QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: me aik larka mujhay homosex ki adat hai. islam me is gunah ki kya saza hai our is kese bacha ja sakta hai

Answer: 1)Lowat yani homosex gunah e kabira mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)
2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kia cel phone py chat k doran sex kr skty hen.plz ans me

Answer: Biwi k alawa kisi sai bhi fahash kalam karna haram hai laikin chahae phone mai baat karain ya kisi aur tareeqay sai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera question ye hai ke mere umar 17 saal hai. mene 2 years pehle masturbation karna chordi lkn us ke bad har month me mujhe aisa josh chartha hai jis se me boht difficulty se resist kar paata ho lkn koi sex scene dekhane se nahe bach pata.mere under ye khami hai.is se bachne ke liye koi tareeka batain plz.mene is se pehle bhi kya tha lkn uska reply nahe aaya

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2)Ehtiyat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
3)Sab se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhna waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asalamu alykum. Janab mujy 13 saal ki umar ma ek aurat ny gunah ki lazat chika di. Pir mujy sex ki asy addat pari k 28 saal ki umar tak ma rozana kisi na kisi tara sex karta raha.or jab koy na milti tu kabi kabi maturbation b kar leta tha.ma ny is ko chorny ki bohat koshish ki lekin na chuuti.pir ma ny 28 saal ki umar ma shadi kar li tu soocha k ab shaed kuch theek ho jay ga or sex karny ki koy routeen ban jay gi.lekin shadi k bad tu masla or kharab ho gyea. 2 saal tak rozana 4 bar sex karta raha .hataa k menses k doraan b kisi na kisi tarah sex kar hi leta tha. Mari wife is sy bohat tang thi. Or pir ma ny dubara gunah ki taraf jana munasib na samja or dusri shadi kar li, lekin sex ki routeen na badli. Jb tak rozana 3. 4 bar na karun chain nahi atta.jahan b koy larki ya orat dekta hun bus sex hi swar rehta ha kuch samaj nahi ata k kia karun. Kuda sy b bohat dua mangi ha .kabi kabi sochta hun k kudkashi kar lun shaed pir hi chian ayye ga. Ab ma 30 saal ka ho gye hun. Lekin andar sy bilkul kamzoor ho gyea hun.wazan b bohat kam ho gyea ha. Lekin sex ki kowaesh nahi jati .plz koy hal bataen thaks.

Answer: Sab se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum man rehay hain or Allah ki na-farmani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalamoalaikum.......mra sawal ye hai ke mai ek larka se boht pyar karti hu hmare bich sex bhi ho chuka hai aur hm nikah karna chahte hai apne parents s chupa ke mai unki wife banna chahti hu aur wo bhi taiyar hai lekin mri prblm ye hai k ammi papa mri kahi aur shadi krna chahte hai lekin mai hmsha unki wife ban k rhna chahti hu us larke ko bhi koi prblm nhi hai kya mai nikah ke bad sirf apne parents ki khushi k liye dusri shadi karu to kya nikah ho skta hai pls mri uljhan ko suljha dijye

Answer: 1)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirf ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Darasal baat yeh h k mujhe roz mani nikalne ki aadat si ho gai h. Kya rozana mani nikalne se mai napak rehta ho. Aur isse kya problum hoti h.

Answer: 1)Agar istemna kartay hain to istemna (hand practice) karna islam mai haram hai. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail aqa sistani d.b. pg # 253, masla # 462) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

2)Do cheezo sai insan mujnib(halat e janabat) ho jata hay. i) jima(intercourse) or ii) mani(semen) k kharij (nikalnay sai).

3)Agar koi shakhs mujnib ho jae namaz aur is jaisi doosri ibadatoo k lie ghusl e janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 344, 356)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Asalam o Alaikum, Agah sahab mai pehle b sawal kar chuka hun per mjhe jawab nahi mila.. Mera sawaal ye hai k mera aik dost hai jo songs sunta hai maine usay kaha k songs sunna haram hai magar us ne kaha k mai just Lyrics sunta hun Music aur beats ki taraf dehan nae deta .. please mjhe is baray mai detail mai fatwa batay Allah apko ajar ata farmaye.. Thank you

Answer: Ginna(song) haram hai, Is sai murad wo batil kalam hai jisay aisi lai k sath gaya jay jo lohv o laeb ki mehfiloo sai makhoos ho. Ginnah ka sunna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2043) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ASSALAMUALAIKUM, AGAR KOI SHAKS ZINA KARNE KE BAAD USE AFSOS HO JAYE AUR WO TOUBA KARE THO KYA USKI GUNAH MAAF HOTHI HAI YA PHIR GUNAH MAAF HONE KE LIYE KYA KARNA CHAHIYE?

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kaya mushat zani olad na honay ka sabab ban sakti hai

Answer: 1)Istemna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(Ref : jaded fiqhi masail aqa sistani pg # 253, masla #462)
2)Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fail haram me mubtila hota ho is par wajib hai k shadi karain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Note : Istemna karnay sai aulad k honay ya na honay k mutaliq aap doctor sai roju karain.

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Question: shadi sy phly agr condom k sath sex kray to kia ye zina kehlay ga ???

Answer: Jee han ye zina hai aur agar jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Asalam o Alaikum..Maine songs k baray mai pehle sawaal kia tha jis k jawab mai ye likha tha (lohv o laeb ki mehfiloo) Mjhe ye samajh nahi ayaa k Lohv o laeb ki mehfilo se kia muraad hai?? PLease is baray mai detail mai btaye..main apka shukar guzar rahun ga.

Answer: Music ka lahw o la’ib ki mehfilo sai munasibat rakhne ka matlab ye nahi hay k music ya ghina(song) ka lehen nafs ko rahat or sukoon pohnchay or oski kaifiyat ko tabdeel karay. is liay k ye cheezain tu durust hain, balkeh iska matlab ye hay k music ki awaaz or ghina(song) k lehen ko sunnay wala, khusoosan agar wo shaks jo in cheezon ki khosoosiyat se bakhaber hoon, is baat ki tashkhees karain keh ye lehen lahw o la’ib main istemal hota hay ya is lehen se shabahat rakhta hay jo lahw o la’ib main istemal hota hay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 546) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sir mera sawal ye hai ki hast maithon karna galt hai yaa sahi hai

Answer: Istemna(hand practice) karna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Agar koi muslim mard ek non-muslim larki se bina shadi ke raat gujare aur phir baad mein gharwaloon ke pressure mein aake ush non-meslim larki ko chhorke bhag jaye aur gharwaloon ke pressure mein aake apni cousin se shadi karey toh kya woh larka gunehgar hain? kya unhy Alaah maaf kar dengey? aur ush laki ka kya jiski zindagi tabah ho gayi ush larky k wajah sy?

Answer: 1)Zina krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla #30)
2)Toba karni chaheay Parwar digar nai quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey.(Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mein aik bht gunai gar shaks hn mein hafiz quran hn aur mein muth marta hn muth mar tai waqt acha feel krta hn laikin bd mein bht dar lagta hai mein allah sai mafi mang kr muth dobara mar laita hn mein is gunah sai bach na chahta hn kia krn is burai kam sai bach nai kai liye aur merai sai koi khush nai sb naraz hain mein apnai ap sai bht tang mein khushi wali zindagi basar krna chahta hn to is kai liye mein kia krn

Answer: 1)Mush zani karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg # 253 masla # 462)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya homosex kana zina hai........ is ka koi kuffara hai

Answer: Lowat yani homosex gunah e kabira mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: shadi se pahele koi ladki ke shate sex karna galat hai lakin ushi ladki ke shate agar shadi hojai to ........

Answer: Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Is Penis Enlargement With Exercise Is Allowed In islam???

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massage bohat ehtiyat sai karain k kahin mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k mushtzani haram hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mera sawal ye hai k agar kisi larki k sath sirf forplay kya jay matlab us k kapry utar kar pyar kara jay jisam par hath phera jay or suck kya jay to kya ye zina main shumar hota hai wese to ye bhi gunah hai magar kya ye Zina Main Shumar hoga or is ki saza kya hogi

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: asl molna sahib me hapti me zaror aik bar mut marta ho mut marni ke porn bad muje khud bakhud rona ajata he awur apnia ap se ye khta ho ke ye mene kia keya ab me kia karo muje allah bhut pasnd he ab me kia karo ap zara batwo allah ap ko ajr de is nek kam ki allah hafiz me age is 20 yar

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)
3)Sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya muth marna zina hai ager nhi tu phir kitna bara gunha hai gunahe azeem me shumar hai k nhi

Answer: Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya muth marna zina hai ager nhi tu phir kitna bara gunha hai gunahe azeem me shumar hai k nhi

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Istimna aur zina dono alag alag gunah e kabira hain.(Ref : Aqa sistani minhajus salaheen part # 1, masla # 30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir muje ye bataye ke muje zina ka pata ni tha to maine ake larke ke shat zina keya wo mara hamsay tha keya is ka is ka guna ho ga ake or maine phechle 4 salo se muht marta hone mare umar 17 sal he plz is se choutkar pane ka tarqa bataye or maine do marta ake larke se zina kar chuka hone jb muje pata tha ke zina karna juna he ab muje batwo ke maine keya karo or maine jismani tour pe be kamzor hone muje bhot tension hoti shadi ke bad mare oulad ho gi ya ni plz is sare ka koi hal bataye plz plz plz

Answer: 1)Zina kerna aur istemna kerna gunah-e-kabeera hai,ap par toobaa kerna wajib hai. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30).
2) Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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