QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: musht zani ya masturbation se ghusal farz hojta hai ya nai ?

Answer: 1-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
2-Do cheezo say insaan mujnib hojata hay. 1) jima say (intercourse) or 2) mani(semen) k kharij(nikalnay say) honay say,chahay mani(semen) neend ki halat main niklay ya jaagtay main,kam ho ya ziyadah,shehwat(lazzat) k saath niklay ya baghair shehwat(lazzat) k or iska nikalna ikhtiyaar main ho ya nahi. (Ref: sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah#344 ).
Note: Agar musht zani ya masturbation kerne se jism se mani kharij hoe ho tu ghusl wajib hoga.

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Question: sir mare app sa ye Q hai ka main na apna hona wala salay ki gand marey hai tu kya mara nikha uski bahan ka sath jaiz hai plz tafseel sa ans dain shukria.

Answer: Aglaam karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hein.lakin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: main bohat wada khilafi karta hon meharbani kar ke mujhe koe ache salah de mari koe madad kare take main is bad tareen gunah se bach saaakoon

Answer: Momineen or saliheen ki sifaat main aik ye hay k wo qaul o fail main sachay hoon or wada wafa karain.Allah ne apne nabi Isma,eel(a.s) ki in alfaaz main tareef ki hay: “wo waday k sachay thay or khuda k rasool or nabi hain. ” Or Rasool e akram (s.a.w.w) ne fermaya : “ jo shaks khuda or rooz e aakhirat par emaan rakhta ho osay chahiay k jab kisi se wada karay tu os pora karay.”
Sach boolna or wada ki wafa kerne ki ehmiyat yaheen se zahir hoti hay k bohot se ghair muslim Islam k baray main apna faisla ya raay ka izhaar mulasmano ki rawish or on k kirdaar ko daikh ker kertay hain.Chunachah aisay musalman bohot hain jinho ne apne pasandidah kirdaar k zarye Islam ko ghair muslimo k saamne behtareen andaaz se paish kia or on afraad ki bhi koe kami nahi jo apne kirdaar k zerye Islam ko daaghdaar{yani badnaam} kertay hain.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 307). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mai apne lover k sath phone pe sex karti thi or mere lover ne 1 bar mere sharmgah ko touch kiya tha. Or ye bahut bada gunah hai to mai ab is gunah k liye Allah se muafi mangna chahti hu to ap plz mujhe kuch dua ya mafi mangne ka tarika bataye jisse mai apne apko maf kr saku. Or mai yakin k sath ye kah sakti hu k ye galti mai dubara nahi karungy. Allah hafiz

Answer: 1-Toba ka tareeqa : sab se pehle to parvardigare aalam ki barghah me ham ne jo gunah kiye ho un par pshemani honi chahiye, us ke baad aeenda gunah na karne ka pakka irada bhi hona chahiye, is k baad tisre(3) marahel me jo gunah kiya gaya he uska azala karna bhi zaroori he aur woh is tarh se k agar namaz ko choda gaya ho to us ki qaza karni padegi aur agar kisi ko kisi qisma ka nuqsan phonchaya tha to woh nuqsan pura karna padega, agar zina kia he to us ko chorna ho ga, yeh sari batain insan k apne gunaho ki qafiyyat par he, in umoor ki anjam dahee k baad raheeem o kareem parvadigar aalam se mohammad w aale mohammad s.a.w.w. ka wasta dekar dua ki jaye to inshaAllah zaroor tauba qabool ho jayegi. Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
2-Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 316) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kay mard apne.haat se haatbhati kar sakta hai aur bivi apne haat se apne husband ka kar sakti hai kya ye islam me jayez hai kya reply plz

Answer: 1-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253).
2-Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ALLAH PAK ZINA MAF KARDETA HAI KIYA? AGAR KSI NE JAAN BOJ KAY KIYA HO

Answer: Istighfaar(taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain: Nidamat k saath sachcahay dil say 14 masoomo(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay. 1)maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi. 2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah. 3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna). 4)jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya that u os ki qaza bja laana). 5)jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho. 6) jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunagh say maza chakhaya tha.(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: please tell me the relationship between wif and husband if husband rapes (zina) his daughter mutually agreed .Thanks

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.
Relationship will be remain valid between wife and husband.Although adultery/ rape is the biggest sin. (Email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: 17.01.2012). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salaam, kya maafi hote hai ek shaadi shoda aurat ki jo zina karty hai? Kya showar ko batana zarori hote hai k us ne zina ge hai aur es k maafi k tariqa bataye plz thanks

Answer: 1-Agar shohordaar aurat zina karay tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamesha k liay haram ho jati hay, laikin apne shohor par haram nahi hoti or agar tauba o istighfaar nah karay or apne amal par baaqi rahay(yani zina kaari terk nah karay) tu behter ye hay k oska shohor osay talaq day day laikin shohor ko chahiay oska meher bhi day day. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2367 ).
2-kisi insan k liay jaiz nahi hay k wo kisi shaks k saamne apne gunaho ka zikr karay, chahay hasrat ka izhaar kertay hoay ya tauba o nidamat ka izhaar kertay hoay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),mujtahid se pochay gaay sawalaat,part#3, maslah# 229)
3-Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 316) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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Question: salam, mera sawal yeh hai k schools me jo poem music k sath parhai jati hai kya wo jaiz hai, music piano sy bjaya jata hai aur kya sports song jaiz hai.

Answer: Ghina haram hay or ghina se muraad aisi awazain hain jaisa lahw o la,ib or khail kood ki mehfiloon main nikaalne ka dastoor{riwaaj} hay tu wo haram hay.(Ref:A.Khoe(r.a),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah#930).
Haram mausiqi(music) wo hay jo bayhoda or tarb(yani aish o ishrat) ki mehfilo k saath munasibat rakhta ho. Agarchah kisi makhsoos sunnay walay k liay mutrib(yani aish o ishrat wali) nah ho.(Ref:A.Khoe(r.h),Al-masailul shariyah part#2, maslah#46). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam. My question is if one has done intercourse with a nah-mehram so what shud dat person do..plzzzz ans me for it..

Answer: If he did adultery with na-mehram who had no husband,and not having iddah then after adultery , he can marry with her.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah# 2396) .
Advice:-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.

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Question: mere chacha ki 6 saal se koi aulad nai hoi jis ki waja se meri chachi ne muje se sex karwaya hai pregnant ho gai hai ab wo khush hai lekin ab wo muje se sex karwana chati hai mere chacha se nahi kia me un se shadi kar sakta ho lazmi jawab dein

Answer: 1- Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem.or zina kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
2- Agar shohordaar aurat zina karay tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamesha k liay haram ho jati hay, laikin shohor par haram nahi hoti or agar tauba o istighfaar nah karay or apne amal par baaqi rahay(yani zina kaari terk nah karay) tu behter ye hay k oska shohor osay talaq day day laikin shohor ko chahiay oska meher bhi day day. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2367 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam kay baad arze hai kay mari 2 wives hain or combine rehti hain. mari absences mai wo apas mai sex karti hain. is ka kia hal hai

Answer: 1- Aurat ka aurat ko shehwat ki nazar se daikhna haram he.or isi terha aurat ki sharamgaah ka aurat ki sharamgaah se milna bhi jaiz nahi he.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 460,461)
2- Amar bil maroof(naikiyo ka hokum daina) or nahi anil munkar(bura,eyo se rookna) 5 sharait k saath wajib hay.layhaza aap par wajib he k sharait ki maujodgi main on ko is gunah se rokain.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah# 2009). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Me ek din me 8 bar muth marata hu to usse koi problem to nahi hoga

Answer: 1. Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
2. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010)
Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: lawat ki toba ho sakti hai?pehli bar lawat kiya to lawat karanewala jab bhi lawat karata hai uske gunah lawat karne wale par jate hai ya nahi?lawat karane wale ki kaise toba karai jae.

Answer: 1-Lawaat kerna or karwana dono hi gunah e kabira hain.or aisi baat nahi hay k lawaat kerne wala gunah gaar hay or jis k saath lawaat kia gaya ho wo gunah gaar nahi hay.haan ye or baat k agar os k saath jabran lawaat kia gaya ho or wo is par raazi nahi that u wo gunagaar nahi hoga.(Ref: A.Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen, part#3, maslah#30, gunahaan e kabira, muallif ayatollah dastaghaib e sheerazi(r.h) part#1, pg#272-283).
2-Istighfaar(taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain: Nidamat k saath sachcahay dil say 14 masoomo(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay. 1)maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi. 2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah. 3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna). 4)jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya that u os ki qaza bja laana). 5)jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho. 6) jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunagh say maza chakhaya tha.(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417)
3-Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir I have a relationship with a girl for 5 years. Both of our fathers are Professors. we have committed sin of intercourse several times. Our parents also know that. My Parents do not want this relationship.I do not want to loose her. I have always been telling her that if my father will agree then we will marry. Now my father does not agree. I do not want her life to be destroyed. Help out please.

Answer: 1)Fornication (zina) is haram in Islam . (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 29)
2)If a person commits fornication with an unmarried woman, as a precaution, he cannot marry her till he has sought forgiveness from Allah, and repented. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403, pg # 235)

3)In the some following situations, it will not be necessary for a woman to seek the permission of her father or paternal grandfather, before getting married:
1. If she is not a virgin.
2. If she is a virgin, but her father or paternal grandfather refuse to grant permission to her for marrying a man who is compatible to her in the eyes of Shariah, as well as custom.
3. If the father and the grandfather are not in any way willing to participate in the marriage.
4. If they are not in a capacity to give their consent, like in the case of mental illness etc.
5. If it is not possible to obtain their permission because of their absence, or such other reasons, and the woman is eager to get married urgently. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341-42) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: A.o.a meri age 21 sal ha meri behen ayesha ki age 24 sal ab wo married ha. jb me 20 sal ka tha tb se us ki shadi tk koi 1 sal bnte hn js me hm dono ne aik dosre se bht kam kia ha. me us ki vagina munh me leta or wo mera penis munh se semen nikal deti. or fingering b krta use. breasts b choose bht or peche wali jagah pe sex kia. us k agay kbi nai dala. hm dono sex wali movies b dekhte the. ab us ki shadi ho chuki ha or wo mjhe kehti ha k ab shadi k bd me us k agay (vagina) me b sex krun kio k ab khul gai ha. jb k mjhe sai nai lgta ab ye sara lekin wo bht zid me ha or shyd naraaz ho jai. to me kia krun?

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.

1) Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram or ghunah e azeem hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram or ghunah e azeem hay or aap per is amal ki tauba kerna wajib hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
2) Ehtiyaa e wajib ki bina per fahash filmain(porn movies) aur taswirain dekhna haram hain, agar chah shak aur lazzat k baghair dekhi jain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
3) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Note: aap ne jo jinsi(sexy) kaam apni behen k saath kiay ye sab k sab azeem gunah shumaar hotay hain or ye kaam tu kisi na-mehram k saath bhi jaiz nahi thay or mehram aurto k saath tu or bhi bad tareen or qabeeh o shaded muzammat k qabil amal hay.aap ko chahiay k sachay dil apnay perwerdigaar(Allah) se tauba talab karain or in kamo se doori ikhtiyaar karain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kia laundy bazi karna sahi he ya galat.

Answer: 1-merd,merd ko shehwat ki nigha se nahi daikh sakta.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 460).
2-Lawaat(londay bazi) yani merd ka merd se ghair fitri amal anjaam daina jaiz nahi hay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 461). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir ji hand prectice gunah hay ya nhi

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya Ham apni bivi k liye gana ga sakte hain ya nai.ya bivi apne shohar k liye

Answer: Ganay gana(singing), sunna or is ka karobaar kerna ye sub haram hain or ghina(gana/song) se muraad wo bayhoda kalaam hay jo ehl e lahw o laa,ib main maroof lehen main paish kia jata hay. (Ref:Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 550) Aurat apne shohar ko khosh kerne or os k jazbaat ko ubhaarne ki gharz se os k saamne raqs(dance) ker sakti hay.Laikin doosray merdo k saamne raqs nahi ker sakti or ehtiyaat e wajib k taur par aurto k saamne bhi raqs nahi kerna chahiay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 553). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya bivi apne shohar k liye gana ga sakti hai ya nai ya phir shohar bivi k liye ga sakta hai ya nai?

Answer: Ganay gana(singing), sunna or is ka karobaar kerna ye sub haram hain or ghina(gana/song) se muraad wo bayhoda kalaam hay jo ehl e lahw o laa,ib main maroof lehen main paish kia jata hay. (Ref:Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 550)
Aurat apne shohar ko khosh kerne or os k jazbaat ko ubhaarne ki gharz se os k saamne raqs(dance) ker sakti hay.Laikin doosray merdo k saamne raqs nahi ker sakti or ehtiyaat e wajib k taur par aurto k saamne bhi raqs nahi kerna chahiay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 553). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Muth marna sahai hy ya galat

Answer: 1-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
2-Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay.
3-Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir kiya Islam main daaf baja kar naatin parhna jaz hay ya nai plz hadees kay reference kay saath reply dijiya ga?

Answer: Rasool e khuda(s.a.w.w) ne aik hadees main fermaya hay k “Ganay walay ko apni qabar se andha, gonga or behrah uthaya jaay ga, zinakaar ko bhi aisay hi uthaya jaay ga, baansri bajanay walay ko bhi isi halat main uthaya jaay ga or daf bajanay walay ko bhi isi terah uthaya jaay ga”.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 552).
Hadees rasool (s.a.w.w) main daf ko haram qaraar diya gaya hay laikin ye har waqt haram nahi hay balkeh is ki bhi khuch sharait hain jis ki wazahat ye hay k:
Music 2 aqsaam ka hay halal music or haram music. Halal music wo hay jo lahw o la,ib ki mehfiloon(khail kood or bayhoda afraad ki mehfiloon) se munasibat or ham aahangi nah rakhta ho or Haram music wo hay jo lahw o la,ib ki mehfiloon se munasibat rakhta ho.or music ka lahw o la,ib ki mehfiloon se munasibat rakhne ka matlab ye nahi hay k music ya ghina(song) ka lehen nafs ko rahat or sokoon pohnchay or oski kaifiyat ko tabdeel keray.is liay k ye cheezain tu durust hain, balkeh iska matlab ye hay k music ki awaaz or ghina(song) k lehen ko sunnay wala, khusoosan agar wo shaks jo in cheezon ki khosoosiyat se bakhaber hoon, is baat ki tashkhees karain keh ye lehen lahw o la,ib main istemaal hota hay ya is lehen se shahabat rakhta hay jo lahw o la,ib main istemaal hota hay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 546)

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Question: kya hum log muth mar sakte hai... meri shadi nahi huyi hai aur na koi gf hai....

Answer: 1-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253).
2-Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay.
3-Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mai bahut muth marta hoon aur mai is aadat ko hatana chahta hun par hat nahin pa raha

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253)
2) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: maen aek no jawan larka hun par mujhe aurtun se koi dilchaspi ya raghbat nahe aur bari umar ke mardon se raghbat hae men buhat pareshan hun ap mujhe plz koi wazifa bataen takay men ghalat taraf raghib na ho jaun mujhe mayus mat ke jeay ga plz kuch amal ya wazefa bataen.

Answer: 1)Lawaat (iglaam) yani mard ka mard sai gaie fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253)
2)Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mashtzini ki islam main kay saza ha

Answer: Istemna ka kaffara toba krna hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 200,pg # 82)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mai hafta me 3 martaba hasthamaithun kar deta hoo aur mai abhi 20 saal ka hun aur mai jab hasthamaithun karta hun to bahot jaldi mera draw bahar aa jata hai aur mai darta hun ki kahi meri shadi ko lekar koi pareshaniya to nahi na khadi hogi mai apni biwi ke sath safalta purwak sex karpaunga ki nahi mai bahot darta hoo shadi ke naam se kya karu aaphi bataiye aur meri ye adat mera pichha nahi chhodtee

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)
3)Sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salam mjhay muthh marny ki bury adat parh gay hai or mery age abhi 7 saal hai koi aisa tarika batain kai meri ye adat khatam hojay or main is sai bach jaon....plz reply

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253)
2)Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: jab insan ke upar saitan habi ho jaye to kya karna chahiye ayr kya padhna chahiye... agar phir bhi cantrol nahi ho raha hai to kya karna chahiye...

Answer: 1)Taqwa ikhtiar kijea. aur Ghunahoo sai perhaiz karna taqwa hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 220). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
2)Hazrat Imam Ali Raza a.s. sai marwi riwayat k mutabiq zawal k waqt 150 martaba “Ya Quddoos ” ka wird dil ko noorani kar deta hai aur osay shatani waswasoo sai aman mil jati hai. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 20) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir, Jo qawaliyan Hazrat Muhammad PBUH ke shan maiin parhee ya gai gain hon music kay saath to kia woh sunna aur parhna jaiz hay plz hadees ke roshni say batain?

Answer: Ginna haram hai is sai murad wo batil kalam hai jisay aisi lai k sath gaya jay jo lohv o laeb ki mehfiloo sai makhoos ho. Isi terha aisi lai k sath quran aur dua ya is jaisi cheezoo ka parhna bhi jaiz nahi. Aur mosooqi yani aalaat ko is terha bajana jo lohv o laeb ki mehfiloo sai mutabiqat rakhay haram hai is k alawa haram nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2043) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Muth sa kesa becain kohe tarika ha ya nah plz help me

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: main 12 saal sai mast zani ki adat main mubtala hoon suruh suruh main to 1 do dafa karta tha laikin ahista ahista yeh meri adat ban gai aur ab 3 sai 4 martaba 7 8 saal sai kar raha hoon bari kosis keroon tu 5 sai7 din yeh adat choot jati ahi laikin phir wohi adat dobara a jati hai

Answer: 1-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
2-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: doctor sahab main 12 saal sai hand paractise ka shikaar hoon aur din ba din yeh adat bharti hi jarahi hai jis ki waja sai main bahut perai shan hoon har tarika kar kai daikh liya hai laikin yeh adat bajai choot nai kai ziyadah hio hoti jarahi hai main andar sai bilkul khali ho gaya hoon raat ko ahtalaam bhi nahi hota please muje koi dawa likh kar dain

Answer: 1)Mush zani karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir mera sawal ye hai k kya shadi se phly musht zani jaez hai ya nai. Aur islam ka is k baray main kya hukm hai.

Answer: 1)Mush zani karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: hazrat mai bahut patla huen aur meri ye problom hai ki mai porn movie bahut jada dekhta huen aur dekhane ke baad must jani karta huen hazrat isse nazat ke liye koi rasta batayen taki main porn movie dekhna band kardu

Answer: 1-Fehesh manaazir(sexy movie/ picture) lazzat ki nigaah say daikhna haraam hain or ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par lazzat k baghair bhi daikhna haram hain. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #492-3).
2-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
3. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera mageter mere gher main hi rehta hai hamare gher sath hain our raat ko main use dekhta ho to mera irada badal jata hai our main galt kaamo per diyan hotata hai our main muth marta ho main kiya kero use bechne keley mene kabhi kisi larki ko choha bhe nhn

Answer: 1-Mangaiter na-mehram hay, laihaza merd k liay na-mehram aurtoon ka jism daikhna or isi terah on k baalo ko daikhna chahay lazzat k iraday se ho ya is k baghair, haraam main mubtila hone ka khoof ho ya nah ho, haram hay. In k chehray per nigah daalna or hatho ko kala,eyoon(palm) tak daikhna agar lazzat k iraday se ho ya haraam main mubtila hone ka khoof ho tu haram hay.isi terah aurat k liay na-mehram merd k jism per nazar daalna lazzat k iraday se or haraam main mubtila hone k khoof k saath haram hay.balkeh ehtiyaat e wajib ye hay k lazzat ka irada or haraam main mubtila hone ka khoof nah ho tub bhi nigah nahi daalni chahiay.Laikin aurat merd k jism k on hisso maslan sar, dono haath or dono pindliyoon per jinhain aam taur per merd hazraat nahi chupatay, lazzat iraday k baghair nazar dalay or haram main mubtila hone ka khoof nah ho tu koe haraj nahi hay.(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397)
2-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
3-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Me din me 5 6 bar muth marta rha ab timing bhe khatm ho gai koi sexy pic bhe dekh lon to mani niklne lag jati hai plz is ka koi elaj ho to mujhe btayen me boht preshan hon aur tauba kaise karon koi wird btayen plz it is a big request plz help allah rasool k waste

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Note: aap oper biyaan ki gae baato per amal karain tu insha Allah jald aap sehat yaab ho jain gay.

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Question: please guide me how to avoid bad thoughts and music

Answer: 1-Ganay gana(singing), sunna or is ka karobaar kerna ye sub haram hain or ghina(gana/song) se muraad wo bayhoda kalaam hay jo ehl e lahw o laa,ib main maroof lehen main paish kia jata hay. (Ref:Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 550)
2-Agar music aisa ho k jo music show aur music concert se talluk na rakhta ho to sunna jaiz he (ref: mujthid se puchhe gaye sawalat part 2 Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) page no.87 pub. by quran-o-itrat academy)

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Question: MAI 27 SAL KA VIRGIN LADKA HU MAI MASTRUBATION KV KV KARTA HU KYA YE JAYZ HAI?

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalamolakum mufti sahab main 12 saal ki shadi kay baad widow ho gai hoon magar aik sawal sonay hi nahi daita ka mera husband ko shuru say hi mujh main koi dilchaspi nahi thi aur humaray durmian koi pyar ya sex wagaira nahi hota tha aik murtaba bus gussa keh lain ya josh main aa kar main nay do murtaba kisi aur ka saath sex kar lia kia isay zana kahain gain aur kai bar josh main apnay ap say sex karti rehti hoon aur yeh sochti hoon ka mera kia gunha hain main bhi insaan hoon do shadian hueen magar shohar jism ka saath nahi bana sakay mujhay kuch samajh main nahi aaya ka meri hi kismat kuon aisi hay kay main apna husband ko hur wakt taiyar milti magar unhain hi mujh sa kuch nahi karna tha ab ap say mera sawal hai ka main widow hoon aur ab 3rd shadi nahi kar sakti hoon magar apnay jazbaat ko kahan chupaoon bus month main do murtaba apnay ap ko relax khud hi kar laiti hoon kia yeh islam main jaiz hay ya nahi main kamuzkam yeh sochti hoon ka main kisi gair murd say tou sex nahi kar rahi na.please rehnumai karain thanku allahhafiz

Answer: 1-Istimna(Masturbation) haram hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 462 ).

2-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010)
Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: main 12 saal sai mast ani ki adat main mubtala hoonmain yeh adat chorna chahta hoon laikain kise tarah bhi ywh adat nahi choot rahiis kai liye koi dawai tajweez karain

Answer: 1-Istimna(Masturbation) haram hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 462 ).

2-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010)
Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Main ye puchna chatha hu ke mujh se ek haram kaam hogaya hai maine ek larki ke sath sex kiya hai us ne mujhse karne ko bola ab main kya karu

Answer: 1)Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 29)
2) Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=864 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: hath sy sex krna gunah hai

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah sai fail haram mai mubtila hota ho os pr wajib hai k shadi karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agr shadi shoda aurat zina kary toh is gunah ki kia saza hai aur kia akhrat k din us ka ye amal us k shohar k samny aaye ga or isi tarhan agr mard shadi shoda kary toh kia hukam hai sunat k mutabiq ?nd plz tel in mn ye koi aik kar ly zina na mehram sth aur aik dusry ko na bataey aur toba kar ly toh kia akhrat mn samny aaye ga plz anz

Answer: Agar sohardar aurat zina karay to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai. Lakin sohar pr haram nahi hoti .
Zaroori hai wo aurat toba karay. Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam kia 0.0 beer pena gunah hai plz ans dena

Answer: Sharab (beer) aur har wo cheez jo mukammal ya juzvi tor par nasha awar ho, thoos(solid) ho ya liquid, ye sab haram hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 164 pg # 123) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: 1 main ye pochna chahta hon ke main hand practice bahut karta hon jub koe khalt pic daikhta hon tu reh nahi pata kya es se koe masla tu nahi ho ga kya ye jaiz ha mere abe shade nahi hoe. 2 muje apne bahbhi se pyar hone laga kya bahbhi se pyar jaiz ha pyar ke had tak larka larke wala pyar

Answer: 1-Istimna(Masturbation) haram hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 462 ).
2-Fehesh manaazir(sexy movie/ picture) lazzat ki nigaah say daikhna haraam hain or ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par lazzat k baghair bhi daikhna haram hain. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #492-3).
3- jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
4-jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os par wajib hay k shadi karay.(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407).
5-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Molana Sahab Assalam u Alaikum. Kiya Non Muslim Lardki Se Zinah K Baad Kachchi Eeind Par Baith Kar Gusal Karna Wajib Hai Ya Pure Jisam Par Lagakar Use Jab Tak Woh Ghul Na Jay Tab Tak Nahana Wajib Hai.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.
1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b).
2)Do cheezo say insaan junub(halat e janabat) hojata hay. i) jima(intercourse) or ii) mani(semen) k kharij(nikalnay say) honay say
3)Ghusl e janabat wajib namaz parhney k lie aur aisi dosri abadat k lie wajib hota he.
4)Ghusl kernay k 3 tareeqay hain. i) Ghusl e Tartibi(sequence) ii) Ghusl e Irtimasi tadrijee(gradual immersion bath). iii) Ghusl e Irtimasi daf’ee(Immediat immersion bath).Ghusl e tertibi ka tariqah ye hay:-- sab say pehlay ghusl ki niyat say sar(Head) or gardan(Neck) ko mukammal dhoya jaay,or is k baad poray badan ko aik saath dhoya jaay.or behtar ye hay k badan ko do hisso main dhoya jaay pehlay badan ka right(seedah) hissa or baad main left (ulta) hissa.Ghusl main jism k tamaam hisso tak paani pohchana wajib hay.
(Ref: sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah#344 , 356,360)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kia sharab peene se janat haram ho jati hy? aur ye k agrv kisi bartn mein kisi ny sharab pi ho aur usy aik baar dho lya gya ho aur phr unhi logon ny pani aur pepsi wagera usi gilas mein pya ho aur koe aur bhi usi gilass mein pani ya botl pye to kia us pe bhi janat haram higi?

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1-Sharab peena haram hay or baaz ahadees main isay gunah e kabira btaya gaya hay.Hazrat Imam jaffer Sadiq(a.s) se riwayat hay k aap(a.s) ne fermaya: “sharab bura,eyoo ki jerh or gunaho ka mamba hay. Jo shaks sharab piay wo apni aqal kho baithta hay.wo os waqt khuda ko nahi pehchaanta, koe gunah kerne se nahi chokta, kisi ka ehteraam nahi kerta, apne qareebi rishtedaaro k huqooq ka paas nahi kerta, khullam khulla bura,e kerne se nahi shermata. Agar sharab ka sirif aik ghoont peeta hay tu khuda, farishtay, ambiyaa or momineen os per laa,nat bhaijtay hain.or mukammal mad,hoshi tak piay tu emaan or khuda shanasi ki rooh os k badan se nikal jati hay or naaqis khabees rooh jo khuda ki rehmat se door hoti hay os k badan main reh jati hay or 40 din tak oski namaz qobool nahi hoti”.(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2596).
2-jo bertan sharab se najis hogaya ho osay 3 mertaba dhona zarori hay.or ehtiyaat e mustahab hay k osay 7 baar dhoya jay.(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 147) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya hath se mani nikalna haram hai?

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah sai fail haram mai mubtila hota ho os pr wajib hai k shadi karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agar koi apni bewi ki maan se humbestar howa how, too uss ky ly kia khukam hai aur baad main uss ne apni bewi ko bata b dia how aur uss ky bewi ky uss ko maaf b kar dia how but uss ky ly kia khukam hai, plz reply

Answer: 1-Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref : Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen, Part # 1, Maslah # 30)
2-Agar koe shakhs apni phophi ya khala k alawa kisi aurat say zina karay to ehtiyat e mustahab ye hay k is ki beti k sath shadi nah karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2361).
3-Agar koe shaks apni saas k saath zina karay tu oska apni bivi k saath nikah batil nahi hota.
(Ref: email rcvd from A.sistani(d.b),dated: 15-07-2010) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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