QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: AOA, Main nay past main kuch Gunah-e-Qabera kiya thay like Mard to Mard Sex, Mard kay Nafs ko Mouth main Laina, phir shadi kay baad Roza rakh kar Wife kay saath Hambistri karna etc. etc. Main Gunah kay baad bahot sharminda hota hun, plz rahnumae farmain, aur is Gunah ka Kiya Kaffara hai? Plz Plz help me. Main Toba aur Mafi mangna chahta hun. Kiya 60 people ko khana khilaon ya Siraf Allahtala say Mafi maang lon ya Toba kar loon? Please reply me.

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
Ap pr is roze ki qaza or kaffara dono wajib hen.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1630)
Ramzan ka roza torne ka kaffare k tor zaruri hai k insan ek ghulam azaad kre ya do mahine roze rakhe ya 60 faqeeron ko pet bhr kr khana khilaye ya hr faqeer ko ek Mud tqreeban 3/4 kilo ta`am yani gandum ya jao ya roti wgera de, or agr ye kaam anjam dena us k liye mumkin na ho to beqdre imkaan sadqa dena zaruri hai or agr ye bhi mumkin na ho to oba o astaghfaar kre or Ehtiyat wajib hai k jis wqt kaffara dene k qabil hojaye kaffara de.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1632)
Jo shakhs ramzan k roze k kaffare k tor pr 2 mahine roze rakhna chahe to zaruri hai k ek pura mahina or us se agle mahine k ek din musalsal roz rakhe(uani 31 din) or agr baqi manda roze musalsal nab hi rkahe to koi hraj nahi hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1633)
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Question: AssalamOAlaikum.mera ap se sawal he k agar 1 marad zani ho ga to us ki biwi b zani ho gi or agar 1 larki zani ho to kia us ka shohar b zani ho ga

Answer: ye koi qanoon e shariyat nahi, balke ishara hai ke zaniya orat zani or mushrik ko bura nahi samjti, jabke momina ke dil ko zani o mushrik nahi bhate(yani ache nahi lgte)
(Ref : Anwaar_ul_Quraan, Allama Zeeshan hayder jawwadi).

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Question: Kia mein apni girlfriend ko kiss kr sakta ho ?

Answer: Jaiz nahi, shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ma nai zindagi ma zana buhat kia hai.maufi mangna chahta ho allah sa. or mujhay job nahi mil rahi kitnay years sa.ma buhat paraishan hoo.or ma samjhta hoo ya sab mairay zana ki wjah sa ho raha hai.plz mujhay en 2 masloo ka haal bata dai

Answer: Zina karna gunah_e_kabira hai.
(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhaj_us_Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
apko sache dil se toba karni chahiye. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya hai k wo toba karne walon ki toba ko qabool karta hai.Aysa hargiz nahi ho sakhta k wo apne wade per amal na kare.
(Ref : website ayatollah sistani (d.b). ques # 1 , toba)
Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki wajah se haram kaam men mubtila hota ho us pr wajib hai k shadi kare.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31)
1)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
2) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e tehreem surah no 66 ki tilawat karay ga to Khuda osay toba tun nusooh ki tawfeeq ata farmaye ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)

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Question: assalamo alaikum janab me hand practice ki waja se mardana kamzori me mubtila ho gaya hon agar is ka koi ilaaj hai to bataaen plz plz

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
1)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)

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Question: Musht zani se nijat ki dua bataiay plz

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )
Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.
(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
sub se shermindagi ka ehsas karen or Allah se maghfirat talab karen or khud se ehed or wada karen k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dengay, or hameshah yad rakhen k Allah apko dekh raha hai, or is gunah ko anjam deker ap shetan ka hokum man rahe hen or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahe hen, ap koshish karen k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam maulana mera masla ye hai k me ek ladke se bahut pyar karti ho aur usse shadi karna chahti ho plz mujhe koi wazifa batayien k meri shadi usi se ho

Answer: Sab se pehli bat to ye hai k jins-e-muitazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar krna k us se kaha jaye k (jesa k apne frmaya ) mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahi hai q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, mgr ye hai islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai us hawale se wazeefa apko dete. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe.
(Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1ST Eddition, Page#69, Ques#106)
Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salaam, Mein UK Post Graduation karne ja rahi hu aur meri mother mujhe nahi dena chahti. mera visa aa gaya hai. vo mujhe rokne ki puri koshish kar rahi hai. yahan tak ki vo badua bhi de sakti hai jis ki vajah se mujhe aage ja ke bahut problems ho sakti hai. vo har maulana ke pas jati hai aur mujhe rokne ki puri koshish kar rahi hai.kuch aisa wazaif bataye jis se mujhe mom ki badua na lage aur mujhe UK jake koi pareshani na ho.

Answer: 1)jab bhi waldain ki taraf sai koi hokum ya roktok mohabbat ki wajah sai ho aur is ki mukhalifat se inhen aziat hoti ho to aulad k liye un ki mukhalifat karna haram hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 1387 eidition 31)
2)baite per waldain k 2 farz aaid hote hain:
1) waldain se naiki kare yane agar wo zarorat mand ho to in k lye infaaq(karcha) kare aur in ki zindaghi ki zaroriaat ko pura kare aur insane fitrat aur mizaaj k taqazo k mutabiq in ki zindaghe se mutaliq mamool ki farmaish ko bhi pura kare. Aise farmaishaat jin ko thukrana in k ahsaanaat k muqable me napasaddida samja jata hai. albata ye farmaishaat waldain ki qowat wa zooaf k mutabiq muktalif ho sakte hain.
2)waldain k sath husne solook hai. yani in se apne qool wa faile k zarie bura salooq na kare .agarche wo is per zulme kar rahe ho.
3)agar (upper biaan kiye hoa)mana me waldain se ahsaan is amar ka mutaqazi ho k baita baab(ya mah) k qareeb rahe ya shafqat ki bina per baite k bahroni mulke safar se baab(ya mah) ko aziyat ho to ise chaiay k wo lazami tore per safar tarak kare bashat ye k is se baite ka nuqsaan na hota ho warna safar tarak karna wajib nahe . (Ref : Jadeed faqhi masail , ques # 345,350 , pg # 211,214, eidition 5). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera apni sagi bahen se 3 SAAL SE NAJAYAZ RISTAH HAI.KYA YEH SAHI HAI?KYON KE BAHEN PAR PAHELA HAQ USKE BHAI KA HOTA HAI.

Answer: Shohar or biwi k ilawa kise or tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah-e-kabira hai.
Jo shaks shadi na kerne ki wajah se haram kam men mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam May ye pochna chahta hoon k kia koi larka apni mangetar se sexy batey kar sackta hai? chahey lazat obreh ya na obreh or yad rahey k larkey ki mangni teh ho chuki hai or 1 saal bat un ki shahdi hai or han nikah nhi howa hai. 2sra sawal: agar koi larka phone pey apni mangetar se sexy batey karta rehta hon jab k abhi 1 sal bad nikah or rukhsati hai, chahey shahwat k sath ya baghair tou kia ye haram hai? or kis is ki waja sey un k nikah may rukawat ban sackta hai? Thanks Ali

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) .Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salam. Kya hath se mani nikalna jina se bada gunah hai ans. Juldi

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Kya jina penis ko vagina me pura dalne ko kahte hai agar kisi ke saath ham sab kuch karen par penis ander na dalen to kya wo zina hai

Answer: Uzw e tanasul ka sharam-gaah main dakhil hona chahe kam ho ya ziyada zina hai, or ager dakhil na ho to zina nahi hai lekin dukhool ho ya is ke bageer jinsi lazzat hasil ki jaae dono cheezain haraam o guhnaah e kabera hain.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: main jis lerke se shadi kerna chahta hon us ke pahle mangne ho gae hai wo bhi mujh se kerna chahti hai per ghar wale nahi mante aisa wazefa bataen us ke mangane wahan se khatam ho ker mujh se ho jae

Answer: Sura e Ahzaab (sura # 33) ko hath say likh kar ik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352).
Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat haram hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir agr 1 boy kisi dosry boy k sath sex kry to.... sir asal me mujhy mery physics k teacher bht achy lagty hain....main unko kiss or un k sath sex krna chahta hn.......

Answer: Ye Haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir mje musht zani ki bohat bori adhat par gayi ha ma apni jhan kasia charo es sa. or kaya ea karna harma ha ea nahi.or mje iski puri tafseel sa answer da mana bohat dafa bauchna ki kosise karta hu par jan nahi chot rahi.

Answer: Ye ik haraam kaam hai or Ap shadi kar lain, or Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, rozana raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat karain. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407).

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Question: If I listen to a song which is not associatd wit love n romance but instead motivates me to work hard n get determind for some purpose(not haram purpososes) then is it permisible to listen to that particular music??

Answer: Ager ye ese behoda kalaam per mushtamil ho jis ko ehl e laho o lab ki maroof dundh (jese gana ect) per pesh kiya jaraha ho to is ka sunna or gana haraam hai, or ager ye dono shartain na ho to jaiz hai. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 550 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: kia hum bhai sistar ke sat sex karsak teh hai

Answer: haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Asalam o alaikm.... kia ek ladki shadi se pehly masturbation (sirf hath say without tool) please kia ijazat hy mein koi porn ya ghalt chezen nahi dekhti pr mujhy boht khoahish hoti hy... kia kabhi kr sakte hein ... ? meri shadi mein boht time hy.. please agar krne ki gonjaesh ho to btaye.

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, kisi bhi surat men jaiz nahi hai balke haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai.(aysi surat men insan per shadi krna wajib hojati hai)(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430)
Lehaza Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, her raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat karain. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Sir, main janana chahti hon k agar koi larki kisi larke k sath zina k ilawa sab kuch kar deti hai to kya ye zina hain aur iska kufara kya hai??

Answer: Haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai garche ke zina nahi hai, lehaza Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: 1 lerka ager sex kerta ha to wo kia gunha ha meri age 15 years old ha

Answer: Apni biwi k elawa sex krna Guhnaah e Kabeera main shumaar kiya gaya hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: kya hand practice karna haram hai.jis ladki se shadi hone wali hai usse shadi se phle kiss kar sakte hai aur doodh suck ar ste hai kya pls ans me..

Answer: Hand practice or shadi se pehle kiss or doodh suck krna haraam hai Or Gunah e kabeerah hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: assalam alaikum, mai kahi saalo se, mai akele hi me farig karrha hu, jab shuru shuru me karta ta tha tho, bohet tezise mani bahar ati thi aur uchal ke uper ati thi, aur ab jab mai hath marta hu tho mani bohet dhirese ati hai, kya mai kamzor horha hu, pls , thank,

Answer: 1)Istemna krna (hand practice) haram hai chahay kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

2)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54)
3)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalamualaikum janab sawal yeh ke agher koi shaks apni biwi ki khala se (mother in law ki sister se) zana kerey to kiya us ka us ki biwi se nikaah toot jata he ya us per biwi haram ho jati he aur agher haram ho jati he to us ka hal(kufara) kiya he dobara biwi ko halal kerney ka

Answer: Gee nahi biwi ki khala se zina hojane ki surat men biwi apne shohar pr haram nahi hoti.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Offocial site: www.sistani.org )
Zina gunah e kabira hay. (Ref: Ayatullah_Sistani(d.b) Minhaj_ul_Saliheen, Part#1, Masla#30)
(Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)

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Question: me zid ya maskhari me aakar logon k jo ganday kam hotay hai un k wo kam un k hi samnay logon ko batata hun kiya ye gunah hai aur is ki punishment kitni hai aur is se kasay bacha jae aur kafara kasay ho me phr akela hokay sochta hoon k me phr aisa nhi karonga lekin phr hojata hai!

Answer: Ge haan ye gunah hai.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam sir mera nam tosef hai m fsc ka student hu sir mjh sa duniya ka hr bura kam hua hai .sir mera ap sa yeh sawal hai k agar Koi insan kisi Larki sa mila kiss vgera kara to kia yeh zimra b zina m ata hai kia agr ata hai to is ka Kufara kia hai plz btain mjh sari sari rat nend nahi ati ..

Answer: Ye zina nahi hai magr gunah e kabeera hai,is ka kaffara sachi tauba hai.(Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: If a person got married and his wife went abroad after 2 months and after 6 months he had the chance to meat her but before that he zina with a prostitude what is the kuffara for it and is there any thing wrong with his nikah and in his gyez relation with his wife?

Answer: 1)Zina krna gunahe kabeera hai magr is sy apka nikah nahi totayga. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2367)
2)Zina kerne se nikah batil nahi hota. (Ref: Email rcvd from Ayatullah_Sistani(d.b). (Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)

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Question: apne haat se sharmgah ka galat istmaal krne ka kya gunah hai

Answer: Haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai. Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: agar koi ladka koi ladki sa shaadi sa pehla picha ki taraf apni samna ki cheez daala tu oska ki tauba kaisa hoogi

Answer: 1)Zina krna gunahe kabeera hai magr is sy apka nikah nahi totayga. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2367)

2)Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364)

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Question: Sir question ye ha k agar koi larki kisi larke ko sex k liye majboor kare par karka razi na ho lekin akhir kar wo majboor ho jaye our hosh kho de our sex kar le to gunah larke ko b hoga kia

Answer: Ager larke ka iktiyaar shamil tha ager-che wo shehwat kea age majboor ho gaya to dono ne haraam o guhnaah e kabera anjaab diya. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: bhai yeh kahan likha hoa hai k istimna mard aur aurat k liyay haram hai?

Answer: Ager istimna (jima ke ilawa kisi or tareqe se mani nikaalna) shohar o bivi ke dermiyaan ho to jaiz hai jese shohar bivi ke zarye apni mani nikale jima ke bageer, or is hi terhan bivi shohar ke zarye jima ke bageer mani nikale, or ager is sorat ke ilawa ho - chahe mard o orat kud apni apni mani nikalain ya ik mard ajnabi orat ke zarye ya orat ajnabi mard ke zarye mani nikale - to haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: mein khudlazzati ki adadt mein mubtila hn kya isse shadi ki life pe koi asr hoga ya shadi k baad maa bannay pr? or meine periods mein b khud lazzati ki to kya iska koi nuksan hoga ainda prgnent hone pr?

Answer: Ye haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009). Ap shadi kar lain Q k islam yehi kehta hai jo Insaan shadi na krne ki waja se Haram kamon men mubtala ho jaye us k liye wajib hai wo shadi krle.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407).Lehaza Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Sir mujhe ye btate hue Sharm ati he magr me taqreeban 4 saal se Musht Zani k khabees adat me mubtala hun,,na chahte hue bhe me hafte me 3,4 martba mushtzani karta hun,,asal me ye Insan ka fitri amal he magr is se gunah hota he,,me karne k bad bht afsos nak ho jata hun aur mera zameer mujhe kosta he,,,so plz ap mujhe koi aese solution ya wazeefa btaen k me is se mukammal chutkara hasil kar sakun,... Jazakalllah

Answer: Muhammad (s.a.w) ne Hazrat Ali bin Abi-Talib (a.s) ko kitaab karte howe farmaya, ke eh ali! Sura e yaseen (Quraan e Majeed ka sura no 36 hai) phara karo, is main 10 barkatain hain ….. (us main se ik ye hai ke) kawara shadi shuda ho jaae ga, lehaza ap her raat ko sone se pehle Sura e Yaseen ki tilawat farmaae. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal , pareshani # 18 , pg # 18) , (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).
Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki waja se haram kamon men mubtala ho us per wajib hai k shadi kre.(Ref:Atatullah Sistani db, Tozihul Masaail, Masla# 2407, 31st Eddition)

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Question: Aoa.imam sahib mera sawal ye hai k meray bahi ki shadi huwi wo uk chala gaya hai meri bhabi sy bht banti hai hm ek dosry ko behn bahi kehty hai ,,lakin hm hug b krty hai n kbi kbi mai unka massage krta hn body ka bt sex thinking nae hoti kya ye jaiz hai,,plus mjy in detail bhabi n dewaar(husband brother)ka rishta kis noyat ka hai..kya limits hone chian sb islam ki nazr mai wid refrence btain plz..m waiting...meray 2 sawal hai alag a;sg jawab dhejian ga

Answer: All of that is forbidden(Ref: email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: 29.11.11).
Translate: ye tamaam kaam haram hain.(Ref: email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: 29.11.11). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir larak pun ki umar main musht zani boht hui khuda mje maf kre sir ab msla ye ha k boht jald hath lgne se b farig hojata ha aur kamzori b ha aur shehwat b boht kum ati ha, plz mje ak acha muslim bna den aur mera masla hal kren mje dawai bta den jis se main thek hojaon, plz sir

Answer: 1) Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zarie se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
2) Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).
Wazifa:aik shaks ne Imam jaffer sadiq(a.s)ki khidmat main arz kia k main chahta hoon k jinsi lazzat se bohot ziyada luft uthaon laikin aisa nahi hota, mujahy koe aisa hal batain k jis se mairi ye tamanna pori ho jay tu Imam(a.s) ne fermaya k “ sesafaid piyaaz kaat ker ghee main tal lain, os k baad aik bertan main anda daal ker thorha sa namak daal lain or phir osi anday ko surukh ki hoe piyaaz main daal dain or khuch dair pakne dain .ye ghiza khane se aap ko jinsi lazzat hasil ho jay gi.” Os shaks ka kehna hay k main ne imam(a.s) k kehne k mutabiq amal kia or is ghiza ki barkat se apni muraad ko paa lia.( Ref : tib be islami or jaded medical science , pg # 54). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AOA sir my question is that i am a rapper aj kal k log music k through cheeezen seekhtey hen mere zehan men ek baad kafi time se he k ager music islam men haram he to kia men light music k through ALLAH or unke nabi s.a.w.s ki taleemat logo tak pauhncha sakta hun meri nazar men ye sab se asan tareeeka he jis ke through muslims or non muslims ko islam ki taraf le ke aon kia ye kerna jaiz he ya haram hey ALSO GIVE REASONS thanks

Answer: Music that is permissible is the music that does not entail entertainment in gatherings held for that purpose. Forbidden music is the music that is suitable for entertainment and amusement gatherings.
The expression “the music or the song that is suitable for entertainment and amusement gatherings” does not mean that the music or the song’s tune amuses the heart or changes the mental state because there is nothing wrong in it. The expression actually means that the person listening to the music or the song’s tune —especially if he is an expert in these matters— can distinguish that this tune is used in the entertainment and amusement gatherings or that it is similar to the tunes used therein. (See the question-answer section below.)
Singing (al-ghina) is haram: doing it, listening to it, or living of it. By “singing — al-ghina,” I mean an amusing statement expressed in the tunes that are suitable for those who provide entertainment and amusement.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=251364&id=46&pid=2071 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam-o-Alikum molana sahab allah apko lambi zindigi day or ap ki sehat isi tarah barqarar rahay,,, mera sawal yeh ha kay main 19 saal ka ho or mainay 15 sall say 18 saal tak bohat ghalat kaam kiye ha or thora bohat nasha bhe karta ho maslan haftay main 1 ya do dafa drink karta ho mujhay ek larki say pyar ho gaya ha or wo bhe mujh say pyar karti ha hum dono 2 dafa jansi talukat bhe rakh chukay hain masla yeh ha kay main uskay sath hum bistri karta ho to meri nafs pehlay mera matlab sex kay doran sahi hoti ha magar jub kuch karnay ka time ata ha to nafs yani kay saman ahista ahista kam chor jata ha main bohat pareshan ho meharbani farma kay mujhay koi elaj batay ap ki bohat meharbani ho...

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.
1) Sharab(wine), beer, or her wo chez jo mukammal ya juzvi taur per(partial) nasha aawar ho, thos(solid) ho ya maya(liquid) ye sab haram hain.(A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 164).
2) Zina kerna haram or gunah e kabira hay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ) .
3) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
4) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)

Wazifa: 1) Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam sir muj say aj bahoot bari ghalti ho gaiee hain mai shadi shoda hon lakin mai uae sharjah main hon our ik ourat mairay pechay pari ho v ti mai os ko gari mai lay gya our gari mai os k sat kissing kya , our kisisng our brest presing k dawran maira pani nikla halanki main os ko sirf kis kiya our tora hat mat lagaya tu kiya ye real zina mai ata hain ye mairi zindagi mai main nay pehli bar is kiya abi bahoot sherminda hon . our nidamat bi hain is k bad mai sida ger aya nahaya our ghusal kernay k bad masjid mai ja k namaz para our namaz k bad 2 rakat tuba k liya para our tora bahoot quran ka tilawat bi kiya .our tuba kiya.. lakin pir b mujay sakoon nahi milta. our jab apno say milta hon tu nidamat hoti hain jisa k in logon nai mujai is kertay ho way dika hon, halank mai nay sab say pahla doka allah ko diya hain our pir apni bv ko our apnay ma bap ko b ..lakin jo real zina hota hain wo mai nai nahi ki hain pleas sir koi is dowa bateya keh ainda ka li ya mai is aurat ki sohbat say door rahoo

Answer: 1) Jee nahi ye zina nahi hay balkeh zina se muraad ye hoti hay k “ Baghair nikah k aurat ki sharam gaah(vagina or anus) main aala e tanasul(penis) ko dakhil kerna.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=503 )
2) 1) Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem hay or aap per is amal ki tauba kerna wajib hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
3)Jis shaks ka nafs os k qabo main nah rehta ho tu wo sotay waqt seenay per haath rakh ker yaa mumeeto perhtay perhtay sojaay tu insha allah oska nafs os k tabay hojaay ga.(ref: nawaay saliheen, pg#286).
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Question: KON SAW GUNNAH-E-QABERA HAI JIS KI TOBA NI HOTI SHIRK K ELAWA

Answer: Quran e kareem main khuda ka fermaan hay k : “Allah is baat ko maaf nahi kersakta k oska shareek qaraar diya jay or is k alawa jis ko chahay bakhsh sakta hay or job hi iska shareek banaay ga os nay bohot berha gunah kia hay. (Ref:Sorah#4 Nisaa, ayat#48) “Allah is baat ko maaf nahi kersakta k oska shareek qaraar diya jay or is k alawa jis ko chahay bakhsh sakta hay or job hi iska shareek qaraar day ga wo gumrahi main bohot door tak chala gaya hay. (Ref:Sorah#4 Nisaa, ayat#116)
Note: wazeeh rahay k sorah e nisaa ki ayat # 48 main jis maghfirat ka zikr hay os k 5 asbaab hain: tauba, hasanaat(naikiyaan), gunah e kabira se ijtenaab, shafaa,at, khuda ka afu o darguzar, in asbaab k baghair bakhshish ka koe tasawwur nahi hay.or is ayat main wada nahi kia gaya hay k shirk k alawa her gunah ko maaf ker diya jay ga balkeh maslah ko mashiyat per moqoof kiya gaya hay k jab tak insaan ko mashiyat ka ilm nahi hay osay apni maghfirat ka intezaam khud kertay rehna chahiaay(Ref: Allama Zeshan Haider Jawwadi k tarjumay e quran ka Hashiya pg#204-5 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agar koi apni behn ke sath galat kaam kare to uska kyakaffara hai

Answer: 1) Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem hay or aap per is amal ki tauba kerna wajib hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ASSALAM O ALIKUM sir main mustzani krta rha hon ab 1maah ho gya hy nai kee meri timeing 30second ho gee aur penis (azuh) b tera ho gya hy muje aisa koi tarika btain meri timeing achi ho aur penis(azuh) b sedha ho jaya ALLAH NIGHBAN.

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) .

1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: KYA SHADI SY PHLY SEX JAIZ H? QURAN IS K BARY MAIN KYA KHTA H?

Answer: shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aslam-o-Alaikum, Sir mene choti see umar se lekar aaj 20 years ki umar tak Musht Zani ki hey , ab me bilkul khatam hogaya hon , meri body bilkul kamzor hogayee hey , chalna firna kam karna bhi mushkil hogaya hey , aour Ab Itni Mardaangi ki taaqat bhi nahi rahee hey , Please mjhe koi advise den jese me dubara fit hojaon aour khoi huwi mardangi wapas aajai jese me shadi kar sakoon aour ek nek aadmi ban sakoon . Regards, Ahmed Raza Khan

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Me pichle 7 ya 8 saal se handpractice kar rah hu me chah kar bhi is adat ko chuda nahi pa raha hu kya isse mere future me jab shadi hogi to kya sperm bilkul khatam ho jenge ? me weakness bohot feel karta hu plzz koi ilaj bataiye? konsa esa tarika apnau ki is adat ko chod saku ?

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam sir mujey ap say yeh sawal hay kay meri engagement ho gaye hay or mai apnay mangayter say 4 months say sex kar rahi hoo sir mujey is ka jald answer chaiye kay yeh jaiz hay na nai plz sir reply fast

Answer: (1) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
(2) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
3)Mangheter namehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, )
4)Jo shak shadi karnay hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtila hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
5) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
6)Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Me apni bhan k sath zina kia ha us ki kia saza ha plz tel me

Answer: (1) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
2)Jo shak shadi karnay hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtila hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
3) Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba)

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Question: asslamu alaikum mera sawal hai ke kya hath se penis ko hilane ke baad jo mani kharij hoti hai wo mani jameen par girti hai .to gusl wajib hai.aur hath se hilana sahi hai ki nahi.

Answer: 1) Istimna (handpractice) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )
3) Shohar aur biwi k alawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
4) Jo shak shadi nah hone ki waja se faile haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
5)Jis insaan se ghunah hoa ho wo Sab se pehlay sharmindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: hi sir mai mariam hoo islamabad say sir meri engagement ko 7 month ho gaye hain or mera jo mangayter wo mere ghar ata rehta hay or mere saat 5 month say sex kar raha hay sir mujey ap say yeh poochna tha kay yeh islam mai jaize hay ya nai plz reply me fast plz sir

Answer: 1) Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430),
2)Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter sharhe biwi nahe hote (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)
3)Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shoar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyate wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahe kar sakta. Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyate wajib ki bina per is aurat k toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai.. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: asalam u likum karee sab mai apne nafs ko qabo nahi pai reha mai bohat pershan ho meri umer abi 16 saal ha aur muja 3 saal ho gai ha mai qaboo nahi pai re jab bi mai qabo kerne kia koshishi kerta ho wo 2din ye 3din bas qabo rehti ha maire kuch kare aur app ka shokri bohat bohat aur mai toba kai lia nafal bia perta ho aur muja bohat mushkil ha allah hafiz

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: men ik larki se without nikah sex kia or wo ab pregnant hy kia men ab us se nikah kar sakta hu mujse ik ghuna to hogia hy dosra nai karna chata uska abortion karwa ky

Answer: Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shohar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahe kar sakta. Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per is aurat k toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364)
Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir i am 18 year old and i am unmarried and i am involve in hand practice (musht zani) plz tell me any thing please

Answer: First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ...etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.( Ref:Email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).

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