QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Sir me 20 saal ki ho r taqreeban 15 saal ki umar me larke ko galay lagaya hai chooma r use apne seene ko dekhne dia r choomne dia. In se se ku6 amal mene blackmail hone pe kia warna mera dill nhe manta tha iski maafi kaise mil skti hai mjhe. Ub us larke se mene taluq khatam kar dia hai lekin wo mujhe tabah karna chahta hai. Kia maafi pe sb thek hojae ga me bht bht bht sharminda ho

Answer: Sachchay dil se toba karain prwardigar nai quran majeed me wadah kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888
[Updated on 24-Aug-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalumualikum sir, zina se toubah karne ke baad wo insan apni zindagi khushi se jee saktha hi ya isi dar may jeena cahiay ki vusse gunah hua hi plz answer me sir may bohat pareshan hoon

Answer: wsalam.
agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai.
tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 23-Jun-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mere mamo ki aolad nhn thi maine apni mami ko bhela bhosala kr us k sath sex kia jis se usko hamal ho Gaya or uska bacha bhi ho gya hai or apne sale ki bivi ki bhi aolad nhn thi tu us k sath sex kia uski bhi aolad ho gai phr meri 2 Mami ki bhi aolad nhn thi tu us ko bhi bhla bhosala kr sex kia uski bhi aolad ho gai or phr apni cousin k sath or apni sali k sath sex kia or meri sas janti thi k main uski baho or uski beti k sath sex krta hn ab maine yeah sb chor dia hai tu aisa kia kron jis se yeah gunha maf ho jain

Answer: 1) Zina karna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij).
2) Zina ka kuffara sache dil se toba karna hai lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37).
3.tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 26-Jun-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: assalam aslikum ... mera swal yeh hy k mn ik larki se pyar krta hun ..hum akle mn milte b the lykn had se kabi agye nhi brhye .. jab mne apne ghr walo se nikkha ki bat ki to onho ne mana kr dya .. lyk hume apne gunnah ki shrmandgi hy k hum akle mn mile kiya mn apne parents ko btye bgair yeh on ki ijazat ka bgair os se nikkha kr skta .. ta k mn apne gunah ki mafii mang saku ... mje chain nhi milta jab se mje apni glati ka ehsas hua..

Answer: 1) Agar larki k wali (baap ya dada) ki ijaazat nahi hogi tou ye nikah durust nahi hoga.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah khoie maslah no 2385).
2) Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 17-Jul-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sharabi ki tauba h kya?? Agar vo vir kabi sharab na piye to

Answer: Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 15-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Gunah chorni ki koshis mien pair gunna hojaye thorai waqt baad tou and tauba bhi ki hou pehlai

Answer: Toba karen Parwardigar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).
2)Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 12-Aug-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamualaikum Sir Mera sawal hai k agr koi shakhash nadani mein zahr pee kr faot ho jata hai yeni k khudkhushi krta hai to uski maghfirat k liay Kia krna chahye uske rishte daroon ko k uski bakhshish ho jai Allah Rub ul Alameen uski bakhshish kr dein

Answer: Aap khuda se 14 masomeen(a.s) k wasile se on k liay dua ker sakte hain or bakhshish ki dua ker sakte hain or on k naam per sadqa day sakte hain doosre naik kaam ker sakte. Baqi Allah Ghafoor o Raheem hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part#1, Mafhoom e Jawab#199).
[Updated on 05-Oct-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: salam walikum, sir mje ak confess krna h aur pochna h sir jawab mujhe den sir me bht gunah gar hgya hn mgr ab mje apne ap s ghin tk ati h k m n drink kri qibla jadu kren ki kosis kri mgr asar ni hua qk ghlt salt kra tha even tk rozana tkreban zina kra aur bht kch namaz roza ni na kch aur even k khuda tk pr bhrosa ni rha tha mje to moulana sahab asadm7622@gmail.com pr jawab de djiega m n ab tobah krli h qk m js lrki s shadi krna chahta hn even wo to chr kr chali gye h mujeh sab kch h mre pas mgr bs wo ni h jo m chahta hn mgr ab m kosis kr rha hn to ap bta skty hen k me ab kia krn khuda mujhe maaf krdga mgr han m jb bhi namaz pharta hn to asa lagta h k khuda exsist hi ni krta ajeeb khayal ate han ajeeb ajeeb s mgr bht dehan s phr bhi namaz pharta hn mje bata skty hn mre ps kia h khuda maaf krdga aur m maafia s wjh s chahta hn qk m bs as s shadi krna chahta hn plz mra name aur kch bhi disclosed nahi krega bs mje email pr jawab de dn bs

Answer: W/ssalam o alykum, Jee haan Allah taala har waqt apne bande ko maaf kerne ke liye tayyaar hay agar banda sachay dil se sharmindagi k sath maafi maangay. (Ref :Mafhoom e http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/).
Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) may band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisbe manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)
[Updated on 04-Nov-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: I tried to perform hetro sex but I know it is a sin so I didn't perform it, now I need to know what to do for Toba?

Answer: Jis insaan se gunah hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 30-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Main apni zindagi main hazaar dafa tooba kr chuki hun or kafi dafa maffi bhe mang chuki hun lakin mera zameer mughy jeeny nahi de rha main namaz prhny ka jab bhe irada krti hu regular nhi parh paati.mere se jo ghalat kam hua main us kay bary main soch soch kar roz pachtati hun. naa mery dil ko sakoon hai na mere zindagi main sakoon hai. main asa kia karu kay mery dil ko sakoon ho q k naa main apny bap se na bhai se nazryn mila paati hun. har bat pr gussa or ab to dill hamesa yhi karta hai kay main khudkushi kar lu. or khudkushi ka bhoot asa sawaar hai ky 2 dafa attempt kr chuki hun. mughy khud se dar lagta hai main haram mout nhi marna chahti.

Answer: sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
(Note: Islam men Khudkushi aik haram kaam hai. Allah Taala ne insaan ko zindagi jaisi azeem nemat se nawaza ha lihaza insaan ko chaye ke is nemat per Allah Taala ka khas shukar ada karay or is zindagi ka maqsad (Marifat e Khuda or Ibadat e Khuda) ko pora karay.
[Updated on 21-Dec-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: mai ek ladka hu. mai nafsaani qwahishath se ek baada guna karbaitha hu. mai apni hi behen ko nahathe waqth dekh liya hu. muje andaaja nahi ke a kithna bada gunaa hai. mai khuada se thauba ki thalab kar raha hu. mujhe ilm de ki mai khuda se kaise thauba karu. is paschtave ko kaise door karu.

Answer: App sachay dil se toba karen, Aur Hazrat Rasool Allah(s.a.w.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijiye. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37).
Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. Yaqeenan Allah taala Gafoor o Raheem hai.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 11-Dec-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mai masturbation karti hn allah sa maufi mangi ha namaz parh k lakin phor wahi gunnah dobara ho jata ha phir muafi mangti hn aur phir wahi dobara ho jata ha kia karun mai mjsy comtrol he ni hota hala k mai yeh gunnah nhe karna chahti

Answer: sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 18-Dec-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Logon se maafi kesy mangy k Allah razi ho jay???

Answer: Istighfaar (taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain:(Nidamat k saath sachay dil say 14 masoomeen(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay)
1) Maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi.
2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah.
3) logon ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.( maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya os ka haq ada kerna ya agar wo log nahin mil rahe to us ki janib se radde mazalm ada karna ya jis kisi ke sath zulm kiya ho to us ke haq men dua e khair karna ).
4) Jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya tha tu os ki qaza bja laana).
5) Jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho.
6) Jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunah say maza chakhaya tha. (Ref: Nehjul balaghah, kilimaat o hikmaat # 417)
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: muje sex videos dekhny ki adat ho gyi h , kai br toba k bawajood phr yh adat sar utha deti h aur control ni hota ,kindly muje es se bachny ka hal btye. i am unmarried aur maksoos ayam mi yh zyda hta h.

Answer: 1: Ethiat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agarche shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
2: Hazrat Ali a.s irshad farmatay hain k Jo shakhs namaz e subah k baad 11 martaba surah e tauheed ki tilawat karay to os din wo koi gunah na karay ga chahay shaitan kitni hi koshish karay. (Ref : Dunya o aakhirat ki 100 preshanio ka hal pg # 42)
3: Jo surah e jin ki apni zindigi mai kasrat sai tilawat karta hai to wo jinnat aur in k shar sai mehfooz rehta hai. (Ref : Dunya o aakhirat ki 100 preshanio ka hal pg # 36)
4: Is ka hal shadi hai, aur aap ke liye shadi karna wajib hai, Q ke Jo koi shadi nah karne ki waja se haram kaam me mubtila hota ho tu us per wajib hay k shadi kar lay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masael, Edition #39, Maslah #2407).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Momin kese bana jay ya momin bany ki koishish ki jaye? Agar koi shaks se ghunahy kabira howa ho aur wo sachy dil se mafi mangy aur momin bany ki koshish kary to kya wo ban sakhta hai ya ban sakhti hai ? Kya ghuna maf hon gy ?

Answer: 1: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. (Ref: website Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888)
2: Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from Ayatullah Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir agar hum Allah se mafi mangle to hume kase yaqeen ho ga

Answer: Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
[Updated on 10-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Toba kitni der men karne par gunah nahin like jate

Answer: Agar kisi se gunah sarzad ho jaye to use chahiye ke pauran tauba kare. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “nidamat hi tuba hay”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k terk k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shaks zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunaho ka izala or tadaruk kerta hay.agar os ka hunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zarori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day.taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahi ho jati, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mzboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazimhay.albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zarori hay k dobarah tauba karain.kun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay.or bakshnay wala hay.or tauba kernay walo ko doost rakhta hay.hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah r fikr kerna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr kerna hay.or isi liay hadees main ayay hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se per haiz karao k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.
(Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
[Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: A.O.A! Agr insaan s naadni m gunhy kabira ho jy mean vo na-balgh ho ya usy ni pta eska kiya guna h aur agr koi mjbor kry ? Pichly 3 saal s aik guna br br ho jta hr br toba krte hun Krty huwe b mje pta hota ye glt h lekan phr b toba krty hwe ho jta Bhht shrmindge hoti Allah s dr lgta h qbr s hashr s ub Mujhy nmz m khaylat aty

Answer: 1: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tuba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shaks zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zarori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahi ho jati, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mzboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazimhay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zarori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah r fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main ayay hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: website Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888) (Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
2: Aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosre mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray. or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh sakti hon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
3: Imam jaffer sadiq a.s irshad farmate hain keh: Jo shaks sorah e juma ko raat, din ya asr k waqt tilawat kare gat u wo shaitani waswasae se amaan main hoga. (Ref: Dunya o akhirat ki 100 preshaniyo ka hal, pg#51).
4: Ayatullah behjat shaitani waswaso ko door karne k liay “Laa haula walaa qoowata illaa billaahil aliyil azeem” ۔(لا حول ولا قوۃ الا باللہ العلی العظیم) perhne ki bohot takeeed farmate thay. (Ref: Dunya o akhirat ki 100 preshaniyo ka hal, pg#52).
[Updated on 27-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamoalikum Sir, Please btaen ky ager koi apni behan, walida aur cousins ko shehwat ki waja sy kaafi dafa haath lagaa chuka ho aur ab iss py bahoot ziyada pachtaa rha ho aur sachi tooba karna chahta ho tu please iss ka kaffara btaen aur iss py kiya hukm hy. JazakAllah

Answer: Is gunah ki wajah se Sache dil se tauba karen aur Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
[Updated on 18-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: agar kisi ladki ke saath sab kuch kiya ho siwae uski sharm gah me penis insert na kiya ho or wo ladki ye karne ke liye razi bhi na ho to ab is gunah ki taubah kaise kare

Answer: Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
[Updated on 01-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Main toba kerna chahata ho kaesa kero

Answer: 1: Sache dil se tauba karen lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baargah main toba kijiye. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg #37)
2: Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
[Updated on 24-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: AOA Mein Ne Bhot Se Logon Ka Dil Dukhaya Hai Aur Mein sun Se Mafi Mangna Chahata Hun But Jin Ka Dil Dukhaya Hai Wo Unknown Person Hein Jese Raste Mein Kese Bike Wale Ka Rikshe Wale Ka Galtiyan Bhe De Hain Ziyati Ke Hai Mein Unse Maafi Mangna Chahata Hun Par Wo Mil To Nahe Sakte To Iska Koi Kaffara Hai Aya ALLAH Pak Se Maafi Kya Karun Dil He Dil Mein Baichain Hun Please Help Me

Answer: Aap Khuda ki bargah main sachay dil se Tauba-o-Istighfaar karain aur jin logon ka jo haq aap par baaqi hai us ko ada karain. (maslan jin logon ka maal ya haq, nahaq taaur par khaya tha tu us say maafi maangain ya us ka haq ada karain ya agar wo log nahin mil rahe to un ki janib se radde mazalm ada karain ya jis kisi ke sath zulm kiya tha to us ke haq men dua e khair karain.
(Ref: Nehjul balaghah, kalimaat e hikmaat #417).
[Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: If someone do six so after that what should he do

Answer: Jis kisi ne gunah kiya ho use chahiye ke wo sachay dil se toba kare. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai ke wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waday per amal na karay. (Ref: website Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), ques #1, toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ).
[Updated on 22-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mjseee aik gunnah hua haii 4 saal pehle or mein bht sharminda hu mje dar laga rehta hai k kahi agay ye gunnah nikal na jaii mere maa bao ki badnami na hojaii mein na daaan thi meine tobha ki bht ki bht bht ziada royi per mjeee ayee lgta hai jaisee khuda ne maag ni kiya mein ye takleef 4 saal se guzaar rhi hu or mje kuch samjh ni atti k mein kja kru kahi ye cheez mere ghr walon ki izzat ko kharab na kare mein bbt takleef mai hu meine bht maafi mangi bht ziadaa mein kia kru mhe bataii meein ni chahti k meri wajah se mere maa baaap ki izzat ko kuch hoo mjee batai mein kja kru k ye cheez chali jai sb mitt jaii mein sakoon se zindagi guzari kuch leak na hojaii mein chahti hu k khud kushi kr lu mje maafi kaise milegii?

Answer: 1: Allah har waqt apne bande ko maaf kerne ko tayyaar hay agar banda schay dil se sharmindagi k sath maafi maangay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ).
2: Sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (Ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b).
3: Agar koi khud kushi karta hai to use azab diya jai ga Q ke Khud khushi kerna gunahan e kabira main se hay aur jo gunah e kabira anjam dega us se hisab o kitab sakhti se liya jai ga.
(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30).
[Updated on 27-Aug-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Jesay kaha gya h k kasrat sy salawat prhny sy ghunah mit jaty hen kya ghunah e kabira b kasrat sy salawaat prhny sy muaf ho skty hen r agr hmen apny ghunah hi yad na hon to bs asy bol k ay Allah mujh sy jo b ghunah zindagi ma sarzad huay unhen muaf frma kya asy toba krna kafi hoga ya ghunah yd krna zaruri h??? JazakAllah

Answer: 1: Kasrat se salawat parhna, ghunahan e sagira ko mita deta hai jabke ghunahan e kabira ke liye zaroori hai ke Allah ke barghaah men tauba o istigfaar ki jaye.
2: Jee bilkul ghunahon ki tadaad ka yad hona zaroori nahin hai, bas faqat Barghaah e parwardigar men ye kehna kafi hai ke zindagi men jo bhi ghunah sarzad huey hain aye Allah unhen muaaf farma day.
3: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Inssan jab tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q ke Parwardigar ne quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay.
Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay or haqiqi naadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izaala or tadaruk karta hay. agar us ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baarghaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab day. Or agar huqooq e naas (logon ke huqooq) os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se us haq ka apnay upar halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya us ka haq us ko day day.
Taubah faqat " Astaghfirullah " kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha ghunah k tark karnay ka mazboot irada or us ka tadaruk laazim hay. Albatta agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobara tauba karay. Q ke Khuda kareen or meherban hay or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walon ko dost rakhta hay.
Hadees shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamha fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or us ka apnay bandon par haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaei main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.
(Ref: Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/. + email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
[Updated on 09-Mar-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr Allah se shirk ki maafi maang li jai tou kia wo maaf krr deta he ? Koi hadees yaan ayat b bta dain jisme aisa likha ho..

Answer: Sab Gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat buhat wasi hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shaks zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zarori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahi ho jati, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mzboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazimhay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub bhi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakhshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko dost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah e fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bandon per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaaei main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: Ayatullah sistani(d.b) topic tauba, sawal #2, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/#26515) + (Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
[Updated on 14-Aug-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Shirk or kufr se kitni bar tauba ki ja Skti h

Answer: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mzboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: website Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ).
(Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
[Updated on 31-Aug-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr koi bachpan me jhoot bhool de jis pe use Allah se bht sharmidgi ho to vo is ke kaffare ke liye Kya kre

Answer: Is ka kaffara koi nahin bas Allah se tauba talab karen aur maafi mangen..
Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay.
Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/. + email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011)
[Updated on 17-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr kisi shkhs ko ap ny apni nazeba pictures bhji houn or bd mein apko apni ghlti ka pachtawa hojata hai or ap yh tay krlety hain k ap aesa phr kbhi ni krein gy. Lkin ek shkhs ko agr apki is ghlti ka pta lg jye tou us sy kesy maafi maangi jye?

Answer: Agar kisi se gunah ho jaae to use Allah se tauba karna wajib hai or tauba ke liye haqiqe tour pe pashemaan hona zarori hai.
Ghunah se tauba aham tareen umoor or wajebaat me se hai tauba ki haqeeqat Ghunahon se pashemaan hona hai or pashemaani aik qalbi amar hai (yani is ka talluq dil se hay), srif (astaqferullah ) kehna tauba ke liye kafi nahin hai balke tauba ke liye haqeeqi tour par pashemaan hona zarori hai or agar waqean pashemaan ho jaay tu (astaqferullah) kehna lazim nahin hai agarche is ka kehna ehteyaate mustahab hai (yani ehteyaatan behtar hay) or tauba ke sharaei aasaar paae jane ke liye do batain lazim hai (1) insaan hatmi irada rakhta ho ke ghunah ki taraf dobaara nahin palte ga. (2) jo khuch bhi nafarmaani ki hai imkaan ki surat me shareat ke qanoon ke mutabiq islah kare (yani jo wajebaat insaan per wajib the or us ne use anjaam nahin diye hain maslan namaz, roza, hajj, zakaat wagaira,, agar us amal ki qaza ya kaffara hay tu un ki qaza kare ya kaffara de yani use anjaaam de or jin logon ka maali haqq khaya hay ya koi maali nuqsaan pouchaya hay, wo un ko waapsi de ya is silsele me un loqon se razamandi hasil kare. or jis insaan se ghunah howa hai wo) Toba kare Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghunah se bachney k liye mazboot irada hona chahiye.
(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail jame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), masalah #2224, 2223). + sistani.org ques #1,2, tauba).
[Updated on 11-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Asslamualaikum maulana sahab mughse ek bohot bada gunha hogya mene zina karliya mene kabhi nhi socha tha mein ye gunha kardunga mein apni nafs pr control nhi par paya or mughe bohot afsoos hota h is baat 2 mahine se zyadah ho gye mein allah (swt ) maafi mangta hoo mera gunha maaf ho jye lekin maulana sahab mein is gunha ko kese kam kar skta hoon mere samjh nhi aata mein allah ki bargha mein dua karta hoon namaz mein , lekin kisi ne mughse kaha mere is gunha ka hisaab meri maa ,behn ,ya hone wali biwi , ya hone wale bacho se hisaab hoga meri age 18 h abhi aap bataiye mein kya karun

Answer: 1: Nikah ke baghair kisi bhi mard or aurat ka sex (jinsi lazzat hasil) karna zina kehlata hai aur zina gunah e kabira hai lehaza aap par lazim hai ke pichlay gunah k liay tauba karen aur aenda gunah na karne ka ehad karen.
2: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or nazir (daikhnay wala) hay ”.(Ref: (Ref: Minhaj us Salaheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/. + email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
[Updated on 09-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kiya imam zamana hamary gunnah maf karngy main gunnah karti hun phir bht sharminda hoti hun me us waqt niyat karti hun phir nae karungi lekn phir hojaty hn ye adat c hogae h choot nae rahe me bhat koshsh karti hun

Answer: Parwardigar e alam ne Quran majeed main farmaya hay keh wo taubah karne walo ki taubah ko qobool karta hay or hasha wa kallaa aisa hargiz nahi ho sakta keh wo apne wade par amal nah kare.(Ref: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/). mazeed tafseel k liay is link per cklick karain https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/.
جواب: پرور دگار عالم نے قرآن مجید میں وعدہ کیا ہے کہ وہ توبہ کرنے والوں کی توبہ کو قبول کرتا ہے اور حاشا و کلا ایسا ہرگز نہیں ہو سکتا کہ وہ اپنے وعدہ پر عمل نہ کرے۔
[Updated on 05-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aoa!! Mera aek masla hai jo mujhe bht din se pareshan kr raha aur yaha tak k iss sooch mei mujhe neend tak nhi ati, darasal baat ye hai mei bht gunahgaar hu aur har wakt Allah se maafi talb krti hu aur mujhe yakeen hai k Khuda mujhe maaf kr de ga q k wo Rehman hai aur jesa aus se gumaan kro wesa hi hota hai per jo baat mujhe pareshaan krti hai wo ye hai k mei ne apne zamana e jahaliyat mei apne se wabasta kch loogo k pe bht zulm kiye hn aur din raat mujhe ye baat khaye jati hai k kya mujhe haqooq ul ibad ki maafi miley gi? Loogo ki umeedei torme aur un ka dil dukhanay ki koi maafi ya tareeqa hai? Plz help me out

Answer: Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirullah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mzboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: website Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ). (Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
[Updated on 21-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Wo konsa gunaah hai h jo taubha se bhi maff nhi hog

Answer: Quran e kareem main khuda ka fermaan hay k : “Allah is baat ko maaf nahi kersakta k oska shareek qaraar diya jay or is k alawa jis ko chahay bakhsh sakta hay or jo b
hi iska shareek banaay ga os nay bohot berha gunah kia hay. (Ref:Sorah#4 Nisaa, ayat#48) “Allah is baat ko maaf nahi kersakta k oska shareek qaraar diya jay or is k alawa jis ko chahay bakhsh sakta hay or job hi iska shareek qaraar day ga wo gumrahi main bohot door tak chala gaya hay. (Ref:Sorah#4 Nisaa, ayat#116) Note: wajeeh rahay k sorah e nisaa ki ayat # 48 main jis maghfirat ka zikr hay os k 5 asbaab hain: tauba, hasanaat(naikiyaan), gunah e kabira se ijtenaab, shafaa,at, khuda ka afu o darguzar, in asbaab k baghair bakhshish ka koe tasawwur nahi hay.or is ayat main wada nahi kia gaya hay k shirk k alawa her gunah ko maaf ker diya jay ga balkeh maslah ko mashiyat per moqoof kiya gaya hay k jab tak insaan ko mashiyat ka ilm nahi hay osay apni maghfirat ka intezaam khud kertay rehna chahiaay(Ref: Allama Zeshan Haider Jawwadi k tarjumay e quran ka Hashiya pg#204-5 )

gunaaho se tuba aham tareen umoor or wajebaat me se hai tuba ki haqeeqat gunaaho se pashemaan hona hai or pashemaani aik qalbe amar hai ( yani is ka talluq dil se hay),srif (astaqferullah ) khena tuba ke lie kafi nahe hai balke tuba ke lie haqeeqe tour par pashemaan hona zarore hai or agar waqean pashemaan hojaay tu ( astaqferullah ) khena lazim nahe hai agarche is ka khena ehteyaate mustahab hai ( yani ehteyaatan bhetar hay)or tuba ke sharhe aasaar paae jane ke lie do batain lazim hai (1) insaan hatme irada rakhta ho ke guna ki taraf dobaara nahe palte ga.(2) jo khuch bhi nafarmaani ki hai imkaan ki surat me shareat ke qanoon ke mutabiq islah kare ( yani jo wajebaat insaan per wajib the or us ne use anjaam nahe die hai maslan namaaz ,roza , hajj, zakaat wagaira,,agar us amal ki qaza hay kaffara hay tu un ki qaza kare ya kaffara de
yani use anjaaam de or jin lougo ka maali haqq khaya hay ya koi maali nuqsaan pouchaya hay ,wo un ko waapsi de ya is silsele me un louqo se un razamande hasil kare) (ref:tuiziul masail jame,urdu,aqa sistani, masla no:2223), ( jis insaan se guna hoa hai wo) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1,2 , toba)
[Updated on 05-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Main ek bahut BADA gunah kardiya ... Choti si takleef hua tha aur Maine gusse Mai aake Allah pe sawal Karne lagi fir achanak muh se gaali nikaal Diya (Astagfirullah) Allah ko. Maine tab Ka tab Astagfirullah padha aur hamesha padti rehti Hun, namazon me to do maafi bhi bahut bar maanga , ab mai Kiya Karun jisse Allah mujhe maaf karde. Please mad karde main us din se bahut beemar rehti Hun nayi nayi bimari aati rehti h ,sadka bi deti Hun par bimari aati rehti h, pregnancy ki liye wo bhi no horaha , bahut pareshaan Hun please mujhe raasta dekadejiye

Answer: 1: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: website Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ). (Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
2: Pregnancy ke liye wazifa:- Agar koi chahe ke is us ko naik aur aziz aulad ata ho to is k liay chahiay k wo mussalsal 3 din roza rakhay aur har raat sonay se pahley 21 bar surah e al furqaan ki ayat #74 (wal,lazeena . . . . .imaa,maa) ko parhey. Aur Allaha say apni haajat talab karay aur so jaaey. Har mahinay(month) me aik bar kar liya jaaey. (Ref: kitab naeem ul aamal, pg #331).
3: Pareshani doori hone k liye wazifa: Har qism ki pareshani ka liya surah e Mubarak e Anaam ayat #17 (in yamsask . . . . . . .al khabir) ko fajr say pehlay likh kar apna pas rakhain. Inshallaha faida ho ga.(Ref: kitab payam e shifa, pg #221,282).
[Updated on 25-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Main ek bahut BADA gunah kardiya ... Choti si takleef hua tha aur Maine gusse Mai aake Allah pe sawal Karne lagi fir achanak muh se gaali nikaal Diya (Astagfirullah) Allah ko. Maine tab Ka tab Astagfirullah padha aur hamesha padti rehti Hun, namazon me to do maafi bhi bahut bar maanga , ab mai Kiya Karun jisse Allah mujhe maaf karde. Please mad karde main us din se bahut beemar rehti Hun nayi nayi bimari aati rehti h ,sadka bi deti Hun par bimari aati rehti h, pregnancy ki liye wo bhi no horaha , bahut pareshaan Hun please mujhe raasta dekadejiye

Answer: 1: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.(Ref: website Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ). (Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
2: Pregnancy ke liye wazifa:- Agar koi chahe ke is us ko naik aur aziz aulad ata ho to is k liay chahiay k wo mussalsal 3 din roza rakhay aur har raat sonay se pahley 21 bar surah e al furqaan ki ayat #74 (wal,lazeena . . . . .imaa,maa) ko parhey. Aur Allaha say apni haajat talab karay aur so jaaey. Har mahinay(month) me aik bar kar liya jaaey. (Ref: kitab naeem ul aamal, pg #331).
3: Pareshani doori hone k liye wazifa: Har qism ki pareshani ka liya surah e Mubarak e Anaam ayat #17 (in yamsask . . . . . . .al khabir) ko fajr say pehlay likh kar apna pas rakhain. Inshallaha faida ho ga.(Ref: kitab payam e shifa, pg #221,282).
[Updated on 25-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam U Alikum Mera Sawala ye tha ki main pehle namaz nai tha parhta ab Allhumdullilah parta hon to kya un namzo ki saza mile gi jo chot gi ya mafi mil sakti hai

Answer: wsalam.
Aap par laazim hai k aap un tamaam namaazon ki qaza karein or allah ki baaragh mai tauba karein wo yaqeenan maaf karne waala hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 1356).
[Updated on 25-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mai boht beemart hu lagta a k mar jau gi agr ab toba karu to qabool ho gi

Answer: aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab ker6ni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gen.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 17-Jun-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam.o.alaikum mein ye janana chahta ho k jb kisi Muslim k bure amal ki waja se Allah ki trf se koi saza ya azab ai to kya sache dil se tauba krne se wo saza ya azab khatam hogai ga? Plz reply kariye ga

Answer: 1: Nabi kareem(s.a.w.w) se pehle jitni ummten guzri hain un me ye hota tha ke kisi aik bure insaan ( jo gunahgar ho) ki wajah se sab pe azaab nazil hota tha lekin Nabi kareem(s.a.w.w) ne farmaya: ke meri ummat, ummat e marhooma hai yani saaye rehmat men hai or ummat e marhooma ka matlab ye hai kisi aik bure insaan ke wajah se Allah taala dosron par azaab nazil nahin karta. or doosri baat ye hai Allah taala zaalim nahin hai Q ke Allah taala khud quran me faramata hai ke yaqeenan Allah logon par zarra barabar bhi zulm nahin karta balke ye log hain jo apne aap par zulm karte hain.
2: Han albatta gunahgar chahiye ke wo Sache dil se tauba kare lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah(s.a.w.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Surah e Tahreem ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baargah main tauba kare.
3: Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehle tu is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiye or apne aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain ge. or hamaisha yaad rakhen k Allah har waqt daikh raha hay or is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahe hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahe hain.
(Ref: kanz ul amal, 34452. + Surah younuf, ayat #44. + Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg #37. + (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
[Updated on 12-Aug-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Net pa ankho Ka zana gunahe kabera ha iski mafi ha?

Answer: 1: Sache dil se tauba karne se Parwardigar e aalam yaqeenan muaf farmaye ga. lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah(s.a.w.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Surah e Tahreem ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baargah main tauba kare.
2: Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehle tu is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiye or apne aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain ge. or hamaisha yaad rakhen k Allah har waqt daikh raha hay or is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahe hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahe hain.
(Ref: (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 15-Aug-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mein dosra mulk mein rehta hun .Mera pas pasa ni tha khane k.. bhook lagi thi .. room mein bhut extra roti Pari thi .... Mein ne half roti chori kr k kha le... Mujha pata tha k chori hy galat hy.. lakin Mera pas option ni tha k dubara shayad na mila pasa bhi ni hain..tu majboori mein chori ki.. mujha bhut affsoos hy ..mein ab keya kro

Answer: Chori karna kabira ghunahon me se hai. lehaza zaroori hai ke ya to maalik se maafi maang kar musalihat kar li jaye, ya maalik ka jo haq banta hai wo maalik tak puhchaya jaye, aur is gunah ki wajah se tauba ki jaye.

(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #1, Edition #1443 hijri, Maslah #30. + https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/).
[Updated on 12-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Asslm alikum sir mein bht presaan hu kud ke galtiyon ke. Wajh se meine baar baar Allah se wada kr ke toda hai mujse bada gunah ho gya ek baar meine wada khilafi ke aur bht muskilon mein fash gyi fir Allah se mafi manga aur wada kiya ke kbhi dubra woh gunah nhi krungi fir wahi gunah dubara ke fir mafi mangi ke ab kbhi nhi krungi aur fir se kiya mujhe pr jinnat ka aser hai mujhe nhi pta kbse lakin 5 saal se ab woh khul kr presaan kerta hai azeeb presani mein fash gyi hu jaise niklne ke sare raste bnd ho gye sehat puri khrab ho gyi meine medical ke study ke hai lakin abhi tk kuch nhi kr payi Sehat ke wajh se khi jati nhi ristedaar ate hai toh bhi unse nhi milti jisse milti hu sb sehat bnnae ke baat bolte hai azeeb sarmindagi mahsus hoti hai koi bimari nhi hai jitna acche se khana khau kuch bhi kha lu sehat shi nhi hoti koi dua wazifa kerti hu toh aur buri sehat ho jati hai jinnat khwaab mein bht jyda presan kerta hai har waqt jadu kerta hai khwaab mein woh batata hai woh jadugar jinnat hai aur behad takatwer meine ab sare gunah chodh diye aur nmaj Quran tahzud sb kerti hu lakin masla hal nhi ho rha meine Allah se kaha tha mijhe iss maaf kr de ab gunah hoga toh mt maaf kerna kuke mujhe behad yakeen tha Allah se hidayt mangti thi gunaho se bachnne ke Lakin fir bhi saitani wasao se bahak gyi ab toh Allah se mafi mangti hu tb bhi Allah nhi sunta aur n Hallat acche ho rhe meri zindagi bilkul azaab ho gyi hai aur woh saitaan mujhe had se jyda presaan kr rha hai jaise Allah ne mujhe bilkul chodh diya har aman Astgfaar krkek thak gyi lakin koi fayda nhi hua meine kya kru plez meri help kre plez

Answer: Parwardigar e aalam ki rehmat se mayoos nahin hona chahiye Q keh Bad-gumani is had tak pohanch jaye ke khuda say maayosi ho jaye to ye gunah hai. aur Quraan ki roshni men Khuda ki rehmat se mayoos hona Kufr hai. lehaza har waqt Allah se umeed honi chahiye or mayoos nahin hona chahiye. Agar ye khauf kisi gunah ki wajah ho, misaal ke taur agar kisi ne koi gunah kiya ho to us ke liye tauba ka darwaza khula howa hai. aur Haqeeqi tauba ye hai ke gunah ki anjaam dahi par nidamat (pashemani) honi chahiye. or isi liye kaha gaya hay ke nidamat hi tauba hay. or waazeh hay rahay ke haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah ke na karne ke mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf na palatnay ke iraday ke saath hoti hay. or haqiqi naadim shakhs zaroor ba zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka azaala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay, taubah faqat astaghfirullaah kehnay se nahi ho jati, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk lazim hai, Albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tu bhi remat e Khuda se mayoos na ho balkeh zarori hai k dobarah tauba Karen, Q ke Khuda kareem or meherban hai, or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba kernay walon ko dost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: Aik lamha e fikr kerna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr kerna hay. or isi liay hadees main aaya hay: tanhaei main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo ke Khuda hazir or naazir (dekhne wala) hay.
(Ref: Surah Yousuf, Ayat #87. + Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011 ).
[Updated on 09-Feb-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam o alaikum! Agr ek orat jo shadi shuda hoo , us sy zinaa hojaey , or wo us py sharminda ho or toba kr li ho , to kya uska gunah maaf hojaeyga ? Ya is k mutalik kya raaey hai apki ? Ya wo kiya kary ?

Answer: 1: Agar kisi se ghunah sarzad ho jaye to agar wo sharmidagi ke sath aur sachay dil se tauba kare lay to yaqeenan Allah taala Gafoor o Raheem aur bakhshne wala hai aur use bhi yaqeenan bakhsh dega.
2: Inssan jab tauba karay to use ye yaqeen hona chahiye ke parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat buhat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q ke Parwardigar ne quran majeed mai wada kiya hai ke wo tauba karne walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waday par amal na karay.
3: Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi par nidamat hai. aur isi liye kaha gaya hay ke “ nidamat hi tauba hai ”. aur waazeh hay rahay ke haqeeqi nidamat hamesha gunah ke tark ke mazboot irade aur dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay ke irade ke saath hoti hai aur haqeeqi naadim shakhs chahe mard ho ya aurat, zaroor bil zaroor apne pichle gunahon ka izaala aur tadaruk karta hai. agar us ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho to khuda ki baarghaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho to anjaab day. aur agar huqooq e naas (logon ke huqooq) us ke zimmay hon to zaroori hai ke sahib e haq se us haq ka apne upar halal hone ki ijazat lay lay ya us ka haq us ko day day.
Taubah faqat " Astaghfirullah " kehne se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha ghunah ke tark karne ka mazboot irada or us ka tadaruk laazim hay. Albatta agar tauba ke baad gunah kare tub hi remat e Khuda wandi se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hai ke dobara tauba karay, Q ke Khuda kareen or meherban hai aur bakshnay wala hai. aur tauba karnay walon ko dost rakhta hai. Hadees shareef main hay ke: “ Aik lamha fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behtar hai” aur tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hai ke azmat e Khuda aur us ka apne bandon par haq aur khuda ka har jagah hazir o nazir hone par fikr karna hai. aur isi liye hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaei main bhi gunah ke anjaam dene se parhaiz karo ke Khuda haazir or naazir (dekhne) wala hai ”.

(Ref: Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, tauba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/. + E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 20-Mar-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: zina k maafi shadi se pehlay kesay mangi jaye

Answer: 2 rakat namaz ada karain is tarah ke har rakat main surah e al-Hamd ke baad 60 martaba surah e tauheed (surah qul ho walla ho ahad) parhain aur phir namaz se farig ho kar sachay dil se Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Barigaah main tauba karain.
(Ref: Mafaatih ul jinaan, topic gunaahon ki bakshish ke liye namaz, pg #244).
[Updated on 24-Mar-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assallam o allykum Ya Ali Madad. Sir mera sawal ye hai ke main syed ho jafri ho. Or me jis office main kaam karta ho wahan saary zaaani log hai or mjhy bhi force karty hai ke tm bhi zinah kro or larkiyon ki pix bhi dikhaty hai ke sirf 1500 rs me zinah hota hai. Karachi ke muqtalif ilaqon main zinah ke points moujood hai. Shukar Alhamdulilah abhi tak meny aisi koi harkat nahi ki. Magar me 1 2 dafa bahakk bhi chuka ho razamandi bhi ki ke chalo karty he ajj. Magar Allah ne mjhy bacha liya. Magar mera sawal ye he ke kab tak main is haram kaam se bachon ga. Mery mamu ki beti se meri engagement ko kafi time ho chuka hai. Or mery mamu har sall aik naii date de dety hai shadi ki. Mery mamu shadi ki date hi nahj de rahy. Agar mjh se koi gunah hogya tou wo kis ke sarr jaye ga. Main kab tak bachon ga is gunah se. Mammu ko samjha nahj sakty wo ghusa karty he. Agar khud kashi halal hoti tou me zahar kha kr mar jata. Me tou dua karta ho kash main paida hi nahi hota. Me rozana gunahon se bachta ho. Kiya kro kuch samjh nh ata

Answer: 1: Ghunahon se har waqt bachte rehna chahiye aur Taqwa e ilahi k zariye se is se nijaat hasil ki jaye or jin cheezon or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jaye. aur Allah Subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kiya jaye or ye is se bachne ke liye sakht koshish ki jaye.

2: Is ke alawa Gunahon se bachnein ke bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye hen k 1. mout ki yaad ko dil main bassaen, 2. ye tassawur karain ke khuda har waqt dekh raha hay, 3. khaas taur par namaz e shab ki pabandi karain, 4. Pakiza aur halal ghiza(foods) kahain…. etc.

3: Is ke alawa is se bachne or jinsi taskeen ka sharaei rasta sirf shadi hai Q ke agar koi shakhs shadi nah karnay ki wajah say Haram (zina wagera) men mubtala ho to us par wajib hay ke shadi karay.

4: Hazrat imam Ali Riza (a.s) se marvi riwayat k mutabiq waqt e zawaal(e aaftab) 150 baar "yaa quddoos" ka wird karne se dil noorani ho jata hay or is wird ki wajah se shaitaani waswason se aman mil jaati hay. aur waswase k liay "Laa haula walaa qoowwata illaa billaah" parhain.

(Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 . + kitab: Tark e ghunahan ke 40 tareeqe. + Tauzeeh ul masail, Aaytullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, Maslah #2407. + Dunya or akhirat ki 100 pareshaniyon ka hal, pg #20. Mafati jinah, pg #208).
[Updated on 05-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kya allah ma ke sath zinha maaf kr dega Kya allah shirk maaf kar dega

Answer: Quran e kareem main Allah ka farmaan hai ke: 'Allah is baat ko yaqeenan maaf nahin karta ke us ke sath (kisi ko) shareek thehraya jaye aur is ke alawa deegar gunaahon ko jis ke baray mein woh chahay ga maaf kar day ga aur jis ne Allah ke sath kisi ko shareek qarar diya us ne Allah per azeem gunah ka bohtan baandha'.
Aik aur maqam par Allah ka farman hai ke: 'Allah sirf shirk se dar guzar nahin karta is ke alawa jis ko chahay maaf kar deta hai aur jis ne Allah ke sath kisi ko shareek thehraya woh gumraahi mein door tak chala gaya'.
(Ref: Surah #4 Nisaa, ayat #48,116)

Note: waazih rahay ke surah e nisaa ki ayat #48 ka matlab yeh nahin ke shirk ke alawa baqi gunaahon ke irtikaab mein koi harj nahin balke yahan yeh batana maqsood hai Allah ki rehmat o mughfirat har gunah se ziyada wasee hone ke bawajood shirk is ke daire rehmat o mughfirat mein nahin aata, lehaza agar koi shakhs mushriq nah ho aur gunah gaar mar jaye to is ke saaray gunah maaf ho satke hain. lekin agar koi shakhs mushriq marta hai to us ke liye mughfirat ki koi gunjaish nahin. shirk yeh hai ke tadbeer kaayenaat mein Allah ke sath kisi aisay ko shareek banaye jo Allah ki tadbeer ke zail mein nahin aata hai. apne aap ko shirk billah (Allah ke sath shareek qarar dene) se door rakhnay ke baad momin ke liye is aayat mein bohat barri khushkhabri hai. hazrat Ali(a.s) se riwayat hai: ما فی القرآن ارجی من ھذہ الایۃ. is aayat se ziyada umeed afzaa aayat quran mein nahin hai.
(Ref: https://www.balaghulquran.com/index.php?sno=4&ano=48)

Aur surah e nisaa ki ayat #48 main jis maghfirat ka zikr hai us ke 5 asbaab hain: tauba, hasanaat (naikiyaan), gunah e kabira se ijtenaab, shafaat, khuda ka afu o darguzar, in asbaab ke baghair bakhshish ka koi tasawwur nahin hai. aur is ayat main wada nahin kia gaya hai ke shirk ke alawa har gunah ko maaf kar diya jaye ga balke masle ko mashiyat par moqoof kiya gaya hai ke jab tak insaan ko mashiyat ka ilm nahin hai use apni maghfirat ka intezaam khud karte rehna chahiye.
(Ref: Allama Zeeshan Haider Jawwadi ke tarjumay e quran ka Hashiya pg #204,205)

Gunaahon se tauba aham tareen umoor aur wajibaat me se hai.
Tauba ki haqeeqat gunaahon se pashemaan hona hai aur pashemaani aik qalbe amar hai (yani is ka talluq dil se hai) sirf (astaqferullah) kehna tauba ke liye kaafi nahin hai balke tauba ke liye haqeeqi taur par pashemaan hona zaroori hai aur agar waqean pashemaan ho jaaye to (astaqferullah) kehna lazim nahin hai agarche is ka kehna ehteyaat e mustahab hai (yani ehteyaatan behtar hai) aur tauba ke sharaei aasaar paaye jane ke liye do baatain lazim hain:
1) Insaan hatmi irada rakhta ho ke gunah ki taraf dubaara nahin palte ga.
2) Jo khuch bhi nafarmaani ki hai imkaan ki surat me shareat ke qanoon ke mutabiq islah kare; maslan jo wajibaat insaan par wajib the aur us ne use anjaam nahin diye hain maslan namaz, roza, hajj, zakaat wagaira, agar us amal ki qaza hai ya kaffara hai to un ki qaza kare ya kaffara ada kare yani use anjaaam de aur jin logon ka maali haq khaya hai ya koi maali nuqsaan punhchaya hai, wo un ko waapsi de ya is silsile me un loqon se un razamandi hasil kare.
yeh baat qabil e zikar hai ke agar koi shakhs tauba ke baad dobara gunah ki taraf lout jaye to use khuda ki rehmat se mayoos nahin hona chahiye balkay dobara tauba karni chahiye.
(Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail Jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #2, Edition #1443, Maslah #393).

Jis insaan se gunah hua hai wo Tauba kare, Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia hai ke wo tauba karne walon ki tauba ko qubool karta hai aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waade par amal na kare. aur gunah se bachne ke liye mazboot irada chahiye.
(Ref: sistani.org ques #1, tauba, link: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/).
[Updated on 19-Apr-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam u alikum sir mainay ye poochna tha agar koi insaan apnay cousin wagaira ko apni sharam gah ki tasweer bhaijh day or baad main usay ehsas hou mainay galat kiya tou kya allah say maafi mang kar us gunah ko maaf karwaya ja sakta ha

Answer: Jis kisi ne koi ghunah kiya ho to use chahiye ke wo sachay dil se tauba kare. aur Sache dil se tauba karne se Parwardigar e aalam yaqeenan muaf farmaye ga Q
parverdigar ne Quran majeed me wada kiya hai ke wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. Aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waday par amal na karay.

(Ref: website Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), tauba, link; https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ).
[Updated on 16-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Main ek shaks se bht muhabbat karti ho or humara 2 sal relationship bhi raha us relation mein kuch haram cheezein bhi hoi ab us shaks ko muj se muhabbat nhi hai wo mujhe chor gya hai lkin main abhi bhi muhabbat karti hu. Mujhe koi rasta batayein please. Main chahti hu nikkah karna lkin wo larka bhi toh maane naa

Answer: (Note: Is website par fiqh e jafferiya (shia mazhab) ke mutabiq jawabat diye jatay hain).

Sab se pehli baat to ye ke Shadi se pehle na-mehram ka apas me kisi bhi qisim ka relationship rakhna jaiz hi nahin hai. isi tarah shohar aur biwi ke alawa kisi aur tariqe se jinsi lazzat hasil karna harama aur gunah e kabira hai. aur agar relationship me zina bhi kar liya hai to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina zaani (zina karne wala) is larki ke tauba karne se pehle is se shadi nahin kar sakta. (yani jab tak wo larki is zina se tauba nahin kar leti ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par tab tak wo mard is larki se nikah nahin kar sakta.

(Ref: Minhaaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + Tauzeeh ul masail, edition #42, maslah #2364).
[Updated on 16-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mne 18 saal ki umr me ksi ko psnd kia or wo lrka mre sath dhoka krgia sirf jam ki hwas thi use or Jess khta me wesa krti gai ab life brbaad hogai h MRI to me toooba krun kese? Or socide krlun so that maa baap ko zilat ka samna na uthana pre q k ab mra rishta horha khin p but my life brbaad

Answer: 1: Jis insaan se ghunah hua hai wo Tauba kare, Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia hai ke wo tauba karne walon ki tauba ko qubool karta hai aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waade par amal na kare. aur gunah se bachne ke liye mazboot irada chahiye.
2: Ghunaahon se tauba aham tareen umoor aur wajibaat me se hai. Tauba ki haqeeqat gunaahon se pashemaan hona hai aur pashemaani aik qalbe amar hai (yani is ka talluq dil se hai) sirf (astaqferullah) kehna tauba ke liye kaafi nahin hai balke tauba ke liye haqeeqi taur par pashemaan hona zaroori hai aur agar waqean pashemaan ho jaaye to (astaqferullah) kehna lazim nahin hai agarche is ka kehna ehteyaat e mustahab hai (yani ehteyatan behtar hai) aur tauba ke sharaei aasaar paaye jane ke liye do baatain lazim hain:
1) Insaan hatmi irada rakhta ho ke gunah ki taraf dubaara nahin palte ga.
2) Jo khuch bhi nafarmaani ki hai imkaan ki surat me shareat ke qanoon ke mutabiq us ki islah kare.

(Ref: sistani.org ques #1, tauba, link: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ).
[Updated on 27-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agar koi ladki kisi ladke k sath haram rishta me thi aur uske sath zina ho jaye aur kisi wajah se usse breakup ho jaye fir kisi aur ladke sath haram rishta me aaye uske sath bhi zina ho jaye aur phir kisi teesere ladke ke sath haram rishte me aaye aur uske sath bhi zina ho jaye aur uss ladki ko gunah ka ehsaas ho to kya karna chahye

Answer: 1: Jis insaan se ghunah hua hai wo Tauba kare, Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia hai ke wo tauba karne walon ki tauba ko qubool karta hai aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waade par amal na kare. aur gunah se bachne ke liye mazboot irada chahiye.

2: Ghunaahon se tauba aham tareen umoor aur wajibaat me se hai.
Tauba ki haqeeqat ghunaahon se pashemaan hona hai aur pashemaani aik qalbi amar hai (yani is ka talluq dil se hai) sirf (astaqferullah) kehna tauba ke liye kaafi nahin hai balke tauba ke liye haqeeqi taur par pashemaan hona zaroori hai aur agar waqean pashemaan ho jaaye to (astaqferullah) kehna lazim nahin hai agarche is ka kehna ehteyaat e mustahab hai (yani ehteyatan behtar hai) aur tauba ke sharaei aasaar paaye jane ke liye do baatain lazim hain:
1) Insaan hatmi irada rakhta ho ke ghunah ki taraf dubaara nahin palte ga.
2) Jo khuch bhi nafarmaani ki hai imkaan ki surat me shareat ke qanoon ke mutabiq us ki islaah kare.

(Ref: sistani.org ques #1, tauba, link: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ ).
[Updated on 15-Jul-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamualaikum, mera sawal ye hai ky agar kisi namehram se apne mulakat ki hai or usne hath pakar kar chuma hai. lekin nadamat hai k aisa nahi hona chahye tha to is gunah ki maafi kaisy mangi jaye Allah se ...

Answer: 1: Jee bilkul agar wo nidamat aur sharmidagi ke sath aur sachay dil se tauba kare lay to yaqeenan Allah taala Gafoor o Raheem aur bakhshne wala hai. Aur haqiqat e tauba ghunah ki anjaam dahi par nidamat hona hai, isi liye kaha gaya hai ke “ nidamat hi tauba hai ”. aur waazeh hai rahay ke haqeeqi nidamat hamesha ghunah ke tark ke mazboot irade aur dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay ke irade ke saath hoti hai aur haqeeqi naadim shakhs chahe mard ho ya aurat, zaroor bil zaroor apne pichle ghunahon ka izaala aur tadaruk karta hai.
2: Taubah faqat " Astaghfirullah " kehne se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha ghunah ke tark karne ka mazboot irada or us ka tadaruk laazim hay. Albatta agar tauba ke baad ghunah kare tub hi remat e Khuda wandi se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hai ke dobara tauba karay, Q ke Khuda kareen or meherban hai aur bakshnay wala hai. aur tauba karnay walon ko dost rakhta hai. Hadees shareef main hay ke: “ Aik lamha fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behtar hai” aur tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hai ke azmat e Khuda aur us ka apne bandon par haq aur khuda ka har jagah hazir o nazir hone par fikr karna hai. aur isi liye hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaei main bhi ghunah ke anjaam dene se parhaiz karo ke Khuda haazir or naazir (dekhne) wala hai ”
3: Inssan jab tauba karay to use ye yaqeen hona chahiye ke parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat buhat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q ke Parwardigar ne quran majeed mai wada kiya hai ke wo tauba karne walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waday par amal na karay.

(Ref: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/ . + E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 12-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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