QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: mera swal ye hai ki jab husbnd wife hambistri karte hai tb jaise b.p. me mard orat ki sarmgah ko jibh se sehlata hai kya biwi ki khushi k liye aisa krna jayaj hai ya nahi

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgah sai niklnay wali ratoobat Halaq mia nah jaay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Sistani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera ques. ha ke koi larki ap c age m 10 sal barae ho.us k aik jaga nikah hoa ho bt ruqsati se phle e tot jae.kia me us se nikah kar sakta hn

Answer: Agar sahi tareeqay sai talaq di gae ho aur aurat ki iddat bhi khatam ho gae ho to os aurat sai nikah ho sakta hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2338-2508)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: asslam e alikum sir mera ouzu bhot chota hei hei to me kaya karo or me koi hakeem ki ya koi tablates nhi khai take nuksan na ho ap koi munasib hal batayen ya hakeem ke pas jana munasib hei ya nhi

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k hay harm hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ).Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: jo log jaan booj kr nikah nahi krna chahte Quran o sunnat ki roshni main kya hukam hai

Answer: Shadi un mustahabbat mai sai hai jin ki islam mai bohat ziada takeed ki gae hai , Rasool e Khuda s.a.w.w. ka farman hai k : “jo shakhs shadi kar leta hai wo apna adha deen bacha leta hai”.
naiz aap s.a.w.w. nai farmaya : “Jo shakhs meri sunnat ki perwi krna chahta hai (osay maloom hona chahea k) meri sunnat mai sai aik shadi hai”.
Is k alawa jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai apnay aap ko fail e haram sai na bacha sakay os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 385,397 pg # 231,234) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ABOUT NIKAH

Answer: Nikah k zarie aurat, mard par aur mard aura tar halal ho jatay hain aur Nikah ki 2 qismain hain 1. daimi(permanent marriage), 2. gair daimi (temporary marriage). Nikah e daimi osay kehtay hain jis mai izdiwaj ki muddat tay na ho aur wo hamisha k lie ho, aur gair daimi wo nikah hai jis mai izdiwaj ki muddat moiien (decide) ho maslan aurat k sath aik ghantay ya ya din ya aik mahinay ya aik sal ya is sai ziada muddat k lie aqad kia jae. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, nikah k ahkam) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: bapp ka ajazat bagair ladki shadi kar sakta hai ki nahi

Answer: kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yaha kawari nah honay say murad sirf ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaq yafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay sohar nay oskay sath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zaroorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zaroori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna lazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ager biwi ka dhood muon ma ajay or thook de tu kia ahkumat hain

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay lekin shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jay(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A-O-A Sir me yeh poochna chahta hoon k kya shadi k baad apni wife ko suck kr skty hain.

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay lekin shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jay.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aoa...mere qstn ye hy k meri age 18yrs hy, mere father meri shadi krna chahte apne nephew se jo mujh se 12 saal bare hen me is rishte se khush ni or kafi had tak meri mother b, or sb se bari bat ye hy k papa jn se meri shadi krna chahte hen wo b mujh se shadi krna ni chahte..mene papa ki khushi k liye han to kr di pr ye rshta mere liye cmpromiz k elawa kch ni ab mujhe smjh ni araha mene sahi kia ya ni? Agr me is rshte se inkar krti hun to hmari familz me bht se ikhtalafat paida ho jaen ge?

Answer: 1)Maa ya baab , apnay betay ya beti ko shadi per majboor nahi kar sakte.(ref.jadeed masail, aqa sistani, pg no: 57)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
2)Nikah k sahi hone ki sharait me aik ya hai k aurat aur mard nikah per razi hon. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2335 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya apni biwi ke sath pechli taraf mubashrat ker sakty hain

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 ).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: I want to know can you talk sexy things with your husband while he is not living with you. I feel myself aroused when I listen to him . Is it right?

Answer: Yes husband and wife have permission to frivolous talk. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: MERA SAWAL HE K SHADI K BAD APNI BIVI K SATH JINNABT ISLAMIC TARIQE SE KESE KI JAI TAK K KHAWAND OR BIVE DONO KA KOI LOSS NA HO PHISYCALL

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera ap sy swal ye hy k main syed hu lakin ghair syed larky sy shadi krna chahti hu lakin ghr waly nae man rhy ap btaen mjy kya krna chahye please zaroor btaeye ga or sath koi aesa wazifa b btaen jis sy mery ghr waly maan jaen.plz mjy zaroor jawab dijeay ga.

Answer: 1)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342)
2)wazifa : Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)
Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Ek larki hai jo mujhe bhai kheti hai chahe dil se ya maa baap ke dar se lekin mujhe us larki se pyar hai tu meri us se shahdi jaz hai egr hai tu mein us ke sath jismani taluqat qaim kar sakta ho keya?

Answer: Ye aurat aap k lie na mehram hai is lie aap is aurat sai nikah kar saktay hain. Albetta jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna aur baat cheet karna jaiz nhi q k gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Molana sb mein bohit pershan hon meri shadi hony wali hey or mein mardana kamzoori mujhay kafi hey or meri pennis bhi kam hey or mujhay ihtlam bhi hota hey kawab mein to mani nhn karaj hoti meri help keren ap ki bari mehrbani ho gee

Answer: 1) jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2) Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). .Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: is it harram or gunah to do viginal sex with wife from back side

Answer: Anal intercourse with the wife if she is not agreed with this act it is forbidden obligatory precaution. And if she is agreed with this act it is highly abominable(makrooh). (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mera sawal yeh hy k kya shadi k baad bivi k boobs suck kr skta hy...

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay lekin shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir myra sawal ye hai kay wife kay kis jaga sex kiya jye kay dono jag sex kiya jaskta hai islam main is kay barye min kaya batya gya hai

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalam-aley kum kya agar koi hindu apna mazhab change kar dey to vo ek syed ladki se shadi kar sakta ladki k liye kya sharah hogi aise condition mai agar ladki bhi usse pasand karti ho par ma bap na raazi ho.

Answer: Hindu jab muslman ho jae to os k sath shadi jaiz ho gi albetta Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341-42)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera penis terha hai main kia kru boaht preshan hu meri galtion ki waja se hua hai.

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kia husband apni wife ka doodh pee sakta hai. Jab kay wo pregnent ho. ye koe bhi sorat ho

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay lekin shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: humbistr ka duran aurt ki sharm gha ko chomna ya chosna jayz ha kia plz plz jaldi answer da plz

Answer: Shohar aur biwi dono aik doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay sai mas kar saktay hain ya choo saktay hain chahaey lazzat se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam kya hum aurat ki sharam gha ko muse bosa le sak te hai plz mujhe reply kare

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mera sawal hai k anul sex haram hai hai to is ka kya kaffara hoga?

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari karna biwi k razi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho to jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. Aur is ka kaffara nhi hai.(ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kia 2 balig log apna nikha khud apni zubani kr skty hn? Or Allah k Bgair kis or gwah k?

Answer: 1)Nikha ka sigah aurat aur mard khud parh saktay hain ya kisi ko vakil bhi bna saktay hain ta k wo in ki taraf sai nikah parh dai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328)
2)Nikah k lie gawah karna mustahabb hai aur zaroori nahi hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 3) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salam sr mra swal ya hy k my ny suna hy k bevi ko pechy ky maqam sy sex krny sy nka tot jata hy kya ya sch hy plz anser me

Answer: (Back sai jima krnay sai nikah batil nahe hota hai)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Islam mai behan k rishtay k lie kia hokum hai?

Answer: Aurat or os k wali(baap/dada) k lie behtar hai k on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka sohor main hona zarori hay. aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo dendar,pak daman,or baa akhlaq ho. sharabi na ho or burai or muhliq gunaho ka irtekab na karta ho (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 387 pg # 232 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Aoa, janab mujay yee pochna hai kai kya murd or urat humbestry kai waqat kya ayk dosray kai her uzo (uzaye tansal.urat ke peshab wali jagha)pai hath laga saktay hain ya nahi .or islam mai hum bestry kai leye kya ahkam hain ..

Answer: 1)Shohar aur biwi dono aik doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay sai mas kar saktay hain ya choo saktay hain chahaey lazzat se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) 2) Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: nikah say pehly agar hamal thar jay tu kya us halat ma nikah ho sakta ha?

Answer: Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mera question yeh hai ki mera ek dost ek ladki se pyaar karta hai. Lekin woh ladki hindu hai . To kya yeh pyar jayez hai?

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai. ( Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
2)Musalman mard kisi kafir aurat sai nikah nahi kar sakta hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2362)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: A.A SIR mera masla yeh ha k main apni khala ki beti ko pasand kar ta hoon aur us say shadi karna chata hoon mere family aur us ki family walay kehtay hain ke meri cousin nay childhood main meri maa ka doodh(MILK) piya howa ha mera us say rishta nahi ho gaa.meri cousin nay yeh doodh meri sister k sath childhood main piya tha jo k mujh say 5years chooti ha.kuch k thought ha k mera meri cousin k saath rishta ho sakta ha kyon k us nay meri sister k saath dooth piya ha lekin mere saath nahi .ek do molvi say bhi meri baat howi jo kehtay haain k shadi kar sakta hoo .aap ka kya khayal ha tell me now koi quran ki surat ke hawalay bhi es problem k baray main batain.

Answer: Agr doodh tamam shara-it k sath pilaya gaya hai tou Shadi nahi ho sakti aur wo apki behn hai.(Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2434)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalamualaikum, Mera sawal bas itna hai ke Sihar apne biwi ka doodh pee sakta hai ya nahi, ye haram hai ya maqrooh

Answer: Shohar biwi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur mooh mai doodh aajaye, to ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh na piya jaey(Ref:AyatUllahSeestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) .Update on dated 06-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir plz mjhy mery qestion ka ans den kia quran pak r ALLAh ko hazir nazir jan k nikah ho skta h agr koi b or gawah mojod na ho?????

Answer: 1)Nikah main gawaho ka hona or nikah ka ailan kerna wajib nahi hay balkeh mustahab hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#3, maslah#3 )
Is k alawa nikah ki chand shrtain hain. 1.Ehtiyaat e wajib he ke segah sahi arabi me parha jae. 2.ye k mard aur orat ya uska wakeel sigha parhte waqt qasde insha rakhte hon. 3 sigha parhne wala zarori hai k aaqil ho aur agr apnay lie parhay tou balig bhi ho. 4)wakeel k lie mard aurat muaiyan hoon 5)mard aur aurat shadi per razi hoon. (Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2335)
2)kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabar(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zaroori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Can Husband & Wife can make love (kiss, hung,)& also sleep togather?

Answer: Yes they can. (Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3, masla # 11).Update on dated 06-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya wife aapne husband ke penis ko kiss ker sakti hy ya nahi

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref:AyatUllahSeestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 06-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir mera penis bohat chota hai, mai kaise bada karo.plz plz

Answer: 1)Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertayhain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large &straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzoe tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaame nihaani (yani sharamgaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharamgaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada berahona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k terha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wosharamgaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharamgaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakhthona zarori he k aurat ki sharamgaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ) 2)Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k hay harm hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ).Update on dated 06-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kindly tell me about muttah? and conditions of muttah? is muttah allowed with married women who has separated from his husband but not divorced and no physical relations.

Answer: Yes he can, but this act is haraam and gunaah e kabeera so do toba.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364) Update on dated 20-11-2015.(Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)

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Question: Aoa: Sir mera question ye ha mere ek czn h wo mjhse buht pyar krti the r hum ne romance kya mera dil nae krta tha lekn phr us sy bos o kinar ki r uske ilawa fingering ki aur usne mere peni ko suck kya me pochna chahta ho kya ye zinah ha plz iska kufara kya hoga mjhe bata dy meherbani hogi from syed atif

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) or eska kaffara nahi hota aap sachey dil se toba kar lijye. (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 16) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: b.v k sath mubashrat krny ka sahe tareeka kia ha tafseel sy batain. neez kon si position me krna behtar ha

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: as salam alikum.mera sawal hai k kaya ek larka apni sali se shadi kar sakta hai jab k us ki biwi b mojod ho

Answer: Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat se shadi karay to chahiay wo daimi nikah karay ya mutaa karay jab tak wo aurat is k nikah me he wo shakhs oski behan se shadi nahi kar sakhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355). Note: Quran main sorah nisaa ki ayat #23 main bhi is hokum ka zikr aya hay k “tum per haram kia gaya hay k …………. do behno ko (nikah main) jama karo…” (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Aslamo alikum sar mra sawal ya ha k mra penis dhila ha khara b ho to loos rehta ha or jab me bivi k pas ham bistari k ley jao to itni jaldi titght b nhi hota jaldi discharg ho jata ha plz hel kare na ma qatar me rhta hon mri shdi ko ak mahena hua ha mri 25 sal ha yaha sar homiopethic nhi mile plz help me

Answer: 1)Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). 2)Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k hay harm hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ) 3)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Asslam.o.Alaikum Meri 2nd Wife meri izzat nahi karti us main intiha ki magroori hai muj se galiyoun main baat karti hai apni doston aur apne rishtedaron se izzat se aur pyar se paish aati hai meri maa ko bhi galiyan deti haimain us se pher bhi beintiha ishq karta hon aur marte dum tak karoo ga. Woh bahana bana ke apni maa ke ghar ja ke aik mahine se ziyada ruk jati hai aur pher wahan mere leye darwaza band karwa deti hai apni doston se milti hai paise bhi mujh se mangwati hai. Main shadeed zehni aziyat ka shikar hon mujhe ye batain ke meri wife mujh se mohabat karti hain aur keya shohar ki marzi ke bina woh apni doston ke sath ghoom sakti hai jab ke shohar se bhi na mile aur na usay kuch samjhe aur keya shadi ke baad bhi us ke waliden usay apne ghar pe bitha sakte hain?

Answer: Jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jaay is k lie haram hai k shohar ki ijazat k bagair ghar se bahar nikle chahae is ka nikalna shohar k haq k manafi na bhi ho magar ye koi aham zarorat paish aaye. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376) Maslay k sath aap ko aik wazif abhi btaya jata hai: Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina surah # 60, ki ayat # 7, ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me be’misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kea larka shadi k baad larki ko back se sex kr sakta ha

Answer: Biwi k pechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari karna biwi k razi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyat e wajib ki bina par haram hay, aur agar biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: ASSALAM-O-ALAIKUM Aga Sahan mene aap se pehle bhi ye sawal kia tha k agar larka aur larki ka nikah ho jae magar rukhsati na ho to kia wo log fone sex kar sakte hain ?????

Answer: 1)Sigha nikah k zarie mard aurat per aur aurat mard per halal ho jate hai(yani mian biwi wale talukat qaim ker sakte hai) .(Aur nikah k baad rukhsati hona zarori nahi hai) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) before Masla # 2328)2)Agar riwaj yehi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahi hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apne shohar k lie pash nahi karti is tara se k ise aik zimne sart samja jata ho to phir aurat k laye nikah k baad rukhsati se phele shohar k lie apnay aap ko pesh karna wajib nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72)3)Biwi k alawa kisi sai fahash kalam karna haram hai chahae phone mai baat karain ya kisi aur tareeqay sai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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