicch main....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Me 1 ladki ko bhot pasand karta hun,, par woh kisi wajah se ab mujse baat nai karti... Plz koi aisa asan wazifa den.. Jisse hum 2no k beech sab theek ho jaye.. Or ek baat woh ladki Gair mazhabi h.. Par me chahta hun woh Islam Qubool kar le.. Kya Islam me ye jaiz h..??

Answer: 1) Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha(Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho(Ref:Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253) 2)Dua-e-tawassul ko har waqt perh saktay hain, laikin kisi khaas maqsad k lie is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz-e-fajar kay baad 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay kay baad parh kar dua mangain. Insha allah parvadigar aap kay haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum sir mene apni mangetar k sath phone pe full sex kia h aur real me bhi uske sath upar upar se sex kia h pr andar nhi kia to kia ye zina h plzzz sir mjhe btae me bht preshan hun kia mangetar k sath shadi se pehle gandi baat krna ya upar upar se sex krna gunah h plzzz btae me har namaz me toba krta hu sir mjhe ap toba ka tariqa btae plzzz sir meri shadi hone wali h uske sath agr ye zina h to me shadi se pehle toba krlun plzzz sir meri help kren plzz mjhe btae sir

Answer: Mangetar na mehram hai aur na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nahi hai laikin haram hai is lie tauba karain (Ref: kitaab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) ghuzishta amal k liye Allah say Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne waday per amal na karey(Ref: sistani.org ques # 1,toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: As salam ualeykum sir MUJHE apse mushwara chahye ya koyi wazifa .. I ll explain to u Mere college ki dinon se main aur ek larka ek dusre se bohot pyar karte hai Aur phir kch aisa hua ke usko majbooran magni karni pari But vo kush nahi hai and 1 saal hogaya but ab bi vo aur main ek dusre ko chahte hai Vo apne mum dad ki vaja se chup hai magar chahta hai ke rishta tut jaye ... Then please can you help me Aap mujhe koyi wazifa ya aap kch isthikara karke mujhe bataye ke hum dono k beech main possible hai ke nahi ... Please its urgent Fi iman ALLAH ALLAH HAFiz

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kia larki se fone per sex karna jaiz hai or kya larki ki gaand marna jaiz hai

Answer: Na mehram se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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6063
Mujtahid:
Yes

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Question: A/a sir, meira aik dost ladkiyon say phone pe baat karnay kay baad ya kisi khoobsoorat ladki ko dekhnay waqat apni azoo makhsoos say goond (paste) of watery colour niklana ussay shuroo hota hai, kya aysay main ghusal karna farz hojata hai ya nahin. Jawab kay saath ref. aur hadith bee quote kijeayaiga.

Answer: 1) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi q ke ghuna me mubtila honay ka khof majood he (Ref: kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106,pg # 69) 2) Agar kisi shaks k badan se koi ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho kay ye mani hai ya phishab ya koi aur chease ,agar wo ratubat shewat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan suss ho gaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai laikin agar in 3 ealamaat me se sari ki sari ya khuch moujood na ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahe aai ge (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah # 345 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
5997
Mujtahid:
mangni

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Question: mara ap say sawal ha kay kaya insan ko mangni kay bad apni mangatir kay sat bat karni chayia ya nai i mean kay phone pe

Answer: Mangiter bhi na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart hai kay is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho warna haram he. (Ref: Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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53311
Mujtahid:
sakina

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Question: sir ma ak larki sa pyar karta ho or shadi karna chahta ho lakin larki razi ha ya nahi mugha pata nahi or ma larki sa bohat pyar karta ho plz mugha wazifa batai plz sir mari help kara

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khauf ho) (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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53282
Mujtahid:
Mtlb kiska name

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Question: Assalam , mera sawal h ki me ek ldki se shadi krna chahta hu nd wo b dono muslim h lekin dono k parents agree ni h na ek dusre ko jante h plzz kchh aisi dua btaiye jisse hm dono k parents apas mil jaye nd razi b ho jaye . . . . . . . Plzz rply soon m waiting

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam hai (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khauf ho) (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458,pg#253) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar kay apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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53368
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Question: Asalam o Alikum Sir Mera Masla ye hai k main aik larki say pasand ki shadi karna chahta hon larki bhe ALLHUMDULILLAH ready hai lakin sab sy bara masla us k ghar walon ka hai wo razi nhe horahe hai so ap batain k kon sa wazifa ya amal karon k ALLAH un k parents ko razi kar dey us k dilon main bat dal dey or rishta hojaye Please waiting for your urgent Response Regards

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khauf ho(Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar kay apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga sath me ye masla bayaan karta jao kay (Ref: Naway-e-salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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51825
Mujtahid:

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Question: ASSALAOALAIKUM SIR MAINE PEHLE BHI APSE QUE KIA BT MUJHE ABHI TAK JAWAB NI AYA SIR MUJHE YE BATAIYE KI MAI EK LADHKI SE BHT PYAR KARTA HU AUR HUMDONO SHADI BHI KARNA CHAHTE HAI BUT MERI PADHAI KO PURI HONE ME 3 SAAL HAI AUR USKE GHR WALE USKI SHADI JALDI KARA RAHE HAI AUR RISHTE KI BAAT BHI HOGAI HAI PAR SIR AP PLz kuch aisa masla batae ki uski rishte ki baat tut jae aur mujhse shadi hohae mai plz plz mere que ka jawab zarur de aur sir mai usse phn par sex bhi karta hu joki gunah hai to humdono ye adat chodhna chahte hai to hum dono dheere dheere karke chodhe to chalega kya ya turant chodhde bcz ekdam se chodhte nahi ban raha plz batai sir..

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
51836
Mujtahid:
agha sistani

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Question: (sr) salam alaikum janab mere sasur meri biwi ko lejane ke liye aye to maine unse sawal kia tumne ane se pahle mujhse kyo nahi pucha to wo kahte hai ham tujhse kyo puche tu hai kon ? Uske bawajood b maine bhej diya mai waha phon karta tha to wo bolte the jab tak meri biwi waha unke ghar hai mai waha phon na karu wo kahte hai tu usko gali deta hai isliye usse bat karne ki zaroot nahi uske bad hamari bat hui or rozana ham shohar biwi bat karte hai to ab wo kahte hai ke agar usse bat karni hai to mere se ijazat leni hogi aap plz mujhe jawab de kya wo sahi kar rahe hai apna baap hona ka sahi haq ada kar rahe hai kya wo aisa kar sakte hai ? Ha ye sahi hai jab mai unki bato ko jo unhone mere sath ki yaad karta hu to apni biwi ko gali deta hu lekin kya unhe ye sab bat kahne ka haq hai ? Plz jawab zaroor de

Answer: jis aurat ka nikah ho jaye us k liay haraam hai k shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar say bahar niklay (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition, maslah # 2376) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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51835
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Question: Salam.. mene apna pyar kho dia jis ldke se mai pyar krti thi wo.mje achnk chod dia mai use bht pyat krtih hu plz mje koi wajifa batye plzzz jisse wo wapas ajye mere pas

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal# 106 pg# 69) Kunwari(virgin) lerki us waqt tak nikah(daimi/mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah 2341) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho gay (Ref: Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
51862
Mujtahid:
shadi

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Question: Assalam-o-alailum.....mera naam tariq hai main ek ladki se bepanah muhabbat karta hoon..or wo bhi mujhse bepanah muhabbat karti hai...hm dono shadi karna chahte hain...ladki ke ghar me ladki ki ammi ko ye rishta manzoor ni hai...or wo uske liye liye koi doosra rishta dekh re hain.....jiski wajah se ladki bilkul na-ummeed ho gayee hai ki ab hmari or uski shadi ni ho payegi..jiski wajah se usne hmse sare rishtey tod liye hain...mujhse ab wo bilkul baat ni karti hai....Aap se meri rivayat hai ki koi aisa wazeefa...taweez batayein jisse hamri shadi aaraam se ho jaye sbki marzi se..or wo b hmse pahle ki tarah baat kare....Aap k jawab ka intezaar hai...please help me main bht zyada pareshan hoon........JAZAAK ALLAH

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253) Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi/mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah 2341) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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52873
Mujtahid:

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Question: Aoa sir mujy divorce hue ha ma ab claass fellow sa shadi krna chati ho wo be us k parents razi ha mary nahe mujy koe waziafa batiay k mary kehnay sa bagair wo khud mann jiay caste nd maslak k be farak ha plz help mee

Answer: Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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52874
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Question: Mai 1 jaga shadi krna chahta ho magar larki walay razi nai hen mal or deen ki kami ki waja se ap mjhe Kch batayen jis se wo razi ho jayen

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
52886
Mujtahid:
Lahore

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Question: A.o.A. Molana sahib ma lahore sy bat kr rha houn mera masla ye ha k mera rabta mobile py aik lrki sy howa wo bohat hi naik or achy kirdar ki ha wo mery dil ma bas gaye ha or ab hm dono shadi krna chahty hain to ap hamain kuch parhny k leay btayen ta k hmary rishty ma kisi b kisam ki rukawat na aye plz mjy zaror jwab degeay ma ny bht umed k sath ap sy sawal kya ha?

Answer: Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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52897
Mujtahid:

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Question: agr koi na mehram breast ko zabardasti touch kr ly tou kya woh zina men shamil hota ha?

Answer: Mard k leye namehram aurat k badan ya baal ko maas karna haram hai.(laikin agar dokhul na hoa ho yani mard ne apna penis (ala tanasul) aurat ki sharam gha me dakhil na kiya ho to ye zina nahe hai) (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 16)

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52923
Mujtahid:

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Question: ASALAM OALIKUM MARA SAWAL YA HA K MA AIK LARKY KO BOHT LIKE KRTI HN WO MJY LIKE NI KRTA PLEASE KOI ASA WASIFA BTA DYN K WO MJY LIKE KRY AUR MJ SY BT KRY AUR MRI US SY SHADI HO JY

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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52933
Mujtahid:

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Question: mera name kiran he mere mangetar mujhe peche se karte hen kehte hen shadi k baad aage se karonga me boht preshan hon kia peche se karne se ghusal wajib hota he please zaroor bataayen.... mera EMAIL ADDRESS: kiran_afshan07@yahoo.com

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai aur namehram aurat k jisam ko dhekna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397,before 2328 ) Sharaai nikah k begair mard (orat) k lye kise bhi aurat (or mard) se jinse taluqat qaim karna haram hai, or zina karna bhi haram hai aur ghuna kabira me se hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition 2009) Jo shaks shadi na kerne ki wajah se haram kam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31). agar koi shakhs aurat sai jima kray aur uzwa_e_tanasul (penis) supari ki miqdar tk ya is sai ziada dhakil ho jae to ye dhokool faraj mai ho ya dubr(back side) aur chahae balig ho ya na balig aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho donoo mujnib ho jatay hain. Aur namaz ya is jaisi doosri ibadatoo k lie ghusl e janabat krna wajib hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #,348,356) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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52948
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Question: Assala Waalaikum...Na samjhi me maine kisi se mohabbat kr lya mgr mjhe is bat ka ilm bhot der bad hua k islam me Duniawi mohabbat jaij nhi,mgr hmara relation takreeban 7 salo se hai aur ab wo meri Jarurat si ban gai hai jis k begair jeena duswar sa lgta hai us se door rhne k nam se dar sa lgta hai..ab aap btaiye mjhe kya us se riste ko khatam kr dena chahiye ya us k sath Nikah kr lena chahiye pls is ka jawab jald se jald de ta ke mai sahi faisla kr sku...

Answer: Ap ko aik fiqhi masle ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai k Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) (Albatta isalm pasand ki shadi se nahi rokta to behtar hai ka shadi krlen, is k liye hm apko wazeefa dete hen) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

Id:
53228
Mujtahid:
molana shab

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Question: meri age 17 hai me ak larky sy bht pyar krti hu lkn wo mujhsy badzan hua hua hai meri kuh ghaltio ki waja sy or muh meri ghaltio ka ehsas ho gaya hadi ab me usy wapas pana chahti hu plz help me

Answer: Jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) apko us se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)

Id:
50979
Mujtahid:
islam

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Question: slam, meri mangni ko aek sal ho chuka h bht koshsh k bawjod mali msael ki bdolt shadi ni ho ri sadge sy shadi men khandan razi ni h mery mangter k sath romanvi taloqt hen hum ny wo khas kam ni kiya kya romanvi taluqat rakhny sy hamara shadi ka rishta jaez na hoga hum sachy dill sy aek dosry ko apna manty hen? plz ans me

Answer: Mangni ka islam men koi aytbar nahi hai, jab tak ap ka nikah nahi hojata hai tab tak ap ka mangetra se is qism ka relation rkhna haram hai, q k apki mangetr bhi dusri oaraton ki tarah jab tak nikah nahi hojata , wo bhi ap k liye namehrm hai.(Ref: Aqai Sistani, Sawalat or jawabat 10 mrajaye kiram k ftwon k mutaiq, pg#31). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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6183
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalm-o-laikum!mai ne apk answer parhe ap ne kaha k mangater se aam mamol ki guftagu jaiz hai.lkn mangater tu nameham hota hai aur namehram mard ko awaz sunayi de tu ye tu gunah hai.

Answer: ager ye awaaz lazat or haraam main mubtala hone ke koof ke bager suni jaye to koi harj nahi, or ager lazat ki niyat se ho ya haaram main mubtala hone ka khoaf ho to is ka sunna jaiz nahi. (Ref : Nigah or Libaas, Masla # 84)(ALLAH apki tofeeqat men izafa farmaye).

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9409
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalam Alaikum. Main Ek other religion ki ladki se mohabbat karta tha aur woh bi mere se karti thi. woh islam kabool karne se lekar name change karne aur namaz ke liye bi taiyar thi. lekin woh chahti thi ki gharwalon ki marji se sadi ho. usne apne maa ko bataya to ma ne mana kar diya lekin unhone hame milne se mana nai kiya. 15-20 din bad woh ladki boli main apse sadi nai kar sakti apke liye mere dil me kuch nai hai. maine kuch logon ko bataya to unhone kahan ki uski ma kuch khila di hai jiske karan tu us ladki ke dil se nikal gaya hai. kuch aisa amal bataye ki uski ma jo kari hai woh kat jaye aur us ladki ke dil me mere liye pyar phir se paida ho jaye. mera name Mohammmed Kalam Baksh Hain aur Us ladki ka Name Neha Sao hai. ap bi jara fal kholke bataye. Please help me.

Answer: Jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) apko us se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) jis orat se musalman mard shadi kre us ka orat k musalman hona zaruri hai lehaza se nikha nahi hoskta, (Ref : Ayat_ullah Sistani(d.b), Tozeeh-ul-masail. 33th Edition, Maslaa#2362) Ek baligh or kunwari larki jab shadi krna chahe tous k liye zaruri hai k wo apne wali(bap or dada) ki ijazat k bger nikah na kre.(Ref : Ayat_ullah Sistani(d.b), Tozeeh-ul-masail. 33th Edition, Maslaa#2341).(Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe) S/no:6353

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9426
Mujtahid:

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Question: Asalam- ul-alakuim mei ek larkay ko pasand karti hu hum teen saal se saat thay lakin mainay usko seriously nahi liya menay dosray larko se batain ki usay kitnay jhoot bholay aur ab teen saal baad jub usko sub pata chala tu usnay mujhe chor diya aur mujhe bohat dhook hai ki mainay yeh sub kiya main na samaj thi ab din raat bus yehi dua karti hu ki khuda mujhe maaf kar day aur mujhe ak moka de day aur woh meri zindagi mei wapis ajaye ek dafa mujhe apni galti ka bohat ehsaas hai aur woh tu mujhse baat tak nahi karta ap lease koi wazifa bataye jis ki parnay se uskay dil mei meray liye ek dafa phir se pyar bhet jaye aur woh meri zindagi mei wapis ajaye mei bohat pareshan hu mei ek dafa apni galti sudarna chahti hu please koi wazifa batey shukriya!

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) apko us se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, (mgr ye hai k apki us larke se shadi hojaye q k shadi se pehle wo apk liye na_mehram hai or na_mehram se is qism k ta`luqat rakhna jaiz nahi hen) mgr islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga.(Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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9367
Mujtahid:

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Question: main aik larke se piyar karti hon or wo mujh se or ham ne piyar mai har tarah ki limits cross ki or ham se zina hogya.....ab ham dono toba karna chahte hain....Allah kia hamain maaf kar day ga ? or kiaa ham ab shadi kar sakte hain tooba k baad ? hamain apas mai hi shadi karni chahye ya apne raste alag kar lene chahye ?

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wade per amal na kare, Or ghuna se bachne k liye mazboot irada chahiye.(Ref : Email sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) Jis shakhs ne kisi orat se zina kiya ho or us se shadi karna chahae to is k lie Ehtiyat_e_wajib ye hai k wo donon toba karne se pehle nikah na karen.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: asalam o alikum mai ek larki ko bht pasand krta hu wo meri bachpan ki class fellow hai.. mai ne usy bht dair k bd kuch din phly dekhha mai us se shadi krna chahta hu per us se pehly us se bt krna chahta hu plzzzzz koi wazifa bta den k meri us se bt b ho jaye or meri shadi b us se ho jaye...shukria

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti(jis bger kisi ayse khayal k bat chit bhi hoti rehti hai) ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete hen. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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50862
Mujtahid:
Education Masail

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Question: @ASSALAMUALAIKUM Warahmatullahi Wabarakatohu,(1) problem-Maine B.H.M.S 1st year me ADMISSION Liya hu.Kya homoeopathic degree hasil karna ISLAMICALLY Jayaz hai agar nahi to main is course ko INSHAALLAH Chhordunga..kyoki yha pharmacy subject me alchohol se medicine preparation sikhaya jata hai aur bina alchohol homeopathy incomplete hai.dusri problem ki anatomy class me human body ki dissection hoti hai aur bhut sari baat shariat k khilaf hoti kya apne course ko continue karna sahi hai ya chhorna sahi hai.(HAFIZUR RAHMAN,ASANSOL,WESTBENGAL,B.Sc[chemistry honors] & currently studying AT 1st professional B.H.M.S in NATIONAL INSTITUTE OF HOMOEOPATHY,kolkata.m,bhut bari ilteza hai is problem se aasani me madad karne ki (2)treatment karna gair mahram ko kya jayz hai bina parda k jo aaj kal hota hai (3)problem-Meri nikah ho chuki hai ek yatim larki se lekin garib hone k wajah se mere adoptive father ne kubul nahi kiya(mujhe god liya gaya tha 6 mhine ki umar me),is liye apne mayke me rah rahi hai,kya main use yhi rkh kar B.H.M.S Complete karne ja skta hu.

Answer: (1) Homoeopathic course seekhne men koi maslah nahi h q k alcohol ki tamaam aqsam chahe unhen lakrhi se banaya gaya ho ya kisi or chiz se paak hen, layhaza wo tamaam dawaen, itar or khane peene ki cheezen jin men alcohol shamil ho pak hen. Bas is sorat men aap k homeopathic k course seekhne men koi haraj nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Jdeed Fiqfi Msaa`il,page#58). (2) Anatomy course men ek maslah nigah k ehkam k hawale se ata hai k agar wo human body agar mard ki ho to us k sharmgaah ki taraf dekhna haram hai baaqi badan men dekhne men haraj nahi, or agar wo body aurat ki ho to us k chehre or hath kalaiyon tak to dekhne men koi maslah nahi is k alawa aurat k jism or us k balon ki taraf nigah kerna haram hay, lehaza is course men aap ko mushkilat derpesh hoskti hen, bas agar is course k seekhne k baad aap ko yaqeen h k future men aap kisi ki jaan bachaane ka karenge to haraj nahi hai, lekin agar aap ko aysa yaqeen nahi hai to is soorat men aap ka anatomy k course seekhne men jaiz nahi hoga.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msla#2397) (3) Agar aap ka us larki se nikah ho chukka hai or us larki k walid ki ijazat bhi hai to ye nikah sahi hai aap ka apne walid se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai, or aap ki wife ka apne meyke men rehne men bhi masla nahi hai magar uska khana peena, libaas, rehaish or zindgi ki baqi zarooriyaat ka intezam kerna shohar per wajib hai,or aap course k liay bhi jaskte hen unhen wahan chorh ker magar ek sahrt ye hay k aap 4 mahine se ziyada arsa apni jawan wife k sath humbistari kerna chorh nahi sakte siwaay ye k agar aap ki wife is per razi hon to phir koi maslah nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msla#2376-2382). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Agar koi ohde se maulana hai aur mard zaat hai....koi sawalat k alawa hmara unse bat karna .....jayaz hai ya nhi......???? Jaise namarham se bat karna jayaz nhi toh apne mazhab ke insan se bhi jayaz nhi ho.... Mujhe iss kashmksh se nijaat dilae...

Answer: Na_mehram se guftgu aam tor per dosti or mohabbat ka sabab banti hai is liye is ko sharai sawalat tak mehdud rakhna lazmi hai, Na_mehram(chahe wo apke mazhab ka ho ya nahi)se baat karne se burai or guna men mubtala hone ka khof ho to jaiz nahi (Ref : Sawalat or jawabat, 1st ,masala # 76,79,pg # 57,58) (ALLAH ap ki tofeeqat men izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA mera masla yeh hay ke main kissi ko pasand karti hon lekin kissi ne hamary beach main misunderstanding create ker di hay ab wo baat bhi nahi ker raha hay plz ap kuch ess bata dain pardhny ke liye jo wo meri taraf mail ho jay shukriya

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam alaikum, Hazrath, kya unmarried girl married discussion parh sakti ha ya nhi. meri umer 22 year ha. for example http://www.noorclinic.com/, or http://www.faizaneattar.net/ pa jo question and answer ha wo parna jaiz ha ya nhiii.

Answer: ager shehwat ko ubaarne ka baais bane to in ka perna jaaiz nahi hai.(Ref:sawalaat or jawaabaat,tabaa 1,masala # 85, pg # 60, ALLAH ap ki toofeeq main izafa farmaae).

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50635
Mujtahid:
Allama sistani

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Question: Sub sy pehly slam aur ya ali(a.s) madad kehta hon aur Mera sawal yeh k mere mangni ko 1 sal ho chuka hy aur men apni hony wali bivi sy shadi sy pehly sirf aur sirf itna taulq rkhna chahat ho k woh mujh sy batt aur hall ahwal krti rhy aur men shadi sy pehly koi jinsi lazat bhe ni lena chahta kia yeh islam men jaiz hy

Answer: Na-mehram aurat ki awaz sunna jaiz hai ba-shart ye k lazzat aur shehwat ki neyat sy na ho,aur haram mai mubtila honay ka bhi khof na ho. Aurat k leye ye jaiz hai k wo apni awaz na-mehram mardo ko sunaey mgr ye k haram kaam mai mubtila honay ka khof ho tou is surat mai jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:A.sistani,jadid fiqhi masail,pg#266,masla#510). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam maulana mera masla ye hai k me ek ladke se bahut pyar karti ho aur usse shadi karna chahti ho plz mujhe koi wazifa batayien k meri shadi usi se ho

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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6054
Mujtahid:
islaah

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Question: shaadi se pehle mangetar se milna kaisa hai?

Answer: Mangetar namehram hai.aur Aik (namehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki jasakte hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aise baat bhi na ki jarahe ho jis ka kise ajnaben khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib na hota ho. ise tarah beghair lazzat k irade k is ki baten bhi suni jasakte hen jab k haram me bhi na perne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne wali ho. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1)

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8976
Mujtahid:
Dua,wazifa

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Question: Main ek ladke se char saal se pasand karti hun,bohat pyaar karti hun usko. Lakin 3 saal ke baad main ne usko kahan ke main usey pasand karti hun.wo bi muje like karta tha aur baat karne laga aur mujse shaadi karna chahata tha .wo bohat gusey wala hai,choti se baat ko leke 2 months hogaye wo mujse baat nai karta aur wo kehta hai ki ab muje kabi baat nai karne hai,kuch bi nai manta wo.plz muje bolia main kya karun jis se wo wapas plz,aur jaldi rply kariye ga plz

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam alaikum meri shadi hone wali hai aur mai usse bahut zyada baate karta hu, aur hum log sex k v bate karte hai kya hone wali bivi se sex ki bate kar sakte hai plz. Bataye

Answer: Jab tak apka nikah nahi hojata tab tak wo apk liye na-mehram hai or shohar or biwi k ilawa kise or se Fahash baten krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat-ullah sistani (d.b). part # 2, masla # 34)

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9451
Mujtahid:
ayatulla sistani

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Question: salamun alaikum.....mera salwal ye hai k main 1 apni cousin se bht bht mohabbat karta hu aur usse shadi karna chahta hu...wo pehle mujhse baat karti thi per ab wo mujhse nahi bolti....plz kuch aisi dua btae k wo mujhse bht bht bht mohabbat kkarne lage....plz help me....reply me soon....

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mehram aur gher-mehram kia frq hai ?

Answer: Insaan k liay apne mehram aurato se nikah karna haram hai, aur aurato k liay apne mehram mardo se perda karna wajib nahi hai (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2349 ,2401). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya aurat kisi male doctor se elaj karwae jis me uski sharam gahen nazar askhti hun ye jaiz hai? jaab k female doctor bhi available ho?

Answer: Agae aurat na-mehram mard se apne kisi aisi bemari ka ilaj karane per majboor ho jis ka ilaj wo bheter tour per karsakta ho to wo aurat is na-mehram mard se apna ilaj karasakti hai.chunache wo mard ilaj k silsele me is ko dhekhene ya is k badan ko hath laghane per majboor ho to mard k liay aisa kerna jaiz hai.Laikin agar wo sirif dehke kar ilaj kar sakta ho to zarore hai k is aurat k badan ko hath na laghaay aur agar sirf hath laghane se ilaj kar sakta ho to phir zarori hai k is aurat per nigah nah dale . Agar insaan kisi shaks ka ilaj karne k silsile me is ki sharamgha per nigah dalne per majboor ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per osay chahiay k aeina saamne rakhay aur is me dhekhay .Laikin agar sharamgha per nigha dalne k ilawa koe chaarah nah ho to phir koe haraj nahi .agar sharamgha per nigah dalne ki muddat aeine me dhekne ki muddat se kam ho nazar karna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2405,2406 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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49244
Mujtahid:
ALI SISTANi

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Question: Kiya larka larke se larke se honton se kiss le sakta hai? ya zaban choos sakta hai ? or money b kharij na ho or na he kcuh or plz reply zaror den mene pehle bhi sawal kiya hai ka ee bar.thanks

Answer: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair aur chahay baad mai shadi hi Q nah karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir mara name darakhshan hai mother name shahnaz begum hai,sir ma kisi larka ko pasand karti ho shadi bi karna chati ho wo bi yah hi chata tha but ab us na mara sath bat karna chor dai hai plz ap kuch asa wazifa bataya jis sa us larka ka dil ma mara laya payar pada ho jay mari us sa shadi bi ho jay aur mara sub ghar wala aur mari puri family man jay ais k alwa ir ma umra karna chati ho mara pass pasay ni hai koi asa wazifa bataya jis sa mara umra karna k wasila ban jay plz

Answer: 1)Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se aurat ka merd ko Dekhna Haraam hay(Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho(Ref:Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253) 2)Dua-e-tawassul ko har waqt perh saktay hain, laikin kisi khaas maqsad k lie is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz-e-fajar k baad 2 rakat namaz e hajat ada kernay k baad perh kar dua mangain. Insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) ROZI: Riwayat mai hai k jo shakhs subah k waqt kisi sai baat karnay sai pehlay 3 bar surah e maeda ayat # 114 ki tilawat karay osay waha sai rozi milay gi jahan sai osay wahm-o-ghuman bhi nai ho ga. (Ref : Kitab payam e shifa Pg # 232) ayat (rab’ban’a anzil alina . . . . . . khairur razaqeen)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Me ek ladki se pyar karta hu lakin na jane kyu wo mujse bat tak nahi karti.please muje bataiye me kya karu?

Answer: 1)Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha(Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho(Ref:Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253) 2)Dua-e-tawassul ko har waqt perh saktay hain, laikin kisi khaas maqsad k lie is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz-e-fajar k baad 2 rakat namaz e hajat ada kernay k baad perh kar dua mangain. Insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41)

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49214
Mujtahid:
question

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Question: salam sir ! Kya apne girl friend ko kis karna jayez hai agr uske k sath be panah muhabbat b karte hu aur us k sath shadi karne ka ba irada hu ?

Answer: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair aur chahae bad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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45407
Mujtahid:
qus 4 shadi

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Question: AoA..hope u r fine . i love some one n he is also but we never to meet eachother we just tk on net n c to eachother only on net but ma chati hu ka mri us sa shadi ho hum 3 years sa bat kr raha ha n jasa wo respect krta ha no one do . plz help me em realy thankful to u

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti Haram hai.(ref:book nigah aur libaas,masla#106,pg#69) Jo shaks surae taha surah#20 ko likh kr green reshmi kapray mai lapait kr rakhay aur shadi k iraday sy kisi k paas jaey tou usay na kaam nahi lotna parayga.(ref:dunya-o-akhirat ki 100 pareshanio ka hal,pg#18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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48666
Mujtahid:
muslim

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Question: Asalamoalaikum mra sawal ye ha k mai shadi say pahly aik larki say pyar karta tha wo b karti thi hmain 10 saal hogay han family k jhagro ki waja say hmari shadi nahi ho paye aj wo b shadi shoda ha mai b wo b aik bachy ki maa mai b baap ho aik bachy ka mgr aj b dil mai aik dosray k liy pyar ha samjh nahe arha kia karain kia agr hm sirf nikah karlain or jismani taluq na rakhain to kia nikah kr sakty ha? wo larki nikah mai rahty hoy nikah karsakti ha ?ya osay talaq laini hogi?bht shokria apky wqt k liy rahnumaye farma dain mehrbani hogi

Answer: Aik larki ka aik waqt mai doosra nikah nahi ho sakta hai. Aur jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna karna jaiz nhi q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2366) (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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50266
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Question: woh kon kon sa log ha jin sa urat ka nikha ho sakta ha. kya khalo our popha mahram hota ha

Answer: Khalu aur phupa na mehram hain aur un sai shadi kar saktay hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2349)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: r0zy mai na mehram se baat kar sakty hain kia..??

Answer: Na mehram sai baat karnay sai roza batil nahi hota hai laikin na-mehram sai aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 1553) & (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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32925
Mujtahid:
Ayat ullah Sistani

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Question: Asalam alikum. meri engagement ho gai he. kya me apne mangetar se moile par text par bat kar sakti ho?

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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48866
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: sir, mai ne ek larki k sath cell phone (call) py romance kia qk hum dono ek dusre se bht mohabat karte thy, ap mje yeh batayn k agr call py romance kara jay or ek dusre ko feel kia jay asay k jese real mai kar rahy hon.. tu yeh gunah hai magar kia yeh zana hai? agr hai tu kia kafara ada kia jaskta hai? or kese kar skte hain? plz mje is bare mai jald az jald batadyn JAZAKALLAH

Answer: Na mehram sai aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) or eska kaffara nahi hota aap sachey dil se toba kar lijye. (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 16) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
35133
Mujtahid:
sistani sb

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Question: maire due kubul kyu nhi hoti hai. mujse ek gunha hua hai mai ek larki se bht pyr krta hu aur kafi tme se hmara afair bhi rha ab hmara rishta bhi ho gya hain. allah ke karam se mashaallah se hm ek dusre se bhtt pyr krte hai. aur ek dusre ke sth kissing aur kch bhi hua hai lkn sb kch nhi hua hai. m iss gunha ki mafi kise mangu aur ab ye bhi tay kiya hai jo bhi krege shadi ke bad krega.

Answer: 1)Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
48437
Mujtahid:
shadi k liye

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Question: aaapne jyada tar logo ko surah taha ka wazifa batay or usme kaha he k agr jinse mukhali dosti ki had tak.bad.jaye wo gunah he.to uska mtlb kya he or koi.kese sure taha ko likhe or jisse pyar krta he uske.pasa.niyyat.e apne.pas rakh.k.to asar.hoga islam.iski.ijazat.deti.he

Answer: Mard aur aurat apas mai na mehram hain aur na mehram ka aik doosray sai aisi batain karna jis sai fasad ka khof ho wo jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
48345
Mujtahid:
islam mai jaiz hai kya

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Question: asalamualikum kya mamu apni sali ya sali ki beti ki shadi apne bhanje se kara sakte hai kya.

Answer: Mamo ki Sali ya mamo ki Sali ki beti bhanjay k lie na mehram hai aur nikah ho sakta hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2349)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
48523
Mujtahid:
Male

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Question: Sir i want to know ki jb hm kisi ladki ko kiss krte he to ek ya do drop (clear fluid) pani jesa chipchipa fluid nikalta he kya usse na paki ho jati he ..??

Answer: 1)Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) 2)Jo ratubat shewat anghese tasaworat k waqt insan apni sharamgha me mahsoos karta hai wo pak hai is se ghusal bhi wajib nahe hota hai aur na wazu batil hota hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
47663
Mujtahid:
islam

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Question: me ake larke se 3 sal se pyar krti hun ham nikha krna chahte han par wo pareshan h k nikha k baad kia hoga mje lagta h k me bina nikha k us se baat kr k ghuna kr ri hun es liye me jald se jald nikha krna chahti hun. q k mama papa ki marzi se hamari shadi 4 sal tak mumkin ni h kia esa ho sakta h k ham abi nikha kr len lekin jab mama papa man jaen to un k samne ake dafa phr nikha ho jae. me us k beger ni reh sakti plz meri madad karen.

Answer: Shadi sai pehlay mangetar sai aam mamool ki baat cheet krna jis k andar koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi hai laikin is mai bhi shrt hai k is sai koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram mai parnay ka dar ho warna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3, sawaal # 137,pg # 65)Note: aap apnay waldain ko faqat nikah k lie razi kar lain aur rukhsati na karain to phir aap donoo aik doosray k mehram ban jain gay. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
47331
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Question: kya kisi ladki se mohabat kerna jaiez hai ya ni

Answer: kisi bhi gair ekhtieri amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
47359
Mujtahid:
muslim

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Question: kya hum Nikah say pehlay ladki say ph par baat kar sakhtay hai ya mil sakhtay hai..give ans with refrence

Answer: Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
47482
Mujtahid:
agha sheestani

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Question: Salam. Meri phupo ki baiti jo ab meri maami ban chuki hai yani uski shadi meray mamoo k sath ho chuki hai. Kia mein us k liye mehram houn. Kindly reply. Regrds. Imran jaffri

Answer: Phupho ki beti aur mami donoo na mehram hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2349)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
34782
Mujtahid:
lahore

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Question: A.O.A mera sawal ye h k jb b ma call pe bat krta hun to muje qatre ate hen or dosra sawal ye k meri age 24 hy or mera jism boht hi patlla h jese dhancha h hadiyon ka sb mera mazak urate hen. Meri bari khuaish h jism mota krne ki jism kamzor h plz koi essa ilaaj btaen k dino ma jism mota ho jae meri job ka b masla h plz plz or jo ilaaj ap btaen to plz ye btaiye ga k ye k wo mdisn kb tk khani h or kese khani h. Im w8 your answer., plz w.salam mere cell num pe b answer kr dijye ga plz.0308 4299331 plz ma boht preshan hon plz

Answer: 1)1)Agar ye qatray wo hain wo khabi khabi shewat ubharnay par mard ki peshab ki nail mai aa jatay hain to ye pak hai aur is sai roza bail nahi hota hai. (Ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat roza ques # 40 pg # 33) 2)Agar yaqeen ho k ye qatray mani hain to roza batil ho jae ga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 1553) 2)Wazan barhanay k lie : Khajoor ka 1 dana ublay hoay chawal k pani k sath khoob achi terah pees lain phir is main thorha sa pani mila ker chotay bachcho ko 2, 3 mertaba dainay se kamzoor bacahy tandrust or tawana ho jatay hain. 2-Pakay hoay timataro ka taza rus chotay bacho ko din main 2, 3 baar dainay se bachchay sheet mand o tawana hotay hain. (Ref: Book, Tandurusti aap k hath main,published by aalamgeer welfare turust, pg#39). 3)Job k lie : Agar koi shakhs rozgar sai mehroom ho gya ho ya rozgar na milta ho to nochandi jumarat aur juma roza rakhay shab e juma mai bistr par janay sai pehlay surah yousuf ki ayat no. 54 say 56 tak aayat ko chnd martaba parhain. Roz e juma namaz e subah aur baad namaz e zohar in aayaat ki tilawat karay aur zohar aur asr k darmian in ayaat ko kaghaz par likhay baad e asr, maghrib aur isha bhi tilawat ko tark na karay aur bistr e khawb par tilawat karnay k baad 100 martaba “ la illaha il’lal’la ” aur 100 martaba “ Allaho akhbar ” aur 100 martaba “ Almamdo lil’lah ” aur 100 martaba “ subhan Allaha ” keh kar takiey(pillow) k nichay rakh kar so jae subah ko bedar honay k baad is noshtay ko taweez bana kar dahanay hath par bandh lay aur Khuda sai pukhta ehad karay k kisi par ziadti na karay ga. inshAllah jald rozgar mil jae ga. Aur agar koi shakhs ye ayaat nahi parh sakta to wo khud roza rakh kar ayaat kisi sai likhwa layaur in tasbeehaat ko parhta rahay. (Ref : Aasar e Ahlbait a.s. pg # 100-01)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
46916
Mujtahid:
no

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Question: kia kisi larky se mohabbat krana jaize hai

Answer: kisi bhi gair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
5868
Mujtahid:

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Question: asalam o alkium..meray dosti ak larky say hoi thi 1yr hojayaa ga and hum bohat achay dost hain..tu kia main us say bat karti hon woh thek hai ya nahi...lakin koi ghalat kam nahi.plz jawab zaroor dein

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
5917
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalam ale kum, Mai ek ladki se pyaar karta hu, aur usey apni life partner bhi banana chahata hu.....kabhi kabhi mai ussey sex ki baate bhi kar leta hu... mai aapse ye malum karna chahta hu k according to islam shadi k pehle us ladki se sex ki baate karna sahi hai ya galat ?

Answer: Shadi sai pehlay larki na-mehram hoti hai aur na mehram sai fawash batain karna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2 masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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46193
Mujtahid:

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Question: AOA sir ma aik larky sy buhat piyar karti hon aur chahti hon k woh b mujay paglon ki turha chahy plz solution buta dein....plzzzz

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
40886
Mujtahid:
Any

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Question: Kya Islam me ladka aur ladki ki dosti jayaz hai

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti haram hai.(Ref:book nigah aur libaas,masla#106,pg#69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
46424
Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: Jinsi lazzat, shehwat aur haram mai mubtila honay k bagair larkio sai ishqia batain karna kaisa hai?

Answer: Ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Sistani.org urdu) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
46425
Mujtahid:
Sistani d.b.

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Question: Larkoo k lie larkio ko dost banana kaisa hai?

Answer: Na-Mehram sai dosti aur rakaqat rakhna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Sistani.org urdu) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
46426
Mujtahid:
Sistani d.b.

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Question: Ishq k baray mai wazahat karain?

Answer: Aksar ishq khayali hotay hain aur in ka sarchashma shehwat hota hai. (Ref : Sistani.org urdu) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
46075
Mujtahid:
Imports

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Question: Kia koi shadi shuda aorat kisi ghair ko bhai Bol sakti hai

Answer: Jee haan bhai bolna jaiz magar haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho aur wo apka na-mehram he rahay ga(yani saga bhai nahi banayga) lehaza parday k tamam ehkamat ki pabandi ki jaegi. (ref : email received frm ayatollah sistani d.b)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
45437
Mujtahid:
dosti

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Question: meri ek frnd hamari relation acchi hai magar badnami k dar se maine usse bat karna chod diya jiska use bahot bura laga to me kya karu/ ladkiyo gair majhab dosti rakhana kaisa hai

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
45443
Mujtahid:

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Question: kiya ladki se mohabbat karna jaiz hai??

Answer: Kisi bhi gair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay ﺍﺮﺘﺒﺎﻂ ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
45376
Mujtahid:

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Question: Mn ak larky ko pasnd krti hn aur us se shadi krna chahti hn.par wo nae krta.koi wazifa btay.

Answer: 1)Kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kar sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2341) 2)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 3)Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway ef salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
45572
Mujtahid:
none

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Question: ASLAM O ALAIKUM meri aik dost hai jab bhi wo apne mangetar se baat karti hai to usko shahowat zahir hoti hai.Uski shalwar gandi ho jati hai kya uske liye kapre badalna aur nahana zruri hai aur sar sey duppata utarne se wazu toot jata hai?

Answer: 1)Wo ratubat jo aurat se shewat k saath kharij hoti he agar is Had tak ho k usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aaloda kar day, jo aam taur par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 345) 2)Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) 3)Dupatta utarnay sai wazoo batil nahi hota hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 322)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
45654
Mujtahid:

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Question: AOA... sir mera question ye hai k larki k lye munh bola bhai bnana jaiaz rishta hai...? mtlb kya wo na mehram nai ho ga lrki k lye...?plz Quran aur ahadees ki roshni mn answer den....

Answer: Is terah sai bhai bananay sai wo larka mehram nahi banay ga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-2406)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
45620
Mujtahid:

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Question: mujhe ek larke se boht pyar he wo bhe phle mjhe se karta tha ab nhn karta dhoka de rha use kis trah apne bas me karo koi wazefa wagera batai me boht mjbr ho

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
44747
Mujtahid:
SUNI

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Question: KIA BIWI KI BEHAN SE YANI SALI SE HATH YA MUSAFA KARNA JAIZ HAI? KIYA SALI NAMAHRM HOTI HAI? KIYA SALI KO SAR PA PIYAR DIYA JA SAKYA HAI? AGAR SALI EDAT MAI HI TO US KO BEHNOI SE PARDA KARNA CHAIY?

Answer: Biwi ki behan yani saali na mehram hai aur os sai hath wagira milana ho ya sar par hath rakhna ho to koi kapra hona zaroori hai aur lazzat k iraday aur ghunah mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho to koi haraj nahi hai warna haram hai. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 71)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
44832
Mujtahid:
Sistani

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Question: Kya kesi women ko lip kiss kr sakty hai jo sirf kiss ki had tak ho?

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
44648
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Question: sir mera question hai ki, mohabbat k baare mai quran kya kahti hai hai,

Answer: Gair ikhtari kaam par koi hokum nahi lagaya ja sakhta. Agarchah is ka muqaddima ikhtiari hay.agar haram ho to is ka murtakib na hoon. Lakin har surat may shawat aur lazzat wala kaam nikah say pehlay haram hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani d.b. official website http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=972 Q#1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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40401
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalam-o-alaikum! mje aapse ye puchna hai k agar koi larka jiski age 19 ho aur wo 6 saal ki bachi ko kiss kare,to ye haram hoga ya zina?, ye b bata den k touch karna kisi larki ko zina kehlaata hai?

Answer: Ehtiyaat e mustahab hay k merd 6 saal ki bachi ko nah choomay(kiss).agar lazzat or haram main mubtila honay k khoof ho tu haram hoga.(( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #23). 2-jee nahi, zina se muraad ye hoti hay k “ Baghair nikah k aurat ki sharam gaah(vagina or anus) main aala e tanasul(penis) ko dakhil kerna.Zina kerna gunah e kabeera hay.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=503+ ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
44065
Mujtahid:
Fiqa jafria

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum. sir mulana sahab main 1 larki se bahoot piyar krta hon or wo my se na piyaar krti he or na hi baat krti he pehly ham dono ki bahot ghehri freindship thi par wo mujy kehti he k mujy gold ki wo chez banwa falan chez banwa do mene os ko 2 ring or 1 locket bhi banwa dia he par har baar wo kehti fana chez banawa do lakin my paas itni amount ni he k har roz os ko gold ki chezen banwa k dyta rhon ab baat ye krnaa chata hon k ap ki mehrbani ho gi k mujy koi esaa wazifa btain mein os ko paron to larki my se piyaar krny lgy na k chezon se plzzzzzzzzzzz esa wazifa btain k jald az jald os kj dil me my mohabbat or ezzat pida ho jay or wo mere bageer na reh sky plzzzzzzzzzzzz mein ro ro kr kehta hon zoroor koi kamil wazifa btain plzzzzzzzzz

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti karna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
43860
Mujtahid:
panjim

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Question: Asslam waleikum, ham ek dusre se bahut pyar karte hai, dono ek hi cast hai musalman hai, 10yrs ho gaye relation ko, hamare bich physical puri tarha se ho gaya hai, lekin unki family unki shadi kahi aur karawa rahi hai aur ye taiyar bhi hai, mene kaha ke mujhse chupke se to nikah karlo kisiiko nahi batayeinge aur fir tum kisi aur se shadi karlena par ye bolte hai ke pehle wo family ki pasand se nikah karenge uske baad mujhse karenge, mene kya karna chahiye jaha tak mujhe pata hai nikah karna sunnat hai, agar dil se mohabbat karte ho to kya nikah karna zaroori hai? aise me mene kya karna chahiye?

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. ( Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
43734
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: main aik sunni larka hu,main aik larki se pyar krta hu wo bhi mjh se pyar krti hai per uski mother bukhari syed hai aur walid ahlebait main se hai , plz ap mjay btain kya main us se shadi kar skta hu.?

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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43397
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Question: kya kisi ladki ko nikah ke irade se mohabbat karna jayaz hai

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
42503
Mujtahid:
Shia

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Question: a.o.a mjhe apxe ye poochna ha ke agr larki larka apne baap dada ko kisi waja se ni btaxkte per unse cntrol na hota ho r wo cl pe bht br sex krchuke hon tw muta ki kia sharait hayn.

Answer: 1) Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(muta / daimi) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2341-42)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
43581
Mujtahid:
Given answer

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Question: Aslam alaikum. Meri age 22 hai. Meri shadi 2-3sal me hone wali hai. My bht kamzor ho gaya hun, kuch kam kren to mere jodo me dard hota hai, aur kamar me bahut dard hota hai, mere chehre pe bahut saare Dag, keel aur pimpls hain, mujhe koi ilaj bataye jis ke badault alah ki ata se my aaram ho jaon. Muje iska jawab zroor den. Alah hafiz

Answer: Kisi bhi ghair ikhtari amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati he lakin yad rahey , shariat kisi bhi aise irtibaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhein haram ki taraf le janay wala ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
40092
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: Mera sawal ye ha k me aik ldke se pyar krte ho..wo mjh se krta ha us k ghar walo ka pta nae k wo mane ge k nae but us k andr bat krne ki himit nae. Koe wazifa btae k me or wo aik ho hae jald az jald....or jo wazifa ap btae ge kya wo wazifa hum periods k dino me kr skte hain ya nae??

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. 1-Ge haan ap is wazefay ko periods k doraan bhi parh sakti hain.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #467) 2-Jins e mukhalif(mard aurat) k sath batain karna is surat mai jaiz nai jab fasad , burai aur ghunah mai mubtila honay ka khof ho. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 58) Wazifa: Rasool(saww) ny famaya:ay Ali a.s surae yaseen ki tilawat kia kro,is mai 10 brkatain hain(in mai sy aik ye hai k)ghair shadi shuda,shadi shuda hojaega. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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40035
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Question: mai apne phopho k bete se bht pyar krti hn wo b bht krta hai family problem ki wja se ghr wale ni man rhe hm dono k koi surat bta dain plz mai wait krun ge

Answer: Surah e ahzaab surah # 33 ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
40011
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: asalam alaikum hazrat mujhe apse ye janna hai ke kya mai kisi ar ke naked pic dikha kar meri kaho tu utna hi guha hai kya jitna meri dene se hai, ya meri dene ke bara bar hai. pleas mujhe jaldi baatai ye hazrat mai buhat pareshan ho mai apne magetar se buhat pyar karti ho computer me aise pic hote hai jo bina face ke kisi ar ke pic de satki ho kya plz mujhe baatai ye hazrat

Answer: Note:is website par fiqah-e-jafria k mutabiq jawabat deye jatay hai. 1-Mangaitr say jab tak nikah nah hojaey wo apka na-mehram rehta hay aur usko apni naked picture dikhana jaiz nahi hai.(ref:book nigaah aur libaas,masla#20,pg#31) 2-Jhoot kehna or dhoka daina azeem gunah hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah #30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
42714
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Question: muje ek ladka pasand hai or unhe b my pasand hu...hum msgs k zariye baat krte hai,or mashallah hum dono namazi hai,or hum hamesha achi neeyatse baat krte.....kya ye jayez hai ya galath hai... or humlog nahi milte kyunki hum dono alag alag shehro me rehte hai...plz answer my question

Answer: Jins e mukhalif(mard aurat) k sath batain karna is surat mai jaiz nai jab fasad , burai aur ghunah mai mubtila honay ka khof ho. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 58) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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42736
Mujtahid:

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Question: shadi se pehlay chest suck krnay ya daikhnay ka kya gunah hai? ya agr jism daikh lay to?

Answer: Nikah sai pehlay aurat na mehram hoti hai aur os k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. aur jism dekhna bhi haram hai.(Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
42927
Mujtahid:
None

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Question: ASSALAMO ALAIKUM W.R.W.B. Sir mera question hai kay aik na mehram larki sy kis hadd tak rawabit jaez hen. Reference dy kr bataiye ga kay aik na mehram larki sy kis kis cheez ki mumaniyat hai. Thank you

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)jins e mukhalif k sath batain karna is surat mai jaiz nai jab fasad , burai aur ghunah mai mubtila honay ka khof ho. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 58) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
39928
Mujtahid:
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Question: please muje btaein ager suser bahu k sath galat harkat(sex) ki bat kry ya kerny ki koshish kry ya zabrdasti usko kiss kry ya touh kry to Quran ki roshni main kia hukam hai? please reply me fast

Answer: Bahu or susar apas main mehram hain, is liay agar touch aur kiss kerna lazzat k iraday aur gunah mai mubtila honay k khoof k baghair ho tu koe haraj nahi (warna ye kaam haram hai).(Ref:book nigah aur libaas masla#118,pg#72). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
39526
Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: main ek musalman balig lrkey ko jism k ks had tk bosa de skta hn jb k mainkhud b balig or musalman hn or us ka ktna jism ko bosa de skta hn

Answer: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair.aur chahae baad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32844
Mujtahid:

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Question: kya allah un ka saath dete hai jo sachha pyar karte hai..kyo wo unki bat sunte hai jise un par pura wishwas ho......me hindu hu.....but dunia me sabse jyada mujhe allah pe bharosa hai.......plz rpy

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti ka is had tak izhaar kerna k us say kehna k mujhay tum say muhabbat hai,jaiz nahi hai aur gunnah hai.(Ref:book nigah aur libaas masla#106,pg#69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
40620
Mujtahid:

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Question: assalam alaikum! kisine ramzan k mahine mey quraan utha ke kassam khai thi or khilaithi ke hum dono kabhi alag nahi honge or shaadi ka wada bhi kiatha,par achanak se badal gaya or kisi orse shaadi bhi karli or muje tarapta hua chhordia to uski kya saza hogi?ya usko ye sab karne ke baad bhi maffi miljaegi?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
40648
Mujtahid:
kra

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Question: peshab main or kisi ladki ka khayal aata hain tab or normal halat main bhi dhatu ( chipchipa pani) jata hain . plz is ke liye koyi islami wazifa or illaj bataye.

Answer: 1)Haram k baray mai sochna agar inzal ka sabab na banay to ehtiyat e mustahabb hai k osay trk kia jae. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 199,pg # 82) 2)Wo ratoobat jo khabi kabar shewat ubhrnay par mard ki sharamgah sai kharij hoti hai osi mazi kehtay hain aur wo paak hai. Aur wazoo ko bhi batil nahi karti (namaz parh saktay hain.)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 70) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32861
Mujtahid:
shia, ahl-e-hadees (both)

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Question: mre aik c.fello k sath 5 saal se contact hai , he purposed me . us ne buht sari qasamy khai thi k i love you i will marry you . ALLAH JI ki, AZAN ki , RASOOL.E.PAAK (PBUH) ki , apni family, maa baap , apni khud ki aur meru bhi.tab m ne un pe yaqeen kia tha.unho ne ye bhi qasam khai k mere allawa kisi se bat nahi kare ga.. magr m ne un k mbile m , ma ne aik larki k masgs daikhy thy jo k 2 lovers m hi hti.. magr mare c.flo ne QURAN pe hath rakh k bola (apni marzi se) keh wo larki meri behno jesi hai , m tum se hi pyar karta aur tum se hi shadi karo ga . ap batie k mjhy uska yaqeen karna chaie ya nahi ........ aur phir ye k wo apne parents ko abhi tak mere lea razi nahi kar saky

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us sy kehna k mujhay tum sy muhabbat hai,jaiz nahi hai aur gunnah hai.(Ref: Book nigah aur libaas masla#106,pg#69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
41478
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: assalam o alaikum janab meri uamr 18 saal hai meri ye problm hai meri ek girlfriend hai or jb b mai us say voice chat krta hon ho yahan geela pan ajata hai or 1.2 drops niklte hen plz iska koi haal btaen...

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. 1)Jo ratubat shewat anghaiz tasaworat k waqt insan apni sharamgah me mahsoos karta hai wo pak hai is se ghusal bhi wajib nahi hota hai aur na wazu batil hota hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 345) 2)Jins e mukhalif sai chatting karnay mai jab fasad, burai aur ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof ho to jaiz nai hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 79 pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32870
Mujtahid:
kissing

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Question: please sir mujhe ap ye bataye k ager koi larka dosre larke(boy) ko kiss karta hai to us ki kia islam me gunah hai ya nh?

Answer: Agar lazzat k iraday aur gunah mai mubtila honay k khoof k baghair ho tu koe haraj nahi hai. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#3, maslah #16). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
39662
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: a.o.a mujy ak boy se pyar hai per wo mujy nhi chahta.mujy islamic tariqa bataein k ALLAH us ka dil meri tarf pher dein.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
39668
Mujtahid:
Baligh

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Question: Asalam-o-alikum, My question is bit wired, I did a sin in my life. I liked a person who was 7 or 8 years elder then. He was working at the same place I was. I was immature. I didn’t told him that I liked him and then he got married I start talking to him after his marriage. I know it was my mistake I shouldn’t talk to him but I couldn’t stop myself. After few months of his marriage he told me he is not happy with his wife and he wants to divorced her and will get marry to me. I realized that was infatuation and there are lots of differences between us. But time has gone he got divorced. I told him I can’t marry with him. Now it’s been long time almost 5-years. I realized that I did wrong things in my life. I have apologized him several times. I still dont want to marry him but I felt all time I did a big sin in my life. Please let me know what should I do? Is ka koi kafara hy?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k gunah me mubtila hone ka khof hota hai hai. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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39680
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Question: AOA...brothers and sisters kaisy hain ap sb? mera sawal ye hai k mein aik larkay ko sachay dil say apna bhai manti hoon..aur wo bhi mjhe apni behn manta hai aur wo mera relative bhi hai tou iss main koi gunnah tou nahi hai? kya wo na mehram hai?

Answer: Jee haan bhai banana jaiz agar haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho aur wo apka na-mehram he rahay ga(yani saga bhai nahi banayga) lehaza parday k tamam ehkamat ki pabandi ki jaegi. (ref : email received frm ayatollah sistani d.b)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32272
Mujtahid:
mujahid - e- taqleed

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Question: As salam alaikum ! sir mera sawal ye hai k agar mein kisi ladke se baat karta hoon , (aur agar hum khud hokar usey koi baat kare jisse ki hum tention mein aajay to kya taharat rahegi ya nahi penis se mani bahar ajati hi, esse mein kafi pareshan hoon meri namazein nahi ho rahi hi. mein samajta hoon ki mein na pak hogaya hoon ajib khayal atey hi.( Note: Aur Zina khori se bachne kya koi acha amal bataiye Allah Hafiz

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)wo ratubat jo khabi khabi shehwat ubhrnay par mard ki penis sai kharij hoti hai osay mazi kehtay hain, agar peshab us se mila hua na ho to pak hai. aur is halat mai namaz aur doosri ibadaat kar saktay hain. Laikin agar yaqeen ho k mani kharij hui hai to ghusl e janab wajib ho ga.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 70, 344) 3)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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33385
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Question: A/w pls btay mara sawal ya hai ke hum apna dost sa baat kartay hai to panis sa 1 bunnd 2 bund maji aata hai mera bat krna kaisa hai?

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)Wo ratubat jo khabi khabi shehwat ubhrnay par mard ki penis sai kharij hoti hai osay mazi kehtay hain, agar peshab us se mila hua na ho to pak hai. aur is halat mai namaz aur doosri ibadaat kar saktay hain.(Ref : Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani d.b. masla # 70) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
37716
Mujtahid:
Yes

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Question: Girlfriend se bat karte waqt ya kisi aur khayal se mere niche se chipchipata hua pani nikal jata hai kya is wajha se mai najis ho jata hu. Aur kya ye to jo nikal hai wo mani hai mani to white hota hai par yeh to pani k shakal ka hota hai plz jaldi se hmari madat karye meri namaz kaza ho rahi hai

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Jo ratubat shewat anghese tasaworat k waqt insan apni sharamgha me mahsoos karta hai wo pak hai is se ghusal bhi wajib nahe hota hai aur na wazu batil hota hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
38504
Mujtahid:
hanfi sunni

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Question: asalm alikum hazrat meri shadi hune wali hai, mera honewala pati mujhe buhat pyar karta hai, bas ek baat ka tention hai o mujh se meri nagi pic pochta hai, mai dena nahi chahati hao o nahi man rahe hai, kya mai kisi ar ki tasveer de sakti ho, plz baataiye warna mera rishta tot jaye ga, kya kisi ar ki tasveer dene se utna hi gunha hoga jitna mera khud ka dene se plz jaldi jawab digiye

Answer: Mangetar na mehram hai aur os ko apni nacked pics bejwana jaiz nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-99)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
37548
Mujtahid:
ayatulla sistani sahab qibla

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Question: mera ye sawal hai ke aurat ka ijaab me mukamil chera bhi chupana hai ya nahi?

Answer: Aurat na mehram mard k samnay chehra aur kalai tk hath khulay rakh sakti hai laikin is surat mai k haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho ya kisi mard ko hath aur chehra dekhana haram mai mubtila karnay k iraday sai na ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2399) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32979
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-allah seestani

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Question: kiya aik larki kisi larky ko apna bahi bna sakti hai or wo dono ye jante hai k un k darmian koi gahalt kam nai ho ga wo sirf achy behn or bahi hai bs or kuch nai

Answer: G haan bhai banana jaiz agar haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho aur wo apka na-mehram he rahay ga(yani saga bhai nahi banayga) lehaza parday k tamam ehkamat ki pabandi ki jaegi. (ref : email received frm ayatollah sistani d.b)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
33038
Mujtahid:

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Question: mai ek larhki ko dil se sister manta hun . kya mai use hug kar sakta hun kya ?

Answer: Ji nahi na mehram ko galy lagana jaiz nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-2406)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
33012
Mujtahid:

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Question: salam i am sajjad.maira sawal ye hay k agar mard dosre mard k sath kissing karey leken shehwat ki nazar say nahi tho kia sirup kissing dono k darmayan jayez hay ya nahe

Answer: Agar lazzat k iraday aur gunah mai mubtila honay k khof k bagair ho tou haraj nahi hai. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas masla # 118 pg # 72) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
33056
Mujtahid:
muslin

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Question: kya mangaitar ko bhai kehna gunah hai ?

Answer: Jee nahi, mangetar ko bhai kehna gunah nahi hai. magar mangetar na mehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
15503
Mujtahid:
kiss lena

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Question: Kya kisi marham mard ya aurat ko kiss kar saktey he jo humarey karibi ho? Jese ma,behen vageyrah... Aur kisi na-marham aurat ka hath ya jism chuu saktey he?

Answer: 1) Jawaan merd k liay jaiz hay k wo muhabbat or piyaar k taur per apni jawaan behen, khala, phophi ya onki choti baitiyoo ko bosa day or agar yehi bosa shehwat ka ba,is bany to jahiz nahi hoga . (Ref : Jadeed fiqhi Masail Ayatullah Sistani d.b. masla #468 , pg #254 ) . 2) Merd ka kisi Na-Mehram aurat k jism ko chona jaiz nahi hai chahay lazzat k iraday se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla #16 )

Id:
36149
Mujtahid:
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Question: Agr koi zina kr le n phr toba kre to kya uske mahram ko phr b wo karz ada karna hoga... Maine kise k sath intercourse ne kiya h kya me b zina ke zad me aata hu. N iska kufara kya h.

Answer: 1)Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) 2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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14127
Mujtahid:

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Question: main ek larki se pyar karta hon us k ghr wlon ne zabardasti us ka nikah kardia hai.koi esa wazifa batain k us ki jald talaq hojae .hum dono esa chahtay hain

Answer: Kisi larki say mohabbat krna jaiz nahi hay q k ghunnah may parhnay ka khof mojood hay. ( Ref : Website ayatullah sistani d.b. ques no 10 topic internet, http://sistani.org/index.php?p=815209&id=1739&page=1&perpage=10) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32940
Mujtahid:
Quraan o itrat academy

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Question: Asslaamualaikum humara aapse sawaal hai k agar ladki ladke se badi ho to unka nikaah ho sakta hai, aur main ek ladki se pyar karta hu jisko abhi tak dekha nhi aur usse jo bhi baatein hoti hai wo had tak rehti hai kabhi koi galat aur gandi baatein nhi hoti to kya ye jaiz hai

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
26653
Mujtahid:
-

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Question: Mein aik larki se pyar krta hun aur hum aik dosrey se shadi krna chahtey they aur kissing aur baqi b bohat kuch krtey rahey lakin zina nai kia. Kya mohabat me aisa krna jaiz hai?

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32069
Mujtahid:
ehly sunat

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Question: salam sir mera sawal ye hay me ek larki sy bohat muhabbat karta hun wo bi karti hay to plz koi asa wazifa batein jo hum ek dojy k ho jay plz sir larki k maa baap or behan nahi maan rahi plz koi dua ya wazifa bata dayen plz plz

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. 1) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2) Hazrat Imam jaffar e sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k jo surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi kapray mai lepait kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pas jae to osi nakaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rehay gi. (Ref : Dunya aur aakhirat ki 100 perashanion ka hal pg # 18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) ok by tabish rizvi

Id:
17380
Mujtahid:

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Question: A.a kaya larka larki ka pura jism naga dakh sakta hai ?aur larki bi larkay ka pura jism naga dakh sakti hai ?

Answer: Mard k lie na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna haram hai. isi terah aurat k lie bhi na mehram mard ka jism dekhna haram hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
17903
Mujtahid:

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Question: HUM 1LADKI KO BAHUT KARTA HU R WO B BAHUT. KYA HUMARA SHADI US LADKI K SATH HOGA MERA NAME MD.NAIMUDDIN MOLLA. LADKI K NAME ZAINAB FATEMA. PLS REPLY ME PLS

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32816
Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: me aik house wife ho me gr pr rh kr ilm hasil krna chati ho mujhy konsi book prhni chaheye . dosra sawal yeh hai k kya aik lady kisi gents sy reiki seikh sakty hai.

Answer: 1)Aap ko chahea k pehlay apnay usool e deen ko pechanain, phir deeni masail k lie kisi mujtahid ki taqleed karain ta k is sai apnay sharie masail maloom kar sakain aur ibteda mai aap ko chahea k usool e deen aur faro e deen aur chardah masoomeen a.s. sai mutaliq kitaboo ka mutala karain. (Ref : http://sistani.org/index.php?p=815209&id=1870) 2)Aap is ilm (reiki) ko seekh sakti hain magar ye k pardah k khayal rakha jae. Is k alawa is ilm ka teacher ap ko hath na lagay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-2406) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
19073
Mujtahid:

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Question: Aoa Mera question hai k mene na mehrram se intercouse nae kya I mean k mera organ uske organ me nhi gya lekn iske ilwa mene uski fingering ki ha r usne mere sucking ki ha kya ye zina ha ya harram

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
17205
Mujtahid:
AyatoAllah Sistani (r.a)

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Question: jaisa k mixed gatherings jaiz nai hain, tou apni family ya husband k sath kisi restaurant ya food place (pizza hut,lal qila etc) pa khana khanay ka kia hukum hai? kia yea b mixed gatheringk hukum main ata hai? jab k ham wahan kisi sey interaction nai kartay sirf khana kha k ajatay hain .. jazakAllah!!

Answer: There is no problem in that as long as that does not involve haram act.( Ref:Email Rcvd, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),dated: 24-12-12 ). Translation: is main koe haraj nahi, jab tak k kisi haram kaam main mubtila nah ho jain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
18216
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Question: aik larki jis se main takreeban 12 saal se mohabbat kr raha houn use koe marz hai jiski waja se usay sar main dard hota hai.us k ghar walon ne uski shadi relatives main krna chahi lekin us ne nahi ki or main b us k intezaar main shadi nai ki wo bolti hai meri waja se tum b mushkil main a jao gy.hala k aisa nahi hai main uski ziyada achay tareekay se hawazat kr sakta houn.plz solution btain kya krna chaheay

Answer: 1)Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)Sardard ka wazifa: Sar dard k dor honay k lie surah e taha surah # 20 ki ayat # 25 ta 28 ko 3 dafa parhnay sai sar dard mai bohat ifaqa hota hai. .(Ref : 2000 Dastoorul Amal pg # 404)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32698
Mujtahid:

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Question: Ya ALI As Madad Main ap sy pouchna chahti hn k ak larky or larki k rishty ki bunyad shadi hi ho or wo larki ko sariyat ka paband rakhy larki b larky ki khatir khud ko hr na mahrum ki nazro awazo sy bachany lagy or apny rishty ki takmeel k lia pahly sy ziada nake imaan wali ho jay k Usko Allah b khush rahy or wo b sirf ak mard tak mahdod rahy wo apas main milty b na houn na unko touch kiss ki hawas ho to kia wo apis main bat kar sakty hain pak saf guftago koi behoda bat na karain to unka shadi tak bat karna jaiz hai

Answer: Mangetar sai aam mamool ki baat cheet krna jis k andar koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi hai laikin is mai bhi shrt hai k is sai koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram mai parnay ka dar ho . (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3, sawaal # 137,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32572
Mujtahid:

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Question: aik larke ka larki se baat krna kitna bara gunah he?

Answer: Agar na-mehram ki batoo k darmiyan me aisi batain nah ki jayen jo ek muslman ke shayane shan nahi hain to koi haraj nahi. albatta aurat ki zimmedari bhi he k wo apni awaz ko itna khubsurat or barik n banae jo insan k jazbat ko abharne wali ho. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
31426
Mujtahid:
anser question

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Question: kiya urat hud ko kisi larke k sth tasavr kare tu yeh gunha hai???

Answer: Haram cheeze k bare me sochna jab k wo shewat ka sabab bane agar mani nikalne ka sabab na bane to ehtiyat e mustahab ya hai k ise tarak kar deya jae.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #2, sawaal # ,199 pg # 83) ( Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
30731
Mujtahid:
zina

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Question: kya 10 saal ka larka ki 13-14 saal ki larki ke sath kuch nange khel khelta hai magar fuck nai karta to ye zina hai.

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32509
Mujtahid:

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Question: Asalamalikum!! mujhe plz koi mohabbat k liye wazifa bata dein mein 1 larko ko bohat chahti hun or ussey shadi karna chahti hun woh b mujhe chahta tha par ab uska dehan mujhse ath gaya hai plz mujhe koi mohabbat ka wazifa bata dein jisko pharne se uske dil mein mere liye phir se mohabbat paida ho jaye plz help me .....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi koun ke gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).Aurat aur os k wali(baap/dada) k lie behtar hai k on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka sohor main hona zarori hay. aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo dendar,pak daman,or baa akhlaq ho. sharabi na ho or burai or muhliq gunaho ka irtekab na karta ho (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 387 pg # 232 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32498
Mujtahid:
ayat u allah sestani sahab

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Question: jis larki sae shadi honay wali ho aus k sath phone pae bat karna ya msg karna jaiz hay?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32429
Mujtahid:
about problem

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Question: salam sir aap se zaroori baat karne hai.woh yeh hai k aik ladki hai.mujhse umer mein 3 saal choti hai aur mere umer 19 saal hai.ab masla yeh hai k woh mujhe ache lagti hai.mujhay lagta hai k us se pyar ho gaya hai.aap k lihaaz se kya mein us se baat cheet karon?plz reply

Answer: Jins e mukhalif yani mard ka na mehram aurat sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32377
Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: mera ye sawal hai mje koi wazefa btaye ma ek larki se buhat pyar hon or wo b mje se buhat karti hai par uska rishta teh ho gaya hai ap btye jis se hamari mushkly asan ho jyen

Answer: 1)Mard ko chahae k jis aurat sai shadi karna chahta hai os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me sohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 pg # 232). 2)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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25253
Mujtahid:

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Question: kiya 15 ka larka 13 ki larki se pyaar kar na jaiz hain?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti karna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof maujood hai. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
32248
Mujtahid:
Grand ayatullah Hazrat Ali Sistani

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Question: Salamu alaikum. me filhal single hu laikin aik larki se rishty ki bat ho ri he or mera pora yaqeen b he ki isi se hi shadi hogi is yaqeen ki bina per hum dono ne aik dusrey ko touch (kissing) kia he, kia is ka gunah he? hamen aisa krney se ruk jana chahye? or hum baten b krty hen phon pe,, hamarey liye kia hukum he?

Answer: 1)Mangetar na mehram hai os sai aam mamool ki baat cheet krna jis k andar koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi hai laikin is mai bhi shrt hai k is sai koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram mai parnay ka dar ho. .(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3, sawaal # 137,pg # 65)2)Na mehram k sath jinsi lams beghair intercourse k zina nahi hai laikin haram hai. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 70) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
32270
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah Hazrat ALi sistani

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Question: Asslam u alaikum.. me single hu baut kisi larki se rishty ki bat ho rahi he or yaqeen he ki usu k sath shadi hogi, is yaqeen ki wajh se hum dono apas me milty hen, kia ye jayez he? kiya hum bat kr skty hen or touch kr skty he? agr pehly ais kia ho tou uska gunah ya kaffara?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram hai aur os sai aam mamool ki baat cheet krna jis k andar koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi hai laikin is mai bhi shrt hai k is sai koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram mai parnay ka dar ho . (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3, sawaal # 137,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
23835
Mujtahid:
Hanfee

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Question: Assalamualikum. Mai apni cousin se bepanah muhabbat karta hu aur aaj tak maine usse izhar bhi nahi kiya hai, aur ALLAH ka shukjr hai ke maine use aaj tak jee bhar kar dekha bhi nahi, kya mari shadi usse jayaz hai? aur mujhe kaise pata chale ke wo mujh se muhabbat bhi karti hai nahi . koi dua ho to aap hazraat mujhe bata de, Ain Nawazish hogi.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. Surah e taha surah # 20 ko likh kar sabz rashmi kapray mai lepait kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pas jae to osi nakaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rehay gi. (Ref : Dunya aur aakhirat ki 100 perashanion ka hal pg # 18) Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
23878
Mujtahid:
shia Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: MY name is farzana. before i love one guy and i kiss him and i touch him and i hug him also. but now he dont want to marry with me. maina gunaha kiya hai he is naharam for me. plz give me advise mai kaise tuba kro. konsi dua paro. plz reply urgently

Answer: 1)Na mehram aurat ka na mehram mard ko jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai. aur aurat ko chahaea k wo sar k baal aur aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chopae. Note : jab jism dekhana haram hai to kiss karna to aur ziada haram ho ga. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) 2) Sachay dil sai toba karni chahea. Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
23572
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: a0a.. Sir meri umar 18 saal hai..me aik co educati0nal insitute me parhta hn.mje aik ladki apni taraf attract krti hai.uska khayal mery zehan me rehta hai.me jab uski ankhon me daikhta hn to kho jata hn..mje us se koi physical garz nhi hai.kia me gunah ka murkatib hn?

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. 1)University me co education: Agar gunnah aaloud nigahoo ka tabadla nah ho aur haram may mubtila honay ka khoof nah ho to koe haraj nahi. (Ref : nigah aur libas ques # 92 pg # 63). 2)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 3)Na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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23733
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalam-o-Alaikum sir mera aap se sawal ye hai ke ek larki hai wo mujh se behad mohabbat karti hai phir jab usne mujh se izhar kiya to mujhe bhi us se mohabbat hone lagi phir hamari dosti ke sath sath pyar bhi barhne laga phir achanak us ke nikah kahin aur karadiya gaya zabardasti abhi main ye baat jab bhi sochta hon to bahut bahut hi takleef hoti hai sir ab aap hi mujhe bataen ke main kiya karon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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15575
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Question: Kya koi ladka kisi ladki ko dil se sacha pyar karna zaeez hai

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. Ghair ikhtari kaam par koi hokum nahi lagaya ja sakhta. Agarchah is ka muqaddima ikhtiari hay.agar haram ho to is ka murtakib na hoon. Lakin har surat may shawat aur lazzat wala kaam nikah say pehlay haram hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani d.b. official website http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=972 Q#1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
9002
Mujtahid:

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Question: Larka shadi sy phly larki sy baat kr skta ha.y nahi

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
24830
Mujtahid:
I love rosul

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Question: Mera question hai mey ek ladki se pyar karta hu .woh bi mushe bahut pyar karti hai. par uski ghar wale nahi mante hameri is pyar ko to ap hi bataye kya kare ab hum?

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. ( Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) Fiqhi maslay bayan karnay k sath aap ko wazifa bhi btaya jata hay k : Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
19525
Mujtahid:
Shadi

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum muje 1 hadees chahye k shadi se pahle piyar karna haram hai ya halal hai es k mutalik koi hadees or biyan hai to plz muje un k link send karian

Answer: Kisi bhi gair ekhtiri amal par shriat koi hokum nhi lagati hai laikin yad rahay, shriat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ki khabi ijazat nhi deti jo inhay haram ki taraf lai janay wala ho. Is k alawa shadi sai pehlay mangetar sai aam mamool ki baat cheet krna jis k andar koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi hai laikin is mai bhi shrt hai k is sai koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram mai parnay ka dar ho . (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3, sawaal # 137,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
14016
Mujtahid:
sunah

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Question: agar aek ladki kisi ladke se pyaar karti ho aur use apni galati ka aehsaas ho jaye aur woh us ladke ko chood de likin dil se abhi bhi us se hi pyaar karti ho toh use kya karna chahiye...

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. Ghair ikhtari kaam par koi hokum nahi lagaya ja sakhta. Agarchah is ka muqaddima ikhtiari hay.agar haram ho to is ka murtakib na hoon. Lakin har surat may shawat aur lazzat wala kaam nikah say pehlay haram hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani d.b. official website http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=972 Q#1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
14035
Mujtahid:
Syestani

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Question: Salam mjhe yea pochna tha . . .aj har jagha co-education system hai t0u kisi bhi larki say hath milana , baat krna chahey woh studies say hi realted kiun na ho , larkiy0un say dosti krna , ya love krna jaiz hai ?

Answer: 1) Co education mai agar gunnah aaloud nigahoo ka tabadla nah ho aur haram may mubtila honay ka khoof nah ho to koe haraj nahi laikin is k bawajood ye masla is laiq hay k islami mumalik k zimaydaar afraad larkoo aur larkioon k liae alag alag taleemi idaray bananay k lye mansooba bandi karain. (Ref : nigah aur libaas ques # 92 pg # 63) 2) Na-mehram aurat k sath hath milana haram hai, chahaay lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair. (Ref : nigah aur libaas ques # 110 pg # 70) 3) Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
14234
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah sistani

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Question: sir salam main ek larki se piyar karta houn mujh ko maloom nh wo piyar karti hai ya nh ap mujh ko aisi dua batain wo mujh se piyar Karene lage plz

Answer: Kisi namehram say mohabbat krna jaiz nahi hay q k ghunah may parhnay ka khof mojood hay. Ref : Website ayatollah sistani d.b. ques no 10 topic internet, http://sistani.org/index.php?p=815209&id=1739&page=1&perpage=10)

Id:
17489
Mujtahid:
nikah

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Question: helo sir mera name ali raza ha ma aik larki sa piyar karta hon thek wo larki arrai famliy sa taulq rakhti ha thek us ka maa baap nhi manta mery rishty k liy to ham na program banaya ha nikah karny ka adalat ki taraf sa wo larki pehly maan gai ha ab nhi manti nikah k liy plz aap khuch aisa batay k jo bhi bat ma usy kho wo meri bat many or wo nikah k liy tiyar ho jay plz khuch btao aap plz

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. ( Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) Fiqhi maslay bayan karnay k sath aap ko wazifa bhi btaya jata hay k : Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
17249
Mujtahid:

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Question: A.a main ik larki say pyar karna chahta hon .kaya main us say friend ship kar sakta hon?

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nai q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
13837
Mujtahid:
Pre-Maritial Relationship

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Question: If you and your partner have fully committed to marrying each other and the marriage dates have been fixed, can the two of you engage in some form of physical contact before marriage? (i.e. kissing, touching, hugging)

Answer: No it is not before marriage.(Ref: jaded Fiqhi masail, maslah#439,467) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
17126
Mujtahid:
shia

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Question: mai apne cousin se mobile p sex krti hun aur hum shadi b krna chahty hain to kia phr b gunah hai

Answer: Jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
17029
Mujtahid:

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Question: I have got engaged and now we are going to get married after 8-9 months, but now we are got so close to each other that we cannot live apart, and now I am feeling more intimate towards her, i dont want to do sexaul intercourse with her but i want to feel and touch her, because we love each other and we know having intercourse will be a big sin, so please let me know that doing or touching her private parts will be a sin?

Answer: It is haram for man to look or touch the body of the Non-Mahram women, but it is not Zina. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 70, masla # 109)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
17030
Mujtahid:

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Question: main kisi na mahrom aurat ki hips pe hath phair sakta hon koi gunah tu ni

Answer: Na mehram aurat ko hath lagana haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397-2406)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16957
Mujtahid:

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Question: kya bade behun apne 35 saal k bhai ko nala sakti hai?

Answer: Behan apnay bhi ko os waqt nehla sakti hai jab lazzat ki niyat na ho aur haram mai mubtilla honay ka khof na ho aur is surat mai bhi sharamgah ko chupana wajib hai chahae lazzat ki niyat na ho aur haram mai mubtilla honay ka khof na ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16807
Mujtahid:

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Question: Kya kisi gair mahrem se baat karna gunaah hai..

Answer: Jins e mukhalif (na-mehram) sai batain krna jab fasad, burai aur gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khof ho to jaiz nhi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 58)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16757
Mujtahid:
na mehram say pyar

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Question: na mehram say pyar ho jana(krna nhi ho jana)i think jaiz to nhi pr kya us ko tableg krna jaiz ha?agr tableg krnay k baad wo aisi ho jaye k jaisi biwi kay intakhab ka islam nay kaha hai to us say shadi kr leni chahiye?past daikhana chahiye yan phr ye k ab kaisi ha?

Answer: 1) Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2) Mard ko chahae k jis aurat se shadi karna chahta he os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me sohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 pg # 232). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
9734
Mujtahid:

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Question: AOA...........aaj kal net pa log jo sexy chat or like that baty krty hy kia ye haram hy ............haram to hy he ma aap sa puchna chahu gi ....

Answer: Fahash batain krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
11652
Mujtahid:
Aitula seestani

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Question: mera sawal ha k aksar larky aur larkyan phone pe oral sex karty hen. kia ye zina ma shumar hota ha?aur agr hota ha to iska kafara kia ha?

Answer: Na mehram k sath phone par oral sex zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
12501
Mujtahid:
Okara

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Question: kia larka or lakrki aik dosray k sath sexy batain mean sexy chat ker sktay hain ya nahin ?

Answer: Biwi k alawa kisi doosray sai fahash batain krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
15380
Mujtahid:

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Question: agar kise ko elam na ho or ramzan me intercource karay . Us pe be gunah hai . Agar baad me pata chal jaye ke is me bohot guna hai . Mere liye ab kya hukam hai me ne ramzan me intercourse kiya hai.

Answer: 1)Jawan mard k lie jaiz hai k wo mohabbat aur piar k tour par apni jawan behan ko bosa dai aur agar yehi bosa shewat ka bais banay to jaiz nhi ho ga. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 468, pg # 254) 2)Jo mard aur aura tapas mai mehram hon agar wo lazat ki niyat na rakhtay hon aur haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho to sharamgah k alawa pura badan dekh saktay hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
15717
Mujtahid:
maslah zana

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Question: kya shadi se pehle apni mangetar ko kiss krna or uske jism ko dekhna pakrna zana ha or isi tarah larki ka jism ko pakrna .. lakin intercourse nai kia tu kya ye zana ha or agar zana ha tu us larki sy Nikah k lye pehle touba kese ki jaye??

Answer: Mangiter na mehram hai aur Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
2969
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: ager larka or larki Khuda ko hazir nazir jaan k ek dusrey ko ek dusrey ko tasleem ker lein, to kia wo ek dusrey k liey mehram hain, unka aapas mein mein guft o shaneed kerna munasib hai? jb keh wo ek dusrey ko apna life partner samajhtey hain.

Answer: Aik larki ka kisi no-jawan sai dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi aik dam to nhi hoti bal k shoru mai baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
15282
Mujtahid:

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Question: Mera sawal ye hy k aj sy 2 saal pehlay jb meri age 16 sal ti . Us waqt may ny aik raat apni bari behan k jisam ko sotay may daika ta, wo sorahi ti aur us k boobs ubhray huay ty tau mujay bohot shoq hua , may ny usay touch kia aur wo jaag gai. Pir may har waqt kisi tarah us k jisam ko touch krta ta wo hr wqt ghusa hoti ti . May ny usay bohot tang kia ta. Ab uski shadi ho chukee hy. Ab may apny kiay par pashemaan hu . Plz mujay bta.aiy mujay kya krna chahiay?

Answer: 1)Mehram aurat ko agar lazzat ki niyat sai dekha jae to haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
16440
Mujtahid:
quranand sunnat

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Question: sir mera question yeh hai k islam mein ghai mahram mard aur aurat ka baat krna jaiz hai ya najaiz.plz detail se bataie ga

Answer: Agar baat cheet lazzat aur haram mai mubtila honay k khof k bagair ho to koi haraj nahi. (Ref : Nigah aur libas pg # 59-60, ques # 84)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
14680
Mujtahid:

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Question: AoA.agar accidentally behen ki upper body without cloth per nazar pargai lekin koi shahwat mehsoos na ho tou kia ye gunah hoga?aur kya behen say mujhay mafi mangni chahiay?

Answer: Jo mard aur aurat apas mai mehram hon agar wo lazat ki niyat na rakhtay hon aur haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho to sharamgah k alawa aik doosray ka pura badan dekh sakay hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16399
Mujtahid:

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Question: sir meri bhen ki omar 25 saal hai wokhubsorat hai mera us ke sath sex karne ko dil karta hai aksar us ke bare mein mere zain mein galat khayalat aate hai or aksar main us ko galat nazar se b dekhta hoon to kya apne bhen ke bare mein galat sochna ya galat nazar se dekhna b gunnah hai sir plz jawab lazmi dain main pehle b 4 5 dafa poch chuka hoon

Answer: Jo mard aur aurat aapas mai mehram hon agar wo lazzat ki niyat rakhtay hon aur haram mai parhnay ka khof ho to un k jism ko dekhna jaiz nahi hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401)

Id:
16310
Mujtahid:
Aayatulla shishtani

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Question: Agar mai kisi ladki ko sirf pasand karta hun aur shadi ka irada rakhta hun toh ye jaiz hai ki nahi answer kisi rivayat se bataiye mujhe.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16260
Mujtahid:

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Question: bhabi si milan guna hey kya

Answer: Bhabi na-Mehram hai aur mard k lie na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai. aur aurat ko chahaea k wo sar k baal aur aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chopae. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16194
Mujtahid:

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Question: kia kisi muslim mard ka kisi mard ko bosa dena jayez hai?

Answer: Mard ka mard ko jinsi lazzat ki niyat sai bosa dena haram hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 500 pg # 261)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16197
Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: assalamualaikum sir mera sawal ye hai k mera aik dost hai wo bht acha hai us se ksi qism ki ghlt bt ni hty meri mre parents ko uska pta chala tu unhun ne usko ghlt smjha aur mjy bt krne se mana kr dya jbke wo srf mra dst he logon ne ghlt ghlt urai ab mne prnts ko smjhya lkin wo ni maney ab ap btaye k kia me us se bt kr skti hun koi ghlt bt ni normally bt?

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. 2)Na-mehram sai baat krna agar lazzat aur haram mai mubtila honay k khof k bagair ho to koi haraj nahi. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106,84 pg # 69,59) 3)Jab bhi waldain ki taraf sai koi hokum ya roktok mohabbat ki wajah sai hop aur is ki mukhalifat sai unhain takleef hoti ho to aulad ko in k hokum ki mukhalifat krna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 1387)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
16205
Mujtahid:
sunni

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Question: kis na mahram na ap ko tounch be kia ho aur ap ko without dress be dekha ha is ke maafi quran ke roo is kia ha

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. 1)Mard k lie na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai. aur aurat ko chahaea k wo sar k baal aur aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chupae. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397-99) 2)Sachchay dil se toba karain prwardigar nai quran majeed me wadah kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
16236
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah Sistani

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Question: Kia baap ki zouja(soteli maa), larkay k lie mehram hai?

Answer: Jee han, mehram hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 129, pg # 63)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
16072
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah Sistani

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Question: Ladies k drmian behtreen majlis perhnay wali aur manqabat perhnay wali maujood hotay huay mardoo ka ladies ki mehfil mai manqabat ya majlis perhna kaisa hai?

Answer: Be-zat e khud koi haraj nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Masail Part # 4, Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. pg # 71)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
15951
Mujtahid:
shadi se phele

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Question: Assalamalaykum mera sawal ye hai k shadi se phele mangetar ki sharamgha dkh skte hain or agar galti se bheak k dkh li jae or boobs suck hojae to kya krna chahiye?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram hai aur kisi balig muslman ki shrmgah dekhna haram hai albetta shadi honay k baad mian biwi aik doosray ka pura badn dekh saktay hain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2400) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
15990
Mujtahid:

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Question: kya apni mangetar jisse shadi hone wali hai, usse shadi se pehle phone par bat karsakte hai kya? quran aur hadis ki roshni me jawab bataiye? daleel ke sath?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shrt hai k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
13828
Mujtahid:
video

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Question: ASALA,UA,ALIKUM MERA SAWAL AGR BIWI APNY HUSBAND SE DOOR HO AUR VIDEO PE APNE WIFE KI BREST, AUR VERGINA KO DAIKHNA GUNAHH HAI

Answer: Mian biwi aik doosray ka pora badan dekh saktay hain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2400) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
15340
Mujtahid:
Male

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Question: Ma aik larki ko pyar krta ho us se dosti ka kaha tha magar us ne inkar kar diya .bate kia amal kro wo b mj se mohabat kre aur mery pass aye

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
15093
Mujtahid:
Hath pe Kiss Lena

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Question: Mujy 1 larkey ne apney jal mn phansa k mujy 1 din date pe bulaya, Mn College se us k sath gari mn beth gai us ne mery hath pe kiss kiya, pir mn gari se utar kar chali gai, Ahlana k mn kisi or se piyar karti the boat or us se meri mangani b ho gai ab mn kia karon?

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair.aur chahae baad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
15333
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalamualaikum,Hazrat mein ek larki se bahut muhabbat karta hoon pichle saat salon se lekin woh mujhe nahein chahti.kya mein use taweez ke asar se apni taraf maa-il karke shadi kar loon yeh jaaiz hai ya nahein..aur mujhe use pane ka sahi tareeqa batayen jo jaiz ho.

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Hazrat Imam jaffar e sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k jo surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi kapray mai lepait kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pas jae to osi nakaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rehay gi. (Ref : Dunya aur aakhirat ki 100 perashanion ka hal pg # 18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
15109
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Question: mera question ye hai ki agar koi ladka kisi ladki s bat krte waqt kuch jyda excited ho jate hai to uske peshab k raste s kuch chipchipa pani type ka drop nikalta hai wo mony se pehle nikalta hai to kya wo paak hai ya naapaak agr wo paak hai to kya uske lge hue kapdo me hum namaz padh sakte hai ya use dhona jaruri hai plz rply fast its very urgently. . . .

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)jo ratubat shewat anghese tasaworat k waqt insan apni sharamgha me mahsoos karta hai wo pak hai is se ghusal bhi wajib nahe hota hai aur na wazu batil hota hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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13968
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Question: Kya hm apni girlfriend ko lips pe kiss kr skte hai

Answer: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair.aur chahae baad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14021
Mujtahid:
AQA SISTANI

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Question: MERI HAI MEN US SE SMS PE BAT OR SEX KARTA HUN PHIR MUTH MARTA HUN OR MENE US SE AMNE SAMNE B KSSING OR SHARAMGAH KO HATH LAGAE HEN OR USNE B MENE MJBOOR KIYA USE KIY MEN ESE KAR SAKTA HUN Q K MEN US SE SHADI KARNGA??

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) 2)Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair.aur chahae baad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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15159
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Question: Kiya islam me pear mohobbat jaiz hai ya nahe

Answer: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14004
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Question: mai ek larke se dil se mohabat karti hu ham 4 saal se sath thay or shadi karna chate thay magar wo ajeeb tabyat ka malik hai uska rawaya har kuch mahino bad badal jata hai. is bar b wo mujse alag hogaya r ab bahar mulk ja raha hai. meri mohabat sachi hai mai bohat wazaif azma chuki magar wo wapas na aya. khuda k liye meri madad karden.

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2) Aurat or os k wali(baap/dada)ke liay behter hai k on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka shohor main hona zarori hay.aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo deendaar,paak daman,or baa akhlaaq ho.sharabi nah ho or buraeyoo or muhliq gunaho ka irtekaab nah kerta ho(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 387 pg # 232 ) Wazifa: Hazrat Imam jafar e Sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi libas may lepat kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pass jay to osay na kaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rahay gi. inshAllah (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18) (Kuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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15127
Mujtahid:
Kiss leyna

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Question: Meri mangani 2010 mn jis se mn love karti the us se ho gai hai, 2009 mn mn kisi or larkey k sath milney us ki gari mn bethi us ne mery hath pe kiss kia or mn gari se utar kar chali gai, mn ne 2 month tak us larkey se phone pe gap shap ki, Please batain islam k lehaz se mujy kia karna chaiye or ye baat jab mn ne apney mangetar ko bataee us k baad wo mujy tanz or shak ki nigah se dekhta hai is ka kia hal hai PLease must Replyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Answer: 1)jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)Aur Mangiter bhi na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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15179
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Question: Kya islam me ladka ek koi ladki ko pyar kar sakta hai

Answer: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13887
Mujtahid:
Sex

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Question: Islam me love jaez hai kya

Answer: kisi bhi gair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14873
Mujtahid:
Sistani

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Question: Maa Apne betay ko apne jism k kon kon se parts dikha sakti hay . baligh ya na balgh dono

Answer: Maa apnay baitay ko agar lazzat ki niyat na ho aur haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho to sharamgah k alawa pura badan dikha sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13752
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Question: Mai ek larki se payar karta hu aur o mujh se payar karti hai ki nahi mujhe pata nahi uska sadi mere chacha ke larka se tay ho gaya hai. Keya mera usse sadi hoga

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
14728
Mujtahid:
ayatullah sistani

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Question: agr ek larka or larki ki baat tey ho gai ho or nikah 2 months k baad ho to kia wh dono msgs pr baat kr saktay hain,agr nahi kr sktay or kr li ho to ab kia krna chaiay

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
14265
Mujtahid:
Sistani sahb

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Question: slam plz tell me tv daikhna ksa amal ha?

Answer: TV drama dekhna lazzat k baghair jaiz hay laikin agar TV dramay main kaam karnay wali na-mehram khawateen k jism k wo hissay jo aam taur se chupay hotay hain,dikhai dain ,ya dekhnay wala shehwat k saath dekhay ya is k Haram main perhnay ka khouf ho to phir inhain dekhna Jaiz nahi hay.(Ref: Istiftaat A.Sistani I-30.). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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14617
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Question: Agar main kisi se muhabbat karta hu aut wo mujh se mahabbat nai karti to plzzzz koi aisa taeeeqa batain k wo bhi mujhy se muhabbat kary aur meri taraf raghib ho

Answer: Na-mehram say mohabbat kerna jaiz nahi hay q k ghunnah may parhnay ka khof mojood hay. (Ref : Website ayatollah sistani d.b. ques no 10 topic internet, http://sistani.org/index.php?p=815209&id=1739&page=1&perpage=10). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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14284
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Question: AOA. Kia boy apini mangaitar(fiance) se sirf baat kar skta phon mn ya line. is it allowed in islam?

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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14563
Mujtahid:
A. Sistani

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Question: Kya Mutah/nikah ki niyyat se kisi ladki ko lustfully dekhna jaiz hai?

Answer: Mard shadi(nikah / mutaa) se pehlay is aurat k maqamaat e husn ko dekh sakhta he ya is se hum kalam ho sakhta he jis ka rishta lena chahta he. Is bina per aisi khatoon ka chehra, is k baal, gardan, haatheliyaan, pindliyaan, kalaiyaan aur is qism k maqamaat e husn ko dekhna jaiz he magar shart ye he k is nazar ka maqsad jinsi lazzat hasil karna na ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 390 pg # 233). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

Id:
14564
Mujtahid:
A. Sistani

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Question: Kya esi jaga jana jaiz hai jahan male and female ko sath lectures and combine activities di jati ho?

Answer: 1)Agar is tarh jama hoon k jis may hijab ka khayl nah rakha jay aur isi terh in ka aisa mail milap jis ka natija akhlaqi fasad ki surat may zahir ho to wo jaiz nahi hay. (Ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 2, ques # 152, pg # 67) 2)Agar gunnah aaloud nigahoo ka tabadla nah ho aur haram may mubtila honay ka khoof nah ho to koe haraj nahi laikin is k bawajood ye masla is laiq hay k islami mumalik k zimaydar afraad larkoo aur larkioon k liye alag alag taleemi idaray bananay k liye mansooba bandi karain. (Ref : nigah aur libaas ques # 92 pg # 63). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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14481
Mujtahid:
NONE

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Question: salam mai ak larki ho aur larki sy pyar kar thi mai kisi larky mai interst nahe dy thi mai aur mery girl frnd dono ak sath sothy kha thy aur sex b kiya kahe bar hum shadi kar na chathy ap koi tareka bthaye? agr mai ya wo larki opration kar ky ap na sex badl dy tho

Answer: (1) Aik mard ko dusre mard ka badan lazzat ki niyyat se nahi dekhna chahiay aur aik aurat ka dosri aurat k badan ko lazzat ki niyat se dekhna bhi haram he. isi tarah agar haram kaam me mubtila hone ka khauf ho tab bhi haram he. jo shakhas shadi na karne ki wajah se haram kaam me mubtila hota ho us par wajib he ke shadi kare. (tawzihu masail, Aqai Sistani d.b. masaala no. 2397, 2402+207) (2) Shewat ki niyat se aurat k aurat ko gale lagaana , is ka bosa lena aur is se cheer chaar karna ye tamaam kaam haraam hain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 515 pg # 268) (3) Sohoq yani aurat ka apni sharamgha ko doseri aurat ki sharamghah se milana gunah e azeem hay.Aur ishi tara shohar aur biwi k ilawa kisi dosere tareeqe se jinse laszat haasil karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b) (4) Agar waaqe,an aisa(yani jins ki tabdeeli) hona mumkin ho tu ba-zaat khud ye haraam nahi hay albatta dosery jihaat jaise chone aur dheekne k aitebaar se haraam hoga siwaa,e ye k ye amal (yani jins ki tabdeeli) zarori ho jaay aur is farz per k jinsi tabdeeli ho jaay tu saare ehkaam naay(new) jins ki bina per jaari hongay nah k purani(old) jins k mutaabiq laikin sirf zaahiri tour per tabdeeli k aajane ka matlab ye nahi hota hay k jins tabdeel ho gae hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part #3 , ques #164 , pg # 74) ). (5) First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport, reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se phele shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14482
Mujtahid:
NONE

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Question: salam islam mai larko ky liya modling jayez hy ya nahe jawab jaldi dy pehly b sawal kar chuka ho jaw nahe mila

Answer: It is not permissible to getting into a haram act. (Ref: E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: 1,may-12) Translation: kisi haram kaam me daakhil hone ki ijazat nahi hay. ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
14435
Mujtahid:
ayatullah sistani

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Question: aga sistani ke masle me aurat ko pura face cover karne ki jaroorat nahi hai to kya aurat color contact lence pahen sakti hai ? kya eyebrow ya eye shade karwa sakti hai ? agar na maheram attract ho to is surat me kya masla hai plz ans

Answer: 1-Aurat na-mehram merd k saamnay chehra or kalaiyo tak haath kholay rakh sakti hay. Laikin agar haram main mubtila hone ka khoof ho ya kisi merd ko(haath or chehra) dikhana haram main mubtila kerne k iraday se ho tu in dono soorto main in ko chupana wajib hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2399) . 2-Cheray k baal saaf kerne or abroon ko sedha kerne se chehray ko zahir kerna mana nahi hojata hay,is shart k saath k haram kaam main mutibla nah ho or cheray ko zahir kerne ka maqsad bhi ye nah ho k os par na-mehram merd ki nazar perhay.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah#524). 3-Color lens agar zeenat main shumaar hota ho tu os ko na-mehram k saamne zahir kerna jaiz nahi hoga(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah #532).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14494
Mujtahid:
Love

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Question: Mujhe apni sali se piyar ho gaya hai kiya ye gunah hai?

Answer: 1)Saali Na-Mahram hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2349). 2) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 3)kisi bhi ghair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) 4)Agar koe shakhs kisi aurat se shadi karay to chahay wo daimi nikah karay ya muta karay jab tak wo aurat is k nikah me he wo shakhs is ki behen se shadi nahi kar sakhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14349
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Question: Meri mangni hui hui hai aur mai ye pochna chahti ho k kia mangetar say call par ya msg par bat krna thek hai ya nahi....??

Answer: If there is no such a fear that you might fall into a sin, there would be no problem.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1257). Translation: Agar haram main mubtila hone ka koe khoof nah ho, tu phir koe haraj nahi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14419
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Question: AOA, My question is that, is it allowed in Islam for an adult of 30 to kiss a child under 10 on her cheek as a blessing? Can it be considered as a child molestation in any sense? Please guide me. May Allah bless you with health and life. I would appreciate detailed answere in Englsih if possible please. Thanks in advance

Answer: A man is allowed to kiss his young sister or maternal aunt or paternal aunt or their small daughters out of affection and love. However, he is not allowed to kiss them, if it entails sexual arousal.(E-Mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b),12 apr- 2012) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14342
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Question: me ek ese shakhs ko mohabat karti hu jo shadi shuda hai aur umer k lihaz se 40 sal bada hai. kia me gunah kar rahi hu.

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14351
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Question: plz tell me mai apnay mangetar say bat krti thi r abi bhi krti ho ziada txting par bht kam call par r kisi ghlt qisam ki bat ni krty hum to mjhy btain mai kia kro meri agar us say bat na ho to mjhy kch ajeb honay lgta hai meray haq mai kia bahtar hai ???

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
14400
Mujtahid:
fiqha hanfi

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Question: is upper lip hair removal allowed in islam

Answer: Note : Is web site per faqat fiqh e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabat diey jatay hein. Cheray k baal saaf kerne or abroon ko sedha kerne se chehray ko zahir kerna mana nahi hojata hay,is shart k saath k haram kaam main mutbila nah ho or cheray ko zahirr kerne ka maqsad bhi ye nah ho k os par na-mehram merd ki nazar perhay.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah#524). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14214
Mujtahid:

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Question: Aik Aurat ka kisi na Mehram say Rabta woh bhi family say chup ky jaiz ha???

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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14215
Mujtahid:

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Question: kya insan kisi na mehram larki ko apni behan bana skta ha??

Answer: Jee nahi. Moonh boli behen Na-mehram aurat k hukum main hi rehti hay.or inka apas main baat cheez kerna or milna agar haram main mubtila hone k khoof k saath ho tu inka apas main milna or baat kerna jaiz nahi hoga. (Ref: E-mail Rcvd from A.sistani(d.b) dated: Mon, Jul 4, 2011)

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14223
Mujtahid:

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Question: Main aik ladki say aur wo muj se bahad mohabat krty thy ham dono k ghar waly hamary rishty se na khush thy ladki k ghar walo ne ladki pr bohat zulam kia aik din pata nahi kaisy wo seediun sy neechy ghir gai aur wo koma main chali ghai aur phir 3,4 mounth k baad us ki death ho gai. Maira sawal ye he k kia islam ladka aur ladki ko aik dosry ko passand lkrny ki ijazat daita hi aur ab to wo foutt ho chuki he kia ab ham janat main mil sakain gay kia hamari jannat main shadi ho gi

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
14113
Mujtahid:
Tagleed

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Question: Kya hum sharmgaah dekh sakte hai?

Answer: 1-Kisi bhi insaan k liay jaiz nahi hay k wo kisi dosray mehram ya namehram ki sharamgaah ki janib nighah karay hatta k merd ka merd ki sharamgaah ki janib nighah kerna jaiz nahi hay isi terah aurat ka aurat ki sharamgaah ki janib nighah kerna jaiz nahi hay. kafir or mumayyaz bachay ki sharamgaah ki janib nigah kerna ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina per haram hay.jab k ghair e mumayyaz bachah or bachi ki sharamgaah per nigha daalna baghair e lazzat or haram main mubtila hone k khoof k baghair jaiz hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part#3 maslah # 12,25) 2-Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k tamaam jism ko daikh saktay hain,or isi terah aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13956
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Question: mai apni czn se pyar karta hu or us se shadi karna chahta hu but wo muje se pyar nhe karti mai usko apni tarf mail karney k liye ky karo plzzzzzzzzzz reply

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
13936
Mujtahid:
hanfi

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Question: jis Aorat ka ghar wala la pata ho wo kitny arsy bad dosri shadi kar sakti hay

Answer: Note : Is web site per faqat fiqh e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabat diey jatay hein. jis aorat ka ghar wala la pata ho agar wo shadi karna chay to mujtahid aadil ka pass jaay to wo mujtahid is aorat ko condition ka sath talaak day sakta hai.( Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2504). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13662
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Question: kya ladkiyon ko bleaching ya waxing karna jayaz hai ? kya unko hath ya pair par se waxing karke baal nikalna jayaz hai ? aur chehre ke baal ke liye wo bleaching karte hai kya wo bhi jayz hai ? with references

Answer: There is no problem as long as it does not lead to serious bodily harm.( E-mail Rcvd From A.Sistani(d.b), dated:Mar 13, 2012) 1-Translate: Is kaam{bleaching / waxing} main koe haraj nahi hay jab tak is amal se koe bohot hi shaded jismani nuqsaan nah pohnchay.( E-mail Rcvd From A.Sistani(d.b), dated:Mar 13, 2012) 2-Cheray k baal saaf kerne or abroon ko sedha kerne se chehray ko zahir kerna mana nahi hojata hay,is shart k saath k haram kaam main mutila nah ho or cheray ko zahirr kerne ka maqsad bhi ye nah ho k os par na-mehram merd ki nazar perhay.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah#524).

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13670
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Question: Slaam sir. Main apni czn sy pechly 8 salo sy pyar krta hun bt pechly koch month sy kisi glt fhmi ki wja sy wo moj sy boht nfrt krny lgi hy jis ki wja main ni janta aor wo btana to dor moj sy bat he ni krna chati ap plz koi wazifa btay jis k krny sy wo moj sy boht pyar krny lgy. Sir meny khoda sy aj tak bs osy manga hy agr wo na mili to mera yakin dagmga jay ga

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13572
Mujtahid:
ayatullah sistani

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Question: kia larki or larka aik dosray say shadi ki gharz say bat cheet karsaktayn hayn? ta k aik dosray k khayalat say waqif hosakayn.. or bat cheet deeni mozoaat pay ho..itz premissble or not?

Answer: Agar dermiyaan main aisi batain nah ki jain jo aik musalman k shayaan e shan nahi hain tu koe haraj nahi(Ref: mujtahid se pochay gay sawalaat, part#4, pg#65).

Id:
13576
Mujtahid:
SUNNI

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Question: kya shadi se pehle larki se phone par sex ki bat karna jayaz hai. jis larki se mangni ho chuki ho.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein. Mangetar ko kiss(bosa) kerna jaiz nahi hay, Q k wo aap k liay na-mehram hay. Kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi bhi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.or Mangetar na mehram hay is liay osko kiss kerna bhi jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13599
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Question: Aoa Sir mere age 20 year hy r mojhe grmi bahot hoti hy jis ki wja c main mushakt zni karta hun aysa wazif btayn ya mere shadi ho jay ya yeh adadt chot jay wslam

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Shadi ki liay Wazifa: 1. Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76). 2. Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega .(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) 3. Shadi honay k liay Sadqa dain.sadqa har musibat or aafaat ko taal daita hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), minhaajus saliheen,Part#2,albaabus saani-fis sadqa,maslah#1601) 4. sorah taahaa ki ayat # 131 or 132 ko lerki k baazo(arm) per baandh diya jay insha allah jald rishta aay ga.(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 328) 5. Jo mard aurat shadi chahte hein. Wo surah e taha ayat # 131,132 (wala tamud’dannah. . . . .. . .. . .. lit taqwa) ka taweez likh kar gale me dalein. is ayat ke bad darood bhi likhein. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 282)

Id:
13601
Mujtahid:
salaam

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Question: salaam mere frndne aj mujh ko ek baat batai k wo apno mangyter k sath sex ki batain aur us ki shirt main hath daal kar boom ko pakarta ha aur nipal moon ma daalta ha mere friendki mangani us ki cazan se hoi ha mere frnd ka un k ghar jana bohat ha mere frnd us ko kiss bhi karta ha ap mujh ko bataye islam main yeh sahain ha kia mujh ko islama k bare main itna ziyada pata nae

Answer: Mangetar ko kiss(bosa) kerna jaiz nahi hay, Q k wo aap k liay na-mehram hay. Kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi bhi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.or Mangetar na mehram hay is liay osko kiss kerna bhi jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13360
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Question: ma apna mangator sa saathe phone pa baath karti hun or baz dafa hum crong side mean (sex discussion )bhee kar latain han par physically miltain han to na koi ghalat baath kartain han na ghalat kam is ka mutaliq bata dan

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13148
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Question: na-mehram ka kya matlab hai...plz btao..

Answer: Mehram wo qareebi rishta-daar hotay hain jin se kabhi nikah nahi kia jasakta maslan aik merd k liay mehram khawateen o ski maan behan, baiti, phophi, khala, bhatiji, bhanji,saas hain.Or wo afraad jin ka aik dosray k saath nikah kerna jaiz hay wo aik dosray k na-mehram hotay hain maslan chaha zaad, phophi-zaad, khala zaad, isi terah dosr ajnabi merd or khwateen.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah#2349,2360, pg#478 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13064
Mujtahid:
Quran-o-Itrat Academy

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Question: aslam o alikum kia mangtar ko kiss karna ya us sa milna or phone par bat karna jaiz hai?

Answer: 1-Mangetar ko kiss(bosa) kerna jaiz nahi hay, Q k wo aap k liay na-mehram hay.() Kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi bhi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.or Mangetar na mehram hay is liay osko kiss kerna bhi jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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13088
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Question: kya ham pyar kar sakte hain?agar kar v liya ho to kya ye gunah hai?

Answer: Na-mehram lerkay or lerki ka apas main doosti kerna or piyaar o muhabbat jaiz nahi hay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),mujtahid se pochay gay sawalaat,part#4, sawaal# 125). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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12998
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Question: my question is, is it permissible to kiss, have video sex chat, with your fiance? if not then please explain how i can make things right?

Answer: If there is no such a fear that you might fall into a sin, then there would be no problem to talk you’re your fiancé. But it is not permissible for you to kiss her or have video sex chat with her. You must do marriage with her then these things will be permissible for you. (http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1151 + http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1250&page=2&perpage=10). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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12112
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Question: AOA mera sawal yeh hay k aik larka aur larki jin ki mangni ho chuki hay kia wo fone par baat kar sakty aur agar koyi sexy baatain ki jayain tu gunha tu nahi plz plz tell me now

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
11937
Mujtahid:
Sistani sahab

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Question: Kon kon se nashe karne haram he aur kya bivi ke alava kise aur se milna cahiye ya nahi

Answer: 1) Sharab(wine), beer, or her wo chez jo mukammal ya juzvi taur per(partial) nasha aawar ho, thos(solid) ho ya maya(liquid) ye sab haram hain.(A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 164). 2) kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ). Larkay aur larki ka baat karnay me agar lazat aur haram me parhnay ka khof ho to haram he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 84 Pg # 59). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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3227
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: aslamoalikum mufti gi kiya aurat call center main parday kay saath naukri kar sakti hai

Answer: 1. Agar mulaazmat k doran lerhka,lerhki k dermiyaan raabtay main , agar koe burae ka sabab nah banay or shar,e hudood ka khiyaal rakha jaay, tu koe haraj nahi.(Ref: sawalaat or jawabaat 10 maraje karam k fatwo k mutabiq, part#1, pg#66, sawaal#100). 2. Aurat k lie jaiz he k wo apni awaz ajnabi mard ko suna,ay magar ye k haram me parhnay ka khof ho ( is surat me jaiz nahi ho gi) albatta aurat k lie apni awaz ko is tarah dil kash banana jaiz nahi he k sunnay walay k lie aam taur per hejaan awar ho agar chahah sunnay wala mehram ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 510 pg # 266-267). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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11604
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Question: Salams.. ap ne mere question ka jawab nahi diya. plz is dafa i need answer. main ek larki se pyar karta hon wo b karti hai. hum dono ne phone p sex kia chat ki. aur sirf ek dafa miley us m kiss hwi ek dafa.. !! bt hamari intention shadi ki hai. tu kya ye gunnah maaf hosakta hai ? aur ab hum Allah se kis tarah madad mangen k hamare rishte m pareshani musibat na aye..? plz rehnmai farmaen

Answer: Kisi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.(Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay or isi terah merd ka apni biwi k siwa kisi or aurat se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna or isiterah kisi aurat ka apnay shohor k siwa kisi or merd se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ). Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). Wazefa: Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76). Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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11608
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Question: salam sir ma aik lardki s bhot pyar karta hu,par wo mujhw acha nia samjti or wo muj s nafart kati ha.ap mujhe koi esa solution batien k us k dil ma mere lye pyar paida ho jaye.or wo mujhe khud bulye

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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11164
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Question: AOA ! Mera sawal mulana sahib app saiyea hai kay shadi k baad kisi husband ka apni biwi sai chup ker kisi massage center(mallesh)kerwanay kisi namahram khatoon k pass jana aur us k sath zina (intercourse) ker kia gunah e kabira hai aur islam maiis ki ki sazza aur kia kaffara hai ,plz jawab dain .shumkriya

Answer: Kisi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.(Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay or isi terah merd ka apni biwi k siwa kisi or aurat se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna or isiterah kisi aurat ka apnay shohor k siwa kisi or merd se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ). Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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6497
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Question: Aoa.sir mujy apsay poochna k ma aik larky ko pasand krti hon or aksar aisa hota k us say bat krty waqt mujy feel hota k jesy kuch kharij howa lakin main yah samj nhi pati k wo mani hy ya mzi,,,,kindly ap in dono chezon ki tafseel bta dain or yah b k kia muj py ghusal wajib hota...general topic py bat hoti hain phir b kharij hoti hai koi ratoobat...apka bht shukria

Answer: 1)kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ) 2)larkay aur larki ka baat karnay me agar lazat aur haram me parhnay k khof ho to haram he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 84 Pg # 59) 2)Wo ratubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Kharij hoti hay Agar is Had tak ho k usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day, jo aam taur par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intehaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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6384
Mujtahid:
Sistani

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Question: Is "sali" sister of wife a mehrum

Answer: Jee nahi Sali na-mehram hay .(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. masla # 90) 2) Agar koe shakhs kisi aurat se shadi karay to chahae wo daimi nikah karay ya mutaa karay jab tak wo aurat is k nikah me he wo shakhs is ki behan(yani sali) se shadi nahi kar sakta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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2864
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam, 1 ghar mai majlis barpa hoti hai jis mai lADIES MARSIEY NOHEY OR MAJLIS PHARTI HAI, JIN KE AWAZ NA MHERAMO TAK B JATI HAI, OR KUCH SUNI HAZRAT IS KA MAZAK B URATEY HAI. KIA YEH JAIZ HAI

Answer: Aurat k lie jaiz he k wo apni awaz ajnabi mard ko suna,ay magar ye k haram me parhnay ka khof ho ( is surat me jaiz nahi ho ga) albatta aurat k lie apni awaaz ko is tarah dil kash banana jaiz nahi he k sunnay walay k lie aam taur per hejaan aawar ho agar chahay sunnay wala mehram hi hoon. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 510 pg # 266-267) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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2892
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: assalam o alikum mai bht mushkil mai hun es waqt bht mushkil mai hun mai kisi larke ko pasand karty hun lekin woh sunni hai...mai chahty hun k woh shia hojae...aur mery usse shadi ho jae...plz app es silsile mai mery madad karei mjhe koi aisi dua bataei k mery dua qabool ho jaein..appp plz mere sawal ka jawab de...plz..apko MOHAMMED O AL E MOHAMMED KA WASTA... mai bht mushkil mai hun

Answer: 1)Agar is baat ka dar aur khof ho k kal ko aap ghumrah bhi ho sakhti hain jis ka ehtimaal beherhal majood he. to phir aap k lie is k saath shadi bhi jaiz nahi he. hum aap ko bator e khass nasihat kartein hein k aap is terha ki shadi na karein. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 2, ques # 136, pg #62 ) 2) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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9750
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Question: ager beevi mer jai to shoher is ka chera dekh sakta hai ya nahi

Answer: Bivi mernay k baad shohar k liay na-mehram nahi ho jati or shohor oska chehra daikh sakta hay.balkeh mernay k baad bhi bivi shohar ko or shohar bivi ko baghair kis perday k ghusl bhi da saktay hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#548) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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9756
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Question: me aik larke se buht pyar karti hon par vo mje ignor karta ha me usu bhulana chati hon plz koi wazifa bataen jese me use bhool jaon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
4281
Mujtahid:
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Question: Asalam-o-alaikum....! mera sawal ye hai k kya mai aik na-mehram sy mobile pe just messages pe baat kar sakta hon....?? jab k mai ny aaj tak us ki awaz b nhi suni.... na us ko dekha hai or na kabhi koi ghalt baat ki hai.... kya is me gunah hai...?? or agr rozey mei msg pe baat karo or islamic bat karon buri baat koi na karon...to kya roza makroh ho jata hai...?? answer me in detail plzzz....!

Answer: Agar is ki wajah se fasaad ka khof ho to to jaiz nahi he. Lakin agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalaam per mushtamil ho, jab k haram me waqae honey ka khof na ho to koi haraj nahi hechahae roza ho ya na ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 139, pg # 66) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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4447
Mujtahid:
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Question: Assalam-o-alikum, mera sawal yeh hai k islam aurat ko pyar krne ky ijzat deta hai ya nh

Answer: Ghair ikhtari kaam par koi hokum nahi lagaya ja sakhta. Agarchah is ka muqaddima ikhtiari hay.agar haram ho to is ka murtakib na hoon. Lakin har surat may shawat aur lazzat wala kaam nikah say pehlay haram hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani d.b. official website http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=972 Q#1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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4473
Mujtahid:
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Question: agr ik larki ka chractar kharab ho tu agr koi larka us larki ko thek karne ke liye us se dosti kare tu kia ye jaiz ha

Answer: Agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalam per mushtamil ho, jab k haram me waqae honey ka khof bhi na ho to koe haraj nahi. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 139, pg # 66) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
6572
Mujtahid:
ayatollah sistani (m)

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Question: kia kisi larki k jism ko sirf choona bhi zina kehlata hai?

Answer: Nahi, zina nahi samjha jata laikin haram hay gunah e azeem hay . (Ref : nigah or libaas, part# 1, ques # 109, pg # 70, (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3036
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam sir .mera sawal ye he k agar koi shadi ho k combine family me jaye tu wo har waqt socks nahi pehn skti is surat me wo kia kare gi ?kbhi aesa hota he k ghar me buht mehman hote hn aur hum socks na pehne hn tu kisi ki nazar nahi parti aur phno tu sub point out krte hn is surat me kia kia jaye.plaz reply

Answer: 1)Aurat na mehram k samnay apna chahra aur hataili zahir kar sakhti he. Ba’shartay k is se fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khatra na ho, is ka maqsad mardoon ko haram me mubtila karna na ho aura am tor per fail e haram me mubtila honay ka sabab na babay warna agar fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khatra ho to mehram mard se bhi parda karna wajib ho ga. 2)aur aurat k lie jaiz nahi he k wo apnay qadmoo ki pusht na mehram mardoon k samnay zahir karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 501 , 502 pg # 265) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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9008
Mujtahid:

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Question: apni mangatar say bat kar sakta hu

Answer: Mangayter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shrt he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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9363
Mujtahid:

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Question: kia larka larky engage kay bad phone pay bat kar sakty han.

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
6620
Mujtahid:

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Question: pahli shohar ki beti dosre shohar k lye mehram ha k nae

Answer: 1)Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat say nikah karay aur is k sath hambistri karay to phir is aurat ki larki is mard ki mehram ho jati hay chahae wo nikah k waqt majood ho ya bad may paida hon. 2)Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat say nikah karay aur is k sath hambistri na ki ho to jab tak wo aurat os k nikah may rehay ethiat wajib ki bina par os waqt tak os larki say nikah na karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2351-52) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
2968
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Asslamualyekum sir, Mera swal ye hai main apni cousins ko apni behenon ka derja deta hun, koi lazzat ka irada or haram mein perney ka khof nhe hai, to kia ek dusray ko dekhna or baat cheet kerna jaiz hai? jbkeh hamari baat b hamesha ikhlaq k dairey mein he hoti hai. or hm ne hamesha ek dusrey ko bhai behen he smjha hai.

Answer: Na mehram se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho.(ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
6814
Mujtahid:

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Question: Asslam-o-Alikum! kia khawateen ka beautician ka cource ya kaam jaez hai?

Answer: Beautician ka cource kernay main ba-zaat e khud koe haraj nahi rakhta he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 161-2 Pg # 96) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7438
Mujtahid:
Hanfi

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Question: kia nikah se pehlay apni mengetar se phone pe baat ker sakta hon sirf is liay k mera khayal kisi or ghalat cheez pe na jay balke usi se batain ker k dil laga rahay.

Answer: Note : Is website me fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein. Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
7508
Mujtahid:
sistani

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Question: is love is rong in islam and also love marrieg

Answer: Kisi bhi ghair ikhtari amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati he lakin yad rahey , shariat kisi bhi aise artibat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhein haram ki taraf le janay wala ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Pasand ki shadi ko islam na-pasnd nahi samajhta.balkeh munasib hay k merd jis khatoon se shadi kerna chata hay os main in sifaat ko paish e nazar rakahy jo aik misaali khatoon main honi chahiay jo paak daaman, shareeful asl or naik ho or dunyavi or ukhravi mamilaat main shohor ki madad gaar sabit ho.merd k liay munsib nahi hay k bivi k intekhaab main iski nazar sirif oska zahiri husun wa Jamaal or maal o daulat ho. Isi terah aurat or os k wali(baap/dada) ko chahiay keh on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka shohor main hona zarori hay.aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo deendaar,paak daman,or baa akhlaaq ho.sharabi nah ho or buraeyoo or muhliq gunaho ka irtekaab nah kerta ho.( Ref:A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masa’il, masalah # 386,387) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7546
Mujtahid:
zina

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Question: agr kisi grl ko hum touch bi kr lain to kiya zina ha ya us ki sahram gaha ko bi just touch kr lain to kiya zina ha aur is ka kufara kaisy ada hogga umed ha ap mery 2 sawal han us ka ans jadl daingy

Answer: 1)aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat k qasd sey nigah daalna Haram hay jab k lazzat k qasd k baghair on hisso par nazar dalain jinhain aam taur per chupana zarori nahi maslan (sar,dono haath etc)to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso k ilawa baqi jism par nigah daalna Haram hay.Isi terah merd k liay sirif aurat k chehray or hathaylioon(palms) per lazzat k baghair nazar daalna jaiz hay is k ilawa baqi jism or baal per nigaah kerna haram hay.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)Prob No 2397). 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
8036
Mujtahid:

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Question: ek larke ne mujhe purpose kia or dunu k parents k darmian shadi ki bat shit chalne lagi os larke se kissing wagera ho gai or dono ne ek dosre ko bina cloth k dekh lia or cho lia but sex nai kia islam mai is ki kia saza hai...? os waqt ye socha k shadi hone wali hai is liye ye sub hua but shadi nai ho saki parents k dermian ikhtalaf ho gaya.... kia saza hai islam mai is ki,,,,? plz tell me

Answer: Aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat kay qasd sey nigah dalna Haram hai jabke lazzat kay qasd k bagair un hisso par nazar dale jinhe aam tor par chupana zaroori nahi masalan (sar,dono hath etc)to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso kay ilawa baqi jism par nigah dalna Haram hai.Isi terah merd k liay sirif aurat k chehray or hathaylioon(palms) per lazzat k baghair nazar daalna jaiz hay is k ilawa baqi jis or baal per nigaah kerna haraam hay.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)Prob No 2397). Toba karain. 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 3)Ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe).

Id:
8250
Mujtahid:

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Question: Meri sali mujhe pasand nahi karti hai mai kiya karu

Answer: 1) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2) Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat se shadi karay to chahae wo daimi nikah karay ya mutaa karay jab tak wo aurat is k nikah me he wo shakhs is ki behan se shadi nahi kar sakhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355)

Id:
7426
Mujtahid:
syed Ali Sistani

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum jesa k aap ka fatwa hai k koi na mehram larhka or larhki apas men bat nai kr sakte.meri fiancee ne jb se aap ka ye fatwa suna hai us ne muj se bt karna chorh di hai or wo muj se bt kiay bina na kuch khati hai or na piti ha kunke wo muj se boht pyar karti hai or bemar b ho jati hai to kea ham dono apas men aik dusre se baat kar sakte hain? ham log sirf mobile per chat kar sakte hain?

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat angaiz baat na ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7656
Mujtahid:

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Question: hmari baat teh ho gai hai k hm2 ki shadi hog,,kea hm msg k zrihe baat kr skte?or koi treka jis se gunha na ho?its so important,,plzz rixp

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
7658
Mujtahid:
ayat ullah seestani

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Question: allama sahib ,kia 25 saala lrki mehram k bgher trip k sath ja skti he jis mei 40 saal ki aurten bhi mojod hun?, plz jldi jwab bhejiey ga, shukria.

Answer: Wajibaat e sharie ka khayl rakhtay huay jaiz trip per jana jaiz he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 119, pg # 63) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7943
Mujtahid:

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Question: kia larka or larki aik dosary se mail saktay hain.ta k un ko pata chal sakay k dono kasy hain.tell me about islami law.and hawala jat2

Answer: Agar gunah or buraae main mubtila honay ka khoof maujood ho tu oskay saath mail joul or rabitahj jaiz nahi hay. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 102). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7696
Mujtahid:

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Question: Agr hum ampni mangaitr say baat cheat shuru ker lain.aur baat jinsi lazat tak aa Pohnchy. Asy mn hum harig bi Bo Jain. Is ka kya guano hy. Aur tauba kasy ki jay?

Answer: 1)Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shewat angaiz baat na ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7716
Mujtahid:

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Question: kia islam me lrky aur lrki ka piyar krna jaiz he?aur kia islam me iski koi misal milti he?

Answer: kisi bhi ghair akhteri amal per shariyat koe hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariyat kisi bhi aisay raabtay ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7828
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalamualaikum, Agar kisi ladke ko koi ladki pasand ajaye usse mohabbat hojaye to us ladke ko kya karna chahiye... Islam me mohabbat ka izhar kis tarha karna jayez hai...

Answer: kisi bhi ghair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7984
Mujtahid:

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Question: Salam, Ma ik larki sa bohat pyar kerta hon, but wo mje pyar nahi kerti kisi aur sa pyar kerti ha, mery sath pehlay pyar kerti thi lakin 3 sal howe wo mje chor chuki ha. Ma kia karon k wo mujhy dobara mil jaye ma usko hamesha k liya pana chahta hon. Please mujhay koi rasta batain. Mera name Saeed Ansari Ha and Uska Sameen Yameen ha

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
7870
Mujtahid:

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Question: kya islam mein mohabbat ki shadi krna jaiz hai?

Answer: kisi bhi ghair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
4384
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam ,mera quest hai ki i have a boyfriend and we live far away from each other, and its not possible to meet him . so while on phone at night we try to seduce eachother, is it haram?

Answer: Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hain kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref . Isteftat Aqai Sistani)

Id:
3425
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Q1:- Kaya nikah se pahle jab ki dono ki sadi date final ho choka ho kaya baat ker na jaiz hai?. Q2: kaya nikah se pahle baat kerna jaiz hai?.

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3451
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: salam kia hum larki jo k dost hy ios sex ki batey kar sakty hy gunah hy

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69)

Id:
3461
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: sallam . main jis larkay semohabat karti huus se meri ladai bht hoti hai or wo meri koi bat sahi tareeke se sunte hinahi haimain bolti kuch hu wo samajte kuch haior jazbati bht hai har galat buri bat per inshaAllah lagate hai plz koi wazifa dain jisse hamari larai na ho shukria

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69)

Id:
3469
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: me ak ladki ko chahta hun wo bhi chahti he lekin kuch dino se wo door hoti ja rahi hai kuch wazaif bataiye taki wo fir se chahne lage me kafi pareshan hun. khuda hafij

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69)

Id:
3279
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mai r ek larka apas m shadi karna chahtay hain.hum ubi phone pai baat kartay hain kia hum gunah sai bachnay k liye ghar walon sai chup k mutaa kar saktay hain??qk aesa na ho k hum chotay gunah sai bachtay bachtay bara gunah kar bethain.agar nai to is ka koi solution btain...shukriya

Answer: 1)kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutaa) nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341,2342 & minhaa jus saliheen,part #3,maslah #70). 2) Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hain kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref . Isteftat Aqai Sistan) 3)phone per bat cheet karna jaiz nahi he q k fasad me parhnay ka khof he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 124 , 125 pg # 65) Wazifa: 1. Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76.) 2. Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega .(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41)

Id:
3389
Mujtahid:
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Question: mera swal ye he k kia aik larki apne mangaiter se mulaqat ker sktihe ager wo apne walid ki ijazat le ker mulaqat kre or ager mulaqat k duran aik dosre k hath per kiss ker di ho, laikin ab shadi ho chuki he or wo larki apni us se mulaqat or hath per kiss krne per shirminda ho ri he or apne gunah ki muafi allah se mangti he,app is baray me btain wokia kre plz reply me soon,w/slam

Answer: Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
3402
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam.. meri alhumdoillah kouch maheno pehlay mangni howi hai aur shadi may aabi sirf 6 mahenay baqi hain.. kia mangni k baad appni mangetar se mobile pea sms k through ya calls k through baat kar na jaiz hai iss neyat se k ham aik dosray k baray may kouch jaan saky..?? aur agar iss baat ka yaqqeen ho k haram mai mubtila nai hogay phr kia hukam hai???

Answer: Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3169
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: meri mangni ho chuki hay kia may apni mangetar say phone par baat kar sakta ho? ya oral sex kar sakta ho?

Answer: Mangni k bad aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho.(ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
5838
Mujtahid:
Quran o sunnat ke lehaz se

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Question: Mera swal he meri mangne ho gye he aur me apne mangtar se pear krne laga ho wo bi krti he kia hum dono aik dosre ko kiss kr skte he ya gahr akhlaki bte kr skte he agr 2no ke rza mndi ho to kia kia kr skte he plz jldi btye ga.

Answer: Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
5839
Mujtahid:
Nigah daalne ke ahkam

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Question: Kia mangne ho jye to mngter ke sth sex ya kiss krna chahaye ya oske chut ko mou me lena chaye apna urethera oske mou me dena chahaye mgr shadi se phele plz jldi ans de do

Answer: Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
2848
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: magaiter k sath kis had tak bat kerna jaiz hai

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
2896
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Kaya Islam main larki say payar karna jaiz hai?plzz mujhay detail main answer batain.thank you.

Answer: 1)Kisi bhi ghair akhtari amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati he lakin yad rahey , shariat kisi bhi aise artibat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhein haram ki taraf le janay wala ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) 2) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

Id:
2906
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: islam main pasand karke shadi karsakte kya?jayaz tariqe se

Answer: kisi bhi ghair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3360
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: is it haram to have a boyfriend

Answer: 1)jins e mukhalif se dosti or muhabbat kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2) kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3725
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: asalam o alaikum mera sawaal yh hai k aik dafa meri ammi ne meri khala k betay ko doodh piladia tha aur meri khala ne mere bhai ko mai khala ki beti se shaadi krna chahta hun kia yeh jaiz hai kyunki mainay suna hai k hum behen bhai hogaye hain?

Answer: Doodh pila kar mehram bannay ki 8 shartain hein jis me se aik ye he k bachay ko is qadar doodh pilaya jay k is ki haddiyaan(bones) is doodh se mazboot ho jain aur badan ka ghost bhi banay or agar is baat ka ilm(yaqeen) nah ho keh is qadar doodh piya hay ya nahi tu agar is nay 1 din or 1 raat ya 15 mertabah pait bher ker dhoodh piya ho tab bhi(mehram honay k liay) kafi hay. agar 8 shara’it per amal kar k doodh pilaya gaya ho to wo lerki aap ki mahram ho gi aur aap ka on say shadi karna haram ho ga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2438).

Id:
3688
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Apni cousions yani phophi zaad,khala zaad,chacha zaad behno k baalon (hair)or jism k dusre hison per nigah k kya ahkam hain? jab k aisa aik gher main hon to aksar aate jaate nazer per jaati hai.

Answer: Phophi zaad,khala zaad,chacha zaad behnain na-mehram hain.or na-mehram or na-mehram aurton per lazzat k iraday or haram main mubtila honay k khof k baghair chehray or hathoo ko kala’e tak daikha jasakta hay,laikin baaqi jagaho per lazzat k iraday k baghair bhi nigah daalna haram hay. (Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2349,2397). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3573
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: kia mobile phone per sms ke zarye kese na mehram larki se baat ker na jaiz hai ya nai?

Answer: Agar is ki wajah se fasaad ka khof ho to jaiz nahi. Aur agar baat cheet hidayat aur saaleh kaam per mustimal ho, jab k haram me waqae honay ka khof bhi na ho to koe haraj nahi. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 139, pg # 66).

Id:
3043
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam, kiya mangni k baad mei apni mangetar se baat cheet aur mulaqat aur use ba hijaab dekh sakta hu, aur us se shariyat k daire mei reh kar izdawaji zindagi k baare mei baat kar sakta hu, chatting aur sms k zariye aur kiya mein us se phone per baat karsakta hu aur ham ek dusre ko email per apni pictures send kar sakte hain kiya?? inshallaH v will get married soon

Answer: mangaiter apas main na mehram hain.Mangni k baad aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho. 2)Agar be’hijab tasveer he to Tasveer ko lazzat k sath dekhna jaiz nahi he bal’ke bagair lazzat k bhi ethiat ki bina per jaiz nahi he. (ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115 , 116 pg # 57) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
6283
Mujtahid:
agha sistani

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Question: Q.ma hosptal ma kam karta ho during operation hamen aurato ka jism ko hath lagana parta ha aur wo eza jenhen dakhna jaiz nai hota un eza ko b dakhna parta ha e.g bache ki peidaish ka waqat aurat nurs na ho to hamen hi dakhna parta ha plz hamara shari fariza kia ha?

Answer: Agar insane kisi shakhs ka illaj karnay k silsilay me is ki sharamgaah per nigah dalnay per majhboor ho to ethiat e wajib ki bina per osay chahaiay k aaina(mirror) samany rakhay aur is me dekhay. Lakin agar sharamgah per nigah dalnay k alawa koe aur charah(zarya) na ho to aisa karnay me koe ishkaal nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2406). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
6284
Mujtahid:
ayat ul sistani

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Question: hum ek ladki se pyar karte hai mera dil chata hai ki hum uskai saat waqt guzarna chate hai to kya islam mai iski ijazat hai us waqt mai usko hum bus dekhana chate hai aur usse baate karna chate hai

Answer: 1)Fuqaha e karaam is baat ki tasreeh kartein hein k shak aur lazzat ki niyat se auratoon ko dekhna haram he aur lazzat ki nigah ka matlab ye he k un ki taraf shehwat se dekha jaay aur shak ki nigah ka matlab ye he k fail e haram me mubtila hone ka khof ho. (ref : jaded faqhi masayl masla # , 458 pg # 253) 2) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
6448
Mujtahid:

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Question: agr larka larki kbi milein na hon r relation ho r koi galat kam na hua ho tou gunnah hay? r agr woh larka jhuti batain phela de k larki k bare mein tou larke ko gunnah mile ga?

Answer: 1)kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ) 2) jooth Kabira ghunahoo me shumar hota he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. masla # 29) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
6461
Mujtahid:

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Question: may ek lerkey se bhot pyaar kti hun aur wo b mujse ub wo brek up chahrehahai q k humari misunderstandin rehti hai aur wo muje humesha gelet semjta hai k mayusko dhoka dey rei hun ya ussey cheat kr rei hun ..aur ub keh reha hai brek up chaiye hai aur dubara call ya sms nai krey ga nahi jawab dey ga ..muje koi esa wazifa btayen jissey wo mere pass khud wapez ajaye ya muje call krey plzz sahib e alam....aur dusri baat wo nashey bhot krta hai kuch btayen k wo nashey krna chor dey may nai chahti k wo berbad ho pllzzzz....

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
5266
Mujtahid:

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Question: Asslamu alaikum… I am a 24 year old Muslim sister I fell in love with a Muslim boy who is religious and very good by his character. He is my college mate. We liked each other at first we had telephonic conversations. Later his mother called my mother and asked me for his son. My mother was happy with it. Our relationship continued over phone and we started to live like husband and wife by informing each other our every single activities and health conditions. For past three years we came to know about each other very well. We are stable in our love and it is increasing day by day. Only today i came to know that communicating with each other is a sin even though In sha allah I am going to marry him .Days are going on like this. As since it is taking time for him to get settled I have to continue my phone conversations. Please help me for I don’t know whether I can communicate with him without any sinful talks. Can I just enquire his health and ask him about whether he is having his food properly? Can I tell him my salaam after every prayer? Both of us feel deadly without texting.. is decent conversations to my fiancé allowed in Islam? He is so good loving ,caring and trust worthy. Please help me I need your guidance to seek allah and to be pure by heart and soul. I want to live with him in both the worlds for i want to be in jannath with him.. in sha allah aameen.. I hope there are many girls in my situation let my question help them to follow the righteous path of allah…

Answer: 1)Agar larki se is niyat se phone per bat ki jey k bad me us ko propose karey ga aur shadi karey ga to agar darmian me agar koi aisi bat na ho jo aik musalman k shaya ne shan nahi he to koi haraj nahi he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 124, pg # 65) 2)Agar lazzat ka irade aur haram mein mubtila hone k khof k bagheir aur kisi burai ka baa’is na bane to koi haraj nahei he. (REF : KITAB NIGAH AUR LIBAS ques # 77 pg # 57) 3)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
6342
Mujtahid:

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Question: Kaya hum apni mungater say shadi say pahlay mobile per baat kar saktay hai.. Jab kay wo cusion ho..

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shewat angaiz baat nah ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shert he k is se koe jinsi lazzat hasil nahi ho aur nah hi haram me perhnay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
4003
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: kia facebook use karna jaiz hai? specially jab ke pichle dinon facebook par draw MUHAMMAD(PBUH) competition karwaya gya tha?

Answer: Agar is wajah se fasaad ka khof ho to jaiz nahi he. Agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalam par mushtamil ho jab ke haram mein parnay ka kauf bhi na ho to koi haraj nahi. REF: A.Sistani, mujtahid se poochay gae sawalat, hisa 3, ques no: 139. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
5431
Mujtahid:
saza

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Question: assalam o alaikum mera sawal ye hai ke quran pak and hadees pak me larkion ke parda na karne ki saza kea hai

Answer: 1)Aurat per ajnabi mard se mulaqat k mauqae per hijab ko farz qarar dia he. (ref : jaded fiqhi masayl masla # 512, pg # 267) 2)Jo apnay baal mardoon se nahi chupati thein rasool farmatay hein k wo auratain apnay sar k baalon se latki hui thein. (Ref : qasas ul ulma pg # 467) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
6330
Mujtahid:

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Question: salam Kia me apni mangetar sy bat ker sakta hun.

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shewat angaiz baat na ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3919
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Assalamo Alaikum Main ye janna chahta hun ki mangetar k sath phone pe sex ki batein ki ja sakti hai jo agey shadi shuda zindagi me zaruri hai

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shewat angaiz baat na ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
3780
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: mera sawal hai. kya shadi se pahile biwi se phone per baat kar ya mulakat kar sahi. pls. answer me. khuda hafiz

Answer: Agar darmiyaan me koe aisi baat nah ki jaay jo aik musalman k shaya nay shan nahi hein to koe haraj nahi he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4 ques # 124 pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
5427
Mujtahid:
ayatullah sistani

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Question: Q1. aj kal larkiyan be nohy parrthi hain our in ki video b agayi hain inko sunna or dekhna kaisa hai?

Answer: 1)Ajnabi aurat ki Awaz sunna jaiz he is shart k saath k lazzat or shewat ki niyat se na ho aur fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khof na ho. Al’batta aurat ko apni awaz ko is terha dilkush aur khoobsurat banana jaiz nahi k sunne walay k liay aam taur per hejaan awar ho agarchah sunne wala mehram ho. 2)Aurat na mehram merd k samne apna chahra aur haath ki hathaili zahir kar sakti he. Is shart k saath k is se haram me mubtila honay ka khof nah ho, aur is ka maqsad mardoon ko haram nigah me mubtila karma na ho aur aam taur per fail e haram me mubtila honay ka mojib na bine. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 510 , 501pg # 266 , 265)

Id:
4989
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Q1. hum jahan rahty hain wahan bhai bahny chacha chachi cousin sub mil k rahty hain wahan hamary ley na mahram ka keya hukam hai?

Answer: Jo aurtain merd k liay mehram hain yani on k saath azdawaaj kerna haram hay.maslan: maan, behen, baiti, phophi, khala,bhatijee, bhaanji or saas,tu agar lazzat k iraday or haram main mubtila honay ka khof k baghair hu tu(siwaay sharamgaah k) tamaam badan per nigah ker saktay hain.or na-mehram aurton per lazzat k iraday or haram main mubtila honay k khof k baghair chehray or hathoo ko kala’e tak daikha jasakta hay,laikin baaqi jagaho per lazzat k iraday k baghair bhi nigah daalna haram hay.((Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2349, Nigah or Libaas Sawaal#23,24).

Id:
5864
Mujtahid:
aqae sistani

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Question: salam,keya khushbu laga kar ghair mehram k pas jana jaiz hay?

Answer: Agar ye mardoon ko ghumra karnay ka sabab na ban reha ho aur osi laganay walay ka maqsad mardoon ko haram me mubtila karna bhi na ho to jaiz he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 135, pg # 65)

Id:
5858
Mujtahid:

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Question: mera ap say yeh question hai kia kisi larky say dosti rakhna jaiz hai? ager humari koi ghalat neeyat na hoo...bas hum ak dosray say dosti rakhein? plz jawab zaroor dia ga..

Answer: Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hain kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref . Isteftat Aqai Sistan)

Id:
5409
Mujtahid:

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Question: aslam-o-alikam sir main aik larkiyo jaisa larka hon aur 17 sal sy aik larky k sath muhabat karta hon wo larka bi muj se muhabat karta hai main namaz bhi parta hoon pichly 20 sal sy ham dono galt taluqat rakhty hain khabi khabi wo larkiyo sy bi taluqat bana laita hai jis ki waja sy main marny wala ho jata hon us ki shadi hui to tab bi mere halit marny wali thi main buhat mushkil sy bacha tha phir thory arsy bad wo theeq ho gia phir mere shadi ho gai phir us ny muj sy mon mur liya tab bi meri halit buhat buri ho gai thi main us k beghar nahi rah sakta tha likan waqt k sath sath mujy us sy nafrat ho gai lekin phir bi us k beghair nahi rah sakt wo police me hai us k bazari aurto k sath taluqat hain main ne 1 mahina pahly us ko aik larki k sath pakr liya jis ka mujy buhat ranj hua yahan tak k main khudkashi k liy sochny laga lekin ab main ne dari mubarik rakh le hai aur mere dil main ab bi us k bary main waswasy aty rahty hain har waqt us k bary mein sochta rahta hon main ne allah s wada kiya hai k zana nahi karon ga aur apni sari zindagi islam k mutabiq guzaron ga lekin dil main y khiyalat aty hain k main y sb kuch us k liy kar raha ho agar wo mujy phir kahy ga to main tayar ho jaon ga. lekin ab main sab kuch khatam kar dina chahta hon aur apni zindagi allah k nabi k bataiy huy asolon k mutabiq basar karna chahta hon. ap se guzarish hai k ap kui asan sa hal batain ta k meri us k tarf sy muhabat khatam ho jai aur main apni bivi sy buhat ziada muhabat karny lag jaon mian ny pichly 17 sal buhat mushkil main guzary hain har waqt us k bary main sochna us k liy sab kuch karna guna karty rahna main ny is sy pahly bhi buhat wazify kiy hain lekin mery amal main pata nahi kun kam nahi hota lekin ab main ny allah talah sy toba kar le hai aur main sirf aur sirf islam k mutabiq zindagi guzaron ga. ap koi ayat ya koi dua bata dain asan ta k main is ka hal nikal sakon aur mere us ke tarf rughbat khatam ho jai main ap ka buhat shukar guzar hon ga. baqi allah ja chahy ga ho ga. aur mujy yaqin hai k allah ki tarf main ja raha hon to allah bi mujy pasand kary ga. mery jism sy napaki khatam ho jai ap k liy dua karta rahun ga..mera nam shoaib mohammad meri walida ka nam sughran bibi us ka nam mohammad ashraf us ki walida ka nam sharifa bibi

Answer: 1)Zina or lawaat(merd ka merd say bad faili kerna) gunahaan e kabeera hay or isi terah tamaam jinsi lazzaat(sexual relation-ship) ka kisi k saath haasil kerna siwa’ay biwi or shohar k ,azeem gunah hain.(Ref: Minhaajus saliheen part#1,Pg#30). 2)Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76). 3). 3) kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood” (Ref: naeemul a’amaal,pg#314). 4) Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega .(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) 5) Shadi honay k liay Sadqa dain.sadqa har musibat or aafaat ko taal daita hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), minhaajus saliheen,Part#2,albaabus saani-fis sadqa,maslah#1601) wazifa bayan karne k sath aap ko in fiqhi masail ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

Id:
5325
Mujtahid:
mangni

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Question: mara ap se question ha ka insan ko mangni kay bad kaya karna chayia jab ka shadi ma do saal paray hauy hain i mean ka kabi kabi mil lana chayia ya nai

Answer: Aam mamool ka mutabiq baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat angaix guftugu nah ho, koe haraj nahi lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
5337
Mujtahid:
Gunah

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Question: kya 1 un married larki ka khayalon me sex ka sochna gunah ha? or shadi k liye jo hum wazifa karen to us me periods k din ka gap de k perh sakte han? plz answer me through email soon.

Answer: 1) Agar mani niklnay ka sabab nah bane to ethiat e mustahib he k is kaam ko tark kar dia jay(yani ye kaam haram nahi hay magar behter hay k is kaam ko terk kiaya jaay). (ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 2, ques # 199, pg # 82) 2) Haiz ki halat me sajde wali 4 ayaat ki tilawat haram hay. (yaani aap sure muzammil ki tilawat ko haiz ki halt me bhi jari rakh sakate hain albatta yeh khayal karna hoga k haath qurane majeed k alfaz par nah lagain q k haiz ki halat main quran ki ayaat ko chona haram hay) (ref: tawzihul masail Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) masaala no. 448,467)

Id:
5343
Mujtahid:
mangni

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Question: mangni kay bad insan ko kaya karna chayia

Answer: Mangni k bad aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho.(ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
5352
Mujtahid:

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Question: kyaa mangetar kay hotay howay hum kisi doost say paak dil say dosti rakh sakty hain ??????

Answer: kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 )

Id:
4782
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: kya facebook use karna haram hai?

Answer: Agar is ki wajah se fassad ka khof ho to jaiz nahi. Aur agar bat cheet hidayat aur salah kam per mustimal ho, jab k haram me waqae honay ka khof bhi na ho to koi haraj nahi. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 139, pg # 66)

Id:
3804
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: kia koi aurat agar ladies perfume laga kar bahar jati hay aur us orat ki k jism se mehakne wali khusbo koi na mehram soongh le to kya us orat pe ghusal wajib hota he ya nahi.

Answer: Agar ye mardoon ko ghumra karnay ka sabab na ban reha ho aur usi laganay ka maqsad mardoon ko haram me mubtila karna bhi na ho to jaiz he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 135, pg # 65)

Id:
3823
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: SIR MUJHY YE BTAIN K HAND PRACTICE KIA THEEK HAI? APNI MAGATER KO CHOOM SAKTY HAIN?

Answer: 1)Hand practice karna kisi bhi zarie se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2) Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

Id:
4734
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: kia aurt key sath aslam hath mila ker le ja sakti hai. ager nehien to hadees key metabiq is ke waga

Answer: Na-mehram aurat say haath milana jaiz nahi hay, haan agar darmiyaan main koe perdah maslan dastaney wagaira hoon to koe haraj nahi. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 131, pg #64 )

Id:
4731
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: MEIN JUB B KISI LARKI KO GOR SE DEKTA HUN TO CHAND MINUTES K BAD MERE MONEY K KATREY BAH JAATEY HAIN ESE Q HOTA HAI MERE SATH,,,AUR IS KE ILLAAJ BATAIYE...

Answer: Faqha e karam is baat ki tasreeh kartein hein k shak aur lazzat ki niyat se auratoon ko dekhna haram he aur lazzat ki nigah ka matlab ye he k un ki taraf shewat se dekha jey aur shak ki nigah ka matlab ye he k fal e haram me mubtila hone ka khof ho. (ref : jaded faqhi masayl masla # , 458 pg # 253)

Id:
4794
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: aoa.sir mera sawal yeh hai k meri rishte mein aik bhabi hain haqeeqi rishte mein magr mein unko apni badhi bhnoo se b ziada mtlb mere liye woh meri maa hain badhi bhn hain ,aur mein unke liye unki aulad jaisa hon.kya mein unke sath hajj k saadat hasil ker sakta hon,aur kya yeh jo hum moun bole rishte bana lete hain yeh jaiz hain,islam mein.jinka mein zikar ker raha hon meri maa k bad subse ziada pyara rishta unhhi ka hai mere pas,woh married hain 2 daughters b hain unki aur woh mujhe apna pehla beta kehti hain samjhti hain aur mein b unko kbhi ammi kbhi bhna keh k pukarta hon plzzzzzzz send me da best answer in islamic point of veiw,

Answer: 1)Bhabhi devar apas main na-mehram hain. .(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), nigah or libaas,part#1,pg#57-61).2)Wajibat e sharie ka khayl rakhte hue aurat apne daver k sath hajj per jana jaiz he. 3)Moo bola beta mehram nahi benta. (ref : muhtahid se pouche gye sawalat part #4 , pg # 63 , 67 ques # 119 , 132)

Id:
4909
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: salam-0-Alikum mera sawle ya hai k meri shadi kisi aur se ho rehi hai aur main kisi aur ko pasnde karta hun to mujhe kya karna chahiya.....plz jald se jald jawab dein

Answer: Ans :1) Jo lerki had e baloog ko pounch chuki ho aur rasheeda(samaghdar) ho yani apni bhalai burai jaan sakhti ho agar wo shadi karna chahay aur kanwari ho to ethiat e wajib ki bina per ise chahiay k apnay baap(father) ya dada se ijezat lay. 2)Nikah ki shaara’it me say aik shart ye he k, Aurat aur mard shadi per razi hoon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha khoei (r.h.) masla # 2385 , 2379). 3) Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76. 2).

Id:
3984
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Assalamoalykum ! 1)Ya Ek ladka or ek Ladke Shadi ke Pehle Ek Baar Apas main Baat Kar Sakte Hai ? 2) Or kya ek ladka ek ladke se shadi ke pehle mil sakta hai?

Answer: 1)jee haan,agar lazzat k iraday or haram main mubtila honay k khoof k baghair ho or kisi burae ka sabab nah banay tu koe maslah nahi.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b),sawalaat or jawabaat,part#1,niggah or libaas,maslah #77). 2) agar gunah or burae main nubtila honay ka khoof maujood ho tu milnay jaiz nahi hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), sawalaat or jawabaat,part#1,niggah or libaas,maslah #102).

Id:
3835
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: kya devar = bhabhi aapas me romontic batey aur ched chad karsakte hain....? aur limit kitni honi chahiye...?

Answer: Bhabhi devar apas main na-mehram hain. Devar ka bhabhi say romantic batey or chiarh charh kerna jaiz nahi hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), ),nigah or libaas,part#1,pg#57-61).

Id:
2865
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam, 1 ghar mai majlis barpa hoti hai jis mai lADIES MARSIEY NOHEY OR MAJLIS PHARTI HAI, JIN KE AWAZ NA MHERAMO TAK B JATI HAI, OR KUCH SUNI HAZRAT IS KA MAZAK B URATEY HAI. KIA YEH JAIZ HAI

Answer: Aurat k liay ye jaiz nahi k wo apni awaaz ko khoobsorat or dikhash banaay k sunnay walay ki tabiyat hijaan aawar ho,chahay sunnay wala aurat ka mehram hi Q nah ho.(Jadeed Fiqhi masail,Maslah#500,Ayatullah seestani(d.b).)

Id:
2910
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Kaya Islam main kisi Larki say payar karna jaiz hai ya nahin plzz detail say batain.thank you.

Answer: Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hay kion ke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. Ref . Isteftat Agha Sistani 2) Aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat kay qasd sey nigah dalna Haram hai jabke lazzat kay qasd k bagair un hisso par nazar dale jinhe aam tor par chupana zaroori nahi masalan (sar,dono hath etc)to to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso kay ilawa baqi jism par nigah dalna Haram hai.Isi terah merd k liay sirif aurat k chehray or hathaylioon(palms) per lazzat k baghair nazar daalna jaiz hay is k ilawa baqi jis or baal per nigaah kerna haraam hay.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)Prob No 2397).

Id:
2750
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: 1.Hum ne suna hai ke Biwi marnay ke baad Shohar ke liye Na-mehrum ho Jati hai woh na us ko hath laga sakta hai na dekh sakta hai kya yehi sahi hai ? 2. Kehtay hain joray asmanon par bantay hain .isi liye zameen par bhi wohi jora banta hai kya roz e akhrir bhi yehi jora banay ga ?

Answer: Jee nahi.bivi mernay k baad shohar k liay na-mehram nahi hojati.balkeh mernay k baad bhi bivi shohar ko or shohar bivi ko baghair kis perday k ghusl day sakta hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#548)

Id:
2561
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Asalam alaikum, mera sawal aap say yeh hai kay kya biwi shohar say jaaiz shartain manwa sakti hay jaisa kay maa kay ghar haftay main ek bar jana? uskay shohar say time, attention aur ghar main moral support mang sakti hay ??kya shohar say yeh umeed rakh sakti hay kay woh biwi kay ma baap ko apnay maa baap samjhay aur unki izaat karay jaisa kay woh karti hay?aur kya rishtay main compromise aur kurbani sirif biwi deti hay?

Answer: Nikha k waqt jaaiz hay k lerka or lerki wo shartain jo islam main jaiz hain taay karsaktay hain.or jo ye shart qabool ker raha ho(larka ya lerki) os k liay wajib hay k in shartoon ko poora karay.(maslam agar aurat ye shart lagaay k ghar k kaam kaaj k liay mulaazma dee jay tu shohar k liay wajib hoga k os ko mulaazma dee jaay,laikin agar wo aisa nah karay tu gunah gaar hoga laikin nikah per koe asar nahi perhay ga. Agar shart maqsad e nikah hi ki mukaahlfat main ho tu shart or nikah dauno hi baatil hain. Maslan agar aurat ye shart lagaay k oska shohar os say jima / hambistari or dosri lazaat hasil nahi karay ga. Yaad rahay k in tamaam shartoon per amal kerna os waqt wajib hay jab nikah k waqt ye shartain taay hoe hon,nah k nikah k baad. Jahaan tak is baat ka sawal hay k aurat ka apni maan k ghar jaana tu bivi ka apnay shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar say bahar nikalna hi haraam hay ,siwaay is sorat k oska ghar main rehna os k liay nuqsaan ka sabab ho ya bohat ehem zururat paish aajay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen, maslah #330-331, Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2376)

Id:
2261
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Assalaamualaikum. Janab quest ye hai ke hume koi achchha lagai, usse hume pyar ho jaye ya just wo pasand hai usse baat karna achchha lagta hai ye sahi hai? And is quest ka jarur answr dena bcoz ye main apne other friends ko bhi samjhaunga. Kya pyar karna gunah hai? Aur kyun gunah hai plz answer id details.. :-)

Answer: w.s., mard k liye na-maheram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi tarah us k balo ko dekhna khwah lazzat k irade se ho ya is k bagair, haram me mubtela hone ka khouf ho ya na ho haram he (ref: tawzihul masail Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) masaala no.2442) Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hia kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. Ref . Isteftat Aqai Sistani (d.b.)

Id:
2177
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mujhe sunni ladki pasand hai aur wo bhi mjhe boht pasand krti hai na mene use dekha hai aur na us ne mjhe dekah hai hm dono ek dosre se boht pyar krte hai hm dono ko malom hai k hmare ghar wale nahi mane ge us ke bawajod hm ek dosre ko pasand krte hai kya y mohabbat sahi hai ya nahi ?

Answer: bismehi taala, kisi bhi gair ikhteyari amal par shariyat koi hukm nahin lagati lekin yad rahe, shariyat kisi bhi ayse irtebat ki ijazat kabhi nahi deti jo unhain haram ki tarf le jane wala ho. (ref: mujthid se puchhe gaye sawalat Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) part 3 page no.65 pub. by quran-o-itrat academy)

Id:
2184
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: agar kisi aurat ko dekh kar shehwat bedar hone lage tu yeh haram hain kia?

Answer: bismehi taala, mard k liye na-maheram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi tarah us k balo ko dekhna khwah lazzat k irade se ho ya is k bagair, haram me mubtela hone ka khouf ho ya na ho haram he (ref: tawzihul masail Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) masaala no.2442)

Id:
1775
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam, me aik medical college ka student hu and meri class me larke bi hai n larkiya bhi..aik class me hone ki waja se larkyoo se baat krna lazmi hojata hai.. is bare me kya hukum hai??

Answer: w.s. khilwat k maqam par agar mulaqat na ho to us soorat me jaiz he jab insan un tamam bato se dur ho jin k hote hue haram me padne ka khouf ho sakata he. (ref: mujthid se puchh gaye sawalat Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) part 4 page 65-66)

Id:
2129
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: mera sawal ye ha k mery sath aik larka perhta ha jo mera best friend b hai wo bht acha ha 5 wqt namaz baaqaidgi se perhta ha mae r wo aik dosry ko pasand krty hain r shadi krna chahty hain usky ghr waly b razi hain bs wo apny paon pr khara hony ka intizar kr raha ha,wo kbi kbi mjy touch b krta ha wo khta ha k mae ne sachy dil se tmy apni shaik-e-hayat maan lia ha isliy ab mae tmy pyar kr skta hon k hm mian bivi hain to kia ye pyar krna r touch krna jaiz ha?

Answer: bismehi taala, Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hia kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. Ref . Isteftat Agha Sistani 2) Aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat kay qasd sey nigah dalna Haram hai jabke lazzat kay qasd k bagair un hisso par nazar dale jinhe aam tor par chupana zaroori nahi masalan (sar,dono hath etc)to to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso kay ilawa baqi jism par nigah dalna Haram hai. Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani Prob No 2392 (na-maheram ko chune ki to hargiz ijazat nahi he aur yeh bahot bade gunah ka kam he, jabani payar-mohabbat ki bato se kisi qisma ka rishta qaim nahi hota, shariyat k bayna karda hudud se bahir niklna dunya aur akherat ki barbadi ka sabab banta he)

Id:
2057
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: meri behan ki mangni hoi thi,wo dono phone per bat kerte the take shadi se pehle aik dosre ko samajh le, kia is silselay me on dono ke liye bat kerna jaiz tha?or agar romance ki bate na kare tu kia hokum hai?

Answer: b.t. agar darmiyan me aysi batain n ki jayen jo ek muslman ke shayane shan nahin hain to koi haraj nahin. albatta orat ki zimmedari bhi he k wo apni awaz ko atna khubsurat or barik n banae jo insan k jazbat ko abharne wali ho. (mujthid se puchhe gaye sawalat Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) part 4 q.125&127 pub. by quran-o-itrat academy)

Id:
1530
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salamun aliykum my question is that a boy (mard) can do homosex (hastmethun) plz dont allow my mail address or name plz & what up to any muslim women as no control as young or what to do if see any girl and feel to do sex? but not married what to do not understanding.&plz reply fast

Answer: B.T. ek mard ko dusre ka badan lazzat ki niyyat se nahi dekhna chahiye aur ek orat ka dusari orat ke badan ko lazzat ki niyyat se dekhna bhi haram he. isi tarah agar haram kam me mubtela hone ka khof ho tab bhi dono surto me haram he. jo shakhas shadi na karne ki wajah se haram feal me mubtela hota ho us par wajib he ke shadi kare. (tawzihu masail, Aqai Sistani d.b. masaala no. 2397 & 2402)

Id:
1479
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mera sawal yeh hai kai kia sohar apni biwi ki sharamga ko dekh sakta hai or kia biwi apnai sohar ki sharamga dekha sakti hai?

Answer: ji haan, shohar aur biwi aik dusray ki sharam-gaah dekh saktay hain. REF: A.Sistani, jadeed fiqhi masail, masla no: 401, pg no. 255.

Id:
1466
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam.muje ye pochna ha k agar koi apni biwi se baat karey phone pe aur baat krte hue ya kuch soch k uski mani kharij hojae,to uskey barey mai kia hukum ha?kia is se gunah hota ha aur ghusl wajib hojata hai?aur ehtelaam kisey kehtye hain?

Answer: 1, woh rutubat jo kabhi kabhi shewat ubharnay par mard kay aala-e-tanasul se kharij hoti hai usay "mazi" kehtay hain jo paak hai, lehaza is par ghusl-e-janabat nahi hoga. aur guna bhi nahi hoga kyon ke woh miya biwi hain. REF: A.Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no: 70+nikha ke ahkaam, pg 25+334. 2, insaan ka aik khaas had tak pochna, ke jis kay saat woh qadir ho jai mani kay nikaalnay par (is se farq nahi parhta ke yeh halat-e-need mein ho ya jaagtay huway). REF: mustalihaat-e-fiqh, buloog, pg no. 107.

Id:
1481
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam mera sawal yeh hai mai money kharij honai say pehlai jo ratobat nikalti hai woh pak hai ya nahi or aghar money kharij nahi howi or us say pehlai kharij honai wali ratobar kharij hojai to kia us halat mai namaz perhi ja sakti hai ya nahi Plz reply as soon as possible in waiting 4 ur reply ?

Answer: same as 1482

Id:
1498
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: ASSALAM O ALIKUM AGAR KOYE LARKI LARKON SAY DOSTI NAHI KARNA CHAHTI. MAGAR WOH UN KO ISLAM KI BATAY BATATI HAY .tu yeh jaiz hay ya nahi?

Answer: agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalam par mushtamil ho jab ke haram mein parnay ka kauf bhi na ho to koi haraj nahi. REF: A.Sistani, mujtahid se poochay gae sawalat, hisa 3, ques no: 139.

Id:
1505
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salaam. Mera sawal yeh hai kay kya hum recorded programs jin main baz dafah na mehram kay shoulders ya gardan kay hissay dikh rahay hotay hain . Hum issay dekh saktay hai ya nahi? Thanks.

Answer: aurat kay liyay na-mehram mard ke jisim par nazar dalna haram hai, lekin aurat mard kay jisim kay un hisso eg. sar(head), dono haath, dono pindliyoo par jinhain urfan chupana zaroori nahi hai, lazzat kay iraday kay bagair nazar dalay aur haram mein mubtila honay ka khauf na ho to koi haraj aur ishkaal nahi hai. REF: A.Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no: 2392.

Id:
1507
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salaam mera sawal yahy kay " kia shohar appni bivi kay saath baath room main naha sakta hy ya nahi.

Answer: shohar aur biwi dono aik dosray ka poora badan dekh saktay hain aur nahanay me bhi yehi suratehal hoti hai. lehaza is mein bhi koi haraj nahi. REF: A.Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no: 2395.

Id:
650
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam mara sawal ye hai k ager kissi k matay per zada ball hain tuo kiya un ko bhi chopna hai , ager koi larka body buliding keray tuo kiya ye qulat hai.yani ak terhan say uss ka ye kam zeenat hogaya . wassalam

Answer: Jee haan,Khawateen kay liye na-mehramoo say chehray aur hathoo kay ilawa baqi tamam badan aur baaloo ka chupana wajib hay.Ref:Book-1 Q.No.140...Larkoo kay body building karnay main bazat-e-khud koi haraj nahi hay,jaisay mard kay chotee aasteen ki qameez pehenna aur eye brows banwana jaiz hay.Ref:Book-4 Q.No.123,135...Haan albatta aurat kay liye na-mehram mard kay jism par nazar daalna Lazzat kay iraday say aur haram main mubtala honay kay khouf kay saath Haram hay balkay Aihtiyaat-e-Wajib ki bina par lazzat ka irada aur haram main mubtala honay kay khouf na ho tab bhi nigah nahi daalni chahiye.laikin agar aurat mard kay jism kay un hissoo masalan SAR,DONO HAATHOO,aur DONO PINDLIOON par jinhain umooman mard nahi chupatay lazzat kay iraday kay baghair nazar daalay aur haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho to koi Ishkaal nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2392.

Id:
1301
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: SALAM main ek teacher hoo kia main girls ko para sacta hoo

Answer: Jaiz hay agar haram main parnay ka khouf na ho (agarchay wo haram main parna haram nazar hi say kion na ho) lihaza agar haram main parnay ka khouf ho agarchay rafta rafta hi sahi to phir ye jaiz nahi hoga.Ref:Istiftaat A.Sistani S-48.

Id:
606
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: salam kia kisi namehram say dosti ki jai tu haraam hey jub key hum us say milna rahey ho aur agar milay tu bhi pardey may milay aur kia us say phone per baat ki jasakti hey i mean kia awaaz sunana haraam hey ya us may koi prb nahi?? khudha hafiz

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti jaiz nahi hay.Aik mard kisi khatoon say aisi batain kar sakta hay jin ka nateeja kisi akhlaqi fasaad ki soorat main na nikal raha ho jab kay koi aisi baat bhi na ki jarahi ho jis ka kisi ajnabi khatoon kay saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota.isi tarah baghair lazzat kay iraday kay is ki batain bhi suni jasakti hain jab kay haram main na parnay ka itmeenan ho albatta is soorat main aurat ki zimmedari bhi hay kay wo apni awaz ko itna khoobsoorat aur baqreek na banaey jo insaan kay jazbaat ko ubharnay wali ho.Ref:Istiftaat A.Sistani Book-4 Q.No.124,125.

Id:
1244
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Can we see any Na Mehram by our eyes.?Answer me in detail

Answer: 1:Mard kay liye na-mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi tarah is kay baloon ko dekhna khwah lazzat kay iraday say ho ya is kay baghair,Haram main mubtala honay ka khouf ho ya na ho Haram hay..Is kay chehray par nigah dalna aur haathoo ko kalaiyoon tak dekhna agar lazzat kay iraday say ho ya Haram main mubtala honay ka khouf ho to Haram hay.balkay Aihtiyat-e-Mustahab ye hay kay agar lazzat kay iraday kay baghair ya haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho tab bhi chehray aur haathoo ko kalaiyoon tak na dekhay...2:Wo be-parda aurtain jinhain agar koi parda karnay kay liye kahay to wo isko aihmiyat na deti ho,un kay badan ko dekhnay main agar lazzat ka qasd ya haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho to koi ishkaal nahi,is hukum main kafir aur ghair-kafir aurtoo main koi farq nahi.isi tarah un kay haath,chehray aur jism kay deegar hissay jihain chupanay ki wo aadi nahi,koi farq nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2392,2393.

Id:
944
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalaamualikum my name is huda i m 14 years old mera sawal yeh hai kay kya hum male doctor sey test (blood test, hepatiatis , sugar test etc ) kar wa saktein hain jabkay hamain jan ka khatra bhi nahi hai. Thank you

Answer: Aurat agar na-mehram mard say apni kisi aisi beemari ka ilaj karanay par majboor ho jiska ilaaj wo behtar tor par kar sakta ho to usay ijazat hay kay wo na-mehram mard say apna ilaj karwa sakti hay.Ref: Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2400.

Id:
895
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Apnay mehram (male) k samnay kisi female (us ki na mehram) ki tareef bayan karna jaiz hai?

Answer: Agar Shehwat ubharnay ka baais na ho to koi haraj nahi hay.Ref: Istiftaat A.Sistani I-5.

Id:
838
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: assalamu-e-laikum wahrehmat ullah janab aleem saab ek sawal hai aurat ku ghalat nazar se dekhna gunma hai to kya aurat agar mard admi ko dekhe to gunah hai ya nahi?

Answer: Salam un alaikum Aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat kay qasd sey nigah dalna Haram hai jabke lazzat kay qasd k bagair un hisso par nazar dale jinhe aam tor par chupana zaroori nahi masalan (sar,dono hath etc)to to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso kay ilawa baqi jism par nigah dalna Haram hai. Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani Prob No 2392

Id:
79
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: I AM MUQALIDA OF AAYAT-UL-ALLAH KHUI MY QUESTION IS AURAT MARD KE KONSE AAZA(BODY)DIKH SAKTI HAI BAGEER KISI LAZAT KE TV ME AUR PICTURE {TASVEER} ME.

Answer: w salaam, We are extremely sorry for the very late reply. This was because of some site functional probelems. We will try our best for the quick responce later, Insha allah. Aurat ka na-mehram key chehray (face), hathoon (hands), sar aur gurden (neck), legs ka lazzat key bagair daikhna jayez hay, agar-che behtar hay keh aisa na kiya jaye. Lazzat key saath in aaza ko daikhna ehtiyaat kee bina par haram hay. Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail, Masla No. 2442

Id:
129
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salamulikum I just wana ask. The order of Islam in friendship with Na-Mehram (Girls).

Answer: W salam Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hia kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia.Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. Ref . Isteftat Agha Sistani

Id:
130
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salamulikum I just wana ask. The order of Islam in friendship with Na-Mehram (Girls).

Answer: W salam Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hia kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia.Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. Ref . Isteftat Agha Sistani

Id:
174
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Salaam Alaykum, Kya koi aurat lazat ke qasad ke bagair tv ke drame ya koi aur program dekh sakti hai jab ke aksar aukaat koi aisa scene aa jata hai jis me na-mehram ka shoulder ya girebaan wagaira khula ho ?

Answer: Salam-un-alaikum, Ahtiat-e-Wajib ki bina par aurat ka Na-Mehram key chehrey hathon ,sar aur gardan aur pairon key ilawa baqi badan par lazzat key qasd key baghair bhi nigah dalna haram hai. Ref: Tauzeeh Aqa-e-Khoi Prob no 2442

Id:
189
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salaam, TV ke programs me na-mehram ka achanak agar aisa scene aajaye jis me shoulder wagaira khulein ho to lazat ke bagair nazar karne ke bare me kya hukam hai ?

Answer: Salam un alaikum, Agar lazzat ka qasd na ho aur haraam mein mubtala honay ka khauf na ho to koi ishkaal (haraj) nahi hay. Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail Aqai Sistani Probe No. 2443

Id:
206
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: internet per nangi larkyon ko luzzut ki nazar se dekhna kaisa hai?(i m girl)

Answer: Salam un alaikum, Aisa karna haraam hay. Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail Aqai Sistani Probe No. 2447

Id:
209
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: Kia internet per barehna larkiyon ki tasaveer ko lazzat ki nazar se dekhna haraam hai?

Answer: Salam-un-Alaikum, Mazkoora soorat mai nazar karna "Haram" hia. Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail Aqai Sistani Prob no 2442

Id:
210
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: salam;internet per nangi larkiyon ko lazzat ki nigah se dekhna kaisa hai??(i m girl).....thanx

Answer: Salam un alaikum, Aisa karna haraam hay. Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail Aqai Sistani Probe No. 2442