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Question: Sir i want to know ki jb hm kisi ladki ko kiss krte he to ek ya do drop (clear fluid) pani jesa chipchipa fluid nikalta he kya usse na paki ho jati he ..??

Answer: 1)Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)
2)Jo ratubat shewat anghese tasaworat k waqt insan apni sharamgha me mahsoos karta hai wo pak hai is se ghusal bhi wajib nahe hota hai aur na wazu batil hota hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Asalamoalaikum mra sawal ye ha k mai shadi say pahly aik larki say pyar karta tha wo b karti thi hmain 10 saal hogay han family k jhagro ki waja say hmari shadi nahi ho paye aj wo b shadi shoda ha mai b wo b aik bachy ki maa mai b baap ho aik bachy ka mgr aj b dil mai aik dosray k liy pyar ha samjh nahe arha kia karain kia agr hm sirf nikah karlain or jismani taluq na rakhain to kia nikah kr sakty ha? wo larki nikah mai rahty hoy nikah karsakti ha ?ya osay talaq laini hogi?bht shokria apky wqt k liy rahnumaye farma dain mehrbani hogi

Answer: Aik larki ka aik waqt mai doosra nikah nahi ho sakta hai. Aur jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna karna jaiz nhi q k ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2366) (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir, mai ne ek larki k sath cell phone (call) py romance kia qk hum dono ek dusre se bht mohabat karte thy, ap mje yeh batayn k agr call py romance kara jay or ek dusre ko feel kia jay asay k jese real mai kar rahy hon.. tu yeh gunah hai magar kia yeh zana hai? agr hai tu kia kafara ada kia jaskta hai? or kese kar skte hain? plz mje is bare mai jald az jald batadyn JAZAKALLAH

Answer: Na mehram sai aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)
Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) or eska kaffara nahi hota aap sachey dil se toba kar lijye. (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 16) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salam sir ! Kya apne girl friend ko kis karna jayez hai agr uske k sath be panah muhabbat b karte hu aur us k sath shadi karne ka ba irada hu ?

Answer: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k bagair aur chahae bad mai shadi hi q na karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kiya larka larke se larke se honton se kiss le sakta hai? ya zaban choos sakta hai ? or money b kharij na ho or na he kcuh or plz reply zaror den mene pehle bhi sawal kiya hai ka ee bar.thanks

Answer: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair aur chahay baad mai shadi hi Q nah karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mehram aur gher-mehram kia frq hai ?

Answer: Insaan k liay apne mehram aurato se nikah karna haram hai, aur aurato k liay apne mehram mardo se perda karna wajib nahi hai (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2349 ,2401). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya aurat kisi male doctor se elaj karwae jis me uski sharam gahen nazar askhti hun ye jaiz hai? jaab k female doctor bhi available ho?

Answer: Agae aurat na-mehram mard se apne kisi aisi bemari ka ilaj karane per majboor ho jis ka ilaj wo bheter tour per karsakta ho to wo aurat is na-mehram mard se apna ilaj karasakti hai.chunache wo mard ilaj k silsele me is ko dhekhene ya is k badan ko hath laghane per majboor ho to mard k liay aisa kerna jaiz hai.Laikin agar wo sirif dehke kar ilaj kar sakta ho to zarore hai k is aurat k badan ko hath na laghaay aur agar sirf hath laghane se ilaj kar sakta ho to phir zarori hai k is aurat per nigah nah dale .
Agar insaan kisi shaks ka ilaj karne k silsile me is ki sharamgha per nigah dalne per majboor ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per osay chahiay k aeina saamne rakhay aur is me dhekhay .Laikin agar sharamgha per nigha dalne k ilawa koe chaarah nah ho to phir koe haraj nahi .agar sharamgha per nigah dalne ki muddat aeine me dhekne ki muddat se kam ho nazar karna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2405,2406 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: r0zy mai na mehram se baat kar sakty hain kia..??

Answer: Na mehram sai baat karnay sai roza batil nahi hota hai laikin na-mehram sai aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 1553) & (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: woh kon kon sa log ha jin sa urat ka nikha ho sakta ha. kya khalo our popha mahram hota ha

Answer: Khalu aur phupa na mehram hain aur un sai shadi kar saktay hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2349)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sub sy pehly slam aur ya ali(a.s) madad kehta hon aur Mera sawal yeh k mere mangni ko 1 sal ho chuka hy aur men apni hony wali bivi sy shadi sy pehly sirf aur sirf itna taulq rkhna chahat ho k woh mujh sy batt aur hall ahwal krti rhy aur men shadi sy pehly koi jinsi lazat bhe ni lena chahta kia yeh islam men jaiz hy

Answer: Na-mehram aurat ki awaz sunna jaiz hai ba-shart ye k lazzat aur shehwat ki neyat sy na ho,aur haram mai mubtila honay ka bhi khof na ho.
Aurat k leye ye jaiz hai k wo apni awaz na-mehram mardo ko sunaey mgr ye k haram kaam mai mubtila honay ka khof ho tou is surat mai jaiz nahi hai.
(Ref:A.sistani,jadid fiqhi masail,pg#266,masla#510). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Aoa mera sawal yeh hey k may ak larkey sey boht pyar karti hun wo b karta hey hmain 11 saal ho gaey hain ham shadi nai kar sktey q k mey syed hun or wo raja us ki shadi ho gai hey us k bawjood wo mujh sey baat karta hey kuch arsa qabal merey or us k beech ak larai hui jis k bais main us sey naraz ho gai may ney apni taraf sey taalluq khatam kr diya hey bt wo ab bi cal karta hey or rota hey to kya main us sey razi ho jaoun q k mujhey dar lagta hey k aj wo merey liey ro raha hey or mujhey us ki qadar nahi yeh na ho kal main rooun or usey meri qadar na ho may boht gunahgaar hun may ney bohat gunah kiey hain zindagi main pehli baar main shariyat k mutabiq faisla karna chahti hun esa nahi hey k may us sey baat nai karna chahti lakin sirf apney parents or ana ki khatir khamoush hun agha ji ap plz koi sharai rah nikal k bata dainmain khuda or apney imamoun ko b razi rakhna chahti hun or usey b plz ap mujhey jaldi btaiey ga.

Answer: ap ko use chor dena chahiye kun ke Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: ASSALAM U ALAIKUM Warahmatullahi Wabarakatohu,(1) problem-Maine B.H.M.S 1st year me ADMISSION Liya hu.Kya homoeopathic degree hasil karna ISLAMICALLY Jayaz hai agar nahi to main is course ko INSHAALLAH Chhordunga..kyoki yha pharmacy subject me alchohol se medicine preparation sikhaya jata hai aur bina alchohol homeopathy incomplete hai.dusri problem ki anatomy class me human body ki dissection hoti hai aur bhut sari baat shariat k khilaf hoti kya apne course ko continue karna sahi hai ya chhorna sahi hai.(HAFIZUR RAHMAN,ASANSOL,WESTBENGAL,B.Sc[chemistry honors] & currently studying AT 1st professional B.H.M.S in NATIONAL INSTITUTE OF HOMOEOPATHY,kolkata.m,bhut bari ilteza hai is problem se aasani me madad karne ki (2)treatment karna gair mahram ko kya jayz hai bina parda k jo aaj kal hota hai (3)problem-Meri nikah ho chuki hai ek yatim larki se lekin garib hone k wajah se mere adoptive father ne kubul nahi kiya(mujhe god liya gaya tha 6 mhine ki umar me),is liye apne mayke me rah rahi hai,kya main use yhi rkh kar B.H.M.S Complete karne ja skta hu.

Answer: (1) Homoeopathic course seekhne men koi maslah nahi h q k alcohol ki tamaam aqsam chahe unhen lakrhi se banaya gaya ho ya kisi or chiz se paak hen, layhaza wo tamaam dawaen, itar or khane peene ki cheezen jin men alcohol shamil ho pak hen. Bas is sorat men aap k homeopathic k course seekhne men koi haraj nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Jdeed Fiqfi Msaa`il,page#58).
(2) Anatomy course men ek maslah nigah k ehkam k hawale se ata hai k agar wo human body agar mard ki ho to us k sharmgaah ki taraf dekhna haram hai baaqi badan men dekhne men haraj nahi, or agar wo body aurat ki ho to us k chehre or hath kalaiyon tak to dekhne men koi maslah nahi is k alawa aurat k jism or us k balon ki taraf nigah kerna haram hay, lehaza is course men aap ko mushkilat derpesh hoskti hen, bas agar is course k seekhne k baad aap ko yaqeen h k future men aap kisi ki jaan bachaane ka karenge to haraj nahi hai, lekin agar aap ko aysa yaqeen nahi hai to is soorat men aap ka anatomy k course seekhne men jaiz nahi hoga.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msla#2397)
(3) Agar aap ka us larki se nikah ho chukka hai or us larki k walid ki ijazat bhi hai to ye nikah sahi hai aap ka apne walid se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai, or aap ki wife ka apne meyke men rehne men bhi masla nahi hai magar uska khana peena, libaas, rehaish or zindgi ki baqi zarooriyaat ka intezam kerna shohar per wajib hai,or aap course k liay bhi jaskte hen unhen wahan chorh ker magar ek sahrt ye hay k aap 4 mahine se ziyada arsa apni jawan wife k sath humbistari kerna chorh nahi sakte siwaay ye k agar aap ki wife is per razi hon to phir koi maslah nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msla#2376-2382). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sallam g mara masla ya hia ke muj sa koie girls dosti nahee karni chahta hia mia kia karoo.

Answer: Ap is pr Allah ka shukr ada kren q jins e mukhalif (girls) se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q ke gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he.(Or Imam ALI as frmate hen gunah ka moqa na milna bhi Allah ki trf se nemat hai) (kitab nigah or libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: slam, meri mangni ko aek sal ho chuka h bht koshsh k bawjod mali msael ki bdolt shadi ni ho ri sadge sy shadi men khandan razi ni h mery mangter k sath romanvi taloqt hen hum ny wo khas kam ni kiya kya romanvi taluqat rakhny sy hamara shadi ka rishta jaez na hoga hum sachy dill sy aek dosry ko apna manty hen? plz ans me

Answer: Mangni ka islam men koi aytbar nahi hai, jab tak ap ka nikah nahi hojata hai tab tak ap ka mangetra se is qism ka relation rkhna haram hai, q k apki mangetr bhi dusri oaraton ki tarah jab tak nikah nahi hojata , wo bhi ap k liye namehrm hai.(Ref: Aqai Sistani, Sawalat or jawabat 10 mrajaye kiram k ftwon k mutaiq, pg#31). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir mara name darakhshan hai mother name shahnaz begum hai,sir ma kisi larka ko pasand karti ho shadi bi karna chati ho wo bi yah hi chata tha but ab us na mara sath bat karna chor dai hai plz ap kuch asa wazifa bataya jis sa us larka ka dil ma mara laya payar pada ho jay mari us sa shadi bi ho jay aur mara sub ghar wala aur mari puri family man jay ais k alwa ir ma umra karna chati ho mara pass pasay ni hai koi asa wazifa bataya jis sa mara umra karna k wasila ban jay plz

Answer: 1)Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se aurat ka merd ko Dekhna Haraam hay(Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho(Ref:Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)
2)Dua-e-tawassul ko har waqt perh saktay hain, laikin kisi khaas maqsad k lie is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz-e-fajar k baad 2 rakat namaz e hajat ada kernay k baad perh kar dua mangain. Insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41)
ROZI: Riwayat mai hai k jo shakhs subah k waqt kisi sai baat karnay sai pehlay 3 bar surah e maeda ayat # 114 ki tilawat karay osay waha sai rozi milay gi jahan sai osay wahm-o-ghuman bhi nai ho ga. (Ref : Kitab payam e shifa Pg # 232) ayat (rab’ban’a anzil alina . . . . . . khairur razaqeen)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Me ek ladki se pyar karta hu lakin na jane kyu wo mujse bat tak nahi karti.please muje bataiye me kya karu?

Answer: 1)Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha(Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho(Ref:Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)
2)Dua-e-tawassul ko har waqt perh saktay hain, laikin kisi khaas maqsad k lie is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz-e-fajar k baad 2 rakat namaz e hajat ada kernay k baad perh kar dua mangain. Insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41)

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Question: Ladkiyon se mohabbat karn gunah hai ya jayaz hai plz aap bataen.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
Jo shaks shadi nah krne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31).
Hazrat Imam jafar e Sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi libas may lepat kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pass jay to osay na kaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rahay gi. inshAllah (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: can we touch our cousin sister body ,if we commited sin by touching her private parts is that zina aur ..iska bina par meri biwi be kisi aur ka sath zina kari hue hogai plz answer

Answer: It is haram for man to look or touch the body of the Non-Mahram women, but it is not Zina.(Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 70, masla # 109)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ASSALAOALAIKUM SIR MAINE PEHLE BHI APSE QUE KIA BT MUJHE ABHI TAK JAWAB NI AYA SIR MUJHE YE BATAIYE KI MAI EK LADHKI SE BHT PYAR KARTA HU AUR HUMDONO SHADI BHI KARNA CHAHTE HAI BUT MERI PADHAI KO PURI HONE ME 3 SAAL HAI AUR USKE GHR WALE USKI SHADI JALDI KARA RAHE HAI AUR RISHTE KI BAAT BHI HOGAI HAI PAR SIR AP PLz kuch aisa masla batae ki uski rishte ki baat tut jae aur mujhse shadi hohae mai plz plz mere que ka jawab zarur de aur sir mai usse phn par sex bhi karta hu joki gunah hai to humdono ye adat chodhna chahte hai to hum dono dheere dheere karke chodhe to chalega kya ya turant chodhde bcz ekdam se chodhte nahi ban raha plz batai sir..

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam.. mene apna pyar kho dia jis ldke se mai pyar krti thi wo.mje achnk chod dia mai use bht pyat krtih hu plz mje koi wajifa batye plzzz jisse wo wapas ajye mere pas

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal# 106 pg# 69)
Kunwari(virgin) lerki us waqt tak nikah(daimi/mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah 2341)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho gay (Ref: Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: (sr) salam alaikum janab mere sasur meri biwi ko lejane ke liye aye to maine unse sawal kia tumne ane se pahle mujhse kyo nahi pucha to wo kahte hai ham tujhse kyo puche tu hai kon ? Uske bawajood b maine bhej diya mai waha phon karta tha to wo bolte the jab tak meri biwi waha unke ghar hai mai waha phon na karu wo kahte hai tu usko gali deta hai isliye usse bat karne ki zaroot nahi uske bad hamari bat hui or rozana ham shohar biwi bat karte hai to ab wo kahte hai ke agar usse bat karni hai to mere se ijazat leni hogi aap plz mujhe jawab de kya wo sahi kar rahe hai apna baap hona ka sahi haq ada kar rahe hai kya wo aisa kar sakte hai ? Ha ye sahi hai jab mai unki bato ko jo unhone mere sath ki yaad karta hu to apni biwi ko gali deta hu lekin kya unhe ye sab bat kahne ka haq hai ? Plz jawab zaroor de

Answer: jis aurat ka nikah ho jaye us k liay haraam hai k shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar say bahar niklay (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition, maslah # 2376) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam-o-alailum.....mera naam tariq hai main ek ladki se bepanah muhabbat karta hoon..or wo bhi mujhse bepanah muhabbat karti hai...hm dono shadi karna chahte hain...ladki ke ghar me ladki ki ammi ko ye rishta manzoor ni hai...or wo uske liye liye koi doosra rishta dekh re hain.....jiski wajah se ladki bilkul na-ummeed ho gayee hai ki ab hmari or uski shadi ni ho payegi..jiski wajah se usne hmse sare rishtey tod liye hain...mujhse ab wo bilkul baat ni karti hai....Aap se meri rivayat hai ki koi aisa wazeefa...taweez batayein jisse hamri shadi aaraam se ho jaye sbki marzi se..or wo b hmse pahle ki tarah baat kare....Aap k jawab ka intezaar hai...please help me main bht zyada pareshan hoon........JAZAAK ALLAH

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)
Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi/mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah 2341) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asalam-o-Alaikum .mera nam Waqas Rasheed ha ma ak larki sa beintaha mohabat karta hn .magr us ki shadi ho gai ha.or us ki shadi us par kala jadu kr k je gai ha .is ka koi hal ha kya.wo ab b mujh sa pyar karti ha

Answer: Wssalam o alykum,Ab ap ke liye jaiz nahi hai haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2366 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: Asalamoalikum ....mera naam sabika abdul khaliq hai ...mera taluk Karachi, pakistan se hai ...mein ek ladke ko pasand kerti hun...woh bhi mujhe pasand kerta tha aur hum apni graduation puri honey k baad shaadi kerne waley the lekin laraiyan honey ki waja se ab woh mujhse piyar nhi kerta aur woh mujhe chor ker chala gaya hai.. hum ne apna rishta jaiz rekha hua hai....mein us ladkey se bohat piyar kerti hun aur har namaz ke baad bas Allah se yehi duaa kerti hun k woh us ladkey ko meri taqdeer mein likh dey aur mujhe usk liye behter banaye...mujhe koi wazifa batadein takeh woh meri taraf dubara raghib hojaye

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti o muhabbat Haram hai.(ref:book nigah aur libaas,masla#106,pg#69)

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Question: kya kisi ladki se Muhabbat krna galat h.... me kisi ladki se bina uske or apne Ghar walo Ki rajamndi ke nikah kese kr skta hu jabki me bhi raji hu or vo ladki bhi..... kya Muhabbat me bhi nikah se pehle tuch krna galat h.....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.
(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.
(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Larki ka apne wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikha sahi nahi hai. Albatta larke k liye apne walden se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341)
Jab tak nikah nahi hojata tab tak namehram hi hen or us se pehle chahe use pasand krte hon ya na krte hon touch kran haram hai.
(Ref: Ayat_ul_Allah Sistani)-( http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01883/#18773)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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Question: assalamu alaikum... me ek ladki se nikah karna chahta hu or vo bhi chahti h hum dono ek dusre ko bahot muhabbat krte h me uske liye dua bi krta hu uski magfirat ke liye dua karta hu Allah se mene khud se vada kiya h ke me nikah se pehle us ke sath sex ni karunga bs problm yh h k hume apne Ghar walo se chip kr nikah krna padh skta h agar vo ni maane to mene suna h k ek kuwari ladki jab tak nikah ni kr skti jab tak uska baap ya dada ijazat na de de... kya esi koi condition ni h ke hum uske baap ya dada Ki ijazat ke bina nikah karley.... or ha yh bAhot jaruri h mere liye bi or uske liye bi ab hum log ek dusre ke bina ni reh pa rahe magar abhi tak ruke hue h.... aap plz is par theek se soche or phir javab de me chahta hu k aap aapki jaati raye bhi de aapki jaati raye positive honi chahiyye.....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.
(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.
(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Larki ka apne wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikha sahi nahi hai. Albatta larke k liye apne walden se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341)
Jab tak nikah nahi hojata tab tak namehram hi hen or us se pehle chahe use pasand krte hon ya na krte hon touch kran haram hai.
(Ref: Ayat_ul_Allah Sistani)-( http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01883/#18773)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sachcha pyar muhabbat kisi gair mehram ladki se,,,, nikah ka bhi irada.... ke bare me Allah ne or Allah ke rasool Muhammad (s.a.w) ne kya farmaya or isse relatid sari baat batao.... plz plz plz....

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.
(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.
(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Larki ka apne wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikha sahi nahi hai. Albatta larke k liye apne walden se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341)
Jab tak nikah nahi hojata tab tak namehram hi hen or us se pehle chahe use pasand krte hon ya na krte hon touch kran haram hai.
(Ref: Ayat_ul_Allah Sistani)-( http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01883/#18773)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam o alikum....Meri bhabi aur bhai ne nikah kia he 2 sal pehle dubai men ami abu k baghair . Court men 4 gawahon k sath .... Ami abu abhy nikah krana chahte hen wapas. Tau kia ho sakta he waapas nikah ??

Answer: Agr pehle nikah walden ki ijazat k bger kiya tha to wo sahi nahi tha matlb nikah hi galt hogaya hai, lehaza ab jo nikha walden ki ijazat se yahan Pakistan men horaha hai wohi sahi nikah shumar hoga, lekin agr pehla nikha walden ki ijazat se kiya tha to phir wohi sahi shumar hoga dusra zaruri nahi agr dusra kren bhi koi harj nahi hia lekin us ki koi khas value nahi hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,31rd Edition,maslah #2341)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam, Sawal..., 1 - god liya huwa ladka ya ladki mahram hai ya na mahram hai baligh hone pe ? please tafseel me samjhane ki zahmat karen, Jazakallah Fiamanillah Zeeshan

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Na-mehram hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: Kya parai ladki se taluqat rakhana thik hai?

Answer: Gee nahi ye jaiz nahi. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 4 , pg # 100 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: ASSLAM O ALAIKUM ... m aik lrky sy pyar krti hn usk ghar waly to maan gay hn lakin mery parents ni manen gay m janti hn meri shadi us sy ni kren gay bht mushkil h.To plzzz ap aisa oi wzifa bta den jin sy un k dill m narmi paida ho ya aisa khyal paida ho jis sy wo maan jaen.Plzzz help me i m so worried about this. zrur jaldi btaye ga....bht preshan hn...abi kuch months mai meri study comelete ho jaye ge jis k baad wo sochen gay to plzz mjy iska hul bta den... Thank you..

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Hazrat Imam jafar e Sadiq a.s.se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq larke se kehain ke Sura e Taha ko kisi sabz reshmi libaas main likhe phir isko lapeet kar apne paas rakhe, or apne waladain ke sath ap ke ghar ap ka rishta lene ke liye aae. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18)].
Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: Kiy adult ladki begair parde k school jana jayez hai

Answer: Gee nahi, parda kerna wajib hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2399 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: Assalamo alekum, sir meri age 23 sal he or mene nursing ki he,agr me job karti hu to kya mujhe gunah lgega. Kya Islaam ladkiyo ko job karne ki izazat deta he..mera swal dekhne k liye aapka bhut bhut shukriya.ALLAH hafiz

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, ager is main koi haraam kaam karna phare (masalan mardo ke sar o garden ke ilawa badan per nazar karni phare , namehram dost banane phare jin se dosti buraae ka bais bane or Sharai Ehkaam ka khayal na rakha jaye) to jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : nigaah o lebaas , [baab # 1 , pg # 28] , [baab # 4 , pg # 100] , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: Kya mangter se bt krna jazz ha

Answer: ager baat cheet aam mamool ke mutabiq ho or is main koi shehwat anggeez guftugoo bhi na ho or na hi is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka der ho to in ke baat karne main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , hissa # 3 , masala # 115)

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Question: mere uncle ki beti kisi ladke ko pasand krti hai or ladka v par ghar wale raazi nhi hai , pta nhi isse kya ho gya hai jaise usne jaado kr dya ho , maa baap bhai bahan kisi ki baat nhi manti, namazz padhti hai per jhoot bolti hai.. Or mana krne pr hamesha mrne ki dhamki deti hai , zaldi se koi uppaye btaye ghar wale bahut padeshan hai...

Answer: Ager sura e al qariaa ko 7 martaba kisi mithi cheez per phar kar us ko khila dain to INSHALLAH wo ap ki batoo ko maanne lage gi.(Ref : nawaa e s saleheen , pg # 36).
Note us larki ki walida ko us larki ko samjhana chahi mager sakti ke sath nahi balke ache tari se.

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Question: Aoa sir mujy divorce hue ha ma ab claass fellow sa shadi krna chati ho wo be us k parents razi ha mary nahe mujy koe waziafa batiay k mary kehnay sa bagair wo khud mann jiay caste nd maslak k be farak ha plz help mee

Answer: Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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Question: Mai 1 jaga shadi krna chahta ho magar larki walay razi nai hen mal or deen ki kami ki waja se ap mjhe Kch batayen jis se wo razi ho jayen

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.
(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: A.o.A. Molana sahib ma lahore sy bat kr rha houn mera masla ye ha k mera rabta mobile py aik lrki sy howa wo bohat hi naik or achy kirdar ki ha wo mery dil ma bas gaye ha or ab hm dono shadi krna chahty hain to ap hamain kuch parhny k leay btayen ta k hmary rishty ma kisi b kisam ki rukawat na aye plz mjy zaror jwab degeay ma ny bht umed k sath ap sy sawal kya ha?

Answer: Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay.
(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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Question: agr koi na mehram breast ko zabardasti touch kr ly tou kya woh zina men shamil hota ha?

Answer: Mard k leye namehram aurat k badan ya baal ko maas karna haram hai.(laikin agar dokhul na hoa ho yani mard ne apna penis (ala tanasul) aurat ki sharam gha me dakhil na kiya ho to ye zina nahe hai) (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 16)

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Question: ASALAM OALIKUM MARA SAWAL YA HA K MA AIK LARKY KO BOHT LIKE KRTI HN WO MJY LIKE NI KRTA PLEASE KOI ASA WASIFA BTA DYN K WO MJY LIKE KRY AUR MJ SY BT KRY AUR MRI US SY SHADI HO JY

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mere mangetar mujhe peche se karte hen kehte hen shadi k baad aage se karonga me boht preshan hon kia peche se karne se ghusal wajib hota he please zaroor bataayen....

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai aur namehram aurat k jisam ko dhekna haram hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397,before 2328 )
Sharaai nikah k begair mard (orat) k lye kise bhi aurat (or mard) se jinse taluqat qaim karna haram hai, or zina karna bhi haram hai aur ghuna kabira me se hai.
(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition 2009)
Jo shaks shadi na kerne ki wajah se haram kam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31).
agar koi shakhs aurat sai jima kray aur uzwa_e_tanasul (penis) supari ki miqdar tk ya is sai ziada dhakil ho jae to ye dhokool faraj mai ho ya dubr(back side) aur chahae balig ho ya na balig aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho donoo mujnib ho jatay hain. Aur namaz ya is jaisi doosri ibadatoo k lie ghusl e janabat krna wajib hai.
(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #,348,356) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assala Waalaikum...Na samjhi me maine kisi se mohabbat kr lya mgr mjhe is bat ka ilm bhot der bad hua k islam me Duniawi mohabbat jaij nhi,mgr hmara relation takreeban 7 salo se hai aur ab wo meri Jarurat si ban gai hai jis k begair jeena duswar sa lgta hai us se door rhne k nam se dar sa lgta hai..ab aap btaiye mjhe kya us se riste ko khatam kr dena chahiye ya us k sath Nikah kr lena chahiye pls is ka jawab jald se jald de ta ke mai sahi faisla kr sku...

Answer: Ap ko aik fiqhi masle ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai k Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay.
(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
(Albatta isalm pasand ki shadi se nahi rokta to behtar hai ka shadi krlen, is k liye hm apko wazeefa dete hen)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

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Question: meri age 17 hai me ak larky sy bht pyar krti hu lkn wo mujhsy badzan hua hua hai meri kuh ghaltio ki waja sy or muh meri ghaltio ka ehsas ho gaya hadi ab me usy wapas pana chahti hu plz help me

Answer: Jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) apko us se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)

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Question: Assalam , mera sawal h ki me ek ldki se shadi krna chahta hu nd wo b dono muslim h lekin dono k parents agree ni h na ek dusre ko jante h plzz kchh aisi dua btaiye jisse hm dono k parents apas mil jaye nd razi b ho jaye . . . . . . . Plzz rply soon m waiting

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam hai (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khauf ho) (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458,pg#253)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar kay apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir ma ak larki sa pyar karta ho or shadi karna chahta ho lakin larki razi ha ya nahi mugha pata nahi or ma larki sa bohat pyar karta ho plz mugha wazifa batai plz sir mari help kara

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khauf ho) (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asalam o Alikum Sir Mera Masla ye hai k main aik larki say pasand ki shadi karna chahta hon larki bhe ALLHUMDULILLAH ready hai lakin sab sy bara masla us k ghar walon ka hai wo razi nhe horahe hai so ap batain k kon sa wazifa ya amal karon k ALLAH un k parents ko razi kar dey us k dilon main bat dal dey or rishta hojaye Please waiting for your urgent Response Regards

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khauf ho(Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar kay apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga sath me ye masla bayaan karta jao kay (Ref: Naway-e-salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum sir mene apni mangetar k sath phone pe full sex kia h aur real me bhi uske sath upar upar se sex kia h pr andar nhi kia to kia ye zina h plzzz sir mjhe btae me bht preshan hun kia mangetar k sath shadi se pehle gandi baat krna ya upar upar se sex krna gunah h plzzz btae me har namaz me toba krta hu sir mjhe ap toba ka tariqa btae plzzz sir meri shadi hone wali h uske sath agr ye zina h to me shadi se pehle toba krlun plzzz sir meri help kren plzz mjhe btae sir

Answer: Mangetar na mehram hai aur na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nahi hai laikin haram hai is lie tauba karain (Ref: kitaab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)
ghuzishta amal k liye Allah say Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne waday per amal na karey(Ref: sistani.org ques # 1,toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: As salam ualeykum sir MUJHE apse mushwara chahye ya koyi wazifa .. I ll explain to u Mere college ki dinon se main aur ek larka ek dusre se bohot pyar karte hai Aur phir kch aisa hua ke usko majbooran magni karni pari But vo kush nahi hai and 1 saal hogaya but ab bi vo aur main ek dusre ko chahte hai Vo apne mum dad ki vaja se chup hai magar chahta hai ke rishta tut jaye ... Then please can you help me Aap mujhe koyi wazifa ya aap kch isthikara karke mujhe bataye ke hum dono k beech main possible hai ke nahi ... Please its urgent Fi iman ALLAH ALLAH HAFiz

Answer: Lazzat aur Shak ki Niyat se Aurat ko Dekhna Haraam ha (Lazzat se Muraad Shehwat ki Nazar se Dekhna aur Shak se Muraad Haraam me Mubtila Honay ka Khof ho (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#458 pg#253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ASSALAM-ALIKUM mere magni ho chuki he aur me ek dosre larke se muhabbat karte hu wo b mjh se bht muhabbat karta he aur kehta he k wo mjhe Allah se duaon me mang le ga lekin mera magetar mjhe us se bat karne ki ijazat nahi deta lekin me us larke ko nahi chor kyo k usko ek bemari b he aur wo mere bager nahi reh pata ab me apne magetar se jhot bolte hu me kisi ka b dil nahi torna chahte mjhe koi hal bataen?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
(Jesa k apne btaya k ap us larke se mohabbat krti hen to is qism k taluqat rakhna ya isi ghrz se bat chit krna haram hatta k apk mangetr se bat krna) agr lazzat k irade or gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf ho to jaiz nahi hai ( q k wo dono ap k liye na_mehram hen or na_mehram se is qism k taluqat rakhna jaiz nahi hen phir chahe dil dukhe) Q k sb se bari bat insan k liye ye hai k Allah kis bat pr Naraz hota hai, Hmen Allah Ta`la ko khush rakhna hai chahe koi dukhi ho ya na ho).(Ref : Aqai Sistani(d.db), Nigah or Libaas 10 Marajaye k Fatawa k Mutabiq, 1st Edition, Page#57-58, Ques# 76-77-78)

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Question: sir , main kisi ko pasand karti hun.. per mujy nai pata k wo karta hy k nai , wo family main hain . main kya karon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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