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87089
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni

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Question: Mera swal ye k kya nikha k qawt molvi sab ka ye puchna k; kya ap ko flan flan se nikha qabul he; ye puchna shariyat mein lazmi he dono se yan agr kisi ek se na pucha jay to kya nikha sahi trike se ho gya?me is liye puch rha hon kun k mere se nahi pucha gya tha lrki se pucha gya tha bss mene bss dastakhat kiye the.

Answer: Is tarah pochna laazmi nahi hay agar aap nikah per raazi thay tu aap ka nikah sahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah khumeni(r.a),Tauzeehul masail, maslah #2367). Update on dated 19-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
87102
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Mara sawal ye ha k jis tarha aj kal call pay nikah ho jata ha jab larka out of country ho to kya muttah b call pay ho jata ha????amny samny bethay hona zarori ha????yq nahi?????w.salam

Answer: Jee haan, ho sakta hay aamnay or samnay hona zarori nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Khoe(r.a),Tauzeehul masail, maslah #2379 ). (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). Jo lerki had e buloogh ko pohanch chuki ho or rasheeda ho yaani apni bhalae burae jaanch sakti ho agar wo shadi kerna chahay or kunwari ho tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per osay chahiay k apne baap ya dada se ijazat lay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Khoe(r.a), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2385). Update on dated 19-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
87092
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Asalam o alikum! Mujhe ek larki bohat pasand hai hum 4 5 saal se baat karahay hain abhi 9 mahine phelay hamara relation hua phir woh islami bohat thi tw maine usey phone p nikkah karliya proper tareeqay se nikkah kaa sawal usne pocha aur maine bhi aur donu ne qabool hai bola 3 dafa jaise houta hai aur gawaah uski 2no bhene thi jo baalil hai. Kia mera nikkah qabool hai?

Answer: Jo lerki had e buloogh ko pohanch chuki ho or rasheeda ho yaani apni bhalae burae jaanch sakti ho agar wo shadi kerna chahay or kunwari ho tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per osay chahiay k apne baap ya dada se ijazat lay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Khoe(r.a), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2385). Update on dated 19-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
86967
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Shia Nikha mn larkay k Seeghy Molvi Q parhta hy

Answer: Q k wo sahi tareeky say parh saktay hen warna zarori nahi hy k molvi hi parhy, balky dholaha or dhulhan khud bhi parh sakty hen. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2333 ). Update on dated 19-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
86982
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khamnaie

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Question: AOA kya shohar aur bewi akhatty naha sakty hai??

Answer: Jee haan, jaiz hsy. (Ref: Minhajus saliheen jld# 3, Maslah#11). Update on dated 14-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
86989
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mra sawal ye hy k agr larka or larki gunnah s zinna s bchna chahty hain tw wo nikkah kr skty hain bgr gawah k?

Answer: Gawahoon ka hona zarori nahi hy lekin, Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day, or yehi hukum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341). Update on dated 14-02-16. (Khuda aap ko U7oom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
86999
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia msgs par nikkah ho jta ha ha jasy k larka apna or apny walad ka name likh k larki sy pochy k ma kabol hn apko or asy e larki b larky sy pochy pasy or apna or apny walad ka name LA k na koi gawah ho na gar walk ki marzi na molvi to kia asy nikkah ho jata ha.

Answer: Nikah k sahe hone ki khuch shara,it hain jin k baghair nikah sahi nahi hota jin me se khuch ye hain (nikah k alfaaz ) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay albatta inhe chaie k wo alfaaz kehe jo zawwajto aur qabilto ka mafhoom ada kare maslan phele mahar moiyan karne k baad daime nikah me larki yu kehe k mene is mahar per jo moiyan ho chukka hai apne aap ko tumhari biwi banaya aur is k lamhe bhar baad mard kehe k mene is isdewaaj ko qabool kiya to nikah sahe hai Agar merd or aurat khud daimi nikah ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ka meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee alal mahril ma’loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328-2335,2341,2342). Update on dated 13-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84800
Mujtahid:

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Question: Assalam o alikum! mne ghr walo or larky ko saf mana kr deya tha k moghy es larky se nikah nhi krna lqn onhn ne moghy mar peat k zaberdasti nikah k signatures krwa liye lqn mne apne moo se qabool nhi kaha or dil se b qabool nhi kia or us k or mere dermiyan koi b taluq nhi hy meri ruksati b nhi hoi na koi miya bv wala taluq hy or us se sakht nafrat hy moghy me kisi or se piyar krti thi or krti ho ab kia kro me sb k samne us se nikah krne k liye jis se piyar krti ho moghy ab talaq leni pry gi ya nikah hi nhi howa ???? boht preshan ho plz meri madad kry kia krna pry ga moghy us se nikah krne k liye jis se piyar krti ho jo zaberdasti nikah howa hy phly wo jaiz nhi hy tu b talaq leni pry gi ab ??? me sunii ho

Answer: Ye nikah batil hay. Is nikah ki koe haisiyat nahi. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2335 ). Update on dated 09-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain.

Id:
84812
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia larka or larki Apas me dil sy husband wife man k rah sakty hain ya apas me nikah kar salty hain

Answer: Kunwari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). Update on dated 08-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84813
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar larka larki sub sy chup k alag akely Apas me husband wife bun k rahna chahin to kia karin

Answer: Kunwari(virgin) larki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). Update on dated 08-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84816
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kya islam may husband ka penis and wife ki vagina suck karna jaiz hai ?

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaey. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf .org). Update on dated 08-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84817
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia suni larka shia larki sy shadi kr sakta ha agar wo donu ak dusry sy bht mohbt krty hon

Answer: Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel hone ka khouf na ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte ha.laikin phir bhi aurat k liay is mard se shadi karna makrooh hay. Aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to shia larki k liye is mard se shadi jaiz nahi hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th). Update on dated 08-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84818
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mera aik jaga rishta hua mgr shadi se pehle he mje meray honay wali bivi ne btaya k uska 13 sal ki umar se le ker 19 sal ki umar tak musalsal rape hota rha..ab mje btaen muje kia krna chaeay..shadi kerni chaeay k nahi..

Answer: Aap us say shadi kr sakty hen, lekin Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per is aurat se o ski toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364). Update on dated 08-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84827
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: assalam alekum kya sayyed ladki hindu ldke se nikah kr skti h .

Answer: Aghr wo islam qabool kr ly or shia ho jaey to shia merd se nikah ker sakti hain Q k “shariyat k laihaaz se aik muslim merd musalman aurat ka kufu(equivalent) hay or aik momin merd momina aurat ka kufu(equivalent) hay{yani in ki apas main shadi ho sakti hay}.Shia Sayed merd ka nikah ghiar syeda shia aurat k saath hosakta hay or isi terah syedah shia aurat ka nikah ghair syed shia merd k saath hosakta hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #214,221 ). Update on dated 02-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
87103
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Jasa k aj kal door honay ki waja say call pay b nikah ho jata ha....to kya call pay mutah b ho sakta ha agar larka larki amnay samnay na hon to

Answer: Jee haan, ho sakta hay. Aamnay or saamnay hona zarori nahi hay. Ref: (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2335 ). Update on dated 17-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak keh lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. or yehi hukum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341). Update on dated 12-01-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
87104
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Pakistan may aksar asa hota ha k jab larka larki kisi galat kam may pakray jatay hen to unki shadi karwa di jati ha....to kua shia maslak may ye jaiz ha k jis say zina kia ho us say bad may nikkah b kia ja sakay

Answer: Jis shakhs nay kisi bay shohar aurat sai zina kia ho aur os say shadi karna chahae to is k liay ehtiyaat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat k toba karnay say pehlay nikah nah karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235) Update on dated 12-01-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
85031
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamoalekum muje aap se Ye puchna hai pati patni phone me baat karte hai pyar vali sex ki or becheni hoti hai or fir sukun lagta hai to gusal karna hota hai orat ke liye

Answer: Shohar or bivi aik doosray fehesh (sexy) batain ker sakte hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11). wo rutubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Khaarij hoti hay agar is Had tak ho keh usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day , jo aam taur par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga.or isi terah bina ber ehtiyaat e wajib agar hejaan e shewat ki intayha tak bhi nah pohanchay magar paani inta ziyada ho kitna pooririzamandi k mauqay per kharij hota hay.(yani aisi sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per ghusl wajib hoga).(Ref:tauzeeh ul masail ayatollah seestani edition 39 maslah 345) Update on dated 30-12-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84418
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar hum bv ke sath pyar ki hd me hokr piche ki trf wo kam anjam de jo age hota hai to kia ye sai hai

Answer: Agar biwi raazi ho to ye kaam kia jaa sakta hay albatta ye fail shadeed makrooh hai or is say ghusl wajib ho jata hay.(Ref: http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/). Update on dated 26-12-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84421
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kiya 10 muharram guzranay k sham e gareeban k bad late east ko rat Ko humbistri Kar satay husband wife

Answer: Muharram main hambistari jaiz hay. (http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). Update on dated 26-12-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84422
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mera showher mmere saath charsal se nahi na kuch haq ada karta hai aur intehai awara hai talaq paper per nahi dunga latka ker rakhunga kehta hai teen saal ki la taluqi nikah ko kharij karti hai ye sonch ker maine shadi karli mera ek bachcha is hali shoher se hai ab mai ye baad se pareshan hu kya mera nikah jayez hai agar nahi to ab mujhe kya karna chahiye

Answer: Aik shohar daar aurat ka kisi se shaadi karna haram hay lehaza jo aap ne baad mai shadi ki hai (jo k shadi nahi hai) zaroori hai k us shohar sai talaaq liay baghair hi alag ho jain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2366 ). or pehle wala hi shohar aap ka shohar hai, haan jahan tak baat hai k wo aap ka haq adaa nahi karta or naan o nafqa nahi daita tu us k lie aap ko chahiay k hakim shara ki taraf rujoo karain or un ko apna masla paish karain or un sai apni talaq ka mutaliba karain. (Ref:jadeed fiqhi masail ayatollah sistani masla no 428 page 241). Update on dated 22-12-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84425
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamualaikum mujhe ye nikha pasand nai tha lekin ghar walaoun ke dabou me kiya magar main ne sirf do bar khubul hai bola tees ri dafa nai bola kiya mera nikha hogaya

Answer: w.salam nikah k liay mard or ourat dono ka razi hona shart hay warna nikah sahi nahi hoga. Haan gar nikah k baad aurat raazi ho jaey tub hi kaafi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2335 point#5). Update on dated 22-12-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84437
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia 18 sal sai chota bachon ki shadi jaiz ha ya nahi

Answer: Jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2340 ). Update on dated 17-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84444
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kya anal sex krne se nikkah tutt jata hai? Or kya Islam main licking jaiz hai urat or mard dono main?

Answer: 1)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna(yani anal sex) biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). 2) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). Update on dated 17-11-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84452
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: janab hame janna hai ki kaya hum chand ki 3,13,9,18 ki tarikh ko nikah kar sakte hai ?

Answer: Jaiz hay. Albattah qamar dar aqrab or chand ki on aakhri tareeh main jin main chand chup jaata hay, nikah kerna makhrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #3). Update on dated 16-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84598
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar koi ladka kisi shadi suda aurat se zina kr leta hai or uski mafi mang leta hai or fir usi aurat ki beti se us ladke ka nikah ho jay to kya layak hai uska nikal

Answer: Agar koi shohar daar aurat sai zina karey tou ahtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamesha k liye haraam ho jati hai.or agar koi shaks naozubillah apni khala ya phuphi k ilawa kisi or aurat sai zina karay tu ehtiyaat e mustahab hai k us ki beti sai shadi nah karay.(yani behtar hay k os se shadi nah kare). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah # 2359,2361 &2367 ). Update on dated 09-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84601
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Is it allowed for a wife to touch herself until she is nearly ready to release and then her husband takeover and help her release?

Answer: Ager istimna (jima ke ilawa kisi or tareqe se mani nikaalna) shohar o bivi ke dermiyaan ho to jaiz hai jese shohar bivi ke zarye apni mani nikale jima ke bageer, or is hi terhan bivi shohar ke zarye jima ke bageer mani nikale, or ager is sorat ke ilawa ho - chahe mard o orat kud apni apni mani nikalain ya ik mard ajnabi orat ke zarye ya orat ajnabi mard ke zarye mani nikale - to haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b. Update on dated 15-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84605
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalam o alikum. G mera sawal ye hae k kia sunni larki shia larky se nikkah jaiz h? Hamare Nabi pak S.A.w.w ne ijazat di hae iski ya nh .hmare mazhab mae h ya nh ijazat.

Answer: Shia larka nasibiyon k elawa dusre sunni firqon ki larki se shadi kr sakta hai, albatta agr us shia larke ko apne deen se gumrah hone ka khoof hoto phir ye shadi krna haram hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah # 215-221, Eidition 1417 hij) Update on dated 14-11-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
84608
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar ek larka ek larki se be inteha muhaabbat krta hai or larki k ghar wale us larke k lye razi ni hote to larka us larki ko zbrdasti apne ghar bulata hai bar bar uske sath zina krta hai or kehta hai k apne maa baap ko razi kro lekin larki k maa baap us larke k lye razi ni hote to wo larka ghar bula kr uske sath zina krta hai usy torture krta hai or jb us larke ko yaqeen hojata hai k wo larki ab uske ghar ni askegi to wo larka kisi or se shadi krleta hai to islam is bare main kya kehta hai k kis ka zada qusoor hai or uski saza unka relation 1 saal rha hota hai wo larka shuru se he us larki k sath pak relation ni rkhta or usy shadi ka kehta hai lekin jb relation he napak hoto sachi muhabbat ho ni sakti plzz is bare main bataen k islam kya kehta hai kis ka zada qusoor hai or islam main saza is ki??

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69).or jo larki kunwari ho balig ho aur apni zindagi k umoor khud anjam na deti ho tou us k liye zaroori hai k agar wo shadi karna chahey tou apne baap ya dada sai ijazat le or agar zindagi k umoor khud anjam na deti ho tou bhi ahtiyat e wajib ki bina par baap ya daada sai ijazat lena zaroori hai.(Ref:tauzeeh ul masail ayatollah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2349). Zina gunah kabira hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen, jild#1, maslah #30 ). Update on dated 14-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84613
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mai Islam me convert Ho gaya hu meri saadi kisse hogi kisi muslim ladki se ya hindu

Answer: Musalmaan mard kafir aurat(hindu)sai nikah nahi kar sakta.musalmaan aurat sai kar sakta hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2362 ). Update on dated 11-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84619
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam, Mera Sawal Hai.. Shaadi Ke Waqt Larki Ke Ghar Waalon Ka Apne Baron Se Faislaa Lena Laazim Hai? Yaa Larki Ki Maa Baap Ki Faislaa Zaroori Hai? Please Detail Mein Batayein..

Answer: Wa alaikum salam, kunwari larki ko shadi k liay baap ya dada sai ijazat lena zaroori hai ,agar larki zindagi k umoor main khud mukhtar hay tab bhi ahtiyat e wajib ki bina par baap ya dada sai ijazat lena zaroori hai albatta maa sai ijazat lena lazmi nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2341 ). Update on dated 11-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84621
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Shadi shuda larki apna shohar ki ijazat lakar doosra nikkah kar sakti hai.. Yani ek waqt ma 2 nikkah nibha sakti hai

Answer: Aik shohar daar aurat ka shadi karna haraam hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2366 ). Update on dated 09-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84625
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Asalam u alekum Kia shadi shuda bachoun wala sunni mard shia syeda se shadi ker sakta hy jab k donoun aik doosray ko pasand b kertay houn. Larka 35 aur larki 15 ho. I think larki k waldain to qatan nhi chahain gay but larki har haal main shadi ke khwaahish rakhti ho aur na kerne ke soorat kisi ghalat iqdaam ka khadsha ho.

Answer: Wo Kunwari larki jo khud mukhtaar nah ho os k liay apne wali (baap ya dada) ki ijazat zaruri hai. Or agar lerki khud mukhtaar ho tu os k liay apne wali (baap ya dada) ki ijazat ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina per zaruri hai.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2328-2335) Update on dated 30-10-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84631
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assala mu alaikum! Mera sawal yeh h k Meri ek frnd ny as a 2 gawah k samny us k czn sy us ka b ek gawa Tha dono ny ek dusry ko kaha k may Saab k samny husband n wife qabul krti/ krta hn So,Kya yea nikha ho Gaya h ya nhi Ghr walo ko kch nhi pata only girls side 2 gawah thy or boy side ek gawa Tha...?

Answer: Was-salam. Nikah karne k liye kuch sharaet hai jin ka khayal rakhna zaroori hai.nikah mai ye concept nahi k sub k saamne qubool kar liya to nikah hogaya balkeh nikah mai seeghe parhe jaatey hai,doosri baat jo larki baligh ho kunwari hai or zindagi k umoor apne ikhtiyaar sai anjaam na deti ho tou agar wo shadi karna chahey tou zaroori hai k wo apne baap ya daada sai ijazat le balkeh agar zindagi k umoor apne ikhtiyaar sai anjam deti ho tab bhi ahtiyat e wajib ki bina par apne baap ya dada sai ijazat le albatta maa sai ijazat lena lazim nahi.lehaza ye jo nikah kia gaya hai wo sahi nahi hai q k ye nikah apni sharait par nahi utarta. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2335 &2340 ). Update on dated 28-10-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84226
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: muharum main biwi k sath humbistri karna jaiz hai ya nahi

Answer: Muharram main hambistari jaiz hay. (http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). Update on dated 26-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
83941
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kya chand garehan khatam hone ka foran bad mian bv hambistri kar skte hen

Answer: Chand girhan ki raat main ya soraj girhan k din main hambistari kerna jaiz hay laikin makhrooh hay. Yani soraj girhan lagne k baad se poora din hambistari kerna makhrooh hay or is tarah chand girhan lagne k baad se poori raat ghambistari kerna makhrooh hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part #3 masla #). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Update on dated 14-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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83908
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: agr ek shadi shuda mard shadi ke baad zina kare kisi aurat se tu kya uski biwi us pe haram hai

Answer: Os mard per oski bivi haram nahi hogi. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2367). Update on dated 13-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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83903
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Question: ASSALAMUALAIKUM kya mohoram me biwi ko mayke bhejnaa jaruri hai please jald se jald bataaye

Answer: Shohar per zarori nahi hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part #3 masla #338). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Update on dated 13-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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83905
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mera sawal ya hai...k jab ek larka or ak larki ki shadi hoti hai or wo 7 months tak ek dusre ko touch tak na kare.or ek dusray ko pasaed b na kare tu kai wo nikha rehta hai plz mjy is ka ans bata de

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reson) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha Seestani,maslah #2382). Note: Shohar agar apni jawaan bivi se 4 mahinay se ziyada hambistari nah kary tu nikah batil nahi hay.(Ref: E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: 27.04.12). Update on dated 13-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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83871
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mai aur ek ladki dono ek dusre s bht pyar krte the pr wo ghr p bat nhi kr saki aur mje bina btaye usne kisi aur s apnr ghrwalo ki mrzi s shadi kr li hai ab kya uski talaq ho kr mjse shadi ho skti hai mje behtar rai dijiye

Answer: Agar koe aadmi kisi aurat ko warghalaay k wo apne shohor se muta,alliq azdawazi zimmedariyaan pori nah karay takeh is terah shohor ose talaq daine per majbor hojaay or wo khud os aurat k saath shadi ker sakay tu talqa or nikah sahi hay.Laikin dono ne bohot berha gunah kia.(yani aurat or os ko behkane walay ne).(Ref: Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah# 2502). jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Update on dated 11-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
83872
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Delivery k bad mian biwi mil skty hai apus main ya nai

Answer: Jee, delivery k baad hambistari ki jaa sakti hay laikin aurat ka haiz or nifas se paak ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #504). Update on dated 11-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
83873
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Delivery k bad mian biwi mil skty hai ya nai

Answer: Jee, delivery k baad hambistari ki jaa sakti hay laikin aurat ka haiz or nifas se paak ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #504). Update on dated 11-09-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
83772
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: agr koi shadi shuda larki kisi gair maed ke sath hambistri karti ha to aya ke us ka us ke husband ke sath ikkah toot jaye ga ya nhi

Answer: Agar sohardar aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zina kernay walay shakhs sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai. Laikin shohar per haram nahi hogi.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 36th edition, maslah # 2367). Update on dated 09-09-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
81773
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kya maa baap ki mrzi k bagher Shadi ki ja skti hai

Answer: Baligh larka maan or baap ki ijazat k baghair nikah ker sakta hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part #3 masla #68). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Update on dated 24-08-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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81775
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalam O Alikum.. Molana sab mera nikah hua .. Jis larki say hua woh bhi mjhsay pyar karti thi.. hum 2no nay families ko agree kar k nikah kiya .. par rukhsati nhi hui abhi tak.. Us larki ki Lahore job hogae.. woh wahan chali Gae.. aur phir kahti hai k mjhy kisi aur larkay say pyar hogya hai.. ab esi surat e haal mn Allah k Kia Ahkamat hain Us aurat k Liye

Answer: Jab tak nikah hai, wo aap ki zojah hai or wo kisi se niakh nahi ker sakti. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2376). Update on dated 24-08-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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81787
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Sir kia bv ko ungli daal ker release kia ja skta ha?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein. laikin jism k hissay k alawa koi aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi kr saktay.or shohar ka bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal sakta hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236).Update on dated 14-08-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: biwi k sath pechy se jima kal lia hai to is ka kufara kya hai

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back )k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. Aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335). Update on dated 20-07-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)..

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81011
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Aso sir mera question hai k mera nikah zabardasti hoa hai me dil sy is k liye tyar nhi thi lakin agr me inkar krti to mere ghar wale muje mar dete me ny nikah pr signature to kiye hain lakin qabol nhi kiya aur larke k sath mere koi talukat nhi hain me kisi aur ko pasand krti hon ab us sy nikah krna chahti hon larka Bi razi hai kya aisi surat me nikah ho sakta hai? Pls ans krain me suni hon

Answer: Aap ka nikah durust nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2338). Update on dated 14-06-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
79755
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Pregnant ki haalit main biwi se pic mang sakty hai pait ki k nhi

Answer: Jaiz hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, part#3,Mafhoom e Maslah #12). Update on dated 30-05-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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78758
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamualaikum biwi pregnant hai aur usi halat me talakshuda b hai aur phir usi husband se phr se nikha karne ka kya fatwa hai Agar nikha jayaz hai tho kab karsakte hai

Answer: Talaq e rije main iddat k doran ruju ker k bivi banaya jasakta hay or agar oski iddat khatam hone k baad ruju kia jaey tu os se nikah ker k os ko bivi banaya ja sakta hay. ker.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2475). Update on dated 04-05-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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78570
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: agar kisi sy zina ho jata hy to kia farz hy k us larki sy lazman nikah kiya jae?

Answer: 1)Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 36,Mafhoom e Maslah #2364). Update on dated 26-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). Note: jis aurat se zina kia ho os se shadi kerna lazim nahi hay.