QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: me ek ese shakhs ko mohabat karti hu jo shadi shuda hai aur umer k lihaz se 40 sal bada hai. kia me gunah kar rahi hu.

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: plz tell me mai apnay mangetar say bat krti thi r abi bhi krti ho ziada txting par bht kam call par r kisi ghlt qisam ki bat ni krty hum to mjhy btain mai kia kro meri agar us say bat na ho to mjhy kch ajeb honay lgta hai meray haq mai kia bahtar hai ???

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya Mutah/nikah ki niyyat se kisi ladki ko lustfully dekhna jaiz hai?

Answer: Mard shadi(nikah / mutaa) se pehlay is aurat k maqamaat e husn ko dekh sakhta he ya is se hum kalam ho sakhta he jis ka rishta lena chahta he. Is bina per aisi khatoon ka chehra, is k baal, gardan, haatheliyaan, pindliyaan, kalaiyaan aur is qism k maqamaat e husn ko dekhna jaiz he magar shart ye he k is nazar ka maqsad jinsi lazzat hasil karna na ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 390 pg # 233). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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Question: Kya esi jaga jana jaiz hai jahan male and female ko sath lectures and combine activities di jati ho?

Answer: 1)Agar is tarh jama hoon k jis may hijab ka khayl nah rakha jay aur isi terh in ka aisa mail milap jis ka natija akhlaqi fasad ki surat may zahir ho to wo jaiz nahi hay. (Ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 2, ques # 152, pg # 67)
2)Agar gunnah aaloud nigahoo ka tabadla nah ho aur haram may mubtila honay ka khoof nah ho to koe haraj nahi laikin is k bawajood ye masla is laiq hay k islami mumalik k zimaydar afraad larkoo aur larkioon k liye alag alag taleemi idaray bananay k liye mansooba bandi karain. (Ref : nigah aur libaas ques # 92 pg # 63). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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Question: agr ek larka or larki ki baat tey ho gai ho or nikah 2 months k baad ho to kia wh dono msgs pr baat kr saktay hain,agr nahi kr sktay or kr li ho to ab kia krna chaiay

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mujy 1 larkey ne apney jal mn phansa k mujy 1 din date pe bulaya, Mn College se us k sath gari mn beth gai us ne mery hath pe kiss kiya, pir mn gari se utar kar chali gai, Ahlana k mn kisi or se piyar karti the boat or us se meri mangani b ho gai ab mn kia karon?

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
2)Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair.aur chahae baad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera question ye hai ki agar koi ladka kisi ladki s bat krte waqt kuch jyda excited ho jate hai to uske peshab k raste s kuch chipchipa pani type ka drop nikalta hai wo mony se pehle nikalta hai to kya wo paak hai ya naapaak agr wo paak hai to kya uske lge hue kapdo me hum namaz padh sakte hai ya use dhona jaruri hai plz rply fast its very urgently. . . .

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
2)jo ratubat shewat anghese tasaworat k waqt insan apni sharamgha me mahsoos karta hai wo pak hai is se ghusal bhi wajib nahe hota hai aur na wazu batil hota hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Meri mangani 2010 mn jis se mn love karti the us se ho gai hai, 2009 mn mn kisi or larkey k sath milney us ki gari mn bethi us ne mery hath pe kiss kia or mn gari se utar kar chali gai, mn ne 2 month tak us larkey se phone pe gap shap ki, Please batain islam k lehaz se mujy kia karna chaiye or ye baat jab mn ne apney mangetar ko bataee us k baad wo mujy tanz or shak ki nigah se dekhta hai is ka kia hal hai PLease must Replyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Answer: 1)jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
2)Aur Mangiter bhi na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kiya islam me pear mohobbat jaiz hai ya nahe

Answer: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya islam me ladka ek koi ladki ko pyar kar sakta hai

Answer: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mera sawal ye hy k aj sy 2 saal pehlay jb meri age 16 sal ti . Us waqt may ny aik raat apni bari behan k jisam ko sotay may daika ta, wo sorahi ti aur us k boobs ubhray huay ty tau mujay bohot shoq hua , may ny usay touch kia aur wo jaag gai. Pir may har waqt kisi tarah us k jisam ko touch krta ta wo hr wqt ghusa hoti ti . May ny usay bohot tang kia ta. Ab uski shadi ho chukee hy. Ab may apny kiay par pashemaan hu . Plz mujay bta.aiy mujay kya krna chahiay?

Answer: 1)Mehram aurat ko agar lazzat ki niyat sai dekha jae to haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401)
2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalamualaikum,Hazrat mein ek larki se bahut muhabbat karta hoon pichle saat salon se lekin woh mujhe nahein chahti.kya mein use taweez ke asar se apni taraf maa-il karke shadi kar loon yeh jaaiz hai ya nahein..aur mujhe use pane ka sahi tareeqa batayen jo jaiz ho.

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
2)Hazrat Imam jaffar e sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k jo surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi kapray mai lepait kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pas jae to osi nakaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rehay gi. (Ref : Dunya aur aakhirat ki 100 perashanion ka hal pg # 18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Ma aik larki ko pyar krta ho us se dosti ka kaha tha magar us ne inkar kar diya .bate kia amal kro wo b mj se mohabat kre aur mery pass aye

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agar kise ko elam na ho or ramzan me intercource karay . Us pe be gunah hai . Agar baad me pata chal jaye ke is me bohot guna hai . Mere liye ab kya hukam hai me ne ramzan me intercourse kiya hai.

Answer: 1)Jawan mard k lie jaiz hai k wo mohabbat aur piar k tour par apni jawan behan ko bosa dai aur agar yehi bosa shewat ka bais banay to jaiz nhi ho ga. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 468, pg # 254)
2)Jo mard aur aura tapas mai mehram hon agar wo lazat ki niyat na rakhtay hon aur haram mai mubtila honay ka khof na ho to sharamgah k alawa pura badan dekh saktay hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kya kisi marham mard ya aurat ko kiss kar saktey he jo humarey karibi ho? Jese ma,behen vageyrah... Aur kisi na-marham aurat ka hath ya jism chuu saktey he?

Answer: 1) Jawaan merd k liay jaiz hay k wo muhabbat or piyaar k taur per apni jawaan behen, khala, phophi ya onki choti baitiyoo ko bosa day or agar yehi bosa shehwat ka ba,is bany to jahiz nahi hoga . (Ref : Jadeed fiqhi Masail Ayatullah Sistani d.b. masla #468 , pg #254 ) .
2) Merd ka kisi Na-Mehram aurat k jism ko chona jaiz nahi hai chahay lazzat k iraday se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla #16 )

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Question: Kya koi ladka kisi ladki ko dil se sacha pyar karna zaeez hai

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. Ghair ikhtari kaam par koi hokum nahi lagaya ja sakhta. Agarchah is ka muqaddima ikhtiari hay.agar haram ho to is ka murtakib na hoon. Lakin har surat may shawat aur lazzat wala kaam nikah say pehlay haram hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani d.b. official website http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=972 Q#1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya shadi se pehle apni mangetar ko kiss krna or uske jism ko dekhna pakrna zana ha or isi tarah larki ka jism ko pakrna .. lakin intercourse nai kia tu kya ye zana ha or agar zana ha tu us larki sy Nikah k lye pehle touba kese ki jaye??

Answer: Mangiter na mehram hai aur Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalamalaykum mera sawal ye hai k shadi se phele mangetar ki sharamgha dkh skte hain or agar galti se bheak k dkh li jae or boobs suck hojae to kya krna chahiye?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram hai aur kisi balig muslman ki shrmgah dekhna haram hai albetta shadi honay k baad mian biwi aik doosray ka pura badn dekh saktay hain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2400) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya apni mangetar jisse shadi hone wali hai, usse shadi se pehle phone par bat karsakte hai kya? quran aur hadis ki roshni me jawab bataiye? daleel ke sath?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shrt hai k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Ladies k drmian behtreen majlis perhnay wali aur manqabat perhnay wali maujood hotay huay mardoo ka ladies ki mehfil mai manqabat ya majlis perhna kaisa hai?

Answer: Be-zat e khud koi haraj nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Masail Part # 4, Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. pg # 71)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalamualaikum sir mera sawal ye hai k mera aik dost hai wo bht acha hai us se ksi qism ki ghlt bt ni hty meri mre parents ko uska pta chala tu unhun ne usko ghlt smjha aur mjy bt krne se mana kr dya jbke wo srf mra dst he logon ne ghlt ghlt urai ab mne prnts ko smjhya lkin wo ni maney ab ap btaye k kia me us se bt kr skti hun koi ghlt bt ni normally bt?

Answer: 1)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay.
2)Na-mehram sai baat krna agar lazzat aur haram mai mubtila honay k khof k bagair ho to koi haraj nahi. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106,84 pg # 69,59)
3)Jab bhi waldain ki taraf sai koi hokum ya roktok mohabbat ki wajah sai hop aur is ki mukhalifat sai unhain takleef hoti ho to aulad ko in k hokum ki mukhalifat krna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 1387)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kis na mahram na ap ko tounch be kia ho aur ap ko without dress be dekha ha is ke maafi quran ke roo is kia ha

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain.
1)Mard k lie na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai. aur aurat ko chahaea k wo sar k baal aur aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chupae. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397-99)
2)Sachchay dil se toba karain prwardigar nai quran majeed me wadah kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kia baap ki zouja(soteli maa), larkay k lie mehram hai?

Answer: Jee han, mehram hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 129, pg # 63)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: bhabi si milan guna hey kya

Answer: Bhabi na-Mehram hai aur mard k lie na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai. aur aurat ko chahaea k wo sar k baal aur aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chopae. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Agar mai kisi ladki ko sirf pasand karta hun aur shadi ka irada rakhta hun toh ye jaiz hai ki nahi answer kisi rivayat se bataiye mujhe.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera question yeh hai k islam mein ghai mahram mard aur aurat ka baat krna jaiz hai ya najaiz.plz detail se bataie ga

Answer: Agar baat cheet lazzat aur haram mai mubtila honay k khof k bagair ho to koi haraj nahi. (Ref : Nigah aur libas pg # 59-60, ques # 84)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera sawal h k shadi se pahele apni girl friend k kiss ya touch kar skte hain ( Maine allah se kasam khayi h k jab meri bivi hogi yahi hogi mera irada sirf osiko apni sharik e hayat banana h) sawal thik se samjhe

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)Shadi se phelay girl friend ko kiss ya touch karna haraam hai.(Ref: nigah o libaas, pg # 70, masala # 109) (Khuda tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: na mehram say pyar ho jana(krna nhi ho jana)i think jaiz to nhi pr kya us ko tableg krna jaiz ha?agr tableg krnay k baad wo aisi ho jaye k jaisi biwi kay intakhab ka islam nay kaha hai to us say shadi kr leni chahiye?past daikhana chahiye yan phr ye k ab kaisi ha?

Answer: 1) Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
2) Mard ko chahae k jis aurat se shadi karna chahta he os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me sohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 pg # 232). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kya kisi gair mahrem se baat karna gunaah hai..

Answer: Jins e mukhalif (na-mehram) sai batain krna jab fasad, burai aur gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khof ho to jaiz nhi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 58)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya bade behun apne 35 saal k bhai ko nala sakti hai?

Answer: Behan apnay bhi ko os waqt nehla sakti hai jab lazzat ki niyat na ho aur haram mai mubtilla honay ka khof na ho aur is surat mai bhi sharamgah ko chupana wajib hai chahae lazzat ki niyat na ho aur haram mai mubtilla honay ka khof na ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2401) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: I have got engaged and now we are going to get married after 8-9 months, but now we are got so close to each other that we cannot live apart, and now I am feeling more intimate towards her, i dont want to do sexaul intercourse with her but i want to feel and touch her, because we love each other and we know having intercourse will be a big sin, so please let me know that doing or touching her private parts will be a sin?

Answer: It is haram for man to look or touch the body of the Non-Mahram women, but it is not Zina. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 70, masla # 109)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: main kisi na mahrom aurat ki hips pe hath phair sakta hon koi gunah tu ni

Answer: Na mehram aurat ko hath lagana haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397-2406)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mai apne cousin se mobile p sex krti hun aur hum shadi b krna chahty hain to kia phr b gunah hai

Answer: Jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: jaisa k mixed gatherings jaiz nai hain, tou apni family ya husband k sath kisi restaurant ya food place (pizza hut,lal qila etc) pa khana khanay ka kia hukum hai? kia yea b mixed gatheringk hukum main ata hai? jab k ham wahan kisi sey interaction nai kartay sirf khana kha k ajatay hain .. jazakAllah!!

Answer: There is no problem in that as long as that does not involve haram act.( Ref:Email Rcvd, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),dated: 24-12-12 ).
Translation: is main koe haraj nahi, jab tak k kisi haram kaam main mubtila nah ho jain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: A.a main ik larki say pyar karna chahta hon .kaya main us say friend ship kar sakta hon?

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nai q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: A.a kaya larka larki ka pura jism naga dakh sakta hai ?aur larki bi larkay ka pura jism naga dakh sakti hai ?

Answer: Mard k lie na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna haram hai. isi terah aurat k lie bhi na mehram mard ka jism dekhna haram hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: helo sir mera name ali raza ha ma aik larki sa piyar karta hon thek wo larki arrai famliy sa taulq rakhti ha thek us ka maa baap nhi manta mery rishty k liy to ham na program banaya ha nikah karny ka adalat ki taraf sa wo larki pehly maan gai ha ab nhi manti nikah k liy plz aap khuch aisa batay k jo bhi bat ma usy kho wo meri bat many or wo nikah k liy tiyar ho jay plz khuch btao aap plz

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. ( Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342)
Fiqhi maslay bayan karnay k sath aap ko wazifa bhi btaya jata hay k : Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: HUM 1LADKI KO BAHUT KARTA HU R WO B BAHUT. KYA HUMARA SHADI US LADKI K SATH HOGA MERA NAME MD.NAIMUDDIN MOLLA. LADKI K NAME ZAINAB FATEMA. PLS REPLY ME PLS

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: aik larki jis se main takreeban 12 saal se mohabbat kr raha houn use koe marz hai jiski waja se usay sar main dard hota hai.us k ghar walon ne uski shadi relatives main krna chahi lekin us ne nahi ki or main b us k intezaar main shadi nai ki wo bolti hai meri waja se tum b mushkil main a jao gy.hala k aisa nahi hai main uski ziyada achay tareekay se hawazat kr sakta houn.plz solution btain kya krna chaheay

Answer: 1)Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
2)Sardard ka wazifa: Sar dard k dor honay k lie surah e taha surah # 20 ki ayat # 25 ta 28 ko 3 dafa parhnay sai sar dard mai bohat ifaqa hota hai. .(Ref : 2000 Dastoorul Amal pg # 404)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aoa Mera question hai k mene na mehrram se intercouse nae kya I mean k mera organ uske organ me nhi gya lekn iske ilwa mene uski fingering ki ha r usne mere sucking ki ha kya ye zina ha ya harram

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum muje 1 hadees chahye k shadi se pahle piyar karna haram hai ya halal hai es k mutalik koi hadees or biyan hai to plz muje un k link send karian

Answer: Kisi bhi gair ekhtiri amal par shriat koi hokum nhi lagati hai laikin yad rahay, shriat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ki khabi ijazat nhi deti jo inhay haram ki taraf lai janay wala ho. Is k alawa shadi sai pehlay mangetar sai aam mamool ki baat cheet krna jis k andar koi shawat angaiz baat na ho, koi haraj nahi hai laikin is mai bhi shrt hai k is sai koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram mai parnay ka dar ho . (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3, sawaal # 137,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: a0a.. Sir meri umar 18 saal hai..me aik co educati0nal insitute me parhta hn.mje aik ladki apni taraf attract krti hai.uska khayal mery zehan me rehta hai.me jab uski ankhon me daikhta hn to kho jata hn..mje us se koi physical garz nhi hai.kia me gunah ka murkatib hn?

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain.
1)University me co education: Agar gunnah aaloud nigahoo ka tabadla nah ho aur haram may mubtila honay ka khoof nah ho to koe haraj nahi. (Ref : nigah aur libas ques # 92 pg # 63).
2)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
3)Na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam-o-Alaikum sir mera aap se sawal ye hai ke ek larki hai wo mujh se behad mohabbat karti hai phir jab usne mujh se izhar kiya to mujhe bhi us se mohabbat hone lagi phir hamari dosti ke sath sath pyar bhi barhne laga phir achanak us ke nikah kahin aur karadiya gaya zabardasti abhi main ye baat jab bhi sochta hon to bahut bahut hi takleef hoti hai sir ab aap hi mujhe bataen ke main kiya karon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalamualikum. Mai apni cousin se bepanah muhabbat karta hu aur aaj tak maine usse izhar bhi nahi kiya hai, aur ALLAH ka shukjr hai ke maine use aaj tak jee bhar kar dekha bhi nahi, kya mari shadi usse jayaz hai? aur mujhe kaise pata chale ke wo mujh se muhabbat bhi karti hai nahi . koi dua ho to aap hazraat mujhe bata de, Ain Nawazish hogi.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain.
Surah e taha surah # 20 ko likh kar sabz rashmi kapray mai lepait kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pas jae to osi nakaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rehay gi. (Ref : Dunya aur aakhirat ki 100 perashanion ka hal pg # 18) Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: MY name is farzana. before i love one guy and i kiss him and i touch him and i hug him also. but now he dont want to marry with me. maina gunaha kiya hai he is naharam for me. plz give me advise mai kaise tuba kro. konsi dua paro. plz reply urgently

Answer: 1)Na mehram aurat ka na mehram mard ko jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai. aur aurat ko chahaea k wo sar k baal aur aur apna badan na-mehram mard sai chopae. Note : jab jism dekhana haram hai to kiss karna to aur ziada haram ho ga. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397)
2) Sachay dil sai toba karni chahea. Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mera question hai mey ek ladki se pyar karta hu .woh bi mushe bahut pyar karti hai. par uski ghar wale nahi mante hameri is pyar ko to ap hi bataye kya kare ab hum?

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. ( Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) Fiqhi maslay bayan karnay k sath aap ko wazifa bhi btaya jata hay k : Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kiya 15 ka larka 13 ki larki se pyaar kar na jaiz hain?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti karna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof maujood hai. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mein aik larki se pyar krta hun aur hum aik dosrey se shadi krna chahtey they aur kissing aur baqi b bohat kuch krtey rahey lakin zina nai kia. Kya mohabat me aisa krna jaiz hai?

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya 10 saal ka larka ki 13-14 saal ki larki ke sath kuch nange khel khelta hai magar fuck nai karta to ye zina hai.

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kiya urat hud ko kisi larke k sth tasavr kare tu yeh gunha hai???

Answer: Haram cheeze k bare me sochna jab k wo shewat ka sabab bane agar mani nikalne ka sabab na bane to ehtiyat e mustahab ya hai k ise tarak kar deya jae.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #2, sawaal # ,199 pg # 83) ( Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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