QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Asslam-o-Alikum! kia khawateen ka beautician ka cource ya kaam jaez hai?

Answer: Beautician ka cource kernay main ba-zaat e khud koe haraj nahi rakhta he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 161-2 Pg # 96) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum jesa k aap ka fatwa hai k koi na mehram larhka or larhki apas men bat nai kr sakte.meri fiancee ne jb se aap ka ye fatwa suna hai us ne muj se bt karna chorh di hai or wo muj se bt kiay bina na kuch khati hai or na piti ha kunke wo muj se boht pyar karti hai or bemar b ho jati hai to kea ham dono apas men aik dusre se baat kar sakte hain? ham log sirf mobile per chat kar sakte hain?

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat angaiz baat na ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kia nikah se pehlay apni mengetar se phone pe baat ker sakta hon sirf is liay k mera khayal kisi or ghalat cheez pe na jay balke usi se batain ker k dil laga rahay.

Answer: Note : Is website me fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.
Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

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Question: is love is rong in islam and also love marrieg

Answer: Kisi bhi ghair ikhtari amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati he lakin yad rahey , shariat kisi bhi aise artibat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhein haram ki taraf le janay wala ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65)
jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

Pasand ki shadi ko islam na-pasnd nahi samajhta.balkeh munasib hay k merd jis khatoon se shadi kerna chata hay os main in sifaat ko paish e nazar rakahy jo aik misaali khatoon main honi chahiay jo paak daaman, shareeful asl or naik ho or dunyavi or ukhravi mamilaat main shohor ki madad gaar sabit ho.merd k liay munsib nahi hay k bivi k intekhaab main iski nazar sirif oska zahiri husun wa Jamaal or maal o daulat ho.
Isi terah aurat or os k wali(baap/dada) ko chahiay keh on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka shohor main hona zarori hay.aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo deendaar,paak daman,or baa akhlaaq ho.sharabi nah ho or buraeyoo or muhliq gunaho ka irtekaab nah kerta ho.( Ref:A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masa’il, masalah # 386,387) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agr kisi grl ko hum touch bi kr lain to kiya zina ha ya us ki sahram gaha ko bi just touch kr lain to kiya zina ha aur is ka kufara kaisy ada hogga umed ha ap mery 2 sawal han us ka ans jadl daingy

Answer: 1)aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat k qasd sey nigah daalna Haram hay jab k lazzat k qasd k baghair on hisso par nazar dalain jinhain aam taur per chupana zarori nahi maslan (sar,dono haath etc)to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso k ilawa baqi jism par nigah daalna Haram hay.Isi terah merd k liay sirif aurat k chehray or hathaylioon(palms) per lazzat k baghair nazar daalna jaiz hay is k ilawa baqi jism or baal per nigaah kerna haram hay.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)Prob No 2397).
2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: hmari baat teh ho gai hai k hm2 ki shadi hog,,kea hm msg k zrihe baat kr skte?or koi treka jis se gunha na ho?its so important,,plzz rixp

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: allama sahib ,kia 25 saala lrki mehram k bgher trip k sath ja skti he jis mei 40 saal ki aurten bhi mojod hun?, plz jldi jwab bhejiey ga, shukria.

Answer: Wajibaat e sharie ka khayl rakhtay huay jaiz trip per jana jaiz he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 119, pg # 63) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Agr hum ampni mangaitr say baat cheat shuru ker lain.aur baat jinsi lazat tak aa Pohnchy. Asy mn hum harig bi Bo Jain. Is ka kya guano hy. Aur tauba kasy ki jay?

Answer: 1)Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shewat angaiz baat na ho , koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koe jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)
2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kia islam me lrky aur lrki ka piyar krna jaiz he?aur kia islam me iski koi misal milti he?

Answer: kisi bhi ghair akhteri amal per shariyat koe hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariyat kisi bhi aisay raabtay ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kia larka or larki aik dosary se mail saktay hain.ta k un ko pata chal sakay k dono kasy hain.tell me about islami law.and hawala jat2

Answer: Agar gunah or buraae main mubtila honay ka khoof maujood ho tu oskay saath mail joul or rabitahj jaiz nahi hay. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 102). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam, Ma ik larki sa bohat pyar kerta hon, but wo mje pyar nahi kerti kisi aur sa pyar kerti ha, mery sath pehlay pyar kerti thi lakin 3 sal howe wo mje chor chuki ha. Ma kia karon k wo mujhy dobara mil jaye ma usko hamesha k liya pana chahta hon. Please mujhay koi rasta batain. Mera name Saeed Ansari Ha and Uska Sameen Yameen ha

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ek larke ne mujhe purpose kia or dunu k parents k darmian shadi ki bat shit chalne lagi os larke se kissing wagera ho gai or dono ne ek dosre ko bina cloth k dekh lia or cho lia but sex nai kia islam mai is ki kia saza hai...? os waqt ye socha k shadi hone wali hai is liye ye sub hua but shadi nai ho saki parents k dermian ikhtalaf ho gaya.... kia saza hai islam mai is ki,,,,? plz tell me

Answer: Aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat kay qasd sey nigah dalna Haram hai jabke lazzat kay qasd k bagair un hisso par nazar dale jinhe aam tor par chupana zaroori nahi masalan (sar,dono hath etc)to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso kay ilawa baqi jism par nigah dalna Haram hai.Isi terah merd k liay sirif aurat k chehray or hathaylioon(palms) per lazzat k baghair nazar daalna jaiz hay is k ilawa baqi jis or baal per nigaah kerna haraam hay.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)Prob No 2397).
Toba karain. 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
3)Ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe).

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Question: Meri sali mujhe pasand nahi karti hai mai kiya karu

Answer: 1) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
2) Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat se shadi karay to chahae wo daimi nikah karay ya mutaa karay jab tak wo aurat is k nikah me he wo shakhs is ki behan se shadi nahi kar sakhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355)

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Question: Main ek ladke se char saal se pasand karti hun,bohat pyaar karti hun usko. Lakin 3 saal ke baad main ne usko kahan ke main usey pasand karti hun.wo bi muje like karta tha aur baat karne laga aur mujse shaadi karna chahata tha .wo bohat gusey wala hai,choti se baat ko leke 2 months hogaye wo mujse baat nai karta aur wo kehta hai ki ab muje kabi baat nai karne hai,kuch bi nai manta wo.plz muje bolia main kya karun jis se wo wapas plz,aur jaldi rply kariye ga plz

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam alaikum meri shadi hone wali hai aur mai usse bahut zyada baate karta hu, aur hum log sex k v bate karte hai kya hone wali bivi se sex ki bate kar sakte hai plz. Bataye

Answer: Jab tak apka nikah nahi hojata tab tak wo apk liye na-mehram hai or shohar or biwi k ilawa kise or se Fahash baten krna haram hai.
(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat-ullah sistani (d.b). part # 2, masla # 34)

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Question: Larka shadi sy phly larki sy baat kr skta ha.y nahi

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: apni mangatar say bat kar sakta hu

Answer: Mangayter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shrt he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Me 1 ladki ko bhot pasand karta hun,, par woh kisi wajah se ab mujse baat nai karti... Plz koi aisa asan wazifa den.. Jisse hum 2no k beech sab theek ho jaye.. Or ek baat woh ladki Gair mazhabi h.. Par me chahta hun woh Islam Qubool kar le.. Kya Islam me ye jaiz h..??

Answer: 1) Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha(Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho(Ref:Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)

2)Dua-e-tawassul ko har waqt perh saktay hain, laikin kisi khaas maqsad k lie is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz-e-fajar kay baad 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay kay baad parh kar dua mangain. Insha allah parvadigar aap kay haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye

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Question: Asslam o alaikum. Main kisi ladki se bahoot bahoot bahoot jaida peyaar karta hoon aur ham dono ki rista 5 se 6 sal se hai.... aur hamare ghar waLe aur us ladki ke ghar wale sab kuch jante hai ham dono ke bare main..... Yaha tak ke main unke pure family se bhi baat kar chuka hoon.... aur wo bhi mere family se bhi baat kar chuki hai... Achanak main use mobile pe gussha se bahoot bahoot jor se dat diya tha aur gussha main us ke school main bhi call kar diya tha aur usi ke wajah se wo mujhse baat tak nahi kar rahi hai........ Main chata hoon wo maan jaye aur wo hamse baat kar le is ke liye main kon si duwa phadu jo phele se bhi bahoot bahoot accha ho jaye ham dono ke bicch main....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Agar koi ohde se maulana hai aur mard zaat hai....koi sawalat k alawa hmara unse bat karna .....jayaz hai ya nhi......???? Jaise namarham se bat karna jayaz nhi toh apne mazhab ke insan se bhi jayaz nhi ho.... Mujhe iss kashmksh se nijaat dilae...

Answer: Na_mehram se guftgu aam tor per dosti or mohabbat ka sabab banti hai is liye is ko sharai sawalat tak mehdud rakhna lazmi hai,
Na_mehram(chahe wo apke mazhab ka ho ya nahi)se baat karne se burai or guna men mubtala hone ka khof ho to jaiz nahi
(Ref : Sawalat or jawabat, 1st ,masala # 76,79,pg # 57,58)
(ALLAH ap ki tofeeqat men izafa farmaye).

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Question: kia larka larky engage kay bad phone pay bat kar sakty han.

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: main aik larke se piyar karti hon or wo mujh se or ham ne piyar mai har tarah ki limits cross ki or ham se zina hogya.....ab ham dono toba karna chahte hain....Allah kia hamain maaf kar day ga ? or kiaa ham ab shadi kar sakte hain tooba k baad ? hamain apas mai hi shadi karni chahye ya apne raste alag kar lene chahye ?

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wade per amal na kare, Or ghuna se bachne k liye mazboot irada chahiye.(Ref : Email sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
Jis shakhs ne kisi orat se zina kiya ho or us se shadi karna chahae to is k lie Ehtiyat_e_wajib ye hai k wo donon toba karne se pehle nikah na karen.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: asalam o alikum mai ek larki ko bht pasand krta hu wo meri bachpan ki class fellow hai.. mai ne usy bht dair k bd kuch din phly dekhha mai us se shadi krna chahta hu per us se pehly us se bt krna chahta hu plzzzzz koi wazifa bta den k meri us se bt b ho jaye or meri shadi b us se ho jaye...shukria

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti(jis bger kisi ayse khayal k bat chit bhi hoti rehti hai) ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete hen. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga.
(Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam Alaikum. Main Ek other religion ki ladki se mohabbat karta tha aur woh bi mere se karti thi. woh islam kabool karne se lekar name change karne aur namaz ke liye bi taiyar thi. lekin woh chahti thi ki gharwalon ki marji se sadi ho. usne apne maa ko bataya to ma ne mana kar diya lekin unhone hame milne se mana nai kiya. 15-20 din bad woh ladki boli main apse sadi nai kar sakti apke liye mere dil me kuch nai hai. maine kuch logon ko bataya to unhone kahan ki uski ma kuch khila di hai jiske karan tu us ladki ke dil se nikal gaya hai. kuch aisa amal bataye ki uski ma jo kari hai woh kat jaye aur us ladki ke dil me mere liye pyar phir se paida ho jaye. mera name Mohammmed Kalam Baksh Hain aur Us ladki ka Name Neha Sao hai. ap bi jara fal kholke bataye. Please help me.

Answer: Jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) apko us se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai,
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
jis orat se musalman mard shadi kre us ka orat k musalman hona zaruri hai lehaza se nikha nahi hoskta,
(Ref : Ayat_ullah Sistani(d.b), Tozeeh-ul-masail. 33th Edition, Maslaa#2362)
Ek baligh or kunwari larki jab shadi krna chahe tous k liye zaruri hai k wo apne wali(bap or dada) ki ijazat k bger nikah na kre.(Ref : Ayat_ullah Sistani(d.b), Tozeeh-ul-masail. 33th Edition, Maslaa#2341).(Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe)
S/no:6353

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Question: Asalam- ul-alakuim mei ek larkay ko pasand karti hu hum teen saal se saat thay lakin mainay usko seriously nahi liya menay dosray larko se batain ki usay kitnay jhoot bholay aur ab teen saal baad jub usko sub pata chala tu usnay mujhe chor diya aur mujhe bohat dhook hai ki mainay yeh sub kiya main na samaj thi ab din raat bus yehi dua karti hu ki khuda mujhe maaf kar day aur mujhe ak moka de day aur woh meri zindagi mei wapis ajaye ek dafa mujhe apni galti ka bohat ehsaas hai aur woh tu mujhse baat tak nahi karta ap lease koi wazifa bataye jis ki parnay se uskay dil mei meray liye ek dafa phir se pyar bhet jaye aur woh meri zindagi mei wapis ajaye mei bohat pareshan hu mei ek dafa apni galti sudarna chahti hu please koi wazifa batey shukriya!

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) apko us se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, (mgr ye hai k apki us larke se shadi hojaye q k shadi se pehle wo apk liye na_mehram hai or na_mehram se is qism k ta`luqat rakhna jaiz nahi hen) mgr islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga.(Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salamun alaikum.....mera salwal ye hai k main 1 apni cousin se bht bht mohabbat karta hu aur usse shadi karna chahta hu...wo pehle mujhse baat karti thi per ab wo mujhse nahi bolti....plz kuch aisi dua btae k wo mujhse bht bht bht mohabbat kkarne lage....plz help me....reply me soon....

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AOA mera masla yeh hay ke main kissi ko pasand karti hon lekin kissi ne hamary beach main misunderstanding create ker di hay ab wo baat bhi nahi ker raha hay plz ap kuch ess bata dain pardhny ke liye jo wo meri taraf mail ho jay shukriya

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam maulana mera masla ye hai k me ek ladke se bahut pyar karti ho aur usse shadi karna chahti ho plz mujhe koi wazifa batayien k meri shadi usi se ho

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AOA...........aaj kal net pa log jo sexy chat or like that baty krty hy kia ye haram hy ............haram to hy he ma aap sa puchna chahu gi ....

Answer: Fahash batain krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ager beevi mer jai to shoher is ka chera dekh sakta hai ya nahi

Answer: Bivi mernay k baad shohar k liay na-mehram nahi ho jati or shohor oska chehra daikh sakta hay.balkeh mernay k baad bhi bivi shohar ko or shohar bivi ko baghair kis perday k ghusl bhi da saktay hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#548) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: me aik larke se buht pyar karti hon par vo mje ignor karta ha me usu bhulana chati hon plz koi wazifa bataen jese me use bhool jaon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya jina penis ko vagina me pura dalne ko kahte hai agar kisi ke saath ham sab kuch karen par penis ander na dalen to kya wo zina hai

Answer: Uzw e tanasul ka sharam-gaah main dakhil hona chahe kam ho ya ziyada zina hai, or ager dakhil na ho to zina nahi hai lekin dukhool ho ya is ke bageer jinsi lazzat hasil ki jaae dono cheezain haraam o guhnaah e kabera hain.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir muja koi aisi dua batayn jis sa kisi larki k dil ma pyar paida kiya ja saka or allah talah k hukam sa usi sa shadi b ho.allah talah ap ko is amal ki jazaa dn gaa

Answer: Allah Taala ki di hoi Shariat e Muqaddasa shadi se pehle is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat mian izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: AGAR LARKI KO SHAADI SE PEHLE MEHAR ADA KAR DIYA JAYE TO KYA US SE SHAADI SE PEHLE HUMBISTARI JAYEZ HAI.

Answer: Jee nahi nikah se pehle jaiz nahi. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: main jis lerke se shadi kerna chahta hon us ke pahle mangne ho gae hai wo bhi mujh se kerna chahti hai per ghar wale nahi mante aisa wazefa bataen us ke mangane wahan se khatam ho ker mujh se ho jae

Answer: Sura e Ahzaab (sura # 33) ko hath say likh kar ik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352).
Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat haram hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Kiya kisi na-mehrum k liye dua maangi jaa sakti hai? Usk liye sadka diya ja sakta hai?

Answer: G han insaniyat k nate jaiz hai, mager ager ye dua o sadqa us se mohabbat o dosti ka sabab bane to jaiz nahi hai is liye k na-mehram se dosti mohabbad jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: mera masla ye hai key mai kisi ko bht pasand krti hu wo b krte hain per hmare ami abu bhtt skht hain to aisa kya prha jay k wo log man jayn aur hm dono unko pasand ajayn ...

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
NOTE : Albatta islam pasand ki shadi se mana nahi krta.
Imam Jafre Sadiq a.s farmaty hain:jo shaks surae Taha(surah#20) likh kr subz(green) reshmi kapray mai lipate kr apnay [as rakhay aur shadi k iraday sy kisi k pas jaey tou usay na kaam nahi lotna parega aur wo shadi ho kr rahegi.(ref:book dunya o akhirat ki 100 pareshanio ka hal)

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Question: AOA ! Mera sawal mulana sahib app saiyea hai kay shadi k baad kisi husband ka apni biwi sai chup ker kisi massage center(mallesh)kerwanay kisi namahram khatoon k pass jana aur us k sath zina (intercourse) ker kia gunah e kabira hai aur islam maiis ki ki sazza aur kia kaffara hai ,plz jawab dain .shumkriya

Answer: Kisi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.(Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239).
Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay or isi terah merd ka apni biwi k siwa kisi or aurat se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna or isiterah kisi aurat ka apnay shohor k siwa kisi or merd se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ).
Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asslam o Alikum Mera ek buht simple sa question hai jisy mai nay soch soch ker buht complicated bna liya hai... Meri ami nay mery liyay meri cuzn ko pasand kiya hai... or mjhy woh pasand bhi hai... jis din say mjhy es baat ka pata chula hai k meri shadi us say ho ge mai nay us din say kafi bury kaam choor diyay hain but ek new problem create ho gai hai mery pass us ki pic the ...pehly mai un ko daikh laita tha mger ub mjhy lugta hai k woh abhi tuk mery liyay gair mehrum he hai...us din say mai nay us ki tasweer bhi nahi daikhi likun kbhi kbhar us k baray mai soch leta hoon...but kbhi koi bura khyal nahi aya.. ub kaya mery sochnay say bhi mjhy gunah ho ga mjhy? kbhi kbhar eid wagera per baat ho jati hai us say...ya kbhi study say related .....es k ilawa kbhi koi baat nahi ki... kaya baat krna munasib hai...kiyon k pehly jub kbhi baat hoti thi tu woh felling nahi hoti thi jo ub hoti hai...

Answer: Na-mehram se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat nah ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil nah ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: iam engaged, kia mein appni mangetar ki body ko touch karsakta hun sexually and i do finger her.. is it ok?

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, )
shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya shaadi se pahlay boy n girl romatic talk kar sakat hain n mein yeh poochna chati hoon ke mera mangater every weekend raat ko phone pe meray sath sex talk karta hai n during talk woh apnay penis ko massag karta hai n mujeh kehta hai ke meray se dirty talk karo mein aur woh dirty talk kartay hain n woh apnay penis ko massage kar ke orgasm get kar leta hai kya aisa karna allowed hai cus woh kehta hai ke pehlay woh akaley mein kar leta tha bt ab woh meray saath during talk kar ke haapy hota hai . i know ke humein shaadi kar laini chaiya bt problem yeh hai ke meray parents abhi meri shaadi nahi karna chatay jab ke mein bhi shaadi karna chati hoon jo ke mein apnay parents se nahi bool sakti. thnx

Answer: Mangeter namehram hai aur nemehram aurat k jism ko dhekna aur use touch karna haram hai.( Laikin us se nikah ho skta hai). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, )

Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Nikah sahi nahi hoga kunke nikah mai shrt ye hai k kawari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) larki ko nikah ki ijazat nahi deden.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bin (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: assalam-o-alaikum mera sawal hai k meri aik lover hai jis se mai bohat pyar karta hoon or wo b karti hai wo khud kehti hai meri kisses karo romance karo kya kar sakte hain ya nahi???or aik sawal k aksar hum sexualy batain kar lete hain phone par ye jaiz hai ya nahi???

Answer: 1) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
2) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
3)Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
4)Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salams.. ap ne mere question ka jawab nahi diya. plz is dafa i need answer. main ek larki se pyar karta hon wo b karti hai. hum dono ne phone p sex kia chat ki. aur sirf ek dafa miley us m kiss hwi ek dafa.. !! bt hamari intention shadi ki hai. tu kya ye gunnah maaf hosakta hai ? aur ab hum Allah se kis tarah madad mangen k hamare rishte m pareshani musibat na aye..? plz rehnmai farmaen

Answer: Kisi na-mehram aurat ka merd k badan ko haath lagana jaiz nahi hay or isi terah kisi merd ka na-mehram aurat ko chomna jaiz nahi hay.(Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay or isi terah merd ka apni biwi k siwa kisi or aurat se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna or isiterah kisi aurat ka apnay shohor k siwa kisi or merd se jinsi lazzat hasil kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ).
Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).
Wazefa: Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76).
Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam sir ma aik lardki s bhot pyar karta hu,par wo mujhw acha nia samjti or wo muj s nafart kati ha.ap mujhe koi esa solution batien k us k dil ma mere lye pyar paida ho jaye.or wo mujhe khud bulye

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera sawal ha k aksar larky aur larkyan phone pe oral sex karty hen. kia ye zina ma shumar hota ha?aur agr hota ha to iska kafara kia ha?

Answer: Na mehram k sath phone par oral sex zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA..mera sawal app se yeh hai k kuch dino phale main apne ghar k baher college se ati hoi kuch larkiya dekhi un main se muge ek larki bohat goor goor se dekha rahi thi lakin wo thi naqab main,es tarah main rozana usi time us ka wait karne laga aur wo rozana muge dekha kar guzar jati thi .maine ose apna number dyna chaha tu us ne lene se inkar kar diya phair ek din mug se face book id pochi wo maine de di aur us par maine apni web site b lekha di lakin us k bad us ne mari gali main se guzarna b chora diya aur muge koi mail b nai ki ...mug se ab raha nai jata bohat rota ho sakoon nahi hai dil ko ..muge kuch asa bataye k us k dil ko b asi lagan lag jaye main us k satha shaadi karna chahata ho ..thank

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) .

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Question: Kon kon se nashe karne haram he aur kya bivi ke alava kise aur se milna cahiye ya nahi

Answer: 1) Sharab(wine), beer, or her wo chez jo mukammal ya juzvi taur per(partial) nasha aawar ho, thos(solid) ho ya maya(liquid) ye sab haram hain.(A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 164).
2) kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ).
Larkay aur larki ka baat karnay me agar lazat aur haram me parhnay ka khof ho to haram he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 84 Pg # 59). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AOA mera sawal yeh hay k aik larka aur larki jin ki mangni ho chuki hay kia wo fone par baat kar sakty aur agar koyi sexy baatain ki jayain tu gunha tu nahi plz plz tell me now

Answer:
Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kia larka or lakrki aik dosray k sath sexy batain mean sexy chat ker sktay hain ya nahin ?

Answer: Biwi k alawa kisi doosray sai fahash batain krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: my question is, is it permissible to kiss, have video sex chat, with your fiance? if not then please explain how i can make things right?

Answer: If there is no such a fear that you might fall into a sin, then there would be no problem to talk you’re your fiancé. But it is not permissible for you to kiss her or have video sex chat with her. You must do marriage with her then these things will be permissible for you. (http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1151 + http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1250&page=2&perpage=10). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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