QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: meri ek dost hai os ki age kafi ho gyi hai but shadi nai hoyi abi,or mutah ki ijazit required hai, par os k walid or dada ki b death ho chuki hai, ab kya bager ijazit k os k sath mutah jaiz hai kya?

Answer: kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341,2342 & minhaa jus saliheen,part #3,maslah #70).
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Question: agar kisi larkay nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho to kia wo larka us ke bati sai nikah kar sakta hai.ya nahi

Answer: Ager koe shaks apni khala ya apni phophi say zina karay, tu ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina per onki baitiyaan is zani per haram ho jain gi.or ager Na-mehram aurat say zina kia ho tu ehwat e aula(yani behter) ye hay k oski baiti say nikah nah kia jay.(Ref: A.khumeni(R.h), 5 maraja karaam ki mainhaajus saliheen, Al-muaam’laat,maslah#1251).

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Question: bismillah Asalam-o-elikum mulana sahib mujh ap say yahi pouchna hai k main nay kahin per para hai k miya bv sub libas utar ker humbistari nai ker saktay hain - jab k kahin yai b para hai k dono ko dono per pura pura haq hai - jaisa chahay wo aik dosray ko pyar ker saktay hain dekh saktay hain jahan say b wo chahay chow saktay hain chum saktay hain - ap mujh meray sawal ka pura pura or tafseel say jawab dain next week meri shaadi hai - main os say pehlay sub kuch sahi sahi janna chahta hon or bv ki chaaati ka dod mard nai pi sakta hai lakin chaati ka dod tu bachay ki baidaish k baad start hota hai na os say pehlay mard un k sath kaisa b pyaar ker sakta hai na - os say pehlay tu koi mamanat nai hai na kun k os time taak tu dood nai hota hai na un main - kuch galat laga ho tu mazrat chahta hon bus sahi sahi baat ko janna chahta hon is liya ap say sawal kiya - bohut bohut shukriya Allah Hafiz

Answer: 1) shohar aur biwi aik doosray k badan k zahiri aur batni hisson ko dekh sakhtay hein hetta k sharam gah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. Isi terha Shohar aur biwi apne badn k kisi bhi hisse ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hisse se mus kar sakhte hein chahae lazzat ho ya bageir lazzat k. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) 2) jima k waqt makhrooh hay k b.v ki sharam gaah ki taraf nigaah ki jay or is terah tamaam kaprhay utaar ker jima kerna bhi makhooh hay.laikin ye amal nah tu haram hay or na hi her waqt makrooh hay sirif hambistari k waqt in dono kamo ko makhrooh shumaar kiya gaya hay. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part#3,maslah#4) 3) Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn main doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya doodh behan se shadi jaiz hai mera matlab hai k meri maa ne mere chacha ki beti ko apna doodh pilaya tha to mera us se shadi karna jaiz hai jaldi jawb den

Answer: Agar koi aurat aik bachay ko un shariat k sath doodh pilay jo bayan ki gae hein to agar wo larki he to os aurat k batay k lie mahram ho jaay gi. Aur shadi karna haram hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2428) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mufti sahab mere sawal ye hai k mere chacha ki beti hai aur use meri maa ne bachpan men apna doodh pilaya hai to mera us k sath nikkah jaiz hai is ka jawab jaldi den ap.....

Answer: Agar agar aap ki walida nay aap chacha zaad behen ko on 8 shara’it k saath doodh pilay tha jo bayan ki gae hein to woaap k liay mahram hain aur aap on say shadi nahi ker saktay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2428,2438)
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Question: salam,mera masla yeh hai k meri dosti net pe aik larky say hoi ar phr humari dosti bhar gai ar hum fone pe baat krne lgay phr us larky ney mere gar rishta bheja mere garwaly nahi maan rahy kyu k larka abi settle nahi ab hum dono chor b nahi sakty aik dosray ko kya mein us larky k settle hone ka wait kron?Q#2 agr mere gar waly nahi manty us k settle hone k bad b to kya mein garwalo ko force kr sakti hon us say shadi krne k liy?

Answer: 1) agar aap os leakay k settle honay ka intezaar ker sakti hoon or aap is doran jald shadi nah kernay ki wajah say haraam kaam main mubtala honay ka khoof ho tu aap per wajib hay k jald shadi karain.phir is lerkay ka intezaar nah karain. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2407).
2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341,2342 & minhaa jus saliheen,part #3,maslah #70).
3)wazifa :
1. Jo mard aurat shadi chahte hein. Wo surah e taha ayat # 131,132 (wala tamud’dannah. . . . .. . .. . .. lit taqwa) ka taweez likh kar gale me dalein. is ayat ke bad darood bhi likhein. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 282)
2. Hazrat Imam e Jaffer sadiq a.s. farmatey he k jo surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi kaprey me lappet kar apne pas rakhe aur shadi k qasad se kisi k pas jey to usi na kam nahi lotna pare ga aur wo shadi ho kar rahe gi. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg #18)

Note: Wazifa bayan karne k sath aap ko in fiqhi masail ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

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Question: salam mera sawal hai k kya aik muslim larka kisi chirstan larki say shadi kr sakta hai?

Answer: Christain aurat se muta karnay me koe haraj nahi he aur ethiat e wajib ki bina per in se daimi nikah(permanent marriage) na kia jay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2362)

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Question: aslamo alikom. janab mujy islam mai husbend wife kay mubasharat karny ka sahi tareeqa btaye.or kia mard apni bivi k breast suk ker sakta hai.or kia sharmgha ko b sak ker sakta hai?plz reply me as soon as possible

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) 2) Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). 3) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya main apni b.v ke saat peeche ass mein sex kar sakta hoon ya nahi please quraan ke roshni se bataye

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera sawal yeh hai kay,nikah kay bad if my husband only touch me or kiss me only not more then this,so it is halal or haram in islam??plzz give me answer in a clear way. thank you

Answer: 1)Agar riwaaj yehi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahi hoti larki apnay aap ko shohar kay liye pesh nahi karti to aisi soorat main aap ka aap k shohar ko mana karna jaiz hay aur is main gunah bhi nahi hay.(Ref:Book-4 Q.No.149. )
2) Nikah k baad sohar aur biwi danoo aik dosray k liay halaal hain or aik dosray say tamaam lazzaat hasil kersaktay hain or dono aik dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay ko badan k kisi bhi hissa se mas kar sakhte hain chahae lazat se ho ya baghair lazzat k. laikin agar shohar rukhsati say pehlay jima kerna chahay tu biwi par wajib nahi hay k wo khud ko jima k liay shoror k saamne paish karay. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236 & Email Rcvd from sistani(d.b),dated:30-09-10).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: muttah ki dua kahan milay ge kiss book main.

Answer: Muta main dua nahi nikah k seeghay perhay jatay hain jis se nikah e muta hota hay. or ye seghay mukhtalif Fiqhi kitabo main maujood hain or aap Ayatullah Sistani(d.b) ki tauzee main is daikh saktay hain.((Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah# )
2334).

Note:Hum aap ki asaani k liay Ayatollah sistani(d.b) ki website ka link day rahay hain jahan urdu tauzee maujood hay or muta k seeghay likhay hoay hain: (http://al-shia.org/html/urd/resaleh/html/index4/28.htm)

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Question: kia main apni bv ko peeche se sex kar sakta hoon uski razamandi se woh khud kahe toh aur kia main uski vegina ko chat sakta hoon mubashirat k doran ager meri wife khud kahe toh ?? plz ans me

Answer: 1) Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye khayaal rahay k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: biwi se sohbat ka tareeqa kiya hai kaisy us k sath sohbat ki jaye.

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #3,maslah #5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: islam ki roshani main mojhe ye bata dain ke during sex husband & wife penis or vigaina sucking kar sakte hain ?

Answer: Jee haan,mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ). .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: i want to ask that if a man have 2 wives, then can he make sex with both of them simultaneously (means at the same time with both of his wife)?

Answer: Yes, but It is not permissible for the wives to look at the private parts of each other. (Email Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), Dated:Oct 27, 2011). .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: shadi ki pahli rat ki dua kaya ha

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Adab! mira sawal ye hay k may nay ek larki say ZINA kia os ky bad pashimani to boht hoi toba b kia avr ab os larki say may shadi ki awar baqaida apnni riwayat ka motabiq ham donon ki shadi hoi nikah fiqa awr gawahon awr rishta daron ka samny hoi.Kia zina k bad hamara NIKAH jaiz ha???Plz mujy mujtahid ka fatwa k sat sat Quranni ayat awr Hadith say b agah kijey.ta k ham dono apni shadi shuda zindgi tasali sy gozarin. agar mujy sawal ka jawab miry email par bijden to shukar gozar rahonga. Fee Aman-e-Allah.

Answer: Ehtiyaat e wajib ye he k insan os aurat se jis se khud zina kia ho toba karnay se pahle nikah nah karay. Or tauba k baad osi aurat se nikah kerna jaiz hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 403 pg # 235) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mere dada ki do bibiya thai, pahli bivi ke ladke ke ladke ki ladki se dusri bivi ke ladke ke ladke se shadi ho sakti hai kya? (ladka ladki aapas me chacha bhatiji lagenge) lajdi lawab denge to badi meharbani hgo.

Answer: Jee haan shadi ho sakhte he. Faqat 7 qiam ki auratoon se shadi karna haram he. 1)Maa 2) beti 3)behn 4)bhai ki beti 5)bahn ki beti 6)bap ki bahn 7) khala. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. masla # 90)

In dono lerhke or lerhki ka apas main nikah kerna jaiz he Q k ye lerhki is lerhke k sagay bhai ki baiti nahi hay balkeh chacha zaad bhai ki baiti hay.or ye apas main na-mehram hain.(Ref: Email rcvd from A.sistani, dated:21-12-11). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AA sir jee mera yeh sawal hai k shadi ki pehli raat bv ko kaise karna chahiye koi khas tareeqa hai to bta dain

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Meray question hay Kay koi admi kis bachay kay sath eglam(اغلام) kerta hy tu wo bacha(when he young) ous admi ki daughter say marriage ker sakta hy ?

Answer: Ighlaam kerne walay shaks ki maa, behen or baiti ighlaam kerwanay walay shaks par haram nahi hain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369). Note: layhaza wo bacha ya merd jis k saath ighlaam kia gaya hay wo ighlaam kerne walay shaks ki maa, behen or baiti se nikah ker sakta hay , is k liay koe shart nahi hay.Laikin ighlaam kerne walay k liay ye hokum nahi hay. .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mein ek ladki ko pasand jo other cast ki (hindu) woh mujhe achhi lagti hai. mein usse shadi karna chahta hu kya ker sakta hu.. shadi..... ....

Answer: Musalman mard ehl e kitab(yahodi ya esae) k alawa kafir auratoon se shadi nahi kar sakhta.Laikin yahodi or esae autoon se muta kerne main koe haraj nahi hay or ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par on se daimi nikah nah kia jaay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2362).

Note: Aap hindu aurat se nikah nahi ker saktay jab tak k wo musalmaan nah hojaay. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: can a syed girl get married to a non syed boy in case they like each other so much and cant acept anyother as their lifepartener?

Answer: Syed Shia ya Ghair Syed Shia ka kisi Syed Shia ya Ghair Syed Shia say nikah main koi haraj nahi hay.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221).
Note: Wazifa bayan karne k sath aap ko in fiqhi masail ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sallam Mera Q Yeh Hai Apni Biwi ko Apnay oper leta ke jema kar saktay hain jema agay se hee ho araha hoo 2 kaya apni biwi ko ghori bana kar jeema karsaktay hain yan har tariqay se kar saktay hain jema agay se he hoo raha hoo pechay se nahin plz is ka ans lazmi dayee kiyoo ke meri shaadi honay wali hai

Answer: Islam ne hambistri k lie puri aazadi aur choot di he, K har insan jis tarkeeb se chahae apni pasand k mutabiq jima kar sakhta he. Lakin Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref :islam aur jinsiat pg no 154) (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: shadi ki pehli raat kis tarah sex karna chaiye please islami tariqa bataiye ga i am waiting Allah Hafiz

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: hum sex karnay kay baat kay sura padna hai.

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, maslah # 4) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: G mey ap se pochna chata ho k shadisudah larki k sat zana karna chata ho lakin use child ki zarrotat hy jo usey apne husband se nai horea hy hum ne kafi bar kia bh hy howa bhi hy

Answer: Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah khoe(r.h), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#29, pg#17 ) Shadi shuda aurat se agar koe mard zina karay to os mard per wo aurat ehtiyaat ki bina par hamesha k lie haram ho jay gi. Lakin shohar per haram nahi ho gi. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha khoe(r.h), Masla # 2412) .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: is there anything wrong to do sex from backside as a position bt peneteration is in the farj? thnx

Answer: It is permissible. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : July 27, 2011) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Aghar kisi ka bacha goud leya jata haa or jaab os ka nikkah hota haa to nikkah mian ki baap ka naam hoga jis ne pieda keya haa os ka jis ne pala haa os ka. jaab keh dono zinda hain?

Answer: 1-Nikah karnay me baap ka naam lena zarori nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2333).
2- Jab bhi bacha kisi ko gowd(adopt) diya jaay tu zarori hay k bachay ka os k sagay waaldain se rishta mehfoooz rahay.(Ref: A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Jul 5, 2011). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: meri nai nai shadi huwi hai pahli raat meri biwi ki sharamgah se blood nahi kikla sirf pani nikala mainey lagatar 2 humbistari ki magar sex ke waqt kabhi blood nahi nikla kiya woh pahley se kisi ke saath humbistari karchuki hai kaisey janey plz plz meharbani karke tafseel se bataiye

Answer: She may have lost her virginity due to an accident or she may not have had the membrane from the beginning. In case, you stipulated in the marriage contract that should be virgin, you have the right to cancel the marriage. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : April 21, 2011) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalamualaikum,mera question ye ha,k khay biwi shohar ki[laazzat]khay ley[ mouh]khay ander ley kar[choose]sakti ha,[suck]kar sakti ha,or zahban laga sakti ha,or biwi agar shohar ko ijazat dhay to peechay sey jima kar sakta ha,or khay nikha toot jata ha,allama shahib main ap sub khey tafseer sey answer ka inteyzar kar rooga,

Answer: 1)Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalamualaikum mera question ye ha,khay biwi apney shohar ka penis mouth key ander ley kar[choose]sakti ha,or zahban laga sakti ha,or biwi ki ahgar [ijaazat]sey,or dono[lazzet]key lehay peechy sey jima kar saktey hany,allim shahib marey question ka tafseer sey answer dena,main inteyzar kar rhooga,

Answer: 1. Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 2. Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mera question ye ha,khay shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko zhaban laga saktey hany,

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: main ek larkay say payar kerti hon or woh mujh say bohat ziyda per uski shadi pehlay ho chuki hai or woh khush nai kiya shadi shuda insan say shdai kerna gunah hai ager nahi to mujhey koi hal bataiye

Answer: 1)Mard k lie aik se ziada shadi karna riyawat ki roshni me mustahib he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341). 3) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia shadi shoda mard aurat ek dosray ki sharam gah ko choss saktay hain?

Answer: Jee haan, mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. ( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ).Update on dated 04-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aisa karna haram hai shohar or biwi aik dosre k jism ke hisse ko dekh nhai sakta dekna haram hai Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k tamaam jism ko daikh saktay hain,or isi terah aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay

Answer: Shohar aur bivi aik dosray ky badan ky zahari aur batni hata sharam gah kw bhi dakh saktay hain . isis tarah ya dono apny badan ky ksi bhi hassay ke dosray ky badan ky ksi bhi hassay ky sath choo saktay hioan . chahay lazzat kay sath ho ya ya lazzata kay bagair. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) .Update on dated 04-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: main ak larkay ko pasand kerti hn un kay papa ne rishta manga hai per maray father ne cast k waja se inkar kr diya hai or ya kaha hai kay larkay sharif hain app btain main kya karon hum kise or se shadi nahi kerna chahtay

Answer: Larki agr kwarai , balig aur rasheeda ho to agr Sahdi karma chahay to zaroori hay k baap ki ijazt hasil karay . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341
Bakera aur rasheeeda larki ki shadi ky liy Baap aur dada ki ijazat ki shart Khatam ho jaygi agr wo loog os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan (Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan (maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b) minhaajus saliheen,part #3,maslah #69)
Wazifa :
2) kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood” (Ref: naeemul a’amaal,pg#314).
3) Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah (parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo
4) Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76).
5) wazifa bayan karne k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslah ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kia bivi ko pachay say karna suwab hai

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nahei honay ki sorat main ethiat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia marad apni aurat ko peechay say fuck kr sakta hai agar nahi tu y? q k Quran mai aata hai k aurat tumhari khaitee hai is ko jaisy chahy istamaal kro...reply me sson

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi naha honay ki sorat main ethiat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mulana saheb mera sawal hain k kiya biwi ko beche se sex karna jayez hain k nahi plez mujhe zaroor batayega.

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Main aur meri mameri bahen ek dusre ko pyar karte hain hum done ne us niyat se ek dusre hka hanth tak nai pakra. janab main love mairage k masle janna chahta hoon aur wo mujhse do saal badi hai.

Answer: kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341,2342 & minhaa jus saliheen,part #3,maslah #70). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Valima say pehlay sex lazmi hai warna valima halal hojata hai? Agar valima say pehlay jaan kay sex nahi kia ho tou?

Answer: Shab e zafaf se pehlay ya bad me valima karna mustahab he. Islam ne 5 maqamaat per valima kerna mustahab qaraar diya hay jin main se aik ye valima bhi hay.valimay se pehlay jima kerna zarori nahi hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4, 388). .Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mujhau yeh pooch na hai mai sunnie hoon or shadi shuda hoon mai apni biwi ki behan se nikah ya mutta karna chata hoon meri biwi ne nikah ki ijazat dedi hai mujhai or ghar walay b razi hain plz iska hal bata dain..or nikah karna zaroori hai larki bebas hain os sey koi our nikah nahi karay da ap koi hal bata dain

Answer: Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat se nikah karay to chahae wo nikah daimi ho ya mutaa ho jab tak wo aurat is ki munkooha he wo mard is ki bahn sse nikah(chahae wo nikah daimi ho ya mutaa) nahi kar sakhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam meri shadi boat jald honay wali hai lehken mujay sex k baray mai nai maloom.. mera matlab hai kis position may miya biwi laith k intercourse kary.. pls help me how to do ??thankz

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: i am 25 yrs old and i am engaged with a girl our parents have showed their agreement for this proposal n have decided to do our nikkah after a few months, apparently there isnt any important reason to delay this except for the cultural practices. now in that situation when we feel like spending time with each other can we get our nikkah done on our own before the date they have decided without telling anyone

Answer: The consent of her father or grandfather is required. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : July 29, 2011)

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Question: salam sir kia apnay biwi kay sharamgah ko zaban lagah sakta ho chusakta ho plz reply

Answer: shohar aur biwi aik dosray k badan k zahari aur baatni tamaam hisso ko hatta keh sharamgah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. shohar aur biwi dono apne badan k kisi bhi hissay ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se mas ya cho saktay hein. ref : Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni tehreer ul wasila masla no 15 pg no 433) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mujhe yeh janna hai ke main apne wife ke sath back side sex kar sakta hun ya nahi 2. woh pregnant hai to sex kar sakta hun ya nahi

Answer: 1) Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) 2) Jab biwi hamila ho to baa wuzu ho kar jima karna mustahib he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 , masla # 5) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamalaikum.mere shohar garam mizaj k hai aur wo har roz jima karna chahte hai.aur main roz nahi karsakti.kyu k mai tayyar hi nahi huti hoon karne k liye. tu agar mai inkar karon tu gunah to nahi huga. kyu k mai ne suna k bivi agar inkaar kare tu laanati huti hai.aap mujhe koi rasta bataye

Answer: 1)Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376) 2) Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsile me ki khowish puri na karay to shohar us ki roti , kapray aur makan ka zimadar nahi he. Agar chahe wo shohar k pas hi rahay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2377)

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Question: salam.alaikum jb hm apni bewi k sath sohbat krte hen tou jo jaez tareka he wo theak he. swal ye he k agr hm apni bewi ki back me sex kren apni bewi ki marzi se tou kya ye jaez he ya nhe? agr kr liya jae tou gunah he ya nha? kr liya jae tou nikah toota tou nhe?agr kr liya he to kya galt he ?or iska hal kya he

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. Lakin is se nikah nahi toota he (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum Mera ques. ye hai k kya bivi shohar k penis ko zaban laga sakti hai ya mounh main le sakti hai

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: AOA main by fone nikkha karna chati hon ladka jeddha main hai kaya humara nikha phone per ho sakta hai

Answer: Phone k zarie agar baqia tamam shariat majood hoon to nikah karna sahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 108, pg # 54) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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